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Hello everyone. I am currently having some health issues. I hope it's nothing serious but I have to wait for the blood test result
Many religious people I know (including my parents) say that this is my punishment for not being religious and living a "life of sin". My mother also tells me I should pray and ask god for forgiveness if I want to be healthy. All this makes me feel even worse ??

Alexa 5 May 14
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Spiritual people always try to find all the answers in religion. I'm a holy person too, but I don't think this is the explanation. Your blood results will show the real reasons. It would've been helpful to specify your symptoms. Maybe someone from this forum had passed through the same issues as you. Unfortunately, most people don't pay enough attention to their health problems until it is too late. I've always tried to take care of myself. The most severe illnesses don't cause any noticeable symptoms. The first step in keeping yourself healthy is to ensure hygiene. I usually shop for the needed products at [mcdaidpharmacy.ie] Online shopping frees my time a lot.

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Wow, i remember one born again telling a co worker she got MS because she sin. Hope your health issues get better. Hope you find people that are not going to go all old testment on you.

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Whilst they are talking, paste on a big smile that looks like a "Yes O.K" and inside, make your own plans to get weller. Keep saying 'yes' because eventually it shuts them up .

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Religious people can often be the most judgemental, and often victim blame. If there were any stock to what they said, religious people would never get disease.

Source:

Personal experience

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Well, forget that shit and if possible keep a distance from such negativity. Praying may be a good placebo but only if you believe in it. Also the statement implies that all religious people, because they don't 'sin' and they pray regularly must be super fit and have no health issues, no allergies, never get headaches or toothaches, the list goes on...I doubt you will find one of these Super-People in any religious house in the world. Perhaps the next time she gets a cold you could ask her to pray it away and stop whining! I hope the blood tests come back okay. Let us know how you get on. And illness has nothing to do with god. Its bacteria, virus and maybe even genetic. So if there is something of a genetic basis your dear ole parents gave it too you! Not sin or being non-religious.

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My mother used to blame bad breaks in my life on my refusal to give my heart to Jesus. ? Stay away from her you are going through enough.

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Because everyone knows that religious people never get ill. Stay Strong!!!

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Tonight I will raise a toast for your good health.

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That's just so sick at a time of worry and concern for you 😟

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I am sorry you have folks surrounding you practicing not the compassion Christ taught about. We are here to help you negotiate the maze. You are in my thoughts. Heal soon & be well.

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Seek professional medical help. From a religious perspective, G-d has provided resources to help yourself. To not seek help ignores the grace of G-d. The shortcoming of faith-based relief is that it is a passive hope for a miracle.

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Hi Alex,
I'm sorry to hear that you're not well.
As far as I'm concerned the concept of gods is puerile and belongs to an earlier stage of human development.
Someone has already advised you to listen to your doctors and be guided by them. I would echo that view. Forget the superstitious nonsense.
I wish you a speedy recovery.
Best wishes.

Athos Level 5 May 15, 2018
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I'm so sorry you're going through this. If your critics' opinions had any validity, the world would be a much better place. No religious people would ever get sick or experience tragedy. Anybody who was prayed over would be healed. Religion doesn't change the course or frequency of illness. Feel free to mention to your parents all their religious friends who get cancer and such.

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Trust your Doctors 1st. and always ! Our collective support with you all the way !

Sorry but doctors are wrong so much of the time as they're not trained in many things expect giving out meds. I could on and on about misdiagnosis doctors have done to me! I got hurt by trainer at a gym my doctor told me I had nerve damage in my foot and "nothing could be done". I suffered for years from it and went and got special inserts for my shoes and some other things and I'm much better. It turns out I did not have nerve damage at all. If yo have any 2nd thoughts at all get another doctor to see you! Please do this, I'm talking from decades of experience. Many doctors are poor at diagnosing people with health issues.

@valentine4real
If you have your doubts about one, try another, but trust them. There is no one else to trust ?

@BigBoMclain
I trust you, just wear a rubber glove when you stick your finger up my arse, please ?

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Hi Alexa

Sorry to hear you're not feeling well. It is such a shame that instead of getting love and support from your family, you're getting judgement and attack.

I hope you have some people in your life that can give you a hug and be on your side.

Broug Level 3 May 15, 2018
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Thousands of innocent children die daily to young to understand the concept of praying and asking God for forgiveness so if this really worked everyone would be healthy or die young. My best advise to you is to eat fantastic, ( I'm a Vegan ) and my overall health is very very good! So hang in there and don't let the nay-sayers get you down! Believe in yourself...as its the best medicine.

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No please don’t lose your hope that is where you stand for I know in our life worse when worse Situtation like this makes us to think for help unconsciously but the merely fact is there is no god trust me please don’t lose faith on yourself you can come out of this fight yourself up

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That's what the concept of religion and God is all about. It provides answers for all the uncertainties and things which are yet to be discovered. Thankfully, we now have a branch of science that deals with this is. Lygometry - go, read about it! It really is interesting.

The concept of religion or god is just not a concept alone it’s a regulations and a restrictions created by humans none other only humans to make it clear . There is neither a proof for god nor for a religion which only make u to think like dumb

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Well Alexa,no its not your punishment for not being religious. I don't believe in god. God hasn't been proven to me. When I had my heart attack 18 yrs ago I decided to hedge my bet and said this prayer" oh lord,don't let my kids find my porn" then,I lived.

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Your mama loves you I'm sure, but she certainly isn't being very supportive. Not that I want to disparage your mama. Hang in there, and tell mama "we all sin and fall short of the glory that is god." I'd look up that chapter and verse but I'm afraid my computer might get struck by lightening. (Romans 3:23, I don't believe that stuff) Tell mama you love her and you could use her support right now, and if she must beat you with the buybull then you'll have to have some space. Hope you feel better soon.

You're pretty smart for an old hippie chick.
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@bigpawbullets thank you! I share wisdom of a life full of experiences of making some really bad choices.

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Everybody, non believers, believers, can have a medical problem. From the Pope to Stephen Hawking, we are born, we live, some have medical issues, others get through life in relative good health. What you believe has no bearing on how your life proceeds health wise. Praying won't do a damn thing for your health, otherwise there would be no need for hospitals, modern medicine and medication. Take care of yourself, let your doctor help you through your issue, and maintain a positive attitude. Those will help you get back on your feet, not getting on your knees.

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Prayer doesn’t work. Face it head on and deal with it one foot in front of the other. Be positive. I sincerely hope that it is not serious.

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? - What is the maximum effectiveness of Prayer? Zero.
If prayer works, then why do we need medical technology?

Trod Level 5 May 14, 2018
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Get well soon ..

Nader Level 6 May 14, 2018
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Best wishes for a speedy recovery and sending positive vibes your way.

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