I am trying to keep busy even more so than usual.BUT Jan 14 ( Lost my love last Jan 14) is fast approaching. Im in a new town / state feeling lost , scared, alone and even more heartbroken. Any ideas? How do you cope on that terrible anniversary?
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bookofmorons
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Dec 21, 2018
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It's just a calendar. ..give yourself some credit. ...you are already coping well venting here....celebrate good memories and admit the cause of death hurts our guts so bad to drive us towards prevention and cures. ...grief energizes everything we choose
GreenAtheist
Level 8
Dec 21, 2018
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Try to find a way to be around people. Not perfect, but I found it helps.
GeorgeRocheleau
Level 8
Dec 20, 2018
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the first anniversay is the most painful (at least for me) grief is natural. i try to stay busy. i'm sure others as well as i are open to talking. try not give way to depression
TheDoubter
Level 9
Dec 20, 2018
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Thanks I keep thinking all I really want to do is go to bed and stay there for a week. I do not think I will because I have a job - but at this time that’s what I wish I could do. The closer it gets the more panicked I get.
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