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Have you met anyone from this site?
I have met 2 people that I would consider acquaintances.
I keep hoping to make some friends and dream of romance through the site but so far no luck.
How about you?

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Akfishlady 8 Sep 20
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Have a few new friends.
One who could be more. Definitely flirting involved.
But no definite plans in the future.

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I met soneone for lunch, now he's disappeared. Guess I'm not his type.

@maturin1919 Ha!

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I'm open to dating and friendship, but it has yet to happen.

Gohan Level 7 Sep 30, 2018
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I've made one friend so far. I expect I can make a few more over time. It's not hard, she just sent a message with a brief comment, I wrote back and we've been chatting ever since. Just reach out to people and see how they respond...and don't be creepy or weird.

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As with any website where there's the possibility of creating a "Spark",tread cautiously, If someone contacts you be careful,I've texted/e-mailed 4 different Women through this site, but no face to face meeting due to the distance,in the last instance ,back tracing the phone numbers set off my personal alarm bells, as the phone call had her speaking in a South African accent while supposedly in Idaho. No money was transferred or gifts given,just be on your guard,not to say there are some nice Women here, go into anything with your eyes open.....

I've just written a goodbye note , to a gentleman I met online here , whom I suspect may have been a scammer . It wasn't a matter of him asking for money . It just didn't seem realistic . It's the little thing that simply don't make sense .

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Not enough critical mass in my area (WV). No one within 100-miles. 😟

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Even though I put down open to meeting women I think the chances of finding somebody at my age that would actually fit in with my life is probably pretty rare so I just enjoy talking with other people and if it happens it happens if not I'll be okay but on the upside here recently I've seen a couple of different people say that they found someone on this site and that it seems to be working out so you know Hope Springs Eternal

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Had a lunch date with the only other person within 20 miles and 10 years of age at that time.
He was interesting but there was no spark.

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I'm new and haven't had that much time to explore. I would be thrilled to meet more like minded people. I have had trouble meeting someone with similar beliefs in the 'real world'.

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I have met 2 people from this site. One was local and we became friends and would hang out from time to time and the other lived 1,555 miles away. We had a long distance relationship, hit it off romantically, met and had chemisty and now we are moving in together next week. It is possible.

Absolutely AWESOME!!! Congratulations!!

Yes! My love is 1500 miles away for now. We've spent some money on airfare for sure... but he's moving down to Florida in November.

@Akfishlady I've been on this site since March but kept it as "just friends" until July when I felt open to finding someone again and changed my status to 'open to dating' . 2 weeks later this great guy sent me the sweetest message and had done his homework on me before contacting me. He impressed me with his research, his observations, his wit and the instant connection I felt I had towards him. If they are interested in you they look back over your history of comments. Thats how to get the essence of who you are out there. Seemed to work for me. Can't wait 😉

@poetdi56 I live in Florida, he lives in Minnesota. I'm making the move since I don't have anything to tie me here anymore and the timing was perfect. I will be sad to leave my friends and my home, but I'm excited to be with him and begin our lives together. No nerves or doubt as to if this work...we just know it. Good luck to you in November also 😉

@boatdude87 Thank you so much 🙂

@Hazydays thank you!!!! You too!

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I honestly don't think the ladies are that interested in meeting on this site..... maybe it's me....

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Huh. But I am new as well, and I haven't really put in the effort to find someone here. This looked like more of a community than a dating site. I am still trying to learn the parameters of online dating. 🙂 I feel clumsy at it.

I live in an area with very very few members of any age nearby so this has always been a community platform for me.

I am unlikely to move away although I can't rule it out completely so community it is LOL

@Lucy_Fehr
The Bringer of the Light has no need for dating! Lol! Cool username.

@KenChang Thank you- I thought it rather clever myself LOL

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But I AM new, so...

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Only once so far. She's a nice lady who is local. Our visit was meeting for a quick lunch. She's well equipped in intellect department which I love. Our interests and outlooks have a bit of overlap but not a great deal.

I've a lot of women friends who are pleasant and who I can call for a date/event etc. Not many with shared interests at the passion level though.

Hope for this site is finding deeper friendship compatibility that might or might not go further.

Many of the women here are 'lookers' too. I'm admittedly a strange man. It takes more than a woman looking good and being willing. Sex seems to always become 'entangling' and I'd rather pass than get entangled with somebody who doesn't share other passions, mutual admiration, respect and selfless trust.

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I chatted with a lot of nice people, and on June 1 met the love of my life on this site. I had said "okay, I'm fine being alone, making friends, and being a crazy cat lady." Then.... there he was. Almost literally - the moment I stopped looking and caring - the magic happened.

This happened to me too. I was about to give up, become the crazy, in my case dog lady, and boom...there he was. My advice to people looking on this site-be patient.

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Seeing the number of ladies complaining about sex weirdos on this site is really disappointing to me. I have always thought of the atheist community as consisting of reasonably intellectual individuals who try to distance themselves from the stereotypical bullshit behavior they witness on a regular basis in society. I'm not saying that atheists can't be perverts, but I expected much more from my community. I'd love to think that most of the perverts are new members who have registered for the sole purpose of hitting on women and might not even be atheists in the first place, but that's not for me to say.

The instant 'dating' is put in the description of any site open to the public, one has offered an explicit invitation. There are weirdos everywhere, but they tend to concentrate on dating sites like sharks do near fishing fleets.

I joined for the intellectual stimulation. I just said sure to meeting women. I didn't, quite honestly, expect it to happen. It did. Quite an excellent experience for me and I believe her, also. Taking it slow, but neither of us are going anywhere without the other.

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I can't find anyone nearby.

There's the issue... nearby. Open to possibility! My new love is 1400 miles away. But not for long.

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I recently had a meet-up with a few local folks that are on the site. It was a fun time and just great to meet new people with shared interests.

Hordo Level 6 Sep 21, 2018
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I met the most wonderful, kind, smart, and beautiful woman with whom i am enjoying a renewed spirit. Started with coffee and cocoa.

Nice. I hope things work out for you.

@Beowulfsfriend You’re pretty cute too. ?

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Braaaaand new to the site!

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I met reason. She’s pretty hot.

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Just friends, but not much else.

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Have not met anyone in person yet but there are plans in the works. Just friendly platonic meetings, however. Not looking for romance or relationship anyhow.

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Although I have encountered several superior minds on this site, there are far too many miles so I have no expectation of establishing a substantial relationship.

@Davethecave Hi back. LOL.

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I find when I enjoy meeting people and not focused on whether I meet someone or not, it just happens. Whether here or where ever. I enjoy this community and since have less time currently due to other priorities, find I miss it.

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