"Julie and Mark are brother and sister. They are traveling together in France on summer vacation from college. One night they are staying alone in a cabin near the beach. They decide that it would be interesting and fun if they tried making love. At the very least, it would be a new experience for each of them. Julie was already taking birth control pills, but Mark uses a condom too, just to be safe. They both enjoy making love, but they decide never to do it again. They keep that night as a special secret, which makes them feel even closer to each other. What do you think about that? Was it ok for them to make love?"
I'll have a crack at it.
Courting gets a person out of the box they were raised in and into the world of other people, other ideas, and other looks.
when I was about 10 years old I do remember peeking at my sister and becoming very aroused I probably would have been open to the idea of having sex if she was. for the record nothing ever happened
Me too and she too. But convention prevented us from going ahead.
@chazwin I admire the both of you for speaking plainly...I think normal conventions are not so "normal"...they only created guilt and shame when in fact, such feelings and actions are closer to normal and experienced by more than those willing to admit it...bravo! (I, too, admit to a natural curiosity and attraction to my brother...)