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Love & Relationships
Jan 6, 2018Jan 2018

Posted by Crimson67
Dating after 50
341 comments
Love & Relationships
Mar 19, 2018Mar 2018

Posted by valerina
Why do men get so mad when they get rejected?
87 comments
Love & Relationships
Apr 1, 2018Apr 2018

Posted by Cosmicowl_73
In my feelings. Today at my job (fast food place) I saw a guy who I had a one night stand with. I did not recognize him at first but after really giving a good look I realized who he was. I was about 19 at the time now about to be 24. So basically ...
25 comments
Love & Relationships
Dec 24, 2019Dec 2019

Posted by Gerard103
Married to a JW
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Love & Relationships
Sep 7, 2019Sep 2019

Posted by MissKathleen
“Compassion and concern for others are the key to human survival. People with no interest in religion sometimes disregard qualities like patience and compassion, which they associate with religious practice. In fact, they are relevant to anyone who...
11 comments
Love & Relationships
Feb 4, 2018Feb 2018

Posted by VictoriaNotes
Erotic Intelligence: The secret to desire in a long-term relationship
15 comments
Love & Relationships
Aug 18, 2019Aug 2019

Posted by ThomasLevi
Dating? I don't. Anyone I'm interested in is either too far, too young, too busy or too not into me. I don't mind the too busy because I am too busy and too apathetic. I know what I want but that doesn't seem to fit anyone else. I'm not exactly sad ...
44 comments
Love & Relationships
Jan 17, 2018Jan 2018

Posted by SonderOpia
I woke up as a what?
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Love & Relationships
Dec 18, 2018Dec 2018

Posted by SukiSue
What is “dating” today and what should it be? (Full disclosure, this is an observation about dating in general. I'm fine! Honest! I edited this a bit. ) Personally, I’m new to this because I had been with the same person for the last 20 years...
15 comments
Love & Relationships
Aug 4, 2018Aug 2018

Posted by LiterateHiker
Brene' Brown, Ph.D. is a storyteller and researcher. Her 20-minute TED Talk on "The Power of Vulnerability" changed my life. Wonderful.
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Love & Relationships
Jul 12, 2018Jul 2018

Posted by Stargazer13
Lets talk about loves that are oceans deep with waves that sweep us off our feet , and the golden sand on which we land ...hand in hand, heart to heart (L) "You deserve a lover who wants you disheveled, with everything and all the reasons that wake ...
12 comments
Love & Relationships
Apr 2, 2018Apr 2018

Posted by lbusche
Is it a truism that women enjoy intimacy more in sex and men enjoy the physical more? Or there is no general pattern?
25 comments
Love & Relationships
Feb 2, 2020Feb 2020

Posted by ElusiveMoby
Is there anything sexier than deep conversation?
23 comments
Love & Relationships
Feb 20, 2018Feb 2018

Posted by silvereyes
Can you fall in love with someone who you've never met in person?
58 comments
Love & Relationships
Sep 28, 2018Sep 2018

Posted by HippieChick58
Guys ask why women are so pissed off. Even guys with wives and daughters. Jackson Katz, a prominent social researcher, illustrates why. He's done it with hundreds of audiences: "I draw a line down the middle of a chalkboard, sketching a male symbol ...
61 comments
Love & Relationships
Dec 24, 2018Dec 2018

Posted by Holycowballs
So...I had a blind date at the mall yesterday to go see Santa with my 20 month old baby. I figured if a guy could handle a couple hundred screaming...wild...cranky...confused & LOUD children on the first date...he might actually have enough stones to...
14 comments
Love & Relationships
Jul 17, 2019Jul 2019

Posted by Namaste
Does anyone here worry or care about the ripples their actions make, or are you more of a boulder falling in the pond and not caring what your actions create?
47 comments
Love & Relationships
Apr 26, 2018Apr 2018

Posted by Hazydays
In the world of online dating and the need to get to know someone ASAP to weed out time wasters or non starters;....What two or three questions would you ask someone to get the most information about who a person truly is?
34 comments
Love & Relationships
Nov 15, 2018Nov 2018

Posted by DiegoDonJuan
How stupid am I for wanting to marry a virgin? I want to know what you ladies think (not feel) about virginity. I'm pretty sure most women here are not virgins, so please help me understand. When I talk about this face to face with females I get ...
22 comments
Love & Relationships
May 26, 2018May 2018

Posted by Fearlessfreep
I found love on Agnostic.com! We went from "We'll probably never meet because of the distance but it's cool to have online friends" to "Oh my god we absolutely have to be together". We met irl for the first time last weekend but we've been talking on...
180 comments
Love & Relationships
Nov 21, 2018Nov 2018

Posted by chlorine413
I am coming out to my boyfriend tomorrow! Any advice? We have been dating for a year and I was religious going into this relationship. I think it’s only fair to him to at least be honest because that’s what I admire about our relationship. He ...
26 comments
Love & Relationships
Aug 13, 2018Aug 2018

Posted by Sam-i-am
So the body my soul was given happens to be that of a female. I love it and i hate it Since i was a kid i recall sayin stuff like "i wish i was a boy" and justify that its easier. To a degree, i still feel that way Now that im older and can make ...
12 comments
Love & Relationships
Oct 28, 2019Oct 2019

Posted by LoyalDynamic
Would you ever date somebody who is religious, if they respected your beliefs and did not try to sway your decisions?
93 comments
Love & Relationships
Oct 31, 2019Oct 2019

Posted by fuse
I am an atheist who at best - or worst - could be an agnostic. I have recently become engaged to a woman who is a devout Christian. It has made me curious about Christianity, in a positive way. It seems to give her much strength and courage in life. ...
5 comments
Love & Relationships
Jan 31, 2019Jan 2019

Posted by adhriel
What is up with the dating site scammers? Seriously, had 3 in a couple of weeks! Good thing I never send money to anyone I am not close friends with!!
9 comments
Love & Relationships
Jul 24, 2018Jul 2018

Posted by AdorkableMe
So something has been bothering me the past couple of days. I am polyamorous and date outside of my marriage...as such, my profile indicates that I am open to meeting men. But I don't like jumping into things. I prefer getting to know someone on a...
40 comments
Love & Relationships
Feb 26, 2018Feb 2018

Posted by Nottheonlyone
I'm struggling and looking for advice. As a divorceé who is wanting to date again, I have no idea what I actually want in a man or from a relationship. I am only sure of what I don't want. And that makes me want to stay under a rock until I figure...
45 comments
Love & Relationships
Jun 28, 2019Jun 2019

Posted by Jama765
To make a long story short, the guy im dating is taking his ex wife on a weekend get away. Her son committed suicide a while back and she needs to get away. Of course i was not included in the trip, but how would you all feel about it? Btw, this is ...
40 comments
Love & Relationships
Jan 17, 2019Jan 2019

Posted by Destinyanne
What is love
60 comments
Love & Relationships
May 7, 2018May 2018

Posted by confidentrealm
Online dating?
24 comments
Love & Relationships
Nov 26, 2018Nov 2018

Posted by alanalorie
Demisexual? Can someone explain why "Demi-sexual" is on the asexual spectrum. If you only have sex if you like the person and are sexually attracted, how could this be asexual in any manner? To me, having a sexuality where you need emotional and ...
18 comments
Love & Relationships
Jun 30, 2019Jun 2019

Posted by MsDemeanour
I went off to a 40's & 50's singles group yesterday afternoon. Just down the beach to watch the sun go down. It's the fourth time I've joined them but no more. I did the rounds chatting to men and women but you know what? They're so boring. I love ...
41 comments
Love & Relationships
Mar 4, 2018Mar 2018

Posted by noworry28
DIVORCE VS. MURDER A nice, calm and respectable lady went into the pharmacy, walked up to the pharmacist, looked straight into his eyes, and said, "I would like to buy some cyanide." The pharmacist asked, "Why in the world do you need cyanide?" ...
1 comment
Love & Relationships
Dec 28, 2017Dec 2017

Posted by DavidDeLa89
are you afraid of death?
371 comments
Love & Relationships
May 19, 2018May 2018

Posted by Supercali
I feel the need to call bullshit on the "No Drama" tagline I've seen on dating sites, and here, in the last few years. It comes from men and women (but mostly men, cuz those are the profiles I look at.) What does "No Drama" mean to you? To me ...
31 comments
Love & Relationships
Apr 28, 2018Apr 2018

Posted by thinkwithme
Is transgender expression the result of societal constraints placed on men and women?
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Love & Relationships
Feb 20, 2018Feb 2018

Posted by ShellyBean
I was doing some reading about men being afraid to flirt and approach women. It reminds me of a time when I was approached in a parking lot by a man. He was around my age at the time, 30 or so. I had just bought curtains for my new apartment and I ...
59 comments
Love & Relationships
Oct 25, 2018Oct 2018

Posted by graceylou
Would you consider yourself difficult to get along with, deal with, or live with? Have others told you or referred to you as “difficult”? I’m a self-professed difficult person. Other people would call me “difficult” too, including my ...
67 comments
Love & Relationships
May 10, 2018May 2018

Posted by mistymoon77
Looking back at some of my past relationships, I can honestly say without hesitation, I am glad things worked out the way they did. It just wasn't meant to be.
15 comments
Love & Relationships
May 23, 2018May 2018

Posted by gypsyjane
I received a friendship request on Facebook. He was attractive and seemed to be an adventurer. He had a sense of humour, and we had a good conversation via chat/pm. I was getting interested. Then I looked at his Facebook page. Ugh, it was covered ...
58 comments
Love & Relationships
Aug 16, 2019Aug 2019

Posted by Fryan
Condoms....
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Love & Relationships
May 16, 2018May 2018

Posted by hemingwaykitten
LINKDating after MeToo: I had sex after my condom came off. Should I try to apologize? | The Guardian
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Love & Relationships
Dec 29, 2018Dec 2018

Posted by ThorR
Controlling your Atheism...
32 comments
Love & Relationships
Apr 13, 2018Apr 2018

Posted by LisaRL26
I made a post the other day about how I'm having a hard time telling my husband that I have doubts about the faith. He's almost done with bible school and I really feel I should at least wait until he graduates, which is just a few weeks away. So ...
11 comments
Love & Relationships
Feb 7, 2018Feb 2018

Posted by SonderOpia
To sext or not to sext?
57 comments
Love & Relationships
Mar 7, 2018Mar 2018

Posted by PeterJHeaton
How do I contact Ladies in the Palm Springs area?
3 comments
Love & Relationships
Mar 29, 2018Mar 2018

Posted by fauxname11
Anyone else have this super power?
5 comments
Love & Relationships
Dec 16, 2018Dec 2018

Posted by chas1
Am I doomed relationship wise being a minority in a minority?
37 comments
Love & Relationships
May 8, 2018May 2018

Posted by GuyKeith
The Top Ten Things a Man would like To Hear From a Woman, Wife, GF or Significant Other...but probably won't 10) You had 5 beers left in the fridge, but it was on sale, so went ahead and bought another case. 9) You know, I really don’t...
6 comments
Love & Relationships
Apr 2, 2018Apr 2018

Posted by sassygirl3869
Hands of dIversIty
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Love & Relationships
Jul 12, 2018Jul 2018

Posted by AzVixen52
I have had three different men pm me on POF the past two weeks. We've set up coffee dates, and each one has either 1) canceled or 2) never got back to me after THEY suggested the meeting. I've come to the conclusion that it is far easier for men to ...
7 comments
Love & Relationships
May 29, 2018May 2018

Posted by Michellefrusa
Trans and non-believers
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Love & Relationships
Aug 26, 2018Aug 2018

Posted by birdingnut
If you want to take someone out without breaking your budget, here are some inexpensive ideas that might work, depending on your romantic prospect's interests and state of health. These ideas are from dates I've had. 1.Visit to a local zoo, and ...
1 comment
Love & Relationships
Nov 21, 2017Nov 2017

Posted by M121
Do looks really matter? In a age of Instagram perfect faces and snap lighting filter faces. Do looks really matter if there isn't any "real substance" in terms of personality and intelligence etc. Am I right?
5 comments
Love & Relationships
Jan 27, 2019Jan 2019

Posted by Orbit
What do you think of tattoos on women? (This came up in another thread, prompting my curiosity). Would you date a woman with a neck tattoo? A chest tattoo? Do you think tattoos are irresistibly hot?
33 comments
Love & Relationships
Aug 22, 2021Aug 2021

Posted by LiterateHiker
I'm giving up online dating. Feels like I'm dealing with leftovers.
17 comments
Love & Relationships
Jul 12, 2018Jul 2018

Posted by Chilton704
When do you cut the relationship off?
10 comments
Love & Relationships
Dec 18, 2017Dec 2017

Posted by Ember
How far would you go to meet someone you're interested in?
4 comments
Love & Relationships
Aug 17, 2018Aug 2018

Posted by Lzgrrrr
POLLAre all Atheist men libertarian?!
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9 comments
Love & Relationships
Aug 8, 2018Aug 2018

Posted by PiperATX
Polyamory: the Network model No two relationships are exactly alike, this is as true for Poly people as it is for our monogamous counterparts. So I would like to sit down and write about the different poly models I've encountered through first hand...
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Love & Relationships
Nov 16, 2018Nov 2018

Posted by Capricorn
LINKMen Say They Want A Smart Women...Until They Date One | I Heart Intelligence.com
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Love & Relationships
Oct 12, 2018Oct 2018

Posted by Shelton
Polygamy...
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Love & Relationships
Sep 29, 2019Sep 2019

Posted by LiterateHiker
Why is my boyfriend silent during sex? Your thoughts?
40 comments
Love & Relationships
Apr 11, 2018Apr 2018

Posted by ADistantShore
Does love exist? (As in, the "romantic" sort)
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Love & Relationships
Jan 9, 2019Jan 2019

Posted by beenthere
It all makes sense now.
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Love & Relationships
Jan 22, 2019Jan 2019

Posted by confidentrealm
I'm seriously wanting to plan my trip to Hawaii but I really don't want to go alone. Is anyone interested in traveling to Hawaii this year? How about Alaska? I want to go there too.
9 comments
Love & Relationships
Dec 7, 2018Dec 2018

Posted by CuriousCreature
Today, it finally hit me.....hard. In a little over a week from now, the ex will be all moved out. Our kids will start going between our houses after that. Some weeks I might not see them for a few days in a row. The house will be quiet and empty. I ...
3 comments
Love & Relationships
Jul 8, 2018Jul 2018

Posted by confidentrealm
Are you afraid of love? I'm not only afraid of getting hurt again but I'm afraid of hurting others. Anyone else feel this way?
21 comments
Love & Relationships
May 24, 2018May 2018

Posted by DerekD
On a post tonight, made by a wonderful young lady I follow on this site, I saw her telling a tale where she had to remind a 'Christian' that she wouldn't cheat on her husband; not because 'sky daddy said no', but because it was just morally wrong. ...
1 comment
Love & Relationships
Dec 23, 2018Dec 2018

Posted by beenthere
Many people point to the symptoms of love as its definition (patient, kind, attentive, etc . . .). I believe this leads to much confusion. IMHO love is a placing of value. When you say, I love you or I love this, replace the word 'love' with ...
6 comments
Love & Relationships
Nov 30, 2017Nov 2017

Posted by JenWinter
I spent an afternoon with a long time friend. He doesn't attend church, and we never really discussed religion. After I told this friend that my parents are constantly nagging for me to go to church and return back to god, he began to suggest that I ...
17 comments
Love & Relationships
Jan 27, 2018Jan 2018

Posted by Crimson67
Single, divorced, widowed...why does society place such importance on these titles? Have you ever noticed a different reaction for each? If yes, why do you think it happens? This week I was at an event with friends. Those friends introduced me to a ...
39 comments
Love & Relationships
Jun 4, 2018Jun 2018

Posted by LiterateHiker
Finished sewing my mother-of-the bride dress for my daughter Claire's wedding. Will wear it with pearls and nude nylons and shoes. It's a deep maroon double-knit woven with black and silver threads. What do you think? Got their wedding invitations ...
9 comments
Love & Relationships
Jul 25, 2018Jul 2018

Posted by Exterminis
As good a place to start as any...
5 comments
Love & Relationships
Apr 15, 2018Apr 2018

Posted by lookinhard
Finding a woman with equal sexualdesires and wants
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Love & Relationships
Mar 30, 2018Mar 2018

Posted by umanity
I am struggling with my conscience, and compassion. My mom is a passionatr "believer," and as such she constantly encourages me to pray and to ask "god" for help when things get rough. I never want to disrespect my mother, or not be thoughtful or ...
16 comments
Love & Relationships
Jan 12, 2019Jan 2019

Posted by TheAstroChuck
Ladies: Are you now or have you ever been “simply irresistible?”
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Love & Relationships
Aug 25, 2018Aug 2018

Posted by JustinNewcomb
Honestly I joined this community in hopes of finding a like minded partner, but there's no one in Spokane on here, and on top of that relationships kinda suck, you know it all crashes and burns in the end, very seldomly do people find a life long ...
6 comments
Love & Relationships
Jan 4, 2019Jan 2019

Posted by SeanBab
How do I ask a woman at the bar for some fun ;)?
13 comments
Love & Relationships
May 20, 2018May 2018

Posted by jimmyjoejimbob
Spouse and religion
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Love & Relationships
Aug 24, 2020Aug 2020

Posted by MrChange
What creeps out women?
12 comments
Love & Relationships
Oct 30, 2018Oct 2018

Posted by confidentrealm
I don't know what I expected when I joined this site other than a place were I don't have to deal with religious people and maybe find a date. So far I haven't found anyone so I joined pof. I'm just getting bombarded with crazies and no real dates. ...
10 comments
Love & Relationships
May 21, 2018May 2018

Posted by BucketlistBob
Ladies... whats your perfume?
21 comments
Love & Relationships
Jan 27, 2020Jan 2020

Posted by RobinGray
Just met a guy from on here for coffee Saturday. He really wasn’t into it and was distracted the whole time we were talking. He had approached me and then today when I asked his thoughts, he said he’d broken up with someone recently and it was ...
14 comments
Love & Relationships
Jan 13, 2019Jan 2019

Posted by Nihil
It is interesting that age plays such a great role in compatibility as aging is such a new thing for me. I always thought that mind seeks mind in affinity and compatibility but the matches, regardless of all other things being perfectly matched, ...
12 comments
Love & Relationships
Mar 26, 2018Mar 2018

Posted by TimBlack
Shit happens! We're never immune. I was married and had four kids with a narcissist personality disorder wife.. The experience is psychotically damaging. Married in 79, old school, for better or worse. When the decision to end the marriage came after...
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Love & Relationships
Apr 15, 2018Apr 2018

Posted by Tomfoolery33
How many people in your life have been what others would call "soul mates"? (Though I don't believe in the term, it's the best I could come up with to describe what I mean.) For me it is 2. My best friend since I was 5, and my wife of 32 years.
15 comments
Love & Relationships
Apr 28, 2018Apr 2018

Posted by Helga
LINKMake Love Not Porn
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Love & Relationships
Aug 22, 2018Aug 2018

Posted by ginger56
Humanist/agnostic lesbian lady of a certain age here (61). My girlfriend recently broke up with me and of course much of the trouble between us probably stemmed from the fact that I am a non-believer, and although she attends a new-age progressive ...
5 comments
Love & Relationships
Jan 16, 2020Jan 2020

Posted by Cyklone
The structure of marriage is heavily based upon religion; in the sight of god, till death, what god has joined etc and it appears to me to be increasingly irrelevant in our current society. The extremely high divorce rates are a testament to this ...
48 comments
Love & Relationships
May 2, 2018May 2018

Posted by TheGreatYogurt
Finding a date in the Midwest when in your upper 30s to low 40s.
1 comment
Love & Relationships
May 13, 2018May 2018

Posted by WalterWhite
There once was a force more than others, Much stronger than sisters or brothers, Her love was so right, Her arms held you tight, Let's hear it for all those great mothers!
1 comment
Love & Relationships
Sep 20, 2019Sep 2019

Posted by Rob48
Is your circle of friends enlarging or shrinking as you age? In my case, I note with some concern that, as time marches on, I have fewer and fewer people whom I can honestly call "friends". Guess I've gotten more picky over the years, or maybe I've ...
8 comments
Love & Relationships
Dec 14, 2018Dec 2018

Posted by nicknotes
OK men....what do you suggest a woman do to improve her image and make her more attractive to men?​
30 comments
Love & Relationships
Dec 16, 2018Dec 2018

Posted by sweetcharlotte
Rethinking Infidelity for anyone who has ever loved
5 comments
Love & Relationships
May 18, 2018May 2018

Posted by KFlint
The perfect catch? Is your ideal mate, ideal for you? I mean, once you get past the perfect hair. smile, body, or whatever outward appearance that attracted to you in the first place. Is that person, genuine, honest and follow similar morals as ...
14 comments
Love & Relationships
Jun 23, 2019Jun 2019

Posted by Lauraleigh39
The older I get the less my tolerance is for people that in any way attempt to criticize, abuse, use, manipulate, undervalue, or neglect me. This is via men in relationships, sex, or housemates, friendships, family members, coworkers, etc. Everyday I...
12 comments
Love & Relationships
Nov 15, 2018Nov 2018

Posted by MsAl
POLLHave you spent more time giving or recieving
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