Caressing your partner's naked body with peacock feathers is exotic. Shoving the peacock feathers up your partner's ass is kinky. Porking a naked peacock is really kinky. LOL

making love in borneo is exotic. making love TO borneo is kinky.

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Exotic or erotic? Yeah, I agree that exotic and kinky aren't related, though I'm sure they could be connected in some way.

Exotic to me is a look and/or a sexiness about something or someone. Not an ordinary look based on what we're used to for the most part. I guess maybe that's why a lot of people love accents or foreign looks because they are exotic.

Kinky to me is also something out of the ordinary, but it's more of an action.

So I guess they are related. Maybe they are more related than people think.

Exotic is reminiscent of a distant foreign country.

Kink is the use of props, costumes, roleplay or particular aspects of things outside the vanilla ordinances of straight sex that one could be into. Exoticisms could be your kink, and you could use kinks that evoke exoticism, but not all kinks are exotic necessarily.

And a fetish is when the kinks or exoticisms become more necessary and relevant to your pleasure than your partner themselves. Or if you can't help but see a neutral aspect in a sexual light maybe. You work in a shoe store but you can't help a lady try on shoes without seeing her feet as sexual objects, you have a foot fetish. Fetishizing is putting sexual overtones on something that hasnt inherently warranted it.

Exotic you use feathers. Kinky you use the whole chicken.

About $50.

I think kinky has the quality of perverseness attached to it.

Perspective.

Those words are so vastly unrelated I can't even

#notsureifserious

Lube?

Exotic has been well defined and it's only kinky the first time!