I have two cats, a brother and sister. When young, she was larger and bossed him around. Then he grew larger, and he tried to chase her out of the yard, because each one wanted to claim me as their own. I scolded him for doing it, and carried her back from being banned.

It's now settled, she owns me, and I let her. He doesn't want me to pet him because he is jealous, except he wants me to and sometimes allows it. My wife doesn't like to touch animals, so she doesn't pet him, and he craves attention Since I protect her from him, she follows me around like a dog. I had two Siamese cats once, brothers, and they got along just fine. I got this pair, the brother and sister, when they were almost grown. I think if I'd gotten them much younger they would have gotten along better.

my two would do the same thing!

Xena will start grooming Zelda, and then they start whacking at each other, and then go back to Xena grooming. I have not seen Zelda groom Xena. And sometimes after the whacking starts they start running and tumbling, and more whacking. Crazy girls.

Gotta show 'em who's boss!

Mine just have little spats here and there. Otherwise they get along pretty good.