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I'm old enough now that I'm starting to think a little bit about my legacy. While I've written a fair amount, (poetry, prose, music) it's nothing that's going to last, and I sure ain't leaving any money. I think good people are going to be my legacy. My kids, and other people of the tribe myself and my brother have assembled, who I believe I have had a good influence on, and are good people, at least in part, because of me. And I think that's a great legacy.

Tomfoolery33 9 May 29
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Of course, people are your legacy -- in several senses. First, their is your progeny. Second, there are the people whom you have influenced directly during your lifetime. They, in turn will influence others withe some of the thoughts you have generated or passed on, and it never ends as long as the human species exists. Finally, if you have written a lot expressing your ideas and shared those writings widely, people will be influenced by what you have said in writing.

As a person who has tried to live a good, helpful life, as a high school teacher, as a teacher educator, as an educational staff developer focusing on improving teaching, learning and school leadership, as an educational writer, and as a school administrator, I don't worry about my legacy. I do sometimes wonder how widely my influence has spread.

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It is, I feel the same way.... my two daughters and my son. My Evolution, the rest is Crapola. So you set up the right path for them and they will carry on your legacy after you are gone.

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You undervalue yourself. Even if your name is mis-remembered or not remembered at all, you have touched many lives in countless ways. Did you hold a door for someone? Were you pleasant to an underpaid cashier? People take those brief moments of feeling appreciated back into the lives around them and so on ...

This is my life. I always try to do the little nice thing. I see something pretty someone is wearing and I tell them. I smile at people. I hold doors. I let them in front of me on the highway. I feel confident that my life, though no big deal in any big way, has at least caused more people to smile than otherwise. And as I believe when we die, we die, that's quite enough. (Plus I do have some kids & grandkids who love me, so...)

And yeah, your community, your tribe, - that is so important!

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I backpacked for 4 days in the wilderness. Most folks bring a tent, food , water, the essentials to last 4 days. My pack weighed about 40 pounds. I added 5 more pounds by including my black stiletto heels. I left them on a chair we made out of rocks. I carved "memories were made here."
It blew my partners mind that I was able to make an incredibly sexy memory for years to come. He still talks about it. So to whomever found my shoes.. I hope it inspired you to live outside the box. Left a Racey legacy of sorts.

Hahaah! This is awesome. Also, really a good example of why I never sit on the ground without a blanket! haah

@Jenmcjen lol

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I know I've influenced a lot of people, for better or worse.
Still do, I think.
Other than that I've no desire to be remembered.

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I've been thinking about this, too, lately. Mainly because I am so compelled to write in journals. A question on here actually led me to look at all the journals I keep, and I'm asking myself. why? You know, and writing about that in my journal. Because my life is not - well, okay, my life COULD be considered very interesting. Not at the present moment. But not any more so than many others' lives, and honestly, I'm sure my kids will just toss my journals when I die.

And yet, when I see a blank page, I get all excited at the possibilities!

Keep writing. It's a way of learning.

I worked in a provincial archives. We treasured journals as do many historians. Journals are primary source material for historians. Keep them!

@pixiedust Yeah I feel like nothing historical of interest is in my journals, but I have been writing for years and a lot of my political thoughts of the day are in there, so maybe...

@Jenmcjen You'd be surprised what historians, archivists, genealogists, sociologists, anthropologists and just plain nosy folk find important 🙂

I know exactly what you mean about wanting to write in journals. It's part of what motivated me to start a new path of writing more, haha

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