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Dating dealbreakers

What are your dating dealbreakers? That is, what characteristics absolutely remove a potential partner from consideration?

A2Jennifer 8 Jan 29
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Bland topics of conversation, low vocabulary skills, squeaky voice, cursing if I wanted to hear the F word every other word I would stop by a prison. if she does not like kids, I can't have anymore, mine are always with me. dose not care for animals.

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After reading the comments on this post, I don't think I can add anything new. I have laughed out loud and almost fallen out of my chair. Thank you! Deal-breakers have become a real-problem in these dark times. Our society has lost the values that kept its members clean, healthy, wholesome and life-long learners. Ethics and moral values seem to be a thing of the past. The ones that do have it are here and our numbers are small. It is my qualitative opinion, that this is the reason why dating has become so difficult.

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I probably wouldn't even be friends with someone who doesn't shower regularly. What's up with that? I can't deal with someone who lies about everything. I don't understand it. No drug addicts, religious nuts, or anger or control issues, please.

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Smoking, dependent children or wants children.

Agree!

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If they don't know how to cook, if they're stupid, if they listen to lil wayne ir most "rap" of today, if the don't like pets, if they don't have a job or sciurce of income, if they don't like kids, if their nise is too big

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Right-wing politics, gun nut (nut being the operative word), xenophobia, racism, misogyny, homophobia and, probably the most important, lacking in emotional intelligence.

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Too much distance. Smoker. Heavy drinker. Liar. God - fearing. Trumpster !!! So there ! 😉

Oh my gosh!!! So, about a month ago I paid for a match three-month subscription. BIGGEST waste of $75 EVER EVER EVER!

I still glance at it when it sends me a notification. I'll be flying through choosing "remove from search" over and over, but it only takes that millisecond to glance at the first sentence of their intro and it FLOORS me to see "God-fearing man seeking a god-fearing woman...." WTF -- that's what is important to you???? See why it was a waste of money for me? (Wish I knew the code for rolling eyes emoji.)

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Fluoride-free toothpaste.

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From a guys veiw.... 1. bad posture 2. Bare fingernails. 3 implants 4. Painted hair 5. Smoker
That's enough....

I thought guys liked implants.

Ok is painted hair - hair dye? Or chalking or? Any of the above. lol Never thought I'd dye my hair until it came in like a dudes. With the grey side wings. Just can't do it. Will go grey when I have more of grey or more precisely - white!

@HippieChick58 its a sign of insecurity. Like a guy walking around with super big arms. So what..

@RavenCT. Pink hair . Green hair. Different multi colors. ...

@HippieChick58. It's a visual eye catcher... it's also trailer park guys that like that. I like an all natural lady. Natural beauty is awesome. Not all that make-up. Class turns me on.

@BucketlistBob Good clarification. Most guys can't pick out a good dye job.

@HippieChick58 You know I think that might be a porn industry myth? I was offered an implant after Breast Cancer surgery - but I'm kind of content with my A and my D sides? Maybe it's the feminist in me. Or my older cousin saying "Now I have one that points forward and one that points at my belt". Every women of this generation in my family got hit with it so I have some word of mouth to go on. Or it could be that I could really notch an arrow now unless I have my prosthetic on? lol

@RavenCT. I've seen this in ladies I had to help out. Some in nursing homes. To me it's a badge of honor when you could save yourself by removing a breast. It sucks dealing with prosthetic. My ex Sunday school teacher across the street from me had to have both of hers removed and she and he have radiation treatments. He just retired. What a kick in the ball's. All the money they have spent. Geeze!

@BucketlistBob Oh I still have two! The A and D reference is about sizes! My mom had a total though so I am not put off by that at all. And yes trying to erase the experience is not my goal. I feel for your friends! Breast cancer risk increases exponentially in age. And radiation suxs.

I totally agree about bad posture. Ick, ick, and more ick! Stand up straight.

Bare fingernails? As in unpainted?

I agree with you on implants. My personal preference. I've had small breasts my whole life and I like them just fine -- and they are still in almost the EXACT position they were 30 years ago! Yay! My exception to my dislike of implants is for women whose breasts have been completely transformed by age, weight loss or illness. Then I support it. But, to simply have bigger ta-tas....ugh.... Just my opinion. There are still plenty of women I know and love who have them though.

@HippieChick58 I actually know plenty of men who do not like implants more or better than natural. Many.

Quote: @HippieChick58. It's a visual eye catcher... it's also trailer park guys that like that. I like an all natural lady. Natural beauty is awesome. Not all that make-up. Class turns me on.

@BucketlistBob I wear make-up -- but I strive for it to not be excessive. And, I think I'm pretty classy. Not fem-fem classy. But tomboy classy. 🙂

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Voted for Donald Dump, very religious, poor grammer, kids at home, unable to have an intelligent converstaion, and no sense of humor.

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Rude to servers. Not listening/selfish. On her phone during the date. Talks constantly about herself. Talks constantly about her ex. Experienced all of these, repeatedly. Oh the joy.

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Bad hygiene, prefers cats over dogs, radical left wing Liberal, rude to people they disagree with politely, wouldn't want to live in the country.

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Not smart, not educated, not financially secure, lives with roommates or kids, no chemistry...

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Like Trump, very religious, unattractive, broke or wealthy, doesn’t like my dog or kids,taller than me, overweight, smoker, heavy gambler or drinker, dumb, non sexual, dislikes sports.

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Drinking, Smoking, Drugs, Children at home, NOT financially independent, in a relationship with someone else, close-minded.

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There is so many... I am being honest... smell, how she carry herself among strangers, among friends. How many personalities inside of her? Is she up to the Eye Test. What do she think of me? Does her husband knows? Way toooooo mmmmmaaaaannnnnnyyyyy.

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Basically anything from this song seems to be a deal breaker:

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being shallow and being bothered by the silly things, self-importance and not living with my faults unless of course, you are faultless.

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Low sex drive, being judgemental, being too negative, being stoned more than 20% of the time, being a literal prostitute (you wouldn't think that needed to be said. It's been an interesting 2018)

No I didn't want the smiley

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A pulse is a good start

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Judgemental. Inexperience, ignorance, doesn't do enough drugs 😉

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Smoking; anger issues; right-wing politics (the more serious I take someone as a partner, the more I look for politically left alignment)--also I find that right-wing politics often align with anger, so these points aren't independent; true theistic commitments and beliefs (I can stay with someone who just aligns to his background and upbringing but I can't if he is passionate about the belief system and/or committed to it); gender-role-rigidity--I don't do well with traditional gender-role expectations; philistinism--in general I don't do well with men who aren't into high art and high culture

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I would insist that they have a pulse.

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Lack of a pulse 🙂

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Arrogance, and deciding not to shower before a hookup. Gross.

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