I remember growing up and those girls you wouldn't touch or speak to at 13 at 18 were the bomb. Case in point... her name was Yolanda... tall and skinny as Popeye's Olive and she was a friend at 14 but nothing beyond that... tall, flat everywhere and skinny... but her older sisters? All tall... one was a model, another a secretary and another a teacher... they were all knockouts... at 18 in High School... suddenly she had perky breast,,, she was tall... she had wide hips... A very Cosmopolitan face and taking Modeling lessons and we were out of the competion because whe should had known better... we saw the sample in her sisters and we ignored it... We were still friends because we were not really meant to her but that's life... some women improve after having babies... other after having babies they dont... some stay the same... same with men some after getting married get better some they don't it is Mankind... I am trying to teach my son... Look at their sisters, at their moms... Smart people learn from others Mistakes.

@GipsyOfNewSpain Absolutely, and I think the one important thing for all (men and women) is how they care for themselves as they grow. I have a younger sister (7 years) who smoked and didn't give a damn about anything. When I got married at 53 she looked like my mother. Several years later we saw her again and now she looked like my grandmother. Even her teeth were all implants.

I almost got lynched... thanks god for the impeachment inquiry otherwise they would had been busy on me still.... Oh the irony of using... "thanks god at my convenience and with nothing behind it!!! he, he, he, ha, he.