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Calling all women over 50!
Would you date a bald or a balding man? I'm not talking about when the love of your life starts losing his hair and is eventually bald; I want to know if you would start a relationship with a man after seeing in his profile picture that he is losing most of his hair?

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I am a natural type of gal. I don't color my hair and keep it short cuz it's uncontrollably curly. I rarely wear makeup though I do get my nails done. I like to do what I like to do, and I extend that option to everyone around me. So you're loosing your hair. My questions are: How is your mind? How is your heart? How is your health? How do you treat others? Shall I go on? Those are much more critical to me than the amount of hair you have, or your height, or the car you drive or don't drive. So yes, I'd consider starting a relationship with a balding or bald dude who lives in my general area, unless you voted for Don the Con and have no regrets on that score then that is a big old NO.

I second that emotion!

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I want a man with a natural hair line. In other words, no comb-overs or toupees....and no dying gray hair. Bald is just fine or if you're going bald, just go ahead and shave it all off if you would like.

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Bald is fine. Comb overs not so much. But the real determining factors are his personality, how he treats people and animals, and his integrity.

PeggyH Level 4 May 30, 2018
5

Doesn’t matter to me... it’s all about the personality and if we would get along well.

LorraineF Level 4 May 30, 2018
5

My first husband (when I was 26), was completely bald. Personally, I like men with either long hair or bald. I hate the in between look.

kiramea Level 7 May 30, 2018
5

why not ?

So happens my first husband was bald at 21. One needn't be old, it's all about heredity.

evergreen Level 8 May 30, 2018
4

Have and would again. I don't see the problem.

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There is a lot more to think about that where your hairline ends. If a man is honorable, intelligent, kind, Has integrity, it doesn't matter. Just no combovers. They look so desperate. Also, no Trump hair. It just looks goofy.

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Considering I'm going bald, I'd be awfully hypocritical to say no. So men: would you date a balding 46 year old woman? Who said fuck it and shaved her head?

Jenmcjen Level 6 May 31, 2018

Hmph @kenriley. A like is not a yes.

@Jenmcjen I just LMAO, You know girl or woman with a shaved head is really sexy. So ok I'll say yes.

@kenriley THANK you!

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I would! It seems like the older I get, I find myself attracted to more and more bald or balding men. But, no comb overs! I also dislike when they are almost completely bald but, insist on putting a teeny tiny pony tail in the back with barely any hair in it. I just want to scream, "stop denying your hair loss and cut it off already!". LOL If I could get away with it, I'd shave my hair off. My mornings would be so much easier. ?

Aushra Level 6 May 31, 2018

That last part. I used to always say that. Then I started going bald (apparently women do this). So I DID IT! I haven't looked back! Mornings ARE much easier. And once you get used to the idea that everybody who sees you in public thinks you're a dyke or cancer survivor, and who gives a fuck what they think, it's not that big a deal.

Comb overs...lol...like Woody and Bill in Kingpin...lmao...sexy!

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I am not 50, but when I was in my 20s I dated a bald guy (he was completely bald at 25) - familial early hair loss. Sex was great smile001.gif lol

Blizzard Level 7 May 30, 2018
3

Of course. I've been dating a guy who is cometely bald going on 6 years. I've never known him to have hair.

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Unm yes.

Iamkratom Level 6 May 30, 2018
3

Bald heads just need to be kept nicely. just like any other type of hairline. bald is very sexy if the guy will just embrace his head.

cheepsie Level 4 May 30, 2018
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I agree with the other comments. Nothing wrong with aging. We are all doing it.

Vickylyn Level 6 May 30, 2018
3

Of course! I assume we're not talking about a tangerine comb-over or something odd, like that. I actually attracted to people who are aging naturally -- at our age that includes balding or at the very least gray hair. Authenticity in all things is important.

Are you talking about the tangerine tinted baboon??????

@ShuMei2018 Ha came across it yesterday (wish I could take credit for it. I just call him the idiot in charge) and I kinda liked it too! smile002.gif

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Absolutely. I don't consider hair, or the absence of it, when determining compatibility.

Cricket9 Level 5 May 31, 2018
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Good answers ladies. ☺

Sticks48 Level 9 May 30, 2018
2

Yes—and like others, no comb-overs. Or mullets.

BlueWave Level 8 May 30, 2018
1

I would if he were completly bald, not one who is trying to hold on to the hair he has left. A shaved head is so sexy!

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Sure why not? I prefer them hairy...love long hair...but hair, or lack thereof...had nothing to do with their character.

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It was fun reading the comments, I don't have any hair on top and just a little around the sides, But I've never really had any problems dating. So I guess either I was lucky or it's not that big of a deal.

kenriley Level 8 May 31, 2018

You are adorable! Anybody'd be lucky to date ya.

Or you are confident within yourself and your hair just doesn't matter.

@tryingcake I'm good with it. LOL It saves me on hair cuts.

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I am only 47 but that is close enough. smile009.gif
Yes I would. Hair is just hair. It does not define who a person is.

Shelly_Y Level 5 May 31, 2018
1

I think we all find certain things attractive; I suppose who was attached to said bald/balding head would be the bigger issue.

AzVixen52 Level 7 May 31, 2018
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What refreshing comments these are! The world is a much better place than when I woke up. Thank you!

mauxjen Level 4 May 31, 2018
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