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Be my true self...

By SaucyCheryl8
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This was posted before,,not sure if it was this group or noth but a lot of thought provoking ideas came out

RoyMillar Level 8 July 18, 2019
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Now that's a form of in intimacy I wish I could find. Most people can't even accept the first thing someone says on a dating site, let alone their complete truth.

dynosophical Level 3 July 17, 2019
3

That is beautiful and so true...

balou Level 8 July 17, 2019
2

Yes. When you can be vulnerable with someone, that is the most intimate act.

Nukdookum Level 8 July 17, 2019
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150% totally agree!!!

Our_existence Level 9 July 17, 2019
3

I agree

Unity Level 7 July 16, 2019
2

That is so true!

Corvislover Level 7 July 16, 2019
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Word !!!!

Outsideit67 Level 6 July 16, 2019
2

Very good. Sex without any intimacy makes me feel hollow as if you are just going through the motions. Ugh.

EyesThatSmile Level 8 July 16, 2019
2

Yup good definition

bobwjr Level 9 July 16, 2019
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Not in my dictionary... lol

St-Sinner Level 8 July 16, 2019

Then what is your definition?

@SaucyCheryl
Physical Intimacy.

@St-Sinner Sex?

@SaucyCheryl
Physical intimacy is larger than sex. It includes touch, talk, kiss, sex, embracing, hugging, just lying naked, holding hands, massage, pulling hair and some would include spanking.,

@St-Sinner Do you ever take down the walls and be your true self?

@SaucyCheryl
Walls as in house walls?

@St-Sinner as in emotional walls. Bare your soul.

@SaucyCheryl
No, to tell you the truth. I would not call the things you mentioned in the meme as intimacy. I call them truth, trust, support but not intimacy.

We often make things more complicated than they are.

@St-Sinner Somehow I think your stance is much more complicated.

@SaucyCheryl

Why? I am stating very plainly.

These are all separate things

Intimacy
Security
Trust
Truth

There is a reason why there are separate words. All of them together is not intimacy.

I don't even know what 'bare your soul' means. How do you bare your soul? Can you actually do that?

@St-Sinner You are actually doing it right now. Feelings... nowhere in your definitions was anything about feelings.

@SaucyCheryl
I did not feel anything. Did you?

@St-Sinner I sure did.

@St-Sinner So for you , intimacy begins and ends with what goes on in the bed ? Boy are you missing out .

@Cast1es No, I am not saying that. I am saying we are mixing separate emotions with intimacy. Trust, truth are not intimacy. You can have intimacy without the two and others. Two strangers can have intimacy which can include emotional connections. It may not need trust and not be based on truth or security.

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