In hindsight , I might just be a neurotic jerk but I thought back to a time when one of my ex-girlfriends asked me to drive her to the DMV before going out for yogurt.
Was I over reacting ?
I like to think I am not too overly picky or demanding in dealbreakers of who I would date, but I do require that the woman already have a driver's license, and preferably her own car, as well as auto insurance and some financial security, so I don't have to always pay her way and we can still enjoy doing the things I enjoy doing together. But, now that I'm a few years into the dating game, with little success, I am starting to think that guys like me probably have to either lower our standards to find a long term woman, or else agree to become sort of a Sugar Daddy lite version or object. I really hope I am wrong about this....
Umm… perhaps she needed to go because she could not legally drive herself (expired license, tags&hellip. It also depends, did she ask or demand? Did she give you time to decline or spring it on you? I might ASK prior to a date, stating that I have an errand to run, or we could start the date now, if he wanted to join me at the DMV… The guy who became my husband would likely have said sure, as he often wanted to get together ASAP and because we typically found our “down home” rural DMV amusing/entertaining.