maybe just start with an ant farm and a can of Raid.

LOL! Chocolates, a bouquet of roses, and dinner at her favorite restaurant are good bets for most women.
For me, my ex did all of the above, but my "real" gift was to head for the national forest cliffs to do a few hours of birding. My ex loved to rock climb while I took photos of migrating birds flying over the cliff top.

I never wanted an expression of affection that was FORCED out of my beloved by some social imperative. What could be less sincere than a gift given because some artificial designation insisted on it? True tokens of love happen spontaneously at any day of the year. Keep your thrones of bones, your boxes of candy (Godiva excepted) and your bunches of dying foliage.

I, too, am a huge 40K fan.

Oh yeah!! That, and a box of Godivas.

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