I made this a poll as I am only looking for yes or no, feel free to comment by all means. But not chasing details, or whether it refers to your current partner or a long lost love. Also not asking if you were in love, just purely on the sex issue. Have you had a sex partner that stands out as the best, considerably better than others, just on how the 2 of you were together, rocked your world and such. I mean CONSIDERABLY better, like more than 10 % better than 2nd place getter or more than 40% better than average.
I couldn't really rate them. My first was a poor match but it was the first. My second was the most compatible with me. One was the most wild. The last was the love of my life.
Unfortunately the best ever was a raging narcissist. Kind of feeds my suspicion that crazy people are better lovers. Sigh.
Yes, and unfortunately he was also treated me the worst outside of bed. Still I learned a great deal about sex and technique from him. He is my only Ex whom I refuse to ever have contact with though.
Best in bed is often a shit in virtually every other way. I have heard this from others too.
funny, we all seem to have the one ex who we never want to see again, my ex wife, ok lousy in bed, but she is the only one of the ladies in my life I do not talk to. Yet we have 2 kids together
My vote was my final answer and still waiting for a few husbands to die so I can go for thirds or fourths. I don't need the whole marriage experience.
He was one of my best friends for years and years. We were both married to other people for the majority of our friendship. After we both divorced, we decided to just try it out once. Memorable does not even begin to cover it. Things I didn't even think I'd enjoy were suddenly the most amazing things I'd ever experienced. I look forward to a repeat of that. We're still best buds, but there's a lot of miles between us.
Yes: the one who cared, worked, paid attention, asked questions, and bought toys.
YES. My ex activated things in me I didn't realize were there. Years after our divorce the mystery was solved when he came out as a bi nonbinary female, and I realized four years ago that I'm partially transmale, although I live as an androgyne female. Neither of use were aware of gender issues while married, and believed we were a normal hetero couple.
We both did gender-switching roles, costumes, mild S & M, fantasy games, and almost non-stop play as long as our relationship lasted.
I used to think the straight male "rabbit" sex of my former partners was boring and stupid, but my ex opened up a new world for me.
It would have to be my last love. At the age of 57 if found myself back in my 30`s. African and 45, she had one of those behinds you could rest your pint on. Plus she had been genitally enhanced. If she had been white she would have been a red head. Why does passion have two sides ahh.
My B.O.B is the best..never complains, hums abit but never yells,can keep up with my appetite and stays up till I'm sasiated..awesome!
Yes, and honestly sex has been a disappointment ever since. Now would I risk my mental health and safety to get into another relationship like that? Oh, Hell no!
I can relate
Damn, I have 2 that stand out by far, 15 and 20 years ago, (I am currently chatting to both online), and they both have had major mental health issues. I don't like this pattern.
@Rugglesby Run!
She was bipolar, but she was great in bed.
Been there, done that, got the therapy bills.
The crazy ones go off like a frog in a sock
Ok ... ok... this would best explain it. Watch and Enjoy!
Watch "Smallville 10x06 Lois and Clark make love for the first time" on YouTube
Whew... (fanning myself)... it's been a while...
I have, was a woman I met when I was in the Navy on a liberty call in Fremantle down under where you reside. She had an obsession with kegel muscle exercise.
She was the only woman I ever met that was uninhibited. I married her.
good call
Yes, good call.
@EricTrommater well that's a keeper I missed and 3 I should never have let get away. hmmmm. but am glad they are gone just the same.
Oh yes indeedy ... I will never, ever forget him either !
@Redcupcoffee Let us not forget ... this is the internet !
Everyone was.
So you have never had bad or even disappointing sex? Go you!
@EricTrommater Make up for it the next session.