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Any smokers out there? I have found I am tired of this newest addiction. I started smoking for the first time only 9 years ago. It began with cloves and although I have also gone periods over that 9 years where I did not smoke for years, I seem to return back in times of stress like during break-ups, which is why I am currently smoking. Albeit, my breakup was well over a year ago and here I am, still smoking! A friend of mine borrowed my vehicle for the evening and I didn't realize my cigs were inside my car so now I am stranded too far from a store and without cigs. I swear, I would jump a midget for a cig about right now (chuckle) and what I hate most about this is that the Cigs Control the Ari and not the other way around. I loathe having something else in control of my emotions and my mental wherewithall. Ugh! My mind just keeps gravitating back to cigarettes. I feel like I need that service from the Stephen King movie "Cats Eye." The one with James Woods called "Quitters Inc." haha! I may end up with a missing pinky though! yikes!

Sadoi 7 Jan 10
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Can cost you a finger but will set you free. Never smoked in my whole life. My sister is a chain smoker. 'Sorry for your habit. Always said I was too lazy to carry a master around on my back.

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I was a smoker for 25 years and tried everything to give up with no success. I eventually managed it with a e-cig - they're not perfect and you're still absorbing nicotine but you're not getting the tar and so many toxins, plus you can gradually wean yourself off the nicotine by switching to weaker liquids. Best of all, you still have the actual "act" of smoking, so feel the same satisfaction a cigarette gives you. Much cheaper, too - recommended! 🙂

Jnei Level 8 Jan 10, 2018

I vape too! I quit cigarettes 8 years ago. And I'm still vaping lol but at least it's cheaper than cigarettes! And it tastes and smells much better

@FindMyLight I think I actually vape more than I smoked. But hey - no tar, far fewer nasty chemicals, cheaper, not stinky, no ashtrays around the place... got to be better in every way! 🙂

@Jnei Oh I KNOW I vape more than I smoked! This thing goes with me everywhere!

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I've never smoked a day in my life.

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Quit a couple decades ago (after about a hundred practice runs).

skado Level 9 Jan 10, 2018
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I tried to quit for years. I could never make stick. It nearly killed me.

Then one day, I just lost the urge. I think mostly I was tired of the way it made me stink. I don't know, can't really explain it. Now, I can have a smoke once or twice a month at the bar or whatever and have no desire to pick it back up as a habit. It's weird.

That was five years ago or more. Shoot, it was at least ten.

Good Luck.

Yeah, but I knew I smelled just like that to my wife.

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I smoke, and I like it. I ain't no quitter.
No matter what you do, you're still gonna die.
I know lots of people with lots worse habits.

yeah. its not like i was smoking meth! haha

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I tried smoking a time or two, but couldn't handle how it made me feel, it bothers my allergies. I don't even like to be around smokers. Well, tobacco smoke anyway.

There is no way I would deliberately put any sort of smoke in my lungs. Any visitors to this house who smoke do so outside.

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I went to Vaping. seems to help a lot and I don't wake up with that tight chest or hacking and coughing anymore.

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I started irregularly smoking at nine, but I started smoking in earnest at 14. I quit cold turkey at 24. Of course, when I started smoking cigarettes cost $0.25 per pack. They had increased by 300% when I quit. I felt that I was being robbed by the tobacco companies,and with the probably negative effect to me health, I just quit in disgust. I’ve never gone back. Within two weeks of quitting smoking, my senses returned to their pre-smoking state, I was disgusted by the smell of cigarette smoke on my hands and clothes. Trust me,it’s not worth it.

OMG! My eldest son is 9! I cannot imagine that little guy smoking at this age!! YIKES!!

I started when i was in my 30's. lol! Good job, right?

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I quit over 20 years ago and it was hard to do. Tried and failed over and over. Finally I just started limiting the times and places I allowed myself to smoke. I got down to 1 cigarette a day for over a year and I was finally able to quit. Even after I quit, I kept a pack in a drawer for a couple of years - I eventually threw that out. A guy from Europe once told me that he viewed smoking as an ‘occasional’ treat only, not something to do all the time.

In the last several years, I've limited the times and places. I cut down a lot from doing just that.

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I smoke and it really sucks ass. I think about quitting all the time, not just for my health or cost but because my daughter really hates it, she's 10. When I'm stressed it's like candy heaven for my soul, lol. If I know I can't have a cig, like being in the hospital for days or in someone else's car, it doesn't bother me. But if I know I can smoke, I do because my brain screams "Do it right now". Mind over matter is the cure, which eventually I hope to figure it out.

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Cigarettes-never smoked. Weed-still enjoy

@IndySent yeah thats ALSO The way interviewers can nail a pothead too! I always tell my fellow pothead friends, "If you are EVER ASKED 'do you smoke?' at a job interview or by an employer, NEVER SAY 'cigarettes?' because then you're fuuuucked!" hahahah

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I smoked for 10 years (in between my two kids). That was 12 years ago. I know what you mean about it consuming you. Just don’t give up, ok? I quit by using the patch for a full year and ripping the old one off and putting a new one on whenever I had a craving.

Lilie Level 6 Jan 10, 2018
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I quit like 10 years ago it took 6 tries to quit. I started smoking in the Navy (Marlboro Menthol lights) The rule was to be in the smoking square underway or at sea you need to be smoking or you did not belong there. I did learn something important about nicitione a few years ago. They now theorize that nicotine releases massive doses of dopamine from our brain making it difficult to quit.That woman are equipped with more dopamine to aid in the agony of childbirth and that could be one of the reasons it is harder for women to quit smoking.

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I smoke a pipe myself. Yes it is irrational and destructive but it is the social circle that is most compelling. I counted it up once that I have 3 times more gay friends than non-smokers. It is even worse now we (in the UK) have to smoke outside as thats where I meet everyone. As for addiction tales. My favorite is from "South with Shackleton". If you dont know the story Shackleton and his crew were trapped in the ice in the Antarctic in 1914. It took 3 months before Shackleton could effect a rescue. Here (as best as I can recall) is his account.."It was the smokers felt most sorry for. They had already broken up all their pipes but one to smoke in the remaining pipe and they were reduced to smoking seal skins. As I approached I threw a pouch onto the shore. They dived upon it as if they were street urchins, diving for pennies".

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I quit in 95, but even if I ever got the urge again, I'm way to cheap to pay what they cost now....

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I find it funny all those people in California, lining up to buy marijuana. What Hippocrates! If anyone lit up a cigarette they'd all scream bloody murder. All those people rejoicing about legal pot have no business complaining about someone else's tobacco.
Cigarettes have been made a murder weapon, yet marijuana is a healthy cure-all? It's this sort of mental gymnastics and hypocrisy which turns people off of religion.
We've traded one smell for another. I suppose one day they'll throw you in jail for tobacco and marijuana will be perfectly legal.
There's a whole cottage industry built around getting government grants to fund bogus smoking studies.
Did you know there has never been a single study to statistically show second-hand smoke causes any harm to anyone? No matter what all the lies you've seen on TV.
But no, marijuana cures cancer,marajuana cures ADHD, marajuana cures PTSD.
Marijuana cures everything. Pot taxes will balance the budget and crime will be no more.
" Oh no officer, I'm not smoking, this is weed"!

I spent most of my life never having smoked anything, cigs included. I was raised, off and on, by hippies since my mother was a hippie living in the Pacific Northwest during my childhood. It wasn't until I was diagnosed with cancer that I opted to take up smoking pot. I tried the first couple of months without it, but the misery was unexplainable and intense. I finally broke down and gave it a shot, what did I have to lose? I can honestly say if not for marijuana, chemo and radiation would have killed me because I already had severe digestive issues most of my life and the chemo/radiation that was forced upon me only expounded upon that suffering. I am so offended when people come after those of us who Do and Have smoked. After a portion of my stomach was removed and I was in remission, I continued to smoke and do to this day, daily, before meals, in order to not vomit 80% of my food up. It is a personal choice and so long as people are Allowed Legally to Drink in the US, i find it offensive that ANYONE gives a pothead grief over smoking a plant that Does relieve all manner of ailments. I work in the medical field and I have seen First Hand how marijuana Aids many patients with their suffering. I, for one, Defend the use of said drug because there are MANY MANY OTHER Horrific things people do to their bodies on the daily, for example, the fact that I smoke cigs. I am willing to put Myself up there on the judgement block by Way of my cig smoking, but to come down So Hard on a drug that Actually helps people is an ignorant viewpoint. Before I began smoking I was on a plethora of pills. I lost my gallbladder 2 years after my bought with cancer and that was DUE TO All the medication i was given throughout my life. I was born with something called Atrial Septal Defect, in my case, 6 holes in my heart, and I have had a pacemaker since the age of 19. I am also now allergic to 95% of antibiotics due to the overwhelming amount of synthetic pills I was forced to take. Until you walk a mile in the shoes of someone WITH serious health issues, it is absolutely ignorant and arrogant to judge the use of this Medication, because it IS as much a medication as all that BULLSHITTERY pill crap I was given a majority of my life. Since I began smoking, i have stopped taking ALL pills. All. Every, Single One of them. I am sorry if I sound standoffish and annoyed, but... I am blunt aside from my kindness and... I find this sort of rhetoric born of ignorance and I WILL Defend ANYONES right to smoke pot/weed/mary jane. If Dudes can run around like drunken baffoons, reek havoc in the world, why can I not enjoy a joint? I mean, drunkeness has lead to so much pain and grief from drunk driving accidents to alcholism, the abuse and the suffering that has been born of it... whereas a pothead?? Come'on now! The worst hes gonna do is loaf around on the sofa and EAT all your foodstuffs from the kitchen, but go out and get into fights, rape, drive drunk and kill others or themselves... dude... stoners don't want to go out for a cruise. They just want a damn cupcake, some doritos and a freakin soda. Lets get real here please. And YES IT IS A MEDICINE. I will stand by that and Take it to the Grave. Them's my two cents. Mmm hmm... feel FREE TO DEBATE ME ON IT IF YOU WOULD LIKE. Cause... here i am... snaps in z-formation Bring it ON if you want to... i can take it. 😉

And it Isnt a cureall. It is a reliever.

And i am Actually a health nut too soo... I am healthy and i take care of myself. Sooo... mmm hmm... pot helps Me to function the Best i can as a mother and as a human being and for me, that is a godsend and no way in hell would I ever stop doing it simply over judgements and preconceived notions about a product that makes some peoples lives doable. Try to tell me its wrong and that would be akin to trying to convince me there IS a god. its like that, buddy.

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I vape. It's much less expensive and it may or may not be healthier.

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lol i gave up nearly 13 years ago after many tries.

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Smoker for almost 40 years. Quit 7 years ago when I saw my husband suffer and die from COPD. Cold turkey. Still have urges. Still have dreams that I started smoking again. I haven't but I always joke and say that if I am terminally ill from some nasty disease, I'm buying a pack and smoking like a chimney!

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I went from cigarettes to pipe and now it's been a year, my mind still strays to cigarettes now and then but so far I've been well behaved.

Dav87 Level 6 Jan 11, 2018

yeah, until ME! then you were back to smoking!

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Quite simply your addicted, have you tried vaping? It. worked for several of my friends.

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Quite simply your addicted, have you tried vaping? It. worked for several of my friends.

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Hey first post on here. Anyway.
So, for Christmas my dad got me a vape pen. And I have officially gone 34 hours without a cigarette. I hated that I couldn't breathe and also the lack of control over my own actions. I started smoking 14 years ago and I'm only 26. It's a journey all right but with a little will power and huge hits of nicotine I think ive got it 🙂 maybe consider trying that?

Oh wow! I just saw this!! Congrats on the first posting!!! Yeah i started for the first time in the mid 2000's then i quit for yeears, then a break up, smoking. then quit, had a couple of kids in next relationship, nooo smoking! Broke up 7 years later, smoooking! lol

I said to everyone, "oh its the break up! once im over it, i'll quit!" ... two and a half years later.... STILL SMOKING! hahah

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Also, after vaping for half a month, the smell of cigarettes disgust me. So, it's a win win. I can breathe better after cutting down to 1-2 cigarettes a day, I get to stay inside, I can breathe. And honest to glob it smells and tastes awesome so there's that

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