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What items does your ideal relationship possess?

Sex eventually, I'm a man of course! Overall, sex does not hold the highest priority for companionship. Intelligence and humor can be attractive. Physical appearance must hold responsibility for pride in self and mate. Sharing of a creative side is mutually beneficial. Openness listening to personal point of view with minimal judgement expressed. Financial independence of both. Someone who would find a weekend getaway a month away for fun activities. That's kinda where I'm at now. Not opposed to the development of a more involved relationship later.

2TuffTony 5 Apr 4
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Shared interests, although not necessarily all of them. Humour, interesting, intelligent. Likes music, going to local gigs.

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Genuine kindness, empathy, and humor to name a few.

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Mutual physical attraction, shared interests, intelligent communication, shared values, openness, trust, comedic banter, and sexual compatibility.

ebdb Level 7 Apr 6, 2018
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Sapiosexual person here... So what I expected is harmony. Think alike, act alike, want the same things in life, in bed, everywhere...

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Kind, considerate, non manipulative! Not sure why those traits seem so underrated...

ABack Level 6 Apr 5, 2018

Sadly, these traits are under rated because they are perceived as weakness. But - to still be kind when faced with those who are cruel - that is not weakness at all.

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Warmth , humour , tolerance cooperation and copulation !

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Someone who "gets" you and vice-versa. You can't explain it in any way other than you have each other's backs. Oh yeah, and you have the hots for each other. It's got to be the best combination of both.

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Just go with your gut and be spontaneous

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Shared interests, background, culture, and beliefs. But if a male romantic interest wants to be with me, he will have to pull his weight, have my back, be faithful, and be a financial advantage, or I don't want to bother with him.

Anyone who asks me on a date then expects me to pay for myself will never be contacted again. I am likely to tell him off and walk away if he were to try it, but nobody ever has.

@LetzGetReal if there is no financial and tactical advantage in dating him, I'd rather be single. I don't need someone else to take care of.

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Shared interests is the number one for me. Yes, I know couples that are happy going their own ways, and still living under the same roof. Not for me.

Before I lost my with we shared our passion for steam locomotives (she was a fully qualified locomotive mechanic, steam and diesel), Flying, I was the pilot and she was a licensed Aircraft Mechanic (A&P, IA), Cats, Cooking, Reading, travel and before she became ill, wine.

No, I will never find another like her, but it would be nice to have some who enjoyed travel, reading, and wine, and tolerated my other passions. At 73, sex? Interesting thought, let's start with cuddling and see where it goes...

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I am a Sapiosexual, that is primarily attracted to the mind, hence a meeting of minds, without that it is a vaccum. With it everything seems possible.

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Sex is important, but if she cannot hold my attention through conversation then its a dead end. I have dated women from every socio-economic group that one can imagine so I have explored. I have not found TWO alike and thats part of the excitement.

Are you looking for a woman to hold your attention for how long? I agree conversation and intellectual stimulation and the joy in discovering new theories and ideas together or apart and sharing those things is a joy. Back to sex. . I prefer to think of sharing sensuality and exploration Bad kissing is a deal breaker for me.

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