MAKING OUT WITH YOUR EX -
My ex and I are still friends and we still go out and do things together: movies, museums, ziplines, kayaking, swimming with manatees, etc... We see each other 3-4 times a month and speak on the phone at least as much.
Lately the days/nights we go out have been ending in make out sessions which has me thinking this may all be leading back into the sack. Which is fine but it has me wondering why she felt we needed to be divorced at all. I didn't want the divorce, she felt we had to get one because she felt she couldn't be a wife to me anymore. She obviously still enjoys spending time together, so...
I'm confused.
If any women have any insight into what's going on in her head, I'd like to hear it.
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Feel free to reply to any comment by clicking the "Reply" button.well be careful she does not want to be tied down but wants to keep you on a string it seems. 'i don't ever to see my ex again and the last girlfreind either
benhmiller
Level 7
Aug 10, 2018
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She is manipulating you, and your life. You will eventually realize what a favor she did by the divorce. But, right now, she's enjoying controlling you. shrug maybe you like that. And if you do, then no problem.
LilAtheistLady
Level 7
Aug 9, 2018
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Get the divorce!! If you aren't planning to have more kids, which would not sound advisable with this partner, then there is little benefit to you to be married and the downside financially can be huge. Everything else can be done without a marriage contract ... even more has been done without a marriage contract. They are out moded legal documents anyway. Just get the divorce and let her feel welcome to come or go in your life like you and she feel fit.
Normanbites
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Aug 9, 2018
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