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A question for the guys: What qualities most impress you in a woman?

kathy21 4 Apr 12
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Intelligence and humor, somebody that I can talk to for hours.

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First and foremost, she's NOT a cowboy's fan?

Cute. 🙂

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Ability to carry a conversation, sarcastic, funny, nice eyes, and of course who doesn`t want a woman with a great butt??

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Honesty, open mind, intelligent... Nice pair of legs lol

Seph Level 6 Apr 15, 2018
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Her own person, non material, good hearted ,humble, smarts is a plus, and a good listener.

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A woman who is humble,who isnt materialitic and who is honest & truthful,

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INTELLIGENCE!!!....? OH , did .... I say that... to loud? intelligence....?

Etre Level 7 Apr 13, 2018

@SACatWalker depends on what form of Grammerism one follows. You are right, but in my defense, I am on a cell, and typing becomes cumbersome at times as well. I should have caught that, but grammer is not my strong point. I am more about using a language from the discriptive philosophy rather than a prescriptive philosophy. I was not even thinking in that manner, just trying to be funnie. The conscious thought was communicated. But that is comical, and Im not tall.

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I know the difference.

@SACatWalker I am always correcting myself an having to to retype, mistroke keys had about 8 juat 9 in this sentenxw 10 alone. ? no harm bo 11 no foul. I did miss that though.

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I enjoy exploring unexplored territories (literally and methaphorically), thus, I look for curioisty and spontaneity in women. Also, being well-informed and up-to-date are quite nice qualities as well. Open-mindedness is a given. 🙂 Wit, confidence, and having a passion for their job are a big yes, too. Someone who can be very critical of me and will call me out on my bullshit.

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I’ve met women with a variety of qualities and personalities. They are all impressive in their own way. Finding the qualities is an enjoyable part of the dating process. Being a negative Nancy I think I’d do better naming qualities I avoid.

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Wit, self-deprecating humour, quirkyness in dress and manner, empathy for fellow humans, a sense of self, finding me adorable 🙂 🙂 😉

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Being as young as I am, I’m sure my taste will change but right now, I think the biggest attractant would a set of goals and a seriousness to get there.

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Intelligence, mental strength of character and confidence.

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Cleverness and wit, intelligence, confidence, thoughtfulness, creativity, kindness.

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Being upfront and honest, self confidence, a disdain for head games.

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Eyes that have a depth of intelligence and a sparkle of humour. An ability to talk about different topics articulately.

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The ability to hoover the carpets, dust and polish without disturbing me. The ability to nip out to the shops when she is not otherwise required for sex. The ability to cook a good meal on time and to do the washing up quietly. Willingness to clean the toilet.

(Thinks: Wonder if I'll get any bites here)

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A good sense of humor, compassion, intelligence, and drive.

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Boots... and a floppy hat.

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I'm going to be real here. Intelligence, sarcasm, and height!

My German GF had all three of those. It wasn't enough to keep me even if she could Salsa with the best. But your choice were interesting and maybe my choices in 1998. But this is 2018. I will ask you the question in 2038.

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Intelligence, honesty and sincerity with some dose of naughtiness 🙂

obis Level 6 Apr 13, 2018
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A pulse is a good place to start. I like warm blooded women.

If you aim too low, I guarantee you will be miserable.

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Honestly? -- the first thing most guys think about is can they imagine snuggling up to her in bed then, the properties of intelligence, openness, honesty, etc. come to play. In my case - the potential partner has to have an interesting history/personality - be more than just basically intelligent and secure in her self -- basically she would want me - but not need me (for financial support, emotional support) - aka for me to be a nurse and/or a purse.

Think a Rachel Maddow - yeah, she's gay - but ... you get the idea - she may be the smartest person in the room - doesn't stop a clock w/ her looks - doesn't need my money or help .. Or my dream babe - Sabine Schmidt (you have to know Top Gear for this one) -- one of the most capable drivers in the world (I think she's single now) .. unobtainable -- sure, but ...

What's wrong with needing your partner's help? That's a big reason people get into committed relationships, on both sides!

@hemingwaykitten Thank you for pointing out a near fatal flaw in my writing. Your point is correct - in a committed relationship, we each want/need what the other provides.

I've spent the last several minutes trying to refine my want vs need comment - it comes down to I am looking for an equal partner - as smart/charming/successful/handsome/capable/empathetic/etc. as I perceive myself -- I'm not perfect, nor do I expect my partner to be perfect. There's more, but it's too late at night for me to think it through well enough to put on paper.

Again, thanks for kicking me in the shins to force me to think this through more clearly.

Rachel Maddow definitely stops clocks with her looks! For me and @redcupcoffee for starters! 😉

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Empathy, personal drive, and self-confidence are my big 3.

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Independence and the ability to think for yourself

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Intelligence, kindness, and quirky

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