The Libertine 1968,... I think I may be a kind of male version of this in the making...
"... film about Mimi (Catherine Spaak), a young widow who discovers that her recently deceased husband kept a secret apartment for his kinky desires. Frustrated that he did not explore his sexual fantasies with his wife, she embarks on a quest to understand perversion and sexuality. She uses her late husband's apartment to seduce various men, each time learning more about the depths of human depravation, as well as the extent of the sexual double standard for women (late in the film, she states, "I notice men only call me a whore when I say no. Or stop saying yes." )
Finally, she meets the man who shares himself fully with her, appreciates her sexual daring and accepts her for whoever she is."