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Do you enjoy a good gossip?

I’m horrible for asking this, but I just needed to know how anybody else felt about gossiping cause to a degree I think it’s funny as hell, depending on the situation and the people. Lol if it’s people always trying to keep their skeletons in the closet while pretending to be better than everyone else, I think it’s the sweetest news to discover their lives wasn’t as perfect as they tried to put it out to be. Lmfao I’m horrible!

EmeraldJewel 7 Dec 9
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I've heard some good gossips about you by the way.... ???????? (Kidding !!!)

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I don't like to lower myself to other's standards. Gossip is childish, cruel, a character defect, and a lacking in one's integrity. Of course, that's only my opinion.

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I don't know what it is, but complete strangers tend to confide in me, and I never say a word. Some of it might be seeing adults standing around talking about what someone is wearing is a bit tedious. (Especially when you are amongst a group of welders!) I let others do what they do, and I do what I do. Gossip bedamned.

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Yes, I’m good for a good gossip. I will keep a confidence but certainly I’m on the dark side of town when it comes to high octane rumour!

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It's like a rumor,each person puts a little "Spin" on it and by the time it gets around to the original creator,who knows what's been added; Fires,Explosions,being taken away in handcuffs,IRS investigations,Satanic rituals,etc.....

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In the days right after we stopped going to church some of the church goers approached myself and my now ex wife in Walmart. Having trouble with the pastor they insisted we know all about it and told lots of stuff. They insisted that I know what he did next. I stopped it by saying I had no clue what he did even after they told me. I cannot claim to know what he did just because some of you are now wanting to tell me. It's all second and third hand information.

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I’m with you on the facade front. My wife loves the Housewives shows and I watch with a sideways glance (well, maybe not that sideways!) as those people are just over-privileged jokes. Love the way they argue over nonsense that us normal folk just get over and get on.

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Yes especially if it's about me. I always enjoy a good laugh.

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I love gossip! Especially if it’s about someone who has a very high opinion of themselves. I know, typical woman. Yes I am!

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Gossip is always interesting, you can't let it get to ya lols

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Gossip is potentially useful information that is socially discouraged, or discouraged by authorities, because of its subversive and uncontrolled nature. Historian Yuval Noah Harari wrote that the need for good gossip among early humans played a big role in the development of speech. Therefore, I honor our ancestors by gossiping, and often.

@CoastRiderBill True: I have much to learn of life and maturity.

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Not my thing.

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Not my thing either. Most gossip has nothing to do with seeing someone getting their comeuppance. It's usually about making the spreader of the gossip feel better about themselves, and more important for knowing something other people don't. And it's almost always mean spirited. When I hear someone gossiping about someone else, I wonder what they are saying about me behind my back.

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I hate gossip. I was part of the gossip in Taos after a divorce. The stuff was very negative and aimed at my ex. Every bit of it was wrong. Later the same thing happened to me and a lady l was dating. I find myself living in a small town again. I have not gone out with or slept with anyone in this town, and l have lived here six years. l only get into these peoples lives on a fairly shallow level with the exception of a couple of folks. Gossip can really hurt people and is almost always full of a lot of misinformation.

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Who doesn't is a liar

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I’ll admit that even men do it. ?

Hahaha I’ll keep this in mind.,

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Sometimes it's fun

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Gossip is a way to communicate, a channel. You can use the channel maliciously or constructively. Even passively. Because knowledge is power. A lot of gossip is finding out how people are doing. It's cool if you do it right.

@CoastRiderBill I'm sorry you were a victim of malicious gossip, Bill. There's a difference between talking about someone who wore different shoes to work one day and assassinating someone's character. I don't wallow in gossip like some people who make it their life's work, but I will pass on a tidbit or two on occasion. Maybe I shouldn't.

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I don't, but I used to work with this guy who thrived on gossip. They say he grew up in a house with no men, just his Mom and Grandma and several aunts and cousins, or anyway women who were referred to as aunts and cousins. I heard the terms were were not 100 percent accurate, if you get my drift.

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No, thank you. It's immature

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No thanks. It is not constructive, instructive, or useful.

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I hate gossip. It is cruel to maliciously talk about people behind their backs.

When I moved to Wenatchee, I could not relate to the gossipy, racist, narrow-minded people who grew up here. Some believe Wenatchee is the center of the universe and see no reason to visit Seattle, 125 miles away.

Instead I made friends with well-educated people who moved here from another state, like me.

EDIT: I choose kind, respectful, funny and intelligent friends. I surround myself with positive people. No gossip.

@CoastRiderBill

So sorry that happened to you. My friends are kind, respectful, intelligent and funny. No gossip.

I surround myself with positive people.

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Gossiping is human nature. It's not always malicious. There are only one or two people in the world with whom I ever indulge in gossip, and they are chosen because anything said goes no further than the two of us.

Deb57 Level 8 Dec 10, 2018
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No. I will stop people who try to gossip to me, and I will walk away if it's being done around me. I try not to talk about people unless I have something positive to say, or it's necessary--then I make every effort to be fair, and stick to facts.

Is it true?
Is it necessary?
Is it kind?

I don't judge those who gossip; I just don't participate.

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