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IT'S NOT WHAT YOU GATHER, BUT WHAT YOU SCATTER

A great story and well worth the read!! (sent to me by a loving friend)

I was at the corner grocery store buying some early potatoes... I noticed a small boy, delicate of bone and feature, ragged but clean, hungrily apprising a basket of freshly picked green peas.

I paid for my potatoes but was also drawn to the display of fresh green peas. I am a pushover for creamed peas and new potatoes.

Pondering the peas, I couldn't help overhearing the conversation between Mr. Miller (the store owner) and the ragged boy next to me.

'Hello Barry, how are you today?'

'H'lo, Mr. Miller. Fine, thank ya. Jus' admirin' them peas. They sure look good'

'They are good, Barry. How's your Ma?'

'Fine. Gittin' stronger alla' time.'

'Good. Anything I can help you with?'

'No, Sir. Jus' admirin' them peas.'

'Would you like to take some home?' asked Mr. Miller.

'No, Sir. Got nuthin' to pay for 'em with.'

'Well, what have you to trade me for some of those peas?'

'All I got's my prize marble here.'

'Is that right? Let me see it', said Miller.

'Here 'tis. She's a dandy.'

'I can see that. Hmm mmm, only thing is this one is blue and I sort of go for red. Do you have a red one like this at home?' the store owner asked.

'Not zackley but almost.'

'Tell you what. Take this sack of peas home with you and next trip this way let me look at that red marble'. Mr. Miller told the boy

'Sure will. Thanks Mr. Miller'

Mrs. Miller, who had been standing nearby, came over to help me.

With a smile she said, 'There are two other boys like him in our community, all three are in very poor circumstances. Jim just loves to bargain with them for peas, apples, tomatoes, or whatever.

When they come back with their red marbles, and they always do, he decides he doesn't like red after all and he sends them home with a bag of produce for a green marble or an orange one, when they come on their next trip to the store.'

I left the store smiling to myself, impressed with this man. A short time later I moved to Colorado , but I never forgot the story of this man, the boys, and their bartering for marbles.

Several years went by, each more rapid than the previous one. Just recently I had occasion to visit some old friends in that Idaho community and while I was there learned that Mr. Miller had died. They were having his visitation that evening and knowing my friends wanted to go, I agreed to accompany them. Upon arrival at the mortuary we fell into line to meet the relatives of the deceased and to offer whatever words of comfort we could.

Ahead of us in line were three young men. One was in an army uniform and the other two wore nice haircuts, dark suits and white shirts...all very professional looking. They approached Mrs. Miller, standing composed and smiling by her husband's casket.

Each of the young men hugged her, kissed her on the cheek, spoke briefly with her and moved on to the casket. Her misty light blue eyes followed them as, one by one; each young man stopped briefly and placed his own warm hand over the cold pale hand in the casket. Each left the mortuary awkwardly, wiping his eyes.

Our turn came to meet Mrs. Miller. I told her who I was and reminded her of the story from those many years ago and what she had told me about her husband's bartering for marbles. With her eyes glistening, she took my hand
and led me to the casket.

'Those three young men who just left were the boys I told you about.*

They just told me how they appreciated the things Jim 'traded' them. Now, at last, when Jim could not change his mind about color or size....they came to pay their debt.'

'We've never had a great deal of the wealth of this world,' she confided, 'but right now, Jim would consider himself the richest man in Idaho ..'

With loving gentleness she lifted the lifeless fingers of her deceased husband. Resting underneath were three exquisitely shined red marbles.

*The Moral😘

We will not be remembered by our words, but by our kind deeds Life is not measured by the breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath.*

Today I wish you a day of ordinary miracles
~ A fresh pot of coffee you didn't make yourself.. An unexpected phone call from an old friend.... Green stoplights on your way to work.... The fastest line at the grocery store....
A good sing-along song on the radio.. Your keys found right where you left them.

IT'S NOT WHAT YOU GATHER, BUT WHAT YOU SCATTER THAT TELLS WHAT KIND OF LIFE YOU HAVE LIVED!

josephr 7 July 24
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Through my teary eayes, I write "WOW!"
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That is simply beautiful! In the end, it is only the love and care u gave others only ever matters.

Mimee Level 6 July 26, 2020

Yes, with the care and and love we give ourselves.

@josephr you can't give what you ain't got. I agree.

@HankSherman Great way to put it. "You can't give what you ain't got!"

@josephr thank you, sure I heard or read it somewhere.

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I've actually heard this before, I like it. It's a kind story.

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word 🙂

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I’d truly like to think this happened but I can’t help but feel this is a (possible Christian) CATFISH

"Catfish?" I'm in no way deriding your comment, but i was wonder what deception you're seeing? Is the moral any less functional because someone might have created a fictional parable? Just asking.

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We need more stories to compete with you-know-who.

ha wadr the Bible is full of them, and believers are the most roundly vilified in Scripture (you cross land and sea to make one convert, and then turn them into twice the sons of hell you are), the NT is even the record of the failure of a Theocracy?

so don't get me wrong ok, i get why you say that, but i suggest that we have been fooled 🙂

@bbyrd009 Stories main purposes are to engage (make think) , perhaps learn( they are the ones we remember easiest , and perhaps amuse or happily alter our views . I am looking for heartwarming science stories.

@Mcflewster hmm, dunno about heartwarming, but heard the one about Cassini--whom we name shit after, right--and his colossal blinder viz the orbit of Io, i think it was?
""In 1676 an anomaly in the orbit of Io, Jupiter's innermost moon, led the astronomer Ole Roemer to make a very specific prediction. Io would appear from behind Jupiter at 5:37 pm on November 9, 1676, he said--and that would prove light travels with a finite speed. Roemer's mentor, Jean-Dominique Cassini, head of the Paris Observatory, rubbished the idea; light spread instantaneously, he said. His beliefs () led him to a different prediction. According to Cassini, it would be 5:27 when Io appeared.

Io appeared at 5:37 and 49 seconds. On hearing of this, Cassini announced that the facts fit with the story he had presented (faith). Although Cassini had made his (erroneous) prediction at a public gathering of scientists, not one of them demurred when he denied it; they all backed him up. Roemer had to wait fifty years to be vindicated; only after Cassini had died did scientists accept that the speed of light was finite."
[books.google.com]

so the lesson maybe is that scientists can be just as religious as believers. or something.

@Mcflewster "And science, we must quickly add, is a method that allows broad populations of otherwise unrelated people to form a single mind in understanding creation (John 17:23, Acts 2:46, 2 Corinthians 13:11)..." [abarim-publications.com]
"
God, like the psyche, cannot be measured and therefore theology is not the study of God but rather the study of everything: those objects, phenomena and events that surely can be measured and which may or may not arise from a Creator who may or may not exist.

The familiar Greek word θεος (theos) belongs to a family of words that also contains words like theory and theatre. Biblical theology has never had anything to do with religion but has always been the mother of all sciences, the umbrella under which all other scientific disciplines exist, the rainbow that gives all scientific colors their place. Biblical theology has nothing to do with religion but is the Higgs field from which all other sciences derive their mass..."

@bbyrd009 Interesting. But above everything else if the Bible is science it needs an update VERY urgently. This fact alone shows that it is man-made

@bbyrd009 Taken from Abraham Publications "This in turn means that, contrary to popular belief, science is a method that always proves wrong and never right,"

You really have got it in for science have you not? That is sad but you are not alone. In fact science is a method of producing the best possible conclusions at the time. It can only be changed however by doing better science that a large body of scientists agreed with. Bible writers are dead and cannot match this . Please I implore get real. Allow evolution of ideas by people who can test, reject or advance.

@Mcflewster ha well i don't agree with everything the guy says anyway ok, but "science always proves wrong, and never right" is pretty much an axiom i think? Not a bad thing at all imo

@bbyrd009 Any thing does not have to be WRONG to be improved. It might be extremely near perfect( perfection does not exist in reality but only in one person's perception). Science is about improving something which may be already good. Just getting better all the time especially if one improves the science methodology ( which is currently good but not perfect) . To refute me you really have to try to produce some original science AND convince say a group of people that what you have found is true. Please enjoy doing it or you will not do it, I predict.

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What a very beautiful and uplifting story...it actually made me mist up!

Me too.

I did also, aand it seems the older I get, the more I react to stories like this.

@HankSherman I definitely blubber more at anything sentimental!

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Life as it should be all the time

t1nick Level 8 July 24, 2020
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That's a wonderful story... 😃

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Very touching story.

barjoe Level 9 July 24, 2020
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great tell. beautiful story.

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