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Yes, I stopped seeing it as PC soon after it became an insult. It's simply respect for other human beings.

Stacey48 8 July 1
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Perfectly expressed. As soon as someone starts talking about "political correctness" or making finger quotes, you know he is about to make an ass of himself.

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"not becoming" the person or the "thing" you hate is basic civility IMHO.

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I see it as another moment to treat others how you would wish to be treated. Civilizations can disintegrate quickly without basic civility. That being said, I will only be respectful if I am treated with respect.

LB67 Level 7 July 1, 2018
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I believe it is just good manners not to offend others, however sometimes otherwise well meaning people fall foul of the politically correct brigade unintentionally. I will admit that I am of the older generation and know that some of the terminology that was in common useage when I was younger was quite shocking looking back on it now. We used words that were racist and belittling of those with mental health or physical disabilities. Thankfully society is much more enlightened, but in some ways I think p.c. has got way beyond reason. for instance a blackboard is now called a chalkboard, if this has to be so then do we still have blackberries and blackbirds? I took over from a male chairman of a business group and they wanted to me either chairperson or just ”chair”, both of which were unacceptable to me, the latter is just ludicrous. I insisted that I be called chairman or madam chairman when they were addressing me directly. In the same way mankind must now be called humankind. This I believe is political correctness gone mad.

Madam chairman is just as silly.

@Ellatynemouth I didnt’ say I was Madam Chairman, I said wanted to be called Chairman, just as my predecessor was, and a woman who was chairman of an organisation had been traditionally called Madam Chairman for more that a century when she was being addressed directly, I wasn’t making up a silly title. What I wanted was not to be called some new politically correct name such as an inanimate object i.e. “ a chair”, which is not even silly it is insulting. If Hilary Clinton had become President she would have been addressed as Madam President. Do you understand the analogy?

@Marionville

You are blaming people for a problem that is not of their making.

It takes very little effort to become accustomed to 'chair'. Personally, I would be grateful for the olive branch.

@Ellatynemouth We will just have to differ on this one. Your opinion is valued that’s why we are all here, to take on board other points of view. However, this was not a hypothetical argument it was an actual event that happened in my life, and I find it surprising that you think I should just have accepted being called a chair. I didn’t and I was never called that, but just plain Chairman. So they actually saw my point of view even if you don’t.

Nah, I think "blackboard" lost favor when they became green and white, with the invention of the porcelain coating in the 1980s. If you are also silently grumping about "slingshot" or "Brazil nuts", you are an actual racist. Get with it, Marionville, what we call things and what we name things do reflect our values and we should try to listen to our better angels. Is your problem with the term "chairperson" or are you actually holding on to expired notions of women in society?

@TravelinTom You could not be more wrong, I am most certainly not racist and when I said we used words that were racist in the past I was talking about society and not me personally. I believe and always have believed that everyone is born equal regardless of colour, and my humanist principles would not allow me to do otherwise. I have no idea what slingshot and Brazil nuts refers to as they are new expressions to me. I am not American so am assuming if I was I might know their meaning. As for expired notions of women in society, all I ever want men and women to be are equal, unfortunately progress is painfully slow. As an atheist I’m surprised to hear you refer to angels, better or otherwise. It seems you are the one who is holding on to expired notions !!

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So correct!!!! Along with reasoning with children.

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