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Forgot that I had given my phone number to Evangelfool's now, -lady friend.
Sitting here and the phone rings, so as anyone would I answered it to hear a voice saying, " Just letting you know that I no longer want to have anything to do with that 2 faced, arrogant, misogynistic, scum-gutted, mongrel who resides in the next door to yours."
Kind scratching my head for a second or and wondering if it was a wrong number call or something when the voice continues on.
"Oh sorry, it's me Liz, should've told you who I was first , just that I'm really pissed off at that piece of shit right now, I just sat down and worked out how much he owes me because of the agreement he made with me in writing that I should keep his house neat, clean and tidy and he would me $25 per hour, he got angry when I asked him to sign a book keeping a record of the number of hours I worked for him but calmed down and has signed each entry anyway.
Now he says he is going to REFUSE to have anything to do with me because " It is beneath his dignity as White Australian Christian to have to a yellow skinned rice munching, Catholic Asian Bitch Whore who is too old and worn out to be able to give him children."
As she paused to take a breath I asked her IF she and definitely provable evidence of his abusive comments, etc, that he made to her since they MAY be able to be used in a Defamation Case against him.
Her answer came as quite a welcome bit of news because she said, " I was always told to keep recordings of conversations that were not the friendly, loving kind so I kept my cell phone on and recording the whole time, it actually date and time stamps things like that, do you think that it might be a good thing for me to seek legal advice?"
To that my answer was simple, "Definitely and most assuredly, If you want/need a Character Witness then just let me know and I'll be too happy to oblige."
Now it kind of sounds a bit like the Fertilizer is heading straight for the Ventilator Fan atm, i.e. the Shit is heading for the fan.

Triphid 9 Apr 30
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1

Too damned funny.
I hope she bankrupts him.
Maybe she'll end up your new neighbor.

2

So glad to hear he may be getting what he desperately deserves!

3

When it rains it pores. He's been testing karma for a long time now and the 'beep' is coming for payback.
Oh the poor little idiot has dug his own grave and none too soon.

Betty Level 8 Apr 30, 2022
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Getting involved with him to begin with was rather foolish.

You got that right. What was she thinking?

@Betty As I know, sadly, from personal experiences, loneliness can cause us to make errors and mistakes that we must later learn to live with and regret as well.
I TRY, and sometimes forget as well, the old adage of, "Angry was for I had no shoes until the day I met an man with no feet."

@Triphid I was brought up to believe that no matter how bad things get there are others who are worse off. I appreciate what I have and what I had and hopefully what is to come.

@Betty My Dad used to tell me this saying any time I started complaining about what others had and did not have, "{ Sad was I because I had NO shoe, until the day I met a man who had NO feet."
That has become my kind of mantra and I use it regularly when counselling clients as it gets them to think and hopefully see that no matter how bad things seem to you, there IS always someone who is far, far worse off.
Which, I might add is the PRIME reason behind my openly NON-sympathetic answering/treatment with the member who was, in my opinion, enjoying wallowing away in his own self-pity.
As a Psychologist we taught that there times when one MUST be cruel to be kind, we just need to survey the situation and person, etc, etc, and then take the decision.
Which, btw, was EXACTLY what I did with @Nerdy_Tarheel.

@Triphid Your Dad and my Mom had the same kind of thinking. My mom made sure I understood that there were kids far, far worse off than me. My left eye was removed when I was two and I was bullied because of it, and each time I cried I was reminded how lucky I was to be alive.
I also understand the 'to be cruel to be kind' can be helpful. I also know you need to know the person and their history for it to have a chance to work. This platform is not ideal for that since you can't gage their reaction and then address it.

@Betty On the gauging side of things I beg to differ since after years of dealing with people, plus the decade plus of being a Psychologist I have learned well to both read faces and between the lines of written comments, etc, etc.
And between you and I have also dealt with far more than my " fair share" of "Pretender Clients" , i.e. those who merely seek psychological counselling because to them it is a way of either doing something "trendy" or a way to get noticed.

@Triphid You may be correct, I don't have the luxury of your experience. Given that, I would rather err on the side of caution. I can't be cruel, it's just not in me.

@Betty As my Mentor, Teacher and Tutor in Psy7chology tried his darnedest to instil in to us all time after time, " There are and always will cases where you WILL need to be Cruel to kind."

@Triphid I get what you are telling me. I am not a trained phycologist and I can't make that judgement. To break someone down emotionally also means showing them how to build themselves back up in a healthy way. I don't have that training or experience.

@Betty Old saying out here in the Outback of Australia " the tough get to live and teach the next generation to be just as tough and strong or they wimp out, die and the crows get to dine on their corpses."

@Triphid There are different kinds of tough as you are well aware. The pioneers had to be tough to survive. Some people don't have the emotional equipment to deal with their issues. If everyone could then there would be no need for psychologists and counselors.

4

Serves the shit bag right!

And then some. 🙂

And, though one should NOT do so, may the shit around stack even higher and higher still.

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