Hi ladies , I was thinking of speaking about sub head space ,where my state of mind is focused on servitude,and complete obedience ....
It creates in me ,strong intense omni sexual feelings and connective emotions
It's to explain but I'm sure dopamine levels go up
It is an absolute thrill to give submission to feel like an owned broken slave ,speaking in 3rd person...
I am a switch,though prefer sub ,Dom head space is a different kind of thrill...
And for either state of minds to happen,need trust and compatibility
I don't care for brats ,and am not one neither..
I really like this
There is a rush you get on both sides. A pleasure derived by servitude as well as control.
I love a good pet. Knowing I can bend them to me. Make them mine. Have them please me and not be ashamed of either side.
Last slave I was training turned out to be a willfully brat. And he was cut loose. The sex was amazing. Bit the willful disregiard for anything I had to say was not something I wanted to constantly deal with.
When a sub/slave occasionally defies it can be fun and playful. But constantly causing chaos is draining. And it can break the spirit of a dominatrix. To make her not want to even be in the same room as them. And that's sad. Thats how it was with my last. He was very openly defiant. But not at first. He didn't let his true self out for a while. He was angry when I cut him free. But I couldn't handle that. It wasnt good for either of us.
There should always be an open communication and healthy dynamic.
Would love to find a female.pet again
Trans-fem, here.
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