I read a Post from Sarahroo29 that really touch me!
It made me really sad that appearance is so relevant in our culture.
We are all human and we all have flaws. More importantly we all have insecurities. If we are all honest with ourselves, there is something about our bodies we feel is unattractive to others.
I would like to ask everyone to show how we all have insecurities and things we dislike about ourselves.
For me, I absolutely hate my hips! not only are they too big but I have a dimple in each butt cheek and I am very subconscious about it.
What about you?
My pot belly and my man-boobs! lol. I've had flabby pecs since I was a teenager, and although I will go shirtless on occasion, e.g. at the swimming pool, I do often feel self-conscious about them. But in recent years I've become more dissatisfied with my large gut. I think being a man makes me less concerned with how I look than many women are. Women have a raw deal, being judged so much on their appearance.
I have leg acne and a lot of scars on my shins from being a klutz at work. So I am always in pants. Which makes my legs pale...paler. Dark leg hair on white legs,ug....aren't I the pretty one.
My least attractive feature is probably my left armpit. I have a bunch of scars there. But frankly, I don't care what I look like so long as I'm not unhygienic. I am not my body; I am my will, so my body doesn't say enough about me to get bent out of shape over.
Sure, everybody has their tastes in romantic partner's attributes, including physical ones, so if a guy is good with what I've got and everything else clicks too, great! If not but we like each other as friends, nothing wrong with that. If he has a bad attitude because my body isn't to his tastes, he's a jerk and I'm glad to have repelled him.
Clothing can hide a multitude of 'flaws' but with short hair there's not much I can do about inheriting my Dad's ears. I'm a far cry from Dumbo but they're no shrinking violets. lol
What's not to dislike! When I was young, I hated all my flaws, and now that I am old, I just feel like I am getting better looking. bwahahaha.
Seriously there is almost nothing I wouldn't trade out. (except my mind, I like that part)
As an aside, I have a cousin whose voice I just never really cared for, it always made me cringe a little when he talked.
Then as an adult the first time I heard my own voice played back... I have the same damn voice as he does! Luckily we never hear our own voices the same when we speak, lol. So I never really think about it.
My face is getting puffy with age . I'm not happy about it .
and mine's getting saggy and wrinkly.
I hate my feet.. Im a girl n I wear a size 11. It don't sound that bad but when u grow up it sucks. I can't find any real cute shoes in the stores near me. I can't borrow a cute pair from a friend or family cause my size is always too big. ????
I could say my 5' 3" height, except that I love being short..gives me more horse, and dance partner choices!
I could say my slight weight, except that I like being slim/skinny.
I guess I would have to say my teeth, except I don't worry about it as long as I can chew.
I don't know about just myself but I find knees and elbows the least attractive part of anyone. I have allergies so my own skin does annoy me at times. I'm easy to rash and many find that unattractive, me especially. I'm very chemically sensitive too so many of the typical treatments can make it worse.
My arse is far too big for someone of my build. I completely despise how big my nose is, and my feet are utterly hideous.
That said, I like my eyes.
I hate my head. My square jaw.Always have, since looks mattered, in teens. Dreamt of a car accident and reconstructive surgery. I've not had a problem dating so I know it's not that bad, but it feels ugly.
I still think I have black hair, even when I look in the mirror, but it's grey ..!
Besides my big belly that I've been trying to shrink as much as possible, I have a chipped front tooth, that makes me reluctant to smile.
If it's not that bad of a chip, the dentist can probably grind that into a shape you'd like better without costing a lot (especially a good idea if you're catching your lip on it or anything, making you uncomfortable)... or you could just consider that anyone who judges you by a chip on your tooth is too shallow for their opinion to particularly matter to you on that. Best wishes.
@ElizabethI The chip is too big to file square, but a sharp fang could work. lol
Man, I’ve got baby man boobs. Fixin to get rid of them too.