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@Qualia It's sooo trueeeee <3

@Nickbeee yes it is.

@Qualia Still looking lol

I agree.

You are just greedy !

@VAL3941 she may be worth her greed!

@GipsyOfNewSpain
Certainly looks like it ? She is gorgeous!

@VAL3941 awww! You guys...lol

@Freespirit64
Wish I lived close to you sweetness ?

@VAL3941 The story of my life!

@Freespirit64
You mean our lives ?

@VAL3941 Yes...lol

@Freespirit64
You never know, things could change when you least expect it too ?

totally agree with that

I make a mean pecan pie. Hell with cake. ?

@poetdi56 My kind of girl.

Those are just chores. Is there such a thing as a romantic chore?

@AstralSmoke Is the Pope Catholic???? Romantic chores are my favorite chores. In my world flowers, chocolates and I love you's are no match for a clean bathroom, floor, dishes and a home cooked meal. Of course this may be a generational thing.

@patchoullijulie I guess I'd have to say no about the pope then. I can't think of any romantic chores that I do, although I do like having a clean bathroom, floors, dishes, and a homecooked meal. I believe we are of the same generation unless of course, they've shortened the term limits.

@moonmaid IKR?

@moonmaid, @AstralSmoke lol ...your right we are of the same generation but didn't you yourself say that you didn't know that there was such a thing as a romantic chore? I think that is mostly generational. My point being is that in our generation it was, generally speaking, accepted that the woman would do all the chores (for whatever reasons) so after a life time of taking care of such things, as a woman, I really appreciate them being done by someone else. If there is willing help from a partner then they can be considered romantic gestures....at least thats how I see them because it makes me want to just hug and kiss the life out of someone who helps in that way.

@patchoullijulie Wow, we should move in together. I love hugs and kisses. I was raised in a fairly large family and we all had our own chores to do. And since I'm a tad bit older now, I have a lot of chores. I do them just to get them done. No romantic twists for me. But I agree, it's very nice to have someone to share the chores. Makes life more enjoyable for sure.

@AstralSmoke Ah so that is why you are able to take care of yourself. I was the eldest and was put in charge of everything and everyone ugh! That turned me into a control freak eeeek and now I am rebelling. Not that I'm bitter or anything! But your right sharing being the operative word. And who doesn't love hugs and kisses right?

@AstralSmoke I think what makes a chore romantic is doing said chore without being asked. For example, if a partner is having a busy or stressed day, and the other partner puts in a load of laundry or stops for wine on the way home - bingo!

@poetdi56 OK, I got it. I don't think of that as being romantic, but perhaps it is. I can still appreciate it. I would categorize those things under helpful, thoughtful, compassionate, etc. I do these things for friends and family with no intention of coming across as romantic.

@poetdi56 Thanks...that was actually what I was trying to say.

@AstralSmoke What poetdi56 said! She is much better with words than I am.

@patchoullijulie Maybe we just have a different understanding (interpretation) of what romantic is. I can live with that. I always do chores without being asked

Sweet but sappy. To me, romance is sharing the dream, grown-up eroticism and civil activism are more our style.

Like we do, lmao

I found the quote:

“They say that when you meet someone and feel like it’s love at first sight, [you should] run in the other direction. All that’s happened is that your dysfunction has meshed with their dysfunction. Your wounded inner child has recognised their wounded inner child, both hoping to be healed by the same fire that burned them.”