Where are all the 48-54 yo atheist liberal divorced men with kids within 30 miles hiding?

mikecagain comments on Sep 7, 2018:

That's what brought me to this site. There are few like minded people near where I live.

See? It can happen!

mikecagain comments on Sep 7, 2018:

"Love of your life" or "fine feathered friend"?

I know we've discussed the idea of soul mates before; however, this is my reality:

mikecagain comments on Sep 7, 2018:

I don't believe in souls or soul mates. I believe relationships take work. And you try to find someone that makes the work worthwhile. And I know it's just a meme, but I'd love to see the scientific definition of "soul mate" to allow for the actual study of such a thing.

[youtube.com] Spreading the love.

mikecagain comments on Sep 7, 2018:

I believe in miracles... (an odd thing to say at an agnostic site) ;)

The motherfuckin Misfits - Hybrid Moments [youtu.be]

mikecagain comments on Sep 7, 2018:

You're on a roll. Hitting all the classics tonight.

I think I'll end my night with some classic Clash. Tommy Gun. RIP Joe Strummer. [youtu.be]

mikecagain comments on Sep 7, 2018:

Joe Strummer left us too soon.

Saw these guys (and doll) at a punk fest in Charlotte NC 1992 (or 3) Good times... [youtube.com]

mikecagain comments on Sep 7, 2018:

This one is new to me. Thanks for sharing!

Bryan Adams - All for Love....Live from The Royal Albert Hall [youtu.be]

mikecagain comments on Sep 7, 2018:

I forgot how good he can sing. Haven't listened to him in a while, but I liked him way back in the Cuts Like a Knife days.

I am an introvert! My line of work requires me to meet new people everyday and be proactive at ...

mikecagain comments on Sep 6, 2018:

I recommend a career as a Software Engineer, Software Developer, or some other type of computer programmer. It's a field that almost seems like it was created by introverts. Or actually, I think it quite literally was created by introverts. :)

Bjork is usually a bit to poppy for me, but every now and then she has something a little more ...

mikecagain comments on Sep 6, 2018:

I've always liked Bjork. I liked her work with the Sugarcubes too. I always found her work to be more creative and original than standard mainstream pop.

NIRVANA anyone? [youtu.be]

mikecagain comments on Sep 6, 2018:

No need to ask. You are free to post Nirvana anytime. :)

Let's try this again.

mikecagain comments on Sep 6, 2018:

For comparison. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F_6IjeprfEs

Yay Oct 7th new series debut

mikecagain comments on Sep 6, 2018:

Yes!

And now I'm awake... [youtube.com]

mikecagain comments on Sep 6, 2018:

Always liked Al's cover of this song.

FFS... [youtube.com]

mikecagain comments on Sep 6, 2018:

Great song. My favorite by the Smiths.

I know this isn't really the group for this, but this and one other are the two I am most ...

mikecagain comments on Sep 5, 2018:

Good for you! Stick with it and get it done! I followed a similar path as you. Some off and on college early in my career. I was 42 when I finally decided to go back to school and get it done. I was 46 when I finally graduated with my BS in Computer Science.

In this group of movies which one is your number one favorite? Mine is Avatar ????

mikecagain comments on Sep 5, 2018:

Any group of anything anywhere that includes Star Wars, the choice is Star Wars. After that, the next obvious choice is the Matrix.

Here is one that I haven't heard in quite a while.

mikecagain comments on Sep 5, 2018:

Great choice. I was a big fan of theirs as well. Mountain Song, Ocean Size, and Had a Dad were the ones that initially jumped out at me when I first lsitened to Nothing's Shocking. The whole album was great though.

An observation… I grew up in a family where feelings were always suspect.

mikecagain comments on Sep 5, 2018:

Commmunicating through the Internet isn't easy. Emotions can be difficult to convey in plain text. More often than not, the emotion conveyed is what the reader reads into it, and not what the writer intended. And then there are all the online trolls who just enjoy being anonymously mean. Rereading a post is a good idea. Asking questions or asking for clarification when a post seems off to you is also helpful. On the flip side, communicating while hiding behind a computer screen is perfect for the socially shy. It can make it easier for people to express things they might otherwise be uncomfortable expressing. But it is easy to be misunderstood in this forum.

Usually see this type of thing at Walmart.

mikecagain comments on Sep 5, 2018:

I think I can. I think I can. I think I can.

Opening night of the 2018-2019 Metallica Hardwired to Self Destruct worldwide tour, this past Sunday...

mikecagain comments on Sep 5, 2018:

Share more!

Someone mentioned the DC shows, anyone watching the Marvel based ones?

mikecagain comments on Sep 4, 2018:

I like most of the comic based shows. Agents of Shield is really good. Do you watch the Netflix Marvel shows?

I chatted with an Egyptian atheist on FB.

mikecagain comments on Sep 4, 2018:

It's both sad and disturbing how some people are able to use religion to justify that kind of action.

Can't say one without the other.

mikecagain comments on Sep 4, 2018:

I'm not a WV fan, but that Family Circle meme is fricking hilarious.

I heard this today driving down the interstate, it took me back.

mikecagain comments on Sep 4, 2018:

AC/DC was one of my earliest introductions to hard rock. And taking nothing away from everything Brian Johnson accomplished, but I really enjoyed the Bon Scott era of AC/DC.

Amazing article about Devo with videos! [noisey.vice.com]

mikecagain comments on Sep 4, 2018:

Cool article. Thanks for sharing.

The Bitch Fight of Canary Wharf [youtu.be]

mikecagain comments on Sep 3, 2018:

Love that one.

You have six words ?

mikecagain comments on Sep 3, 2018:

I'm sure this is your fault.

Happy Labor Day.

mikecagain comments on Sep 3, 2018:

Yep. Don't ever lose the right to organize.

A guy with “good Christian values” who is “a child of God” looking for a calm, feminine ...

mikecagain comments on Sep 3, 2018:

Lol. How strange. I'm sure he believed he could convert you.

My latest Coffee Meets Bagel. COME ON, REALLY?

mikecagain comments on Sep 3, 2018:

It's like the scammers aren't even trying to look real anymore.

I'm going sane ??

mikecagain comments on Sep 3, 2018:

Well, that's no fun.

An old favorite of mine. [youtu.be]

mikecagain comments on Sep 3, 2018:

Ah yes! Some Flotsam and Jetsam! Well done, sir. Was this one when Jason Newsted was still with with them?

Is this fair? We all know he can't read....

mikecagain comments on Sep 3, 2018:

Too funny.

[songhanhphuc.org] Interesting reading. Take it as a grain of salt.

mikecagain comments on Sep 3, 2018:

I agree. No point in being with someone just for the sake of being with someone.

Never Gets Old Lmao! [youtube.com]

mikecagain comments on Sep 2, 2018:

It gets lost in translation to us Americans, but I'm sure those are very nice terms in Scottland.

The ability to make goosebumps rise at will. Am I the only one able to do this?

mikecagain comments on Sep 2, 2018:

That's a new one to me. Cool party trick.

I'm so tired of mixed signals.

mikecagain comments on Sep 2, 2018:

I would suggest no more hiking and a lot more movies. :)

All I can say is, "Get your hands off me you damn dirty ape!".

mikecagain comments on Sep 2, 2018:

A big thumbs up to the Howard Zinn quote.

ZOSO [youtube.com]

mikecagain comments on Sep 2, 2018:

Nice selection.

So, I feel that it's update time: I am now in the third weekend in a row with my child.

mikecagain comments on Sep 2, 2018:

You're entitled to your fair time with your daughter. Even if you're just hanging gout and don't have anything specific planned, you aren't obligated to give up your time with her just because her mother has decided that she wants to do something with her. It is still your time. She certainly can plan these things on her days with your daughter. On the other hand, it is good to try to be flexible and accomodating, for your daughter's sake. But that's on the understanding that if you give up time one day, she'll be willing to do the same for you another day.

It's worth it. Go on now! [youtube.com]

mikecagain comments on Sep 2, 2018:

I think I've heard everything tonight. Fun song.

update Date went great. Kiss went well and it was an awsome idea! Second date coming up.

mikecagain comments on Sep 2, 2018:

That's great!

Eddie Vedder - Hard Sun [youtu.be]

mikecagain comments on Sep 2, 2018:

Talented guy. I can see him aging gracefully and having a long Springsteen like career.

Motorbikes were first mentioned in the bible.

mikecagain comments on Sep 2, 2018:

And when they thought the lord's voice boomed like thunder, it was probably just a Harley.

Powerful song [youtu.be]

mikecagain comments on Sep 2, 2018:

This is the song that really broke it out for them, wasn't it? Such a great album. I remember having Ten, and Nevermind for that matter, before everything really exploded. You could tell right away that both of those albums were really good. But nobody could predict what was about to happen.

When Joe Cocker was on SNL and John Belushi came on stage with him - Feelin' Alright ...

mikecagain comments on Sep 1, 2018:

I remember that. Hillarious moment.

Perfect date. Lol.

mikecagain comments on Sep 1, 2018:

Unfortunately she prefers MM/DD/YYYY, so they aren't compatible.

D.R.I. tour dates 2018 European and North American dates

mikecagain comments on Sep 1, 2018:

Nothing in the Midwest. :(

I have a date tonight.

mikecagain comments on Sep 1, 2018:

You should get the sex out of the way first too. Then over dinner you can talk about what you liked and didn't like. No? ;)

Love doesn't hurt? thoughts...

mikecagain comments on Sep 1, 2018:

Yep. Agree. It hurts when you lose it because you realize what you're missing when it's gone.

Second post tonight from me ......Mary J Blige and U2 - One [youtu.be]

mikecagain comments on Sep 1, 2018:

Very nice!

Going hungryhttps://youtu.be/VUb450Alpps

mikecagain comments on Sep 1, 2018:

Still love this song. Cornell and Vedder, such a great vocal pairing. Their voices compliment each other real well.

Pretty cool version (video is useless) of Jane's Addiction performing "Had a Dad." [youtube.com]

mikecagain comments on Sep 1, 2018:

Very cool. I was a big Janes fan during that time period. I saw them perform at UWM, before they really hit it big. Great show.

Mine is the theme song to Jaws ???

mikecagain comments on Sep 1, 2018:

It'd be nice to have Darth Vader's theme play to alert when someone bad walks into the room.

Hello all.

mikecagain comments on Sep 1, 2018:

Welcome aboard. It sounds like you have a lot of challenges ahead. Stay strong. My son is ASD as well (and also ADHD). He is verbal. So not the same challenge as what you are dealing with. I find ASD kids to be pretty awesome at times. Enjoy the good moments. There is an autism group here that you may want to check out.

Does anyone have suggestions to add to my work playlist?

mikecagain comments on Sep 1, 2018:

Check out the group Decidedly Atheist Songs. Lots of great suggestions in there. This is still one of my favorites. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tzlc-KsIUIU

SKA FRIDAY! Covers all day long! 'Girls Just Wanna Have Fun' by Party Like It's.

mikecagain comments on Sep 1, 2018:

Ozzy done ska style = Skazzy?

It's finally here!

mikecagain comments on Sep 1, 2018:

The Badgers with their highest preseason ranking since 2000. AP Top 25 poll 1. Alabama (42 first-place votes) 2. Clemson (18 ) 3. Georgia 4. Wisconsin (1) 5. Ohio State 6. Washington 7. Oklahoma 8. Miami 9. Auburn 10. Penn State 11. Michigan State 12. Notre Dame 13. Stanford 14. Michigan 15. USC 16. TCU 17. West Virginia 18. Mississippi State 19. Florida State 20. Virginia Tech 21. UCF 22. Boise State 23. Texas 24. Oregon 25. LSU

Enjoy every moment ??

mikecagain comments on Sep 1, 2018:

A shame it takes some of us half our lives to figure this out.

I love the fact that bands like pantera, alice in chains, tool, and many others go great with a ...

mikecagain comments on Sep 1, 2018:

I was driving home from dropping off the kids tonight when This Love came on the radio. I thought, damn I need to post this one to the Metal/Punk group whenI get home. I suppose I can settle for I'm Broken. It's a good song too.

I don’t watch network tv as a rule but my daughter watches This Is Us and I caught an episode on ...

mikecagain comments on Aug 31, 2018:

I started binge watching Westworld. I'm going to finally give GOT a shot after that. I like to binge watch some stuff over the Summer. During the Fall and Winter there are a handful of weekly shows that I keep up with. Walking Dead being the main one.

since I've been on a 'stuff I haven't heard in a long time' kick, I thought I'd post some more.

mikecagain comments on Aug 31, 2018:

Good stuff. Ozzy's first two solo albums were Randy Rhodes albums as much a they were Ozzy albums. Amazing guitar work on both of them.

I'm really starting to like this group![youtu.be]

mikecagain comments on Aug 31, 2018:

It sounds like Slayer replaced Tom Araya with a children's choir. :)

Behind Blue Eyes. [youtube.com]

mikecagain comments on Aug 31, 2018:

Who's Next is a great album. Classic songs all the way through.

Danzig was released 30 years ago yesterday.

mikecagain comments on Aug 31, 2018:

Great choice. I had this album when it came out. Don't have it anymore, and haven't listened to it in a while. But I'm pretty sure Twist of Cain was my favorite off of it. At least I remember that being the song that prompted me to buy the album. I'll have to look this album up and give it another listen. Thanks for psoting this. And sorry for your loss.

Reason 23 why I'm dateless.

mikecagain comments on Aug 30, 2018:

Dude, you got a compliment on the hair. Run with it. Go back to that supermarket every day and parade that hair up and down the aisles, waiting for more compliments to roll in. ;)

What kind of festering fucktangled, outdated, rape culture, no responsibility having, Trump ...

mikecagain comments on Aug 30, 2018:

I know this isn't really the same thing. But on the note of trying to regulate or blame how a woman dresses. My 11 year old daughter is starting middle school. She was going through the list of rules and regulations, and of course the dress code. I forget the exact wording, but it was something about not being able to wear sleeveless or strapless shirts, or shirts that come off the shoulder. The reason given was because it is too distracting. To which my daughter replies "Seriously? My shoulders are distracting? Dad, are my shoulders distracting? That is the dumbest thing I've ever heard".

This is one of my favorite albums.

mikecagain comments on Aug 30, 2018:

Very cool. You should post the track list.

What kind of festering fucktangled, outdated, rape culture, no responsibility having, Trump ...

mikecagain comments on Aug 30, 2018:

That is seriously messed up. Where do these people come from?

This is really KILLER! [youtube.com]

mikecagain comments on Aug 30, 2018:

Lol. You win! THIS is the best thing I've seen today. Love it. I'm sharing this on facebook.

I called to wish my grandma a happy birthday, she's 90, devout Catholic.

mikecagain comments on Aug 30, 2018:

I don't talk about treligion with my parents and they don't know how I really feel. In their mind they see me as a non practicing catholic who doesn't go to church. And they bug me about it sometimes, but for the most part they let it be. If I told them my true beliefs as a non believer, they would feel like failures as parents, and based on their own religious beliefs would have to accept that I am doomed for some eternal punishment. I see know reason to burden them with that. I let them believe what they want to believe. They can believe in their religious myths. And they can believe that I still hold onto a part of that. It doesn't bother me or affect me.

Another one i haven't heard of in a long time.

mikecagain comments on Aug 30, 2018:

Ronnie had such a powerful voice. I remember buying this album when it first came out. Good stuff.

Another from Snow Patrol.

mikecagain comments on Aug 30, 2018:

I still like this song, even though it was "our song" for my ex and I. My brother played a solo version of this song at our wedding reception.

Right left right wrong?

mikecagain comments on Aug 30, 2018:

Some cars gonna get wet.

Us.

mikecagain comments on Aug 30, 2018:

Nice! Very well done! That must be fun for you to watch. Got any more to share?

Cool way they superimposed him into "They Live".

mikecagain comments on Aug 29, 2018:

I came here to chew bubblegum and kick ass... and I'm all out of bubblegum.

Thought this one was appropriate for the site... [youtube.com]

mikecagain comments on Aug 29, 2018:

Yep. Good choice.

Probably one of Aerosmith's heaviest songs Round and Round [youtu.be]

mikecagain comments on Aug 29, 2018:

Ah yes, I remember this one. Hadn't heard it in a long time. I had to Google it because I couldn't remember what album it was from. Toys in the Attic. Still my favorite album by them.

How do you feel when you are talking/texting someone often.

mikecagain comments on Aug 29, 2018:

Hmm, so you are on the same dating site, and everytime you see this person online, you would also have to be online. My guess is that on some other message board, somewhere out in the interwebs, there is another thread very similar to this one started by that other person. ;)

Can a relationship go back?

mikecagain comments on Aug 29, 2018:

Nope. You lose a level of trust that you can't get back.

The Runaways - Cherry Bomb [youtu.be]

mikecagain comments on Aug 29, 2018:

Cool to see the old footage of them.

Pig Destroyer- Girl in the Slayer Jacket [youtu.be]

mikecagain comments on Aug 29, 2018:

This is what you relax to after having a few drinks at the bar? ;) Great choice.

[youtube.com] hog jowl bitches!! <3

mikecagain comments on Aug 29, 2018:

Yes. Some classic industrial. Love it! Atkins is so great on the drums.

[youtube.com]

mikecagain comments on Aug 29, 2018:

I always liked this one. One of my favorites by the Talking Heads.

Apartment living.

mikecagain comments on Aug 29, 2018:

Politely talk to them. I would bet they don't even realize how noisy it is for you.

Pick your top three that you liked from this group. Mine are Braveheart, Gladiator and Star Trek.

mikecagain comments on Aug 29, 2018:

It's a good group of movies, but my top choices would fall in the Sci Fi genre. Star Wars, Aliens, Star Trek.

I just had to post this ????

mikecagain comments on Aug 29, 2018:

Well I'll be damned. Proof of the existence of god. There it is.

Cornell had one of the great rock n' roll voices. [youtu.be]

mikecagain comments on Aug 28, 2018:

Agree on the voice. There wasn't another like him. So many good Soungarden songs that we could post.

Up on the Hollow Hill - Robert Plant [youtu.be]

mikecagain comments on Aug 28, 2018:

Cool tune. Plant never gets old.

Another question for the group.

mikecagain comments on Aug 28, 2018:

I'm sure he was just trying to be funny. Find some light hearted way to tell him you got the joke but missed the real flower smell and I'm sure the next delivery will be real flowers.

How I love Mike Nesshttps://youtu.be/vEHqHUMjktU

mikecagain comments on Aug 28, 2018:

Love Mike Ness and Social D! Thanks for the post!

What would Spock do? [80sradio.iheart.com]

mikecagain comments on Aug 28, 2018:

I can't even imagine... 1. Jingle Bells Feat. Henry Rollins

Is this for all music or just certain types?

mikecagain comments on Aug 28, 2018:

It's been very eclectic in here so far. I think that's the fun of it.

Other dating sites.

mikecagain comments on Aug 28, 2018:

Jesus Loves You? Is that a site to get a date with Jesus?

Violent Femmes - Blister in the Sun [youtu.be]

mikecagain comments on Aug 27, 2018:

Milwaukee's own Violent Femmes! :) I've seen them so many times live. They are a lot of fun.

Scum Of The Earth - The Munsters theme song [youtu.

mikecagain comments on Aug 27, 2018:

Loved the Munsters. :) I hadn't heard this remake before. The guitar work on here is pretty awesome. There is some pop song that my kids listen that annoys me to no end, that samples the Munsters theme. This version can make me appreciate the song again. Thanks!

Another one that I haven't heard in a long damn time.

mikecagain comments on Aug 27, 2018:

Wow. I haven't heard S.O.D. in forever. Good stuff.

Which one is harder?

mikecagain comments on Aug 27, 2018:

My first thought was to say letting go. But for my divorce, it seemed that letting go came easy once we both came to the conclusion and admitted we needed to divorce. For a number of reasons, starting over has been the biggest struggle.

Black Sabbath -War Pigs [youtu.be]

mikecagain comments on Aug 27, 2018:

You can never go wrong with Sabbath.