...make me feel unwanted and unloved and I refuse to ever again be used that way.

... are horn dogs. Flush.

Not a problem so long as both people involved are ok with it.

I have been with women who only wanted me for sex. IT WAS GREAT!!!

It is interesting that the women here more often feel used in that situation and men just make fun of my comment, I am no femme fatale but I am easy on the eyes as if that means I am easy - NO! I left a narcissist and a person that just didn't get what affection means to me. Seems in our society today people are afraid of genuine affection - afraid of being accused of sexual harassment or something. Like Joe Biden, what a sad lot humans are becoming. - My indicator is the knuckle bump - minimum physical contact. Give me a warm handshake any day.

Just use them for sex!