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An Oldie But A Goodie, NO TALKING ABOUT GUN CONTROL!!... [youtube.com]
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 17, 2018:
I haven't seen it before. It's good
What are the chances
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 17, 2018:
I only voted to comment. Maybe he is too sensitive, honest or kind for this world.
Dating parameters
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 16, 2018:
I think that once I have any kind of feelings for someone, whether or not I have even ever talked to them, they should not show interest in anyone else.
Dating parameters
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 16, 2018:
Hmmm. I'm not sure. I think it is like "Fight Club". The first rule of dating is that there are no rules.
Dont jump me (read first) I saw a facebook post about that 19 year old dude who felt katy perry had...
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 16, 2018:
https://youtu.be/evWiz6WRbCA
When did you realize you were old? Me: When I would rather stay in on the weekends than going ...
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 16, 2018:
When some smart ass teenager called me "gramps"
Pof
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 16, 2018:
The one on the right is kind of cute:)
Favorite quote
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 16, 2018:
If they were right I'd agree but it's them they know not me. Don't piss on my leg and tell me it's raining. Changes upon changes we remain, more or less, the same. True confidence is not walking into a room and feeling you can stack up against anyone in the room, but rather walking into a room and feeling no need to compare yourself to others. The light in the tunnel might be an oncoming train. Can I have extra fries with that?
A follow up: What makes you a terrible partner?
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 16, 2018:
I'm just too darn nice and perfect. However, my humility makes up for those short comings.
What was the most embarrassing moment you had yet?
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 16, 2018:
Mine was years ago when I was doing my teaching internship. I had strattled a school desk in front of a female high school student. I did this so I would be seated and facing her to help her with her school work. The crotch of my pants completely ripped out. Luckily I was wearing underwear. The teacher had me go to the school nurse who sewed my pants up so I could get through the day.
When my daughter was nine (so, tens years ago) we moved back to Alabama. The long-time friend I was ...
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 16, 2018:
"Zombie Jesus". If it hasn't been done already, somebody needs to make a movie with that plot.
Relationships with Religious people and people who don't share politcal values the same as you do?
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 16, 2018:
Been there. Done that. In the words of Fleetwood Mac, "Ain't never go an back again."
Pretty harsh if you ask me.
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 15, 2018:
Lol
Phone addiction?
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 15, 2018:
I'm addicted. What's wrong with that?
What makes you unique?
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 15, 2018:
I think my twisted sense of humor. At least I hope it is, my entire self esteem and image is based on being unique. I would be devastated to find that is not true.
Who else has high blood pressure? How do you control it?
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 15, 2018:
I stop looking at your photo. Damn, I'm smooth:)
Why is so difficult for people to ask a lady / man out on a date? Is that we fear rejection..., we ...
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 15, 2018:
Is this a rhetorical question?
Unlike McDonald's, Burger King has standards!
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 15, 2018:
One overdose shame on you. Two overdoses shame on us.
What is your response when someone says “god bless you” after you sneeze? I usually say ...
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 15, 2018:
I do have a hope society will move away from religion, or at least question the idea that God is a given. I'm not an asshole, but that is a perfect time to let it be known that not everyone is down with this God concept. Your responses sound good to me. It's not an act of kindness to say "God bless you" to an atheist. Why do we have to pretend it is?
What brings you joy?
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 15, 2018:
Smashing Cheetos and watching SpongeBob Square pants
Throwing a birthday party soon and I would like some of the groups very favorite recipes for ...
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 15, 2018:
3 cases of Corona and two dozen limes
Can people change?
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 15, 2018:
Yes. But it is the exception. Which is why it's cool to see. Change is simple but it's hard
Have you ever tried meditation? I personally enjoy meditation. Mostly, because it sharpens my ...
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 15, 2018:
Been doing visualization meditation for 40 years. It has helped me to stay sane enough to function.
Looking back on the "One that got away", if you have one, what was a sign of impending failure that ...
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 15, 2018:
Every relationship I had that ended, and I was heartbroken about, time showed was not a good match to begin with. I don't regret any of them, had any of them not occurred, events would not have played out in a way that led to me having the children I have.
What's your favorite stage in a courtship?
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 14, 2018:
I'm not really sure but I know the pre break up stage is the worst
Alcoholic insanity. I have heard that it's quite common for a person's character to change when ...
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 14, 2018:
It could be due to long term withdrawal symptoms, or it could be he was using alcohol to mask mental illness symptoms, and now that he is not drinking they are manifesting themselves. If it is "post acute withdrawal symptoms" they should gradually decrease over time, the longer he goes without alcohol.
How do you Develop a Personal Drive?
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 14, 2018:
I have the same problem. I think mine comes partly from dystemia, but also partly from not being competitive. I've never been into status, power, money or acquiring material possessions. However, would be good to keep my apartment and car cleaner, and keep up more with research in my vocational field
Excluding things like drugs and alcohol, what is the dumbest thing you ever spent money on? mine was...
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 14, 2018:
I once spent 500 dollars to have the spline removed from my ferret. He died a few weeks later. I am not now, and was not then, anywhere near rich. The little guy didn't even like me.
An Update and a Thank you! Thank you to everyone who listened to me vent about my daughter and ...
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 14, 2018:
As a parent, and even though there is much work to do, that must be a sigh of relief.
How does having power change a person? Does it corrupt?
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 14, 2018:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.theatlantic.com/amp/article/528711/ An article on the neurological effects of power and how it decreases empathy
Changing history
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 14, 2018:
I wouldn't have eaten the whole pizza last night. It would of helped me in the near future in that I would not have to go to work in a half hour with a tummy ache.:(
I'll just put 4 more funny ones.
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 14, 2018:
I especially liked the abstinence being 99.999 percent effective
I struggle to find my place on earth, my purpose for being. I’ve struggled with this since I was ...
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 14, 2018:
This may or may not apply to your situation. Make sure not to let others define who we are suppose to be. We get caught up in that. I've gotten caught up in that. When we do that it usually leaves us lost, not sure who we are.
Is advertising immoral?
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 14, 2018:
Yes! Thanks for the post. The manipulation of marketing has irritated me for years, decades. I am of the belief that humans should strive to have more honesty with each other. Advertising is the opposite of that.
Can You Name One Politician Outside Of Your Own Party And Make A Positive Comment About This Person....
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 13, 2018:
Not sure if dead politicians count, but Ronald Reagan has a cool son.
This is a question for those who have had strong feelings for another but could never get those ...
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 13, 2018:
I've been there. Most of us have been there. I think we often fall in that trap when we think the other person will make us feel better about ourselves. If they only loved us back we would have more worth. Then when they don't love us back we feel we have no worth. I'll take it a step further and say if we did win over their hearts, it would only be a matter of time until our boosted self esteem went back down. I'm not an expert on love, but pretty sure authentic love is reciprocal, everything else is just an illusion, even if it feels so real.
What was the most expensive clothing item you owned and how much did it cost?
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 13, 2018:
A five hundred dollar suit my sister bought me for interviews after I graduated from college. The darn thing must have shrunk because it's too small now.
Custody hearing over atheism
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 13, 2018:
I've heard of these cases before. We have a ways to go. Anyone who says atheists should keep their beliefs to themselves so as not to disturb others is being naive. Religion is not harmless
Still new to this site and couldnt help but notice how the people here represent a good cross ...
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 13, 2018:
Wisconsin represents! Yah der hay
If you are listening to the voices in your head.. Who's talking?? ?
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 13, 2018:
The devil
Can You Name One Politician Outside Of Your Own Party And Make A Positive Comment About This Person....
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 13, 2018:
John McCaiin did vote for the terrible "tax reform" bill the GOPers pushed through
Risk everything to be happy my friends. The price is worth the reward.
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 13, 2018:
"Most men live lifes of quiet desperation.". Thoreau
Well I'll be! Level 8 gets you a t-shirt!!! Thanks Admin!!!
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 13, 2018:
I've heard at level ten you get a brand new car!
So I’ll just come out and say it, I just joined today and here’s why.. Live in Boca and just ...
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 13, 2018:
I can do better. I'm packing and getting my cats together right now. We can stay where ever you and your family have room. I think I can get on my feet and move out within a few months. Boca Raton sounds good, and it's still freezing here in northern Wisconsin. I have to get out of this frozen hell hole!!
Can You Name One Politician Outside Of Your Own Party And Make A Positive Comment About This Person....
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 13, 2018:
That's easy. I'm still a registered Democrat and Bernie Sanders is an Independent. I can go on all day about things I like about him. Otherwise, John Kasich was the nicest and most personable of the GOP clown car in their POTUS primaries. Didn't seem his policies necssarly alligned with that though.
I had a male boss about 20 years ago come in early most mornings to discuss our beliefs, he was a ...
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 13, 2018:
Yes, judging blocks understanding.
Is what you do professionally now, what you wanted to do when you were growing up? Is what you are ...
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 13, 2018:
My mentor in life was my psychology teacher in high school. I would journal and he would comment on my writings. I would look forward to his responses. Sometimes we would talk after school. He got me started on meditation through visualization. I was a lost puppy in those days. I'm not sure I would have made it without him. Later in college I had a gentle soul I saw for counseling. He wasn't as big an influence but kept me going. These two men solidified my desire to be a therapist, so yes I'm doing what I've wanted to do since I was a teen. It is much more than just a job. Am I good at it? Depends who you ask. Hopefully I'm half as good as the gentlemen mentioned above.
... You're welcome!
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 13, 2018:
You and me both. We need a handicap....and a cheeseburger
Is there such a thing as too much kindness?
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 13, 2018:
Being kind does not mean being a doormat or just trying to get rid of guilt or discomfort
"The Kids Are Marching" (2/24/18 Kingston NY) | Lewis ... [youtube.com]
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 13, 2018:
Got to love Lewis Black. I give this a thousand likes
Guilt Trips
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 13, 2018:
I'll let you know if I ever experience that guilt
Human struggle
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 13, 2018:
Good question but I have to think on that for a loooong time
I apparently am not able to do polls yet. Or at least haven’t figured out how to. So I’m curious...
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 12, 2018:
Still a democratic socialist
Puppet molestation
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 12, 2018:
Or a very thorough prostate exam
Fear, is it a motivator in your life?
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 12, 2018:
Fear is a strong and deeply ingrained motivator. However, unless you are in physical danger, I believe in the long run it is usually a harmful motivator.
Do you support Trump?
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 12, 2018:
He isn't my president. I will show him respect when he starts respecting this country and it's citizens. He lies to us all the time and has no concern for anyone or anything other than his big fragile ego.
What is the sweetest thing you can say to a woman? Or some of the best compliments that ladies love ...
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 12, 2018:
After reading these comments I think I have it down. Compliment their brain, compliment their brain, ok.... "Wow, you have an enormous head. You must have a big brain in there.".
God vs santa clause?
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 12, 2018:
I would just say when you get old and die santa comes and turns your lifeless corps into toys for little boys and girls.
Teachers + guns. I think it's a shit idea. What do you think?
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 12, 2018:
I think this country is going crazy.
Some of my paintings that I am taking to hang at the Cobra today. The Cobra is not a gallery but it ...
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 12, 2018:
I'm no expert on art but damn, it looks good.
What is the end goal of human existence in your opinion?
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 12, 2018:
Death?
I have been sort of estranged from my family for a while. The main reason is that they are Christain...
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 12, 2018:
I suppose it would be a bad idea to just go along with it all, but then sign her birthday card, "from your agnostic/atheist son."
It's Long Been a Man's World. Can Women Save It? - TheHumanist.com
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 12, 2018:
They couldn't do worse
Happiness
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 12, 2018:
Exercise and sometimes agnostic.com. And my kids can get me away from things I'm depressed about. Fishing used to be it but starting to get tired of it
My desire to travel is kicking in again. I would love to go somewhere by railroad. Suggestions? ...
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 12, 2018:
I don't know but if you find a way one can take a train from Central Wisconsin to Denver will you let me know? Have to take that trip with kids again this summer. I've taken it so many times. I'd like to do it by train sometime, and sleep in one of those sleeper cars, but can't find a way. I could even leave from southern Wisconsin.
The Ku Klux Klan is slowly rising again | New York Post
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 12, 2018:
I think the election of Obama probably had something to do with this. It's almost predictable that a backlash from the election of the first African-American President was going to occur. It brought an uneasiness to many white people. They denied the real reason it made them uneasy, and instead conjured up the idea that they were the ones being discriminated against. Also, us whites are on our way to no longer being the majority. The day of having privilege is coming to an end, also scary for many whites. I am not a religious or spiritual person, but it seems humanity is always faced with a choice of fear or love. Hate is just the byproduct of fear.
Reminder! It's Tournament Time! Fill out a March Madness bracket and join the Agnostics group....
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 12, 2018:
I couldn't get past the first two rounds. Couldn't get the next rounds to show up on my screen
Thought for Today OR if you want what you had back...but on that journey I laid a new course, took ...
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 11, 2018:
And thus get out of the comfort zone
What's been occupying your free time lately?
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 11, 2018:
Not sure. I just kind of piss it away.
Women, are we being too picky about the men we date?
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 11, 2018:
Oh yah. One more thing. Better to be picky than get with someone in hopes of changing them. That rarely ends up well
Women, are we being too picky about the men we date?
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 11, 2018:
Better to be picky now than break a heart later
Women, are we being too picky about the men we date?
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 11, 2018:
Oh, this should be good
Does it bother anyone else when people thank a deity for their recovery over doctors? When something...
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 11, 2018:
Like I've talked to with someone else on a different thread.. Can't wait until a coach or player starts cursing God after they lose a game. "We played hard but that son of a bitch, God, still willed us to lose. Screw you, God, and your illegitimate son, Jesus!"
What do you like most about yourself?
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 11, 2018:
My consistency to my values
Some people seek the truth. Some seek confirmation Some just seek recreation. Some are not in a ...
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 11, 2018:
I like it
I have just joined this site...hello everyone. As I am at a Level 1, just what do the levels mean ...
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 11, 2018:
Just send me 500 dollars in cash or a money order. I will send you the details if you wish.
The psychological damage endured by America's youth is at times—irreversible. As parents, if you ...
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 11, 2018:
As a parent, knowing parents do that to their kids, makes me sad and angry at the same time.
Is this a Dating Site, or another Facebook?
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 11, 2018:
It's like FB with more reason and less drama. People hook up on FB all the time. I know two couples who got divorced over FB romances, so I know it happens
Does Evolutionary Psychology Explain Why We Believe in God? "In addition to these innate ...
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 11, 2018:
So it was advantageous, in a survival of the fittest way, to be programmed to look for some human or non-human animal as the cause of events around us? God and angels have many human like qualities so they would fit into that "life form like" cause we are programmed to look for?
Do you want a: 1.peaceful, homebody relationship with someone, 2.a wild adventure companion,...
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 11, 2018:
#5.) I just want someone to take care of me :) Life is soooo hard:(
Should public nudity be legal?
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 11, 2018:
Yes. Is the human body so disgusting we have to make laws to prevent it being seen? No wonder we have so many problems around sex in this world. That being said, it's too late for me. I'm not showing my naked ass in public.
If you could construct your own set of "Commandments" for humankind, what would they be?
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 11, 2018:
Stop putting narcissistic assholes in charge.
How do men feel about females asking them out, or females making the first move?
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 11, 2018:
Well it sounds very nice, but last time it happened one of her big old male friends was waiting around the corner. He bopped me on the noggin, knocked me out and took all my money. I hope they enjoyed that four dollars and thirty two cents.
Don't you want somebody to love??
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 11, 2018:
I love my kids, my cats, my alcoholic best friend, and sometimes my sister and sometimes myself. A person has only so much love to spread cause it's like jelly on toast, if the breads too big the jelly is too thin. I'm not sure what the hell I'm talking about.
Why is it so difficult to connect?
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 11, 2018:
If you can find a support group, in addition to online groups, that might really help with the depression and feelings of isolation. I hope this place helps. Hang in there. Life changes.
How long has it been?
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 11, 2018:
5 years. I don't think I'm up to such a thing again
Dining Out
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 10, 2018:
Have you ever had a vegan burger. Made from real vegans!
How about a member that's leaning more towards socialism against both of the 2 party establishment? ...
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 10, 2018:
I like Democratic Socialism. Capitalism is going to bring America down at this rate.
What would you ask for, if you knew the answer was yes?
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 10, 2018:
To have the ability to know everything
How else do you break societal conventions, besides being agnostic? Examples: I eat only health ...
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 10, 2018:
I don't strive for power or material possessions. Oh, and sometimes I wear my shirt inside out, but that's by mistake.
At what age should a woman stop wearing short skirts?
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 10, 2018:
Whatever age she lives to be
If you're not married, would you marry again? Never say never, of course. But at the moment I can't ...
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 9, 2018:
If I ever decide to get married again, please shoot me in the head.
New Member here. I know this subject is probably brought up all the time, but here goes. How did/do ...
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 9, 2018:
Nice dress, honey. I'm an atheist.
Do you believe in an after life or does consciousness end when you die
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 9, 2018:
I'll let you know
What is one thing about your spouse or girl/boyfriend that is a source of pride?
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 9, 2018:
That she is invisible to everyone but me
What has 4 letters, sometimes has 9 letters, but never has 5 letters.
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 9, 2018:
"I see what you did" has fourteen letters.
Self Care
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 9, 2018:
I go to my alternate reality in my mind
Do you "collect" anything? What is it, and do you display your collection?
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 9, 2018:
I used to display it, but I learned that human skulls make people feel uneasy.
Is anyone else dreading the end of daylight savings time? It seems to take me longer every year to ...
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 9, 2018:
I love it. It is a reminder that spring is here, baby!
What is your opinion on Wiccans?
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 9, 2018:
I knew one! She did have special powers. She cast a spell on me and made me a sad, lonely and bitter man. It took over a month to break that spell.

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