How do you respond when somebody you have never met in person and only exchanged a sentence or two with online suddenly tells you they are "honest?"
the saying 'take it with a pinch of salt' comes to mind
"Methinks thou dost protest too much" - Shakespeare.
never trust somebody who says they can be trusted without being asked!!! never trust somebody who says they can be trusted. never trust somebody who says you can trust them.
never trust anybody unless you know they are trustworthy.
an honest person does not have to brag about being trustworthy.
anyone who says..'to be honest' could never be trusted.
Deb- I know from what you have told me about yourself that you have reason to doubt your judgement about men, but in this case the rash declaration from the man that he is honest does sound inappropriate.
Do not believe them! Truly honest people never give it a thought...have You ever said that to anybody?
Seems like that is a staple of scammer vocabulary.
Exactly
If the word honest is followed by stable genius, I'd run
I will ask: what do you mean being honest? Maybe this person will answer but keep asking questions until this person gets tired. "Scammers"
Agreed, anyone you don't know that has to "prefix" a statement to manipulate you into their frame of reference.... worst yet are those that use gaslighting tactics to put you on the defensive or invoke a emotional response to a clearly deceptive premise.
One should stand by what they say and more importantly what they due.
Kuato:
You are what you do. A man is defined by his actions, not his memory.
Never ....that's a red flag right off the bat. RUN!