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Me: Hello
Him: Well Hello Sexy.
Me: I read your profile. Well written. What did you think of mine? Do you have things in common with me?
Him: Nice pics
Me: Oh I thought maybe you read my profile.
Him: Nice tattoo
Me: It has special meaning to me.
Him: When can I see the whole thing?
Me: I see your a Christian. I’m Agnostic. I wrote it in my profile.
Him: What’s that?
Me: Google it
Him: Oh I see. I don’t think we’re a match. I’ll pray for you. God bless.

Omg!!! I get this all the time!!
Your thoughts?

LovelyLady4U 4 Apr 14
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At least you have a profile for him to ignore. This is todays nonsense. Just 2 nice pics and the mandatory bits filled in.

Me - Hello Joanne, you look lovely. x
Her - Hi thankyou x
Me - Hi and your welcome.
Your profile is a little sparse so can tell me what you like to do in your spare time Joanne? x

Then nothing and once again ghosted

I don't think you can count yourself ghosted after one single messenger exchange.

I have had men tell me that they love my picture Problem is, I have none on my profile. I also have men tell me that they love my profile and believe we are a perfect match. When I ask them what part of my profile they liked I never hear from them.

And yep, I would get those "you're perfect for me" from a person who has absolutely nothing in their profile, or when I look it says they are a Christian and serious about it.

@Blysse Sorry not too well up on the terminology nowadays. Although I do hate it when people just stop replying in mid conversation. You would think that they could at least say "later" or "bye"

@kiramea Completely and uttering agree with everything you stated. Bizarre isn’t it?

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Hmmm...well, I typically start off with "Heya! Nice profile and pics", unless the profile is crap. With you're profile, I would probably say something like "Heya! Nice pics - profile was meh. Lots of generic adjectives that don't really say much about you as a person. How about you tell me something specific about you?" That's just how I roll though...

It just gets so blah blah blah most of the time. So I switched to this site. I’m really not a great texting type. Things get misinterpreted or they’re catfishing Who knows. I really don’t like texting but it’s the way of the world now.

@LovelyLady4U @Athena I hate texting. It's ok for "What time we gonna meet" "7PM" - but anything beyond a 6 word sentence is more effective in direct voice communications. Unfortunately, most people today gravitate to text instead of actually talking to each other. My rule is, if she seems flaky, I give her no more than a week of texting - after that, it's a phone conversation or I'm on my way. And honestly, the whole 'scary world' argument is b/s IMO. I have heard that excuse, but when pressed MOST women have never been actually stalked, raped, or assaulted from a guy they gave their number too. It is usually just some creep that they are not interested in, and he continually bugs them which just makes them a bit uncomfortable and annoyed in having to deal with a needy loser.

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Dafuq? Sad thing is that approach must occasionally work on someone or why else would he do it?

Ya I guess it could. Maybe for another Christian lol.

Sadder still is he thinks women are a monolith and what worked on 1 woman must work on all of us. :/

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If you see he's a Christian, or any other religion, end it right there!

Right on gf. No more Christians for me. That’s why I joined this site. I hope it works.

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Problematic from the start. He can't answer simple questions? And he doesn't know what agnostic means? Yikes!

Ya clueless. Please tell me there are more intelligent men out there than that

@LovelyLady4U I've heard there are. Attracting them is a whole other subject.

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Wow!!! That is way too much stupidity!!! Makes you wonder if he was raised under a rock!!! There truly are intelligent guys out there! Don't give up!!

Thank you

Yeah, I'm over here, LOL

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At "nice pics"--since he didn't answer your question, it should have been over. Depending on how you want to treat him you could come back with "prayers don't work," or "idiots don't get to see my tattoo" or "no amount of prayers will let you see that whole tattoo" or maybe "god doesn't exist" 🙂

lerlo Level 8 Apr 15, 2019

My reply. “I will pray to Satan for you” lololol

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i am always reminded of the movie title "earth girls are easy." it's as if christians wander here in the belief that atheist/agnostic girls are easy.

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Quite the opposite. We have brains!!!

@LovelyLady4U but brainless people don't recognize that about us!

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Seems like he doesn’t want a partner, just a warm hole that will cook and clean for him.

@PJWanders I think that he wants to "see the tatoo" as well.

@Stephanie99 Yeah, tattoos are so very "christian"😃

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I'm an atheist, I met a woman a few years ago who was agnostic, at first. She found Jesus really quickly, and started trying to convert, reform, and/or save me. You're lucky these guys bailed and didn't see you as an opportunity to collect some kind of Jesus Reward Points.

Don't worry about that, "I'll pray for you." shit. He didn't mean it, and even if he does, it can't hurt you.

JimG Level 8 Apr 15, 2019

Those brownie point things really amaze me. Do they get on a faster train to heaven with them? Do they get the good clouds?

@heymoe2001 They seem to think they'll get something. Maybe they can cash them in for harp lessons or a lighter sentence in purgatory.

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With what he seemed to be going for, what would lack of religion matter? Do you want to share the special meaning of the tattoo?

Ya the tattoo represents my dead parents and my heritage. How sexy does that sound? Lol. Completely true.

@LovelyLady4U Probably not the sexy story he would have wanted to hear. Maybe why he didn't ask. Sounds special to me though.

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Calls himself a Christian, but is only interested in seeing your whole tattoo, not in reading your profile or inquiring about the tattoo's special meaning. Poser. Loser.

OHJim Level 5 Apr 14, 2019

Ya. He’s supposed to be Christian? Only on Sundays. Lol

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I'm pretty sure that "Hello Sexy" is similar to "wanna f...".

I know, right?

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Can I please see your whole tattoo.😉

No and hell no!!! Lmao!!!

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Generally, I do not put much value on a conversation that happens out of the blue, it is much more likely that if you are going to click with someone, you have already had conversations about different issues that are not related to any form of direct relationship. A conversation like that, that comes out of the blue, holds very little weight, in my regard for it. So generally speaking, I am not very hesitant to tell someone like that to fuck off. I get IMs all the time on my Facebook account, and if I have not seen them in a conversation or talked to them before, they generally get ignored, I do not even respond to their first message. (Given that I have 3750+ friends on there, it is not practical anyway). Those who participate in the community forum are much better suited, proven, and one might even say have a pedigree for common ideas . . . . that is how I see it anyway.

THHA Level 7 Apr 14, 2019

Thank you.

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yay ! He will pray for u !!! 😂😂😂✌🏻✌🏻✌🏻🙌🙌🙌 here u go , all your problems solved !!!

I know, right? He was a weirdo. Lol. I should have said “ May Satan be with you” lol.

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So very typical. I'd go with typical to mild. He took longer to get to your looks than I would have thought, and I swear they never bother reading your profile. Didn't want to know the meaning behind the tattoo, just wanted to see it. Then found out you aren't christian and probably won't be easy to control and then bugs out.

All seems pretty typical to me. Also why I don't date often where I am.

He couldn’t handle an Agnostic or a Christian for that matter. Oh well you gotta through a lot of creeps to find a good one.

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Yea I'd run away from religious people especially when it comes to dating..

Neenz Level 7 Apr 15, 2019

Sure that. Ty

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Ive been on fb dating for a couple months now.. anyone who messaged me turned out to be a bible thumper except for one..

What is wrong with this world!!! Lol

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  • "Hello sexy." = Me want vagina!
  • Doesn't read your profile = Don't care who you are, just want vagina!
  • Show me the rest of your tattoo = Hope it leads to your vagina!
  • "I don't think we’re a match. I’ll pray for you. God bless." = That vagina is full of the DEVIL!

Lmao!!! So true.

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There are a lot more people looking for sex and money than there are people looking for love

I believe that...if they grow old, they will be empty of what holds up their nature!

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I never get this 'cause I am not shopping for a man. My profile would say in the 1st sentence "no religiosos".

i'm not shopping for a relationship either. i still occasionally get hit up on, and i drop big heavy hints like when they say "so what are you doing right now?" i say "making dinner for my man." that doesn't seem to make an impression (concrete is not generally that impressionable). or i refer them to my profile, which clearly say i am here for community, and also mentions my man. still no comprehension. sometimes i have to say "leave me alone or i'll report you" before they back off.

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I got told "I have a problem with your height and religion!"

I didn't know atheism was a religion!

Being a fairly tall woman, I find that pretty funny. There is a good chance I'd have a problem with someone's height and/or their religion. I'm not sure I'd just send that off as a message, though.

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What an a**

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You have more patience than most sane women...I would have ended the conversation after "hi sexy". Apparently his god has no problem with him being a pig.

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