Just your #1 top pick
What is the most important quality in a partner? Is it a great sexual partner? Is it someone who can bring home a nice paycheck? Or is it something else?
Right now. I just want someone who will take the time to meet me. I'm currently getting a run around, and it blows.
If I didn't live approximately 1,357.2 miles from you. I would gladly meet you. I imagine l would be excited to meet you, but I do live approximately 1,357.2 miles from Los Angeles.
#1 has to be compassion. If someone doesn't have concern and compassion for others, I have a difficult time connecting with them.
A big....brain! Intelligence is a big part of my attraction to someone, and being able to have intelligent conversations certainly keeps things interesting.
Ideally, someone who is happily and securely childfree (doesn't have kids and doesn't want any).
Shared values.
I didn't have my glasses on at first. Thought that said "virus". Whew.
And humor. Humor can get couples through tense moments or stressful situations when used properly.
I am in a place in life that has left me wanting a life long partner that will help take care of me , and in turn I will take care of them. . Someone who is wanting to go on silly road trips and create our own adventure. I've raised my kids, I've worked hard and I am ready to be pampered and to pamper my mate. I want tlc, and I want to give it back. I want to laugh easily and share a life that is full of awesomeness.
A deep connection.
Though, of course, it won't work if they're not a great sexual partner, or if they view me as a paycheck generator.
Respect. Because we can agree to disagree on things all day and every day. But if they do not respect themselves or me, then they just slide into asshole behaviors. If you have respect for yourself and others, you don't have to be a mega-asshole to get what you want. You will already know what to say and do to care for yourself and others. May be naive, I know, but respect goes a long way.