To all the beautiful people have a wonderful night.

Carin comments on Sep 9, 2018:

My night was pretty fun, thanks. Hope yours was too.

This one is open for discussion

Carin comments on Sep 9, 2018:

Did you paint it? I like it!

Wow there's a lot different groups on this site but I'm learning to navigate through all the various...

Carin comments on Sep 9, 2018:

Hi!

Hi, my name is Fin I'm guessing you gain levels via navigating the site and posting different ...

Carin comments on Sep 9, 2018:

You can find out what things get you the most points by clicking on "About" at the top of the page, & then (I think) FAQs.

Hello i joined a minute ago, i am looking forward to some entertaining or at the least factual ...

Carin comments on Sep 8, 2018:

Hi & welcome!

After all, you can't end a sentence with an adjective!

Carin comments on Sep 8, 2018:

There aren't any adjectives there, are there? But it's pretty funny.

Oh hell, no to asking someone to repay the money you spent on a date, once the date doesn’t go ...

Carin comments on Sep 8, 2018:

Why I like to go Dutch.

Please help settle this very important issue before it tears my family apart ??

Carin comments on Sep 8, 2018:

Miracle Whip has more flavor & fewer calories. I'm surprised it go so few votes. I use it for everything.

First day here. Thought I'd say hello.

Carin comments on Sep 8, 2018:

Niether?

I had dinner with a friend the other night and we decided we're going to take a short cruise next ...

Carin comments on Sep 8, 2018:

My sister worked on a cruise ship for a year. She said pick a cruise without too many sea days. A lot of people like the Alaskan cruises.

"How hard can that be...saying Nazis are bad??"

Carin comments on Sep 8, 2018:

T.Rump doesn't want to offend his friends & followers..

Heading to Dallas/Ft. Worth in the morning! Hope everyone has a great weekend!

Carin comments on Sep 8, 2018:

You too!!

Evangelical Leaders Want Nothing to Do with Social Justice | Neil Carter

Carin comments on Sep 8, 2018:

You aren't surprised, are you?

There is a skunk walking around outside my home tonight. Smelly. Not really loving this.

Carin comments on Sep 8, 2018:

It must just have sprayed something or something. Normally they don't smell too much. Hope it goes away--wild animals wandering around too long makes me wonder if they could be rabid.

I was always a live-and-let-live sort of person,however, that doesn't seem to work so well nowadays.

Carin comments on Sep 8, 2018:

Trump is bringing them out of the cracks just like roaches.

Some Shakespeare quotes regarding Trump, “Woe to the land that’s governed by a child.

Carin comments on Sep 8, 2018:

Those are great! & it makes you look smarter to quote Shakespeare instead of the bible.

So if one has no desire to find a new relationship, does one ignore all those members who express a ...

Carin comments on Sep 8, 2018:

Ignoring them seems rude unless they are being creepy.

Hello, I'm Kaitlin, joined about 6 days ago, on Saturday, not having any difficulties atm, but ...

Carin comments on Sep 8, 2018:

Hi!

I don't know if this is a single group post but it's for the ladies.

Carin comments on Sep 7, 2018:

Sure.

I know this isn't really the group for this, but this and one other are the two I am most ...

Carin comments on Sep 7, 2018:

You look so happy & enthusiastic!

Hi! I'm new to the site and looking forward to meeting new people.

Carin comments on Sep 7, 2018:

Hi!! You're in good company now!

I've never been so self conscious of where my mouse is at than on this site now.

Carin comments on Sep 7, 2018:

Guys sure are sensitive about that for some reason. I don't recall any woman here having issues with females looking at their profile though. I really haven't paid much attention either way, myself. But who cares what they think about you anyway, right? It's clearly their problem.

So I think I did something stupid today.

Carin comments on Sep 7, 2018:

Sweet!

“The more I live, the more I learn.

Carin comments on Sep 7, 2018:

A very threatening concept to T.Rump supporters.

Is it really so wrong to want to be a priority to someone?

Carin comments on Sep 7, 2018:

Apparently it is.

Hi im new from the midlands uk.

Carin comments on Sep 7, 2018:

Hi!

My kids are on a field trip always makes me on edge.

Carin comments on Sep 7, 2018:

Imagine how I felt when my 19 year old daughter decided to hike the Appalachian Trail by herself. Consider field trips & sleep overs practice for when they are on their own. It's a big change so practice helps.

The role of freedom and autonomy in romantic relationships--this is something I now take very ...

Carin comments on Sep 7, 2018:

Yeah but for a lot of people, freedom means selfishness. I avoid relationships with guys who talk about being free overly much. Usually immature & self centered.

Tell us about your newest relationship.

Carin comments on Sep 7, 2018:

He's very sweet, interesting & open, but he lives SO far away...

How long should a woman chat with a man without him thinking she is into him ?

Carin comments on Sep 6, 2018:

It seems like it could be confusing to say you're interested in both friends & dating; I haven't figured out how to ask which one they have in mind, or how to tell someone which one I would like them to be. I hope you get a lot of responses because I don't ever want to hurt people's feelings or seem rude--or to seem presumptuous.

Love the olden days when men got a big cross tattooed to their backs and fronts especially at sea so...

Carin comments on Sep 6, 2018:

I never heard that! Wonder what they would do to them instead?

When I was 19 I had already been through years of childhood sexual abuse, an abusive marriage and ...

Carin comments on Sep 6, 2018:

What a success story! Wonderful to read. Maybe you'd like to share some of the details of you recovery?

Any tips regarding self-employment?

Carin comments on Sep 6, 2018:

I've been self employed for 30 years. I don't make much money but the stress is so much less that working for other people & dealing with co-workers. What I lack is organization & assertiveness, or I would probably make more money. Good luck--I think you will like it!

If you take the time out again and again to help someone and they at sometime return the favor ...

Carin comments on Sep 6, 2018:

I keep being that friend but when I need something I never seem to have anyone to help me.

Never assume ...

Carin comments on Sep 6, 2018:

That's a guy.... ew.

Guys, please be aware of the Troll who uses the same profile info and the same lame picture.

Carin comments on Sep 6, 2018:

Looks like a brunette Fembot.

That was just stupid.

Carin comments on Sep 6, 2018:

Much ado about nothing.

What does it mean if the dating profile says "looking for someone authentic"?

Carin comments on Sep 5, 2018:

I'm thinking someone who doesn't put on a persona, who is open about what's going on in their head, stuff like that. A "What you see is what you get" person.

Hello? How is everyone doing?

Carin comments on Sep 5, 2018:

Just bone tired from work, playing with the computer.

Have you noticed a pattern to the men or women you go for?

Carin comments on Sep 5, 2018:

No--lately I've been trying to figure out what my "type" is & I just don't see any similar traits...

I am a man now but at at the age of 12, I was forced get engaged a girl who was 20 by my own ...

Carin comments on Sep 5, 2018:

Don't do anything that could come back & hurt your child. You need to put him or her first. Are you able to get counseling (non-religious) or are you still living in that culture? You've been though a lot & so, I suppose, have your wives. I hope you can find some happiness somewhere.

First battle of the sexes.

Carin comments on Sep 5, 2018:

That is really funny. I'm still laughing!

So are you one who is fashionably early or fashionably late to places?

Carin comments on Sep 5, 2018:

Lately I am late to almost everything. I used to overcompensate & get everywhere really early, but now I just don't care that much.

I have Anisocoria.

Carin comments on Sep 5, 2018:

I can remember things that happened before I turned 2 as well as all the essential plant nutrients & other trivia, but I can't remember what day it is or how to use my cell phone. I also have a genuine hair phobia.

Hi everyone.

Carin comments on Sep 5, 2018:

Hi! I love hearing from people in other countries.

Choose wisely

Carin comments on Sep 5, 2018:

2 but a lot more tired.

If Only ??

Carin comments on Sep 5, 2018:

Like in the movie Shallow Hal.

Well after two years of asking my Doctor to prescribe he did - (like it was nothing - I swear he's ...

Carin comments on Sep 5, 2018:

My doctor is giving it to me too. She said the government gives them a bad time about prescribing actual sleeping pills now. I think it takes longer to work & might still be hanging around a bit when I wake up, but I'm just happy to be sleeping. One advantage of trazadone she told me about is that you can take it every night & it won't stop working like Sonata & all the others eventually did, even with only taking them twice a week. Glad you are doing well.

Mental Floss

Carin comments on Sep 4, 2018:

Me too. I thought--then my therapist said I was disassociating. Whatever. It works.

I want to know this dude

Carin comments on Sep 4, 2018:

Love that guy. Funny & smart.

Nocturnal Awakenings - Last night I had a full-on case of my bad, middle of the night insomnia ...

Carin comments on Sep 4, 2018:

It's terrible, isn't it. I used to get that too. Then it went away. No idea why.

I'm feeling lonely tonight.

Carin comments on Sep 3, 2018:

Hi. I'm kind of lonely too.

Why do so many males hover or look at my profile?

Carin comments on Sep 3, 2018:

I've seen a few guys post this same stuff. They often think these men are gay. I have no idea if they are or why they look at your profile. Learn to ignore unwanted male attention just like we women are expected to do.

The most useful asset ??

Carin comments on Sep 3, 2018:

I'm tired of being useful.

Am I the only one here because the other meme groups are full of hate mongers?

Carin comments on Sep 3, 2018:

No, that's why I'm here!

What's your favorite burger place?

Carin comments on Sep 3, 2018:

I like Burger King because their veggie burgers are really good. I also like Subway, which is considered fast food by some. Their veggie sandwich is scrumptious. But I guess we are only talking burgers.

So what did everyone do for Labor Day?

Carin comments on Sep 3, 2018:

I worked.

I joined yesterday and I am just finding my way around.

Carin comments on Sep 3, 2018:

Hi!!

Ok someone tell me should I like this or hate this?

Carin comments on Sep 2, 2018:

I love it! But isn't it a little strange that they only have one person of color in the photo, in the back ground almost?

Hello everyone, it is refreshing to find people out there who share similar principles and lifestyle...

Carin comments on Sep 2, 2018:

Hi! Looking forward to chatting with you too!

Discovering more and more why Benjamin Franklin thought turkeys were smart.

Carin comments on Sep 2, 2018:

Wild turkeys are very intelligent. Domestic livestock, with the possible exception of goats, has been dumbed down by selective breeding to make them more manageable. What breed of turkeys do you have? I have noticed with my chickens that some breeds are definitely a lot smarter than others.

Do nice guys/gals finish last?

Carin comments on Sep 2, 2018:

I think so.

My oldest son had a pet preying mantis when he was a kid.

Carin comments on Sep 2, 2018:

Sorry to hear that! It's sad when pets die, & much more so if you're a kid. But raising kids & animals myself, I came to see pet deaths as educational, & sort of like practice. So maybe they will be a little less scared when someone like their grandparent die, I hope. To have no experience with death prior to losing a family member might make it harder, do you think?

Almost 50, and dating hasn't gotten any easier lol. Full lives tend to make dating a job.

Carin comments on Sep 2, 2018:

Sorry to hear that!

What's wrong with Vegans?

Carin comments on Sep 2, 2018:

Can't address the first part of your question completely, but I think that they are so sensitive to suffering that it really truly distresses them to see those things. Now the plant part is easy--that's what I studied in college. Even if you don't believe in killing plants, fewer would be killed to keep you alive than if they were first "processed" through an animal's body. Cows eat many many pounds of food every day. The soy or corn or whatever could sustain a lot more people if they ate it directly.

Do you say coo-pahn or q-pahn? Milk or melk? Pillow or pellow?

Carin comments on Sep 2, 2018:

The first of each pair. Do you think it's regional or related to social class or something else?

How does this Joseph Campbell quote tie in with your atheism/agnosticism? Or not?

Carin comments on Sep 2, 2018:

I think I love everything he says. & I think that is what I've been searching for most of my life. I feel like I'm getting closer. Or was, till my life got weird about 18 months ago. But still working on it, just more slowly.

The catholic church was recently in the news over child pornography.

Carin comments on Sep 2, 2018:

What a depressing mental image that gave me....

Well the first day of September has come to pass here in NC.

Carin comments on Sep 2, 2018:

I hate the hot humid nights of the east coast. But that is why you have fireflies & we don't. Or so I'm told!

Your evening laugh

Carin comments on Sep 2, 2018:

Anyone is better than what we have.

update Date went great. Kiss went well and it was an awsome idea! Second date coming up.

Carin comments on Sep 2, 2018:

Who proposed the idea of kissing first?

Is your pride getting in the way of your happiness?

Carin comments on Sep 1, 2018:

No, the opposite. Lack of pride (self esteem,self respect) has landed me in so many miserable situations I couldn't begin to count them.

“I’m not looking for a serious relationship.

Carin comments on Sep 1, 2018:

What would you say instead?

"Familiarity breeds a certain lack of consideration", not contempt not quiet. What do you think?

Carin comments on Sep 1, 2018:

I agree! They have to put up with you more than anyone else. Don't make it even harder on them! Also, the best way to teach kids manners & how to treat people is by constant, consistent example.

Motivation:

Carin comments on Sep 1, 2018:

Me.

Some guys have all the luck. lol. :)

Carin comments on Sep 1, 2018:

Must be a great guy! Chickens wont do that to just anyone.

Who is in process of sewing Christmas gifts? What are you making?

Carin comments on Aug 31, 2018:

I'm sewing a few dolls for preschoolers in Africa. They like it if I send a long strip on cloth so they can carry their little babies on the backs just like their moms do.

Legalization of all drugs

Carin comments on Aug 31, 2018:

The 2 deadliest drugs are already legal-alcohol & tobacco.

Okay, who buys lottery tickets?

Carin comments on Aug 31, 2018:

The odds are even worse if the jackpot is high because more people play. But either way, the odds of winning are almost zero.

I was checking my peach tree this morning and I caught these two.

Carin comments on Aug 31, 2018:

Kind of cute!

Funniest advert I ever heard on the radio.

Carin comments on Aug 31, 2018:

Funny & sad at the same time!

What is the difference between hovering and viewing??

Carin comments on Aug 31, 2018:

I have no idea either!

DOG WHISTLES Look at this Florida governors race where the white candidate says "we don't need to...

Carin comments on Aug 31, 2018:

Dispicable people--hoping they get even worse & totally ruin their chances of winning.

Bangladeshi women’s are sexually an physically tortured in the Saudi Arabia.

Carin comments on Aug 31, 2018:

Islam seems to be the worst religion by far for women, but the others aren't great either.

No gods. But maybe lunch companionship?

Carin comments on Aug 31, 2018:

Sounds way more fun!

So do I have to log off every time to earn points for logging in?

Carin comments on Aug 31, 2018:

Oh great question! I WANT that T shirt!!

The U.S. Is Seizing Passports from Hispanic Americans in South Texas and Is Denying Them to Others.

Carin comments on Aug 31, 2018:

I suppose we should not be surprised...but things are getting more & more frightening!!

A pretty good take on some of the major religions.

Carin comments on Aug 31, 2018:

Wow--humor AND insight!

What is your opinion regarding long-distance relationships?

Carin comments on Aug 30, 2018:

I'm hoping the one I'm in works out...

You can't always get what you want You can't always get what you want But just sometime if you ...

Carin comments on Aug 30, 2018:

True.

I've written a one-line poem for my primary partner.

Carin comments on Aug 30, 2018:

Unique & hand made gifts are priceless!

Should I put this on my resume or dating profile?

Carin comments on Aug 30, 2018:

Dating profile but not resume. They don't like people stirring things up.

Why does it say the group is about sewing?

Carin comments on Aug 30, 2018:

Hi everyone. Here are the gifts I sew. They are flannel, washable sanitary napkins for school girls in Africa. Many families, being already too poor to afford enough food, are unable to afford Kotex. The girls miss school every month. They often get behind & drop out of school in discouragement. The link between low levels of female education & early marriage, more babies & continued poverty are well known. But I do it almost as much because I can't imagine them going without something so essential to their personal dignity. I have sent hundreds of pads to Malawi & Kenya.

Them southern baptists tho

Carin comments on Aug 30, 2018:

Yes it is! Nobody likes you!

I need a diary post.

Carin comments on Aug 30, 2018:

How awful! Hope you can get rid of that dream! Maybe hypnosis or EMDR or something?

OK.

Carin comments on Aug 30, 2018:

According to the people who believe this stuff, Lucifer was not created evil but was an angel like the others. But God gave him free will, just like he gave to humans. & everyone was naughty & needs to be punished.

Something I've noticed on almost every Disney film

Carin comments on Aug 30, 2018:

It's also in just about every fairy tail. One of my college teachers explained that fairy tales were originally a way for kids to address the common fear of losing a parent, a common thing indeed in the times when the stories came to be. Then the character has a really rough time but eventually comes out OK. So not so much about the loss of innocence, but to encourage & strengthen a child.

Is your workplace atheist friendly.

Carin comments on Aug 30, 2018:

I am self employed so yes, my workplace is very atheist friendly!

I rejected the god belief long ago.

Carin comments on Aug 30, 2018:

Which TV show?

So this pisses me off.

Carin comments on Aug 30, 2018:

You can just put theirs on the clean table or in a dryer; it's a common thing to do. But I wouldn't turn on the dryer--some stuff could be damaged by that.