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With or without music during sex?

EmeraldJewel 7 Mar 13
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It depends on if the band minds.

Oh! Thank you so much for that laugh!

Sad that I had to read this twice to get it but, man, when it hit me... thank you again! 🙂

@Gnarloc You are most welcome!

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oh no, no music, no distractions what soever.

@AMGT nope, no tip tor through tulips for me. Long before your time surely? Though I got called out today for knowing who Stubby Kaye and Nat King Cole were.

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My ex always wanted some Prince or some such. Then she told me to put on some sex music once so I put this on ...

The download gods are refusing me access. Is this something I might expect to hear on Benny Hill? 🙂

yes. yakety sax.

Might as well use a steam engine!

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I can do it with music I can do it without music as long as I'm doing it.

I like your attitude. 🙂

Receptive quivering SonderOpia hitting the nail on its head?

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So people out there are having sex. Who knew

sgherf Level 5 Mar 14, 2018

Funneeeeee! Well done.

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I had an ex. once, who used to choose 'sex music' for purely comic effect.

A case of, "Hit the 'play' button and off we go!" with no idea what she had arranged as the sound track.

It turned out to be a selection - everything from Verdi's 'Dies Irae', through hard rock and opera, to the sodding 'Birdy Song'.

Honestly ... the Birdy Song! ... have you ever tried to have sex to "Da-da-da-da-dadda-da! Da-da-da-da-dadda-da! Da-da-da-DAAA!"?

Lol, that'd make a mess of the long strokes!

LMAO!!! The birdy song! OMG

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Only this song on loop:

LOL

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Without for me..all the yodeling makes it more intense...

@AMGT what?..hehehe

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Surrounded by 4 floor speakers hooked into a 150 watt per channel amp. Cue up dance/techno of your choice. Insert earplugs, feel the drive. Also put an oscillating fan blow back and forth for sensory change. Strobe lights can be interesting also.
Oh the memories!!!

"What??".... lol

@RavenCT it's all about sensory stimulation, earplugs are so you don't go deaf with the amp turned up to 90%. Feel the music in your body, literally.

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I like a military band marching around the bed when I do it.

Exhibitionist

@FrayedBear A blind military band.

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Having a roommate, this becomes a functional question. I do know that if you are sticking to one partner and you are playing music that its nice to put some variation into the playlist.

Don't keep playing Dark Side of the Moon.

As Mike Damone says, side one of Led Zeppelin IV is the best.

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Hmmmm. It saddens me to say I don't have a preference. I was thinking at first DEFINITELY yes, but then I thought, what if I start listening to the music and not my partner? What if I start SINGING?!

I'm gonna say tentative no.

I think your partners singing might ruin the mood, especially if he was not good at it...the singing I mean.

Think of it as an immersive experience like being drawn into a great movie and it’s emotional triggers. A beautiful soundtrack enhances a film and it can also enhance sex. And, as others have said it can be totally irrelevant.

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🙂

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I made a list. A friend made a YouTube list for it.

Hopefully the videos are still there.

I like making playlists (I have about 96 hours of music playlists that correspond to video playlists to play with the music, which has yielded some awesome results) and burning mix CDs with specific flow or tasks or energy types in mind, it's one of my serious hobbies.

Your link didn't work for me, but I was able to track down what I think you were posting. [passionofthegrice.wordpress.com]

@AlPastor I choose to blame mobile technology for this. Apologies for the extra steps needing to be taken. I'll honestly be a little amazed if half the videos on the list are still up lol

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No music. Like to hear the natural sounds?

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None for me.

Thought for sure some Chopin would be in your dossier.

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I always thought I was a “no”, but then while doing it we had “Little Fluffy Clouds” playing, and it was perfect ?

miffy Level 5 Mar 13, 2018

That tune is epic. Never had sex to it though.

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Barry White for strip tease, mild S&M, and fantasy play. Barry can get people in the love mood, and is even credited with causing the US baby boom during the mid 1970s.

Barry White - Can't get enough of your love baby

WAY back in the 70s, my wife at the time once interrupted our spontaneous lovemaking and asked me to go put on our Barry White album. In her defense, we had an awesome stereo... 😉

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Whatever, just apparently not that old Aerosmith song Big 10 Inch Record

LMAO!

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There is some music that enhances the sexual experience most definitely! Trent Reznor comes to mind immeadiately !

Trent Reznor! Awesome points to you!

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I don't mind sex without music--I mean good sex is good sex and I enjoy the sounds of that too! But good music + good sex = win win.

I’d love to have that song “Skin” playing by Rihanna ha ha ha!

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I like polka music during sex. Of course, it's usually by myself...

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Without! As a musician with ADD my mind will drift into the music and I lose focus.

Musician here... People don’t appreciate how DEEP you can be into the music! If the music is good, stop the sex. If the sex is good, stop the music!!

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The best way to be wearing headphones listening to the exact same music while having sex. Anything by Metallica sets a nice romantic mood.

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I can go either way.

Isn't that what the priest said to the altar boy?

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Be interesting to make love to -'je taime'

Even better with all of Carmina Burana. 😉

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