Do the math... the further you go the more (vastly more) people are in your circle. LD dating is problematic, but the match-up is much more likely to be better than with people just a few miles away. But yes, convenience would be nice. Living in a rural area I know for a FACT that there's no one of interest within 50-miles so I always have a long drive. Thats' OK.

I am almost positive, there has to be more than one corner in New Jersey! I'm almost certain of that, but I've never been there, so l could be wrong. ?

I hope you meet someone lovely soon. Good luck.

Try finding someone in an Old Jersey, you might have better luck ?

Lots of crickets chirping in my neighborhood, too. Sigh...

I thought I am the unlucky guy.

Here we don't even have a freaking corner !!!!!

That's a shame. You're a lovely lady. Maybe there just aren't a lot of NJ members here? That doesn't make a lot of sense to me but it is possible. If all else fails, move closer to Chicago. There's a lot of awesome and amazing guys here, including myself, that would be just right for you.