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Ladies what are you doing to stay fulfilled alone while you continue your "search" for "the one." Currently Im filling my void with movies and music...maybe a vibrator here and there lol. I just think that if we do nothing we are making ourselves vulnerable to compromising more than we should to have a relationship.... And I think women need love and intimacy in their lives...I try to fill my environment with reminders of what love is.

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I recommend an extensive toy box and joining a site like porn hub for some serious positive body affirmations and fun sexting. I've found that site to be a big boost to my self-esteem, as people who appreciate you will find you, and those that aren't into you just pass by without your knowledge. It helped me reclaim my sexuality after a psychologically abusive marriage. I highly recommend it!

NYTrink Level 6 Nov 1, 2018
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I am always at my best when I have good sex in my relationship. It's been almost 5 years since my last one. Vibrators are very liberating . . . So is my finger. Still, it would be nice to enjoy a man again. I am 68, almost 69, and that desire for intimacy never goes away.

Bettyann Level 4 Oct 27, 2018
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I tend to be very introverted, so I’ve never really needed someone or something to fill a void. I just continue along my path. If the right person comes along , then we can walk this path together.

aftie Level 3 Oct 27, 2018
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Looking for partners with similar interests is a good strategy. Where I find I have problems is with my partners rigidity and inability to adapt to the current environment . We need that adaptability because things arent what they once were.

Remowill Level 7 Oct 3, 2018
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That's an excellent question... I go out every morning for a one hour run, then one hour of calisthenics...
That relieves a lot of.... Um... Stress? Lol
Then my daily activities, and when I get home, I swim in my backyard pool and sunbathe, but that has the opposite effect...
So then that's when the toy is necessary..

But good news... I've been seeing a man for about 3 weeks now and he attends to every nook and cranny ...

I still do my runs, calisthenics, and swimming lol

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I love your honesty and openness.

You didn’t ask the guys what they do 😉

Divorced 2nd time, I quit my job, and have been traveling and living out of my RV. Hiking, meeting new friends, learning guitar, learning about the stars and universe.

I don’t have a vibrator, but I’m getting my strumming down pretty good.

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If I am not with someone I don't view it as having a void. I like me and my own company and don't feel alone when I am by myself. I read, work out, keep my mind engaged.

I would much rather do this than settle. It's one thing to be friends with someone and I can do that, it's fine. But if I am considering someone to be the one, they have high standards to meet. I'd rather be by myself than compromise. It doesn't work. When you do find the right one, and it is admittedly rare, life can be magical.

Mitch07102 Level 8 Sep 30, 2018

Great words of wisdom. One has to be confident, with enough self-love to get past the basic human urge for love and connection.

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My cousin is divorced no kids she is beutiful age 36. She is in baby panic mode. She can find sex easily but marriage is very hard to find I worry about her she sufers from depression.

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I think you are spot on ! It is the physical intimacy of "touching" many times a FWB can be a special love during the journey. That is how i get through dark lonely times. Reading, movies and a great connection with another. I must be honest I have a special relationship with an Agnostic member. His voice Mmm and hours of great conversation. I have found the internet to be a positive vehicle for connection.

EvaV Level 7 Sep 30, 2018
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I do things I love that bring happiness, achievement, and fulfillment: music, making jewelry, crafts, scrapbooking, polymer clay, making decor for Halloween or Yule/winter, reading, watching Kindle, iPhone games, art/sketching, aromatherapy, candlelight...to name a few! Also self-love, and treats of self-pampering: mani/pedi, massage, full salon hair treatment, makeover at Bare Minerals, a new outfit that looks smashing.

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There is a delightful meme in the Gardeners group of two women gardening that follows an earlier methodology to one suggested by you. ? There again you can always apply the #MagicPudding philosophy. ??????

FrayedBear Level 9 Sep 30, 2018
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We all need intimacy and love in our lives.

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