Nice vs Kind? The dangers of being too nice.
Nice Is a harmful, blanket word [Cover all] not thought out in it's application. Her analysis is more about her own preferences She cannot really justify its use at all because she wants other people to call her nice which allows here to define her own compliment. What is wrong with defending your own "trying to be nice" . It is bad communication if your companion does not make it clear how they might please her . This lady is after only her own power .I only wish I could ban its use in my own house.
" People Pleasers " include our best comedians .
I think I agree with her about kindness, just stop using the other word
The people who are being "Too nice" are making an extra special but wrong approach to getting where they want to be . They want individual help and not blanket rules.