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This is a group for those who have lost a spouse, life partner, or significant other to share the unique issues they face and to support each other as they recover from that devastating loss.

This is a group for those who have lost a spouse, life partner, or significant other to share the unique issues they face and to support each other as they recover from that devastating loss.

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Posts Tagged "death" By Redheadedgammy (34) Posts by members only

Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Feb 7, 2021Feb 2021

Posted by Happycanuck
New to this group , but have been on Agnostic for a bit. My wife Pat passed away on Dec. 23. She complained about not feeling well after supper. I asked if she wanted to go to Emerg. She said no. I mentioned this a few times- Emerg./Ambulance-nope. ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Mar 14, 2020Mar 2020

Posted by JrhQ12
I did not find a group for grieving for a child. I did see a few post here for folks who lost a spouse as they had exited the relationship. Between the two events in my life, I joined. My ex left 3 years ago after almost 43 year and four wonderful ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Aug 25, 2019Aug 2019

Posted by Hazydays
Tomorrow would be my 3rd wedding anniversary. We didn’t even get a chance to celebrate our 1st. He died 9 months after we got married. On what would have been our first anniversary it was spent at a ‘celebration of life’ memorial for him at ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Aug 22, 2019Aug 2019

Posted by ProudMerrie
I can't stop crying today. One of the things I heard early on about death anniversaries is that the first is not the worst. I'm approaching the second anniversary of my husband's death (9/6), slept badly last night, read some posts on here about ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Aug 7, 2019Aug 2019

Posted by Mythbuster
I can't believe how out of hand my anger can get right now. Dawn's been dead for 10 days, and I knew it was coming for a long time; just no way to know when. But my anger on the road while driving is over the top, at least compared to my behavior ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Aug 7, 2019Aug 2019

Posted by Mythbuster
I can't believe how out of hand my anger can get right now. Dawn's been dead for 10 days, and I knew it was coming for a long time; just no way to know when. But my anger on the road while driving is over the top, at least compared to my behavior ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Jun 15, 2019Jun 2019

Posted by Mythbuster
The following is an answer Ann Druyan had for a fundamentalitist who claimed her husband, Carl Sagan, converted to Christianity shortly before his death. "There was no deathbed conversion," Druyan says. "No appeals to God, no hope for an afterlife, ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
May 30, 2019May 2019

Posted by Bobsuruncle
My wife died the morning of Mach 19th, 2016. She was a breath of fresh air from being in an abusive relationship for 20 years (on paper). When she died people thought I would commit suicide. Off myself. Being a gun dealer I have many, and several, ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
May 26, 2019May 2019

Posted by Huskygirl4ever
From September 2013 until October 2017 this is what my left hand look like Norm'sring was behind mine I honestly couldn't even take the Rings off if my finger itched I'd have to itch around it I was forced to take them off in 2017 because of a ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Apr 7, 2019Apr 2019

Posted by Bobsuruncle
After my wife died it got me thinking about my own death. I made a will and let some people know where it's at. Not hidden. Made sure include/mention some that totally abandoned me or tried to ruin my life. People generally rush in and take ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Mar 3, 2019Mar 2019

Posted by Marionville
I don’t post here very often, although do respond and try to support others when they do so. All of us, in this group, have been bereaved at some time, by losing either a spouse, partner or close relative or friend. The grief we suffer is unique...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Feb 6, 2019Feb 2019

Posted by ProudMerrie
Yet another metamorphosis for me. I belong to several local organizations. I haven't been to any meetings since my husband died in September of 2017. Every month I tell myself I need to start going back to those meetings and get back to my life. ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Jan 11, 2019Jan 2019

Posted by Larry-new
BWV 1004 Bach Chaconne, Raphaella Smits, guitar. Words absolutely fail me on this performance. Written upon the death of his wife.
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Dec 4, 2018Dec 2018

Posted by Sheannutt
Death changes everything.?
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Dec 1, 2018Dec 2018

Posted by Susieq
I've been dating a Canadian snowbird who is here for the winter. Thursday was the 2nd anniversay of his wife's death and he wanted to be alone. Yesterday morning, (Friday) he called me and said he didn't want to see me anymore. He wanted to be ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Nov 13, 2018Nov 2018

Posted by Fuzzy
Thankful for this community. The anniversary of my wife's death is in Dec. This is the beginning of my hardest time of year. Thanks to everyone sharing i don't feel so alone in my continuing grief. Thank you.
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Nov 8, 2018Nov 2018

Posted by psycheworks
It's been a wobbly few weeks on the run up to a double anniversary of Jock's birthday on the 27th and his death on the 1st December, I'm holding up better than last year though....so far.
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Oct 17, 2018Oct 2018

Posted by Wangobango3
Last week would have been my 45th wedding anniversary. Last Wed. My girlfriend was diagnosed with cancer of the trachea. Next week will be the one year anniversary of my wife's death. I have become uncomfortably numb.
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Oct 3, 2018Oct 2018

Posted by Sofabeast
As the third anniversary of my wife's death approaches, I find it difficult to engage with death. How do others deal with talking about death in general and the loss of a life partner around the time of your anniversary?
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Sep 26, 2018Sep 2018

Posted by Hazydays
Last night was my last night sleeping alone in my own bed. Today my boyfriend flies in and tomorrow we begin to pack up the moving truck with all my belongings and I head to his state which is 1,555 miles away. A new home in a new town and a new ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Sep 18, 2018Sep 2018

Posted by Annaise
Is loosing someone to a breakup the same as loosing someone to death? I have had both experiences. Both have been painful, and a reason to grieve for me.
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Sep 16, 2018Sep 2018

Posted by ProudMary
Did any of you find yourself becoming more self-centered after you lost your partner/spouse? I struggle with this a lot. I’ve talked to friends about it and they all say it isn’t true, but I don’t believe them. I never realized how much my ...
10 comments
Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Aug 16, 2018Aug 2018

Posted by Sheannutt
Death changes everything.
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Aug 2, 2018Aug 2018

Posted by JackPedigo
What if you had died first? Sorry this is a bit long but I feel important for this group. My partner and I talked about this especially after meeting a cousin of a friend of ours. The woman was married to a Greek and living in ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Jul 13, 2018Jul 2018

Posted by Sara72712
Well, here it is. Today, Friday the 13th, would have been our 11th wedding anniversary. And to make matters worse, Monday would have been his 35th birthday. Yeah, he was only 30 when he took his own life. I woke up, rolled over, and bam. Like why ...
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Posted by bookofmoronsIts been 10 years last week since I lost her. Hard to believe where that time went and yet it isn't either

Posted by RedheadedgammyToday four years ago today, at 4:15 in the morning my darling Richard passed away.

Posted by BettyEvery day. 😥

Posted by RoseyRoseToday is the anniversary of my husbands birth.

Posted by GeorgeRocheleauI know how they feel.

Posted by Sonja44All of it.

Posted by Sonja44My love would have been 61 years old today. 💔

Posted by AlchemyWow, I am grateful to find this group.

Posted by AlchemyWow, I am grateful to find this group.

Posted by Huskygirl4everToday would be our 27th anniversary it's the seventh one without you and it hurts this picture would be taken on June 12th the original date we had set for the wedding but we had to get married a ...

Posted by Huskygirl4everI remember when Norm gave this to me and the first time I ever read it I actually read my last name as Friedrich this is one of the things I will always cherish

Posted by AncientNight45 years ago, my Father told me, "Beware the Ides of March!" It was the day I got Married to my Girlfriend.

Posted by KymmacgOne of the biggest issues for me, now, even 18 years later, is the loss of life.

Posted by alonI had a nice Bacon/Cheese Omelette for my Sunday Breakfast this morning instead of my usual Eggs Benedict.

Posted by MsHolidayMemories.

Posted by MsHolidayI have chosen to place this here to let others know that we do move forward.
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