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Your thoughts on pubic hair fashions?

I was getting my eye brow waxed yesterday and got chatting to the young beautician about Brazlian waxing... I understand pubic hair au naturale is well out of vogue even seen by some as a big turn off. Many men are also 'manscaping ' Some trim to specific styles... Lazer treatments to ensure a no pubic hair zone is very popular... does styles and what you find a turn on depend on age, ethnicity... sexual orientation? Your thoughts and preferences ??

Angelamelek 7 Aug 29
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It seems very silly to me. Maybe it helps that I grew up in Europe.

Carin Level 8 Aug 29, 2018
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I prefer a woman have pubic hair. I find it exciting running my lips through it amongst other activities while there.

Ptew... ptui...

@godef You do you, I do me and let's strive to do or cause no harm.

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Pubic hair is natures dental floss.

But serious folks ... I used to prefer something closer to natural, even a simple 'landing strip' but now I tend to prefer a bald look than a busy one.

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If you like your hair I love it. Your Waring it where just looking.

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I have a mullet.

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This adventurer loves to get lost in the Bermuda Triangle.

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I like my hair neatly combed when I out in public. ...What?

godef Level 7 Aug 29, 2018
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I am fine with my partners doing whatever makes them happy to whatever hair they have wherever. Personally, I prefer the feel of myself clean-shaven but my skin reacts harshly if I shave too often. I usually shave all of my pubic hair once a month, sometimes twice a month if the hair growth is really bothering me.

@Katastrophe69 thank you. Would coconut oil work as the base oil?

@JenBeberstein yes coconut oil can be used as a base.

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I like shaven mostly because I enjoy performing oral. Much easier. Also, I like the look of a vagina. Hair hides that.

What you can see from the outside is the vulva. The vagina is entirely internal.

@JenBeberstein true. But it sounded a whole lot better than "the sight of pussy makes me horny"??

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The only hair on this body, is on my head. I expect my partner to tend to matters as well. To me it’s a part of hygiene and makes oral sex so much better. It does seem to be a more recent thing culturally although it’s been my thing for decades.

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I once read an article which advocated in favor of pubic hair from a health
standpoint.

The link provided isn't the same article I read, but it covers the same ground.
(the link is safe)

[littlethings.com]

I think the increased "fad" of shaving has been largely instigated by
the porn industry. That's not a criticism, just an observation.

I started having sex in the late 70s. Pubic hair was normal for everyone.
It wasn't until the advent of the VCR and widespread availability of pornography
for home viewing that shaving started becoming more popular. By the mid-80s,
it was becoming much more common.

That's my own little anthropological/sociological theory, based on observation
and personal experience.

Exactly.

It's about lighting in the porn industry. The camera catches more "action" when public hair is out of the way.

@LiterateHiker Yep.

For me it's functionality. I could care less about societal constructs or expectation. I find there are more nerve endings exposed and it's easier to keep tidy and free of toilet paperdegree. (Damn ultra soft, cushioned paper!!) I don't have an opinion on others preferences, just my own.

@AdorkableMe Whatever works for you.

My daughter is a physician and has commented on the number of nasty abscesses she has had to treat on her female patients either from ingrown pubic hairs or infected nicks from razors.

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Hair is hair. People make too much of it.

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As a guy, who appreciates receiving oral, and rimjobs, I do my best to stay pretty manscaped. I do appreciate a cleanly shaven pussy but I also enjoy a trimmed one as well. But the long haired VaJayJay isn't my thing. Should I have "said" vagina? Vagina then, I meant Vagina

Vaginas don’t have hair, a vagina is the inside but. Vulva is the term for the collective bits outside the body.

@Cassiopeia merci

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I shave because I hate toilet paper stuck in it.

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Well I’m single right now. Not exactly man-scaping. If I meet someone I like who prefers it differently, I’ll certainly comply.

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Hair is meant for the top of the head. In absence of it there, preference is to be without it

@Katastrophe69 No doubt there. I was stating my preference and guess I didn't choose words that made it sound that way

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I try to stay neat and tidy but no, I do not go bald

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Well, I am going to go against the train of preference and go ewww! ickkk! on the hairless bod. It reminds me too much of the pre pubescent condition. But I am a huge supporter of each to his/her own. 😀

Yes. I think would feel like a pedophile with a man with no body hair! How can a guy look manly without any hair on his body?

I'm all to each their own but I think the concept that it is looks prepubescent and is disgusting is mainly societal and is body shaming. It's fine thavepreferences, but can we voice them in a way that doesn't shame others? I have never understood why someone sees a bald pubis thinks this way. It's on a grown woman with hips and breasts and 99.99% of people who have the preference aren't doing it to look prepubescent, it's usually for hygiene and/or sensation purposes. It's akin to underarm or leg hair on women. Why is it seen as perfectly ok for men but disgusting for females? No one associates a man that chooses to shave is beard and moustache of looking prepubescent and getting squicked out. No one looks at a man that shaves his head and thinks he looks infintile. What gives?

@AdorkableMe Like I said, this is MY preference and my association....to each his own. There is no judgement on my part..I don't care what people do to their bodies. Body shaming...what? No, that is not what I was doing or my intent? I was merely stating a preference and why.

@patchoullijulie "Ewww! Ick!" is body shaming. Its akin to someone saying they dislike overweight people because it's disgusting, etc. You're preference is your preference but you are adding modifiers that are judgmental to people that present that way. It's possible to present your opinion and/or preference without being offensive or shaming people for their own preferences.

@AdorkableMe No...I disagree. It is my reaction and that is all it is. You can make it into something else if you wish but my intentions have been made clear.

@patchoullijulie it is absolutely your issue, but it can and does effect others but it's also a free country and we have free speech and you will do and think what you want. Peace.

@AdorkableMe I couldn't agree more. 😀

@patchoullijulie Sad that you had to be accused like that for voicing your opinion. Happens way too often here when you disagree.

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I am shaved now, other times not. More a seasonal thing for me. But as a child of 80's porn I do love me some bush. But other times that smoothness is a great sight as everything slides together. With so much variety in life I wouldnt want to be pinned down.

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I didn't even know there was a so called fashion. I personally like a bald pussy (I enjoy shaving them myself) so I don't get hair in my teeth. I love going down! In a act of fairness I shave myself for her/his comfort.

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I need to see a pubic version of one of these posters before I can choose

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I prefer being clean-shaven down there. Hair gets itchy. I also would prefer my partner be shaven or at least closely trimmed, so I don't get a mouthful of hairs. Blech.

I also have to agree with AdorkableMe about the whole 'prepubescent' thing. I think it says more about the person objecting than it does the shaven person.

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I guess it's personal preference.
The hair is the hair what can be done.

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Well may be I'm unusual as trends go.. I prefer a woman to be natural below the waste..actually visually it's a real turn on.
Clean shaven doesn't rock my boat..trimming etc is fine.

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My boyfriend and I have a 19 year difference he used to never really manscape and when he got with me I was a big shaver. So he decided that he would just trim which is what I prefer, I don't want a man that is bald. I always ask what he likes and his answer is "whatever you like" I prefer to trim and occasionally shave it all off. I think as long as you are happy, someone is willing to come along and enjoy your body with you.

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