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Pawning/selling wedding jewelry

For those that are divorced, what did you do with your engagement ring and wedding band?

My divorce was super amicable and I had planned on giving my rings to my daughters when they're older. Now I need cash and I'm going to see what I can get for them. I'm feeling a little guilty though.

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Marcie1974 8 May 30
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I sold mine and ended up dating the owner of the jewelry store I sold it to. I guess he really knew I was single at that point LOL.

@Donotbelieve @SonderOpia

Damn, I never considered the benefits of becoming a jeweler.

@JimG lol

@Donotbelieve at least they know we are single lol.

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Sold it.
If you go to a pawn shop, be prepared to be insultingly lowballed.

I took it to a jewelry store that also buys jewelry. They aren’t buying marquee cut diamonds and said she could just offer me money for the gold. Which ended up being $57.

Went to Pawn America and he eyeballed it and said he’d pay $150 for it. Nope!

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My wedding ring is beautiful and I love it. Not because it holds any significance for my marriage. It's just a beautiful ring. And it was expensive, in my opinion. So I'm holding on to it. I can trade it in for something else when the time is right.

Mine isn't especially nice and I doubt it is worth much. Really needing rent money and do not want to ask my parents. I don't really think my kids will use it....thought perhaps their kids (my future grandchildren) might like it down the road.

@Marcie1974 no need to feel guilty. If you need money then you should sell it.

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When my late wife's cancer was coming to an end,I took my ring off when she closed her eyes and exhaled one last time,I've still got it 8 months later,not sure if I should sell or keep it,but 26 of the 27 years were good ones.

I think this is certainly different than for those of us whose relationships ended in divorce. If there are no negative associations, I assume you could save it for a family member to use or wear it on a chain. But then again, the memories are yours regardless what you do with the ring.

@ladyprof70 I never had kids,marrying when I was 43,the low paying jobs and the "Gold Diggers"had me quit dating for about 16 years time,only when I got a job in Aerospace could I afford to get a wife.

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I don't wear jewelry. Seems barbaric, to me to, expect someone to wear a hunk of metal around an appendage to symbolize something. Odd behavior if you ask me....

Yep, I never wore a ring, I had one but never felt comfortable wearing it. The job at the time didn't want us having rings on during work.

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I lost mine years before the divorce. No idea what happened to it.

I'll be selling mine and take my sons to next year

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I had to pay rent. Pawned my ring for $800.00 Never looked back.. and I have NO regrets!
My adult daughters wouldn’t have wanted it. They choose extremely different styles.
Good luck with your decision.

Leah Level 5 May 31, 2018

The jeweler isn’t taking marquee cut diamonds and only offered $57 for the gold. Went to the pawn shop, he eyeballed it and only offered $150 ?

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Years ago, my fiancee broke up with me. After her parents demanded she give the ring back, I sold it for 30$

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Didn't have any.
Two marriages - no rings, etc.

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Melted it. Poured it into a bullet mold.

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It no longer had any meaning, and I needed the money. Sold.

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Jewelry has such a high retail mark-up and such a low re-sell value.
You'll probably be better off keeping them and passing them on to the daughters to save them the expense in the future.

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I haven't done anything with mine yet, but eventually I'm likely to sell my ring.

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Never been captured so I've never had one.

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Take it to a jewelry store and get an appraisal first.

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Thank you for the idea

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I let her keep them. I was done.

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My last husband never actually gave me a ring. Symbolic of our farce of a marriage, I suppose.

Deb57 Level 8 May 30, 2018
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Caveat. I sold my engagement ring which was from a marriage that never actually happened. In hindsight, I should have given it back to him, but he was dumb enough to send it to me from the Air Force when I was 15, so...

Oh, so for you - sell it. No guilt.

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My ring was actually stolen long before our divorce. I used several cheap replacements over the years but none were of any real value.

My ex-wife sold hers for a fraction of their value. The jeweler told her the stone was chipped and not worth much. I completely forget to mention that there was an insurance policy.

JimG Level 8 May 30, 2018
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Every person would feel different about it. but selling would be more rational than throwing it in ocean. But no one can deny the truth that everyone face different circumstances. Some people's relationship end up very badly so they throw it in ocean to forget the past.

Hussy Level 4 May 30, 2018
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I had the stones from my wedding ring reset into a pendant and earrings. i had pearls added, so they look completely different. i still have the engagement ring, though. i might sell it one day. probably should...

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I couldn't get those rings off my finger and out of my life soon enough. But I did keep two items...an emerald and diamond bracelet and a gold and silver snowflake pendant. The stones are real and I'm sure they would have paid some bills...but they're pretty and I don't think of X when I wear them, so it's all good!

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No vote. Within 2 weeks of marriage I lost my ring, I told her to take hers off. 19 years later we got divorced. The ring was a big thing for her. Never was a thing for me. I don't wear jewerly of any kind, anywere. If I ever get married again, there will be no rings, I do no labels or brandings. Not a marriage ring person.

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I still have my wedding ring because it's not worth much. I think the titanium bands cost less than $100 each. Can't even melt it down. I should probably toss it in the donation box. Maybe it's bringing bad juju into my personal life!

dkp93 Level 8 May 30, 2018
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