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I am a lifelong Ann Arborite with a college education, a grown son, and 3 cats. I am an outgoing introvert - I love my friends and family and also like to hang out at home with a book or tv show and a cat. I have a job and hobbies and volunteer commitments but will make time for someone who enhances my life.

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Please watch cnbc tuesday they are rebroadcasting obamas 2004 speech. Dont watch trump. Give him bad...
A2Jennifer comments on Jan 8, 2019:
I can’t even listen to the guy - he makes me so angry, the lying, name calling, racism, gaslighting, it’s bad enough to read it.
How as athiest do you determine right from wrong ?
A2Jennifer comments on Jan 7, 2019:
If it doesn’t hurt anyone, it’s not “wrong.” Sometimes it’s inappropriate and we abstain from things because they merely make others uncomfortable (like walking around naked in public). Lawful and moral are only loosely connected. Just because something is legal doesn’t mean it’s moral, and vice versa. A great book examines this question, “The Righteous Mind” explores how morality evolved. One example was, adult brother and sister secretly have sex, use 2 forms of birth control (to prevent pregnancy leading to genetic anomaly) and never tell anyone. Is it wrong? It’s yucky, but they have eliminated any potential for harm to others. Lots of people say that it’s wrong even if they can’t articulate why, except “it’s gross.” Disgust is a powerful force in what we believe is “wrong.” Also sense of fairness, care for others, loyalty, and a couple of others. All of these have an evolutionary basis.
I was supposed to have a lunch date tomorrow. He insinuated we could go to my apartment after if we ...
A2Jennifer comments on Jan 7, 2019:
Asshat
I am a survivor. I survived sexual abuse from a parent as a child. I survived an emotionally, ...
A2Jennifer comments on Jan 7, 2019:
Thanks for sharing. You’ve been through a lot. Welcome to the group.
Looking for support. Everyone I know is a believer.
A2Jennifer comments on Jan 6, 2019:
You’ve come to the right place!
From FB Lmao. Customer service was rude at Hobby Lobby, so my petty self did what I do best.... ...
A2Jennifer comments on Jan 6, 2019:
*giggle*
45 says he can "relate" to those federal employees who will not be getting a paycheck. He says that ...
A2Jennifer comments on Jan 6, 2019:
I can smell it from here
Hi there, everyone. Just joined this group, and I'm hoping that this a place that's a sounding ...
A2Jennifer comments on Jan 6, 2019:
“Think my picker is broken” I feel that! ?
What to expect on arrival..
A2Jennifer comments on Jan 5, 2019:
Kinda don’t blame them.
I'm one year cigarette free! I tried a few times to smoke one and it was so disgusting.
A2Jennifer comments on Jan 5, 2019:
Good for you! I quit in 2005. ONE time, a few years ago, I tried to smoke one more. It was terrible and my mouth tasted like a dirty sock for the rest of the day. Never going back!
How long have you or do you wait to change relationship status on fb? I feel when ready but what if...
A2Jennifer comments on Jan 5, 2019:
At least, definitely not until you have had the conversation between the two of you and agreed that you are in a committed relationship. I would not be in any hurry to publicly pronounce a change.
After 10 years of marriage is not easy, to start over or put yourself out there again, but is worth ...
A2Jennifer comments on Jan 4, 2019:
It’s hard. But single and happy is way better than married and miserable!
I mean... really? The message right before what you see was something about 2 hours of fucking ...
A2Jennifer comments on Jan 4, 2019:
Gross
[yahoo.com] School policy in Arizona school forces kids with bad grades to wear special red ids ...
A2Jennifer comments on Jan 3, 2019:
That can only make things worse
Tucker Carlson Claims High-Earning Women Turn Men Into Drug Addicts And Criminals | Crooks and Liars...
A2Jennifer comments on Jan 3, 2019:
Whatever fucked up thing men do, it’s always womens’ fault ?
McDonald's employee fights back after Florida man attacks her over plastic straw
A2Jennifer comments on Jan 3, 2019:
Yeah that was shocking the way he went over the counter at her. But she came back HARD and he got charged with assault, so hopefully justice will be served.
Just after I moved into my present location (2013) I started dating a gentleman. He admitted to ...
A2Jennifer comments on Jan 3, 2019:
And that kid in high school lost both parents in less than a year ?
Jimmy Carter...
A2Jennifer comments on Jan 2, 2019:
Well said!
Daryl Dragon, of Captain & Tennille, dead at 76 - CNN
A2Jennifer comments on Jan 2, 2019:
Ok, if your real name is “Dragon” WHY would you use a stage name?!?!
Weather in different parts of the country.
A2Jennifer comments on Jan 2, 2019:
Yep that’s about right!
Here's looking at you!
A2Jennifer comments on Jan 2, 2019:
One of those days!
Hey all. I'm Jackie. I'm gender fluid so preferred pronouns are they/ them/ their. I joined this ...
A2Jennifer comments on Jan 2, 2019:
Welcome!
Morals and ethics
A2Jennifer comments on Jan 1, 2019:
That is SO complicated. I would say, use your judgment about who NEEDS so know, and discreetly let them know if you can.
I just turned on the "open to dating " section of my profile.. the percentages are ummm. ...
A2Jennifer comments on Jan 1, 2019:
The percentages here are USELESS. They don’t collect enough information to determine compatibility.
Sometimes a poster will respond to one of my comments with “so you believe the opposite?” ...
A2Jennifer comments on Dec 30, 2018:
The classic straw man, “so you think that... [insert ridiculous alternative here]” e.g. “A border wall will harm the environment, cost a fortune, and do little to reduce illegal immigration.” : “so you think we should have open borders?” Um, no.
I have an idea. I have fixed and built lots of stuff, built furniture, fixed furniture, built my ...
A2Jennifer comments on Dec 30, 2018:
Smart to recognize what your areas of expertise are (and aren’t!) ?
Declining birth rates. Is this not something we should be aiming for? Not according to some ...
A2Jennifer comments on Dec 30, 2018:
The planet can only support so many people. “God” is NOT going to “work everything out” for people who ignore that reality.
If you had to choose between keeping 30 grand or bailing a loved one out of prison with the money, ...
A2Jennifer comments on Dec 30, 2018:
The red one ?
I would like to put something into perspective since I think our minds in general have a hard time ...
A2Jennifer comments on Dec 30, 2018:
I recently saw the converse of this somewhere - what it would take to EARN a billion dollars. Even if you could earn $1000 an hour, 10 hours a day, 6 day’s a week, it would take hundreds of years.
I think Americans are far more likely to die from lack of adequate Healthcare than from a terrorist ...
A2Jennifer comments on Dec 30, 2018:
Absolutely.
Religion based misogyny
A2Jennifer comments on Dec 30, 2018:
Isn’t pretty much all religion dependent on misogyny? That is certainly ONE thing to criticize about religion.
I'm changing my thinking about dating and relationships. If you don't like me as I am...flaws and...
A2Jennifer comments on Dec 30, 2018:
I’m there too.
I'm dismantling my Xmas paraphernalia today. I'm enclosing a note to myself in the box. "Don't do it...
A2Jennifer comments on Dec 30, 2018:
That’s a good plan! I have not done a tree at my house for the last couple of years. I helped my parents decorate theirs and that was enough for me.
I love Harrys friends..
A2Jennifer comments on Dec 29, 2018:
I’m working my way all the HP movies this week, so I JUST saw this... Well, a slight variation of this!
Hi all! Just checking in for a bit.. January first is new years day... Did you also know it's my ...
A2Jennifer comments on Dec 29, 2018:
Hey Happy Birthday. Don’t wait to start saving - through the magic of compound interest, those first dollars saved grow the most - every little bit helps!
Good morning Girls and Boys....Started the coffee machine, came downstairs and turned on CNN...Went ...
A2Jennifer comments on Dec 29, 2018:
That is a VERY SAD story. But hey, if you have to replace your coffee making, I highly encourage switching to a french press!
I don't know if it is every state, but come Jan.1st, hospitals have to post how much they charge for...
A2Jennifer comments on Dec 29, 2018:
This is actually really important. People have no idea how much things cost. People who will bear part of the cost of their care literally CAN’T get a cost estimate. And the cost for the same services can be different depending on who will pay it (Medicare, private insurance, individual). Hopefully this will move toward more transparency.
I want my house back!!!
A2Jennifer comments on Dec 28, 2018:
It’s their house now. You are permitted to reside there as long as you provide food.
How important to you is it that your partner has the same religious beliefs as you? 1 - Not ...
A2Jennifer comments on Dec 28, 2018:
Actually I would say VERY important that they have the same OR SIMILAR beliefs.
Oh, yes he did... Muppet Grover lets the f-bomb fly: E! NEWS: Did Grover Drop an F-Bomb on ...
A2Jennifer comments on Dec 28, 2018:
This is awesome!
Look what was in the drive-in lane at my bank in Shawnee, Ok. Proof positive that not all Okies are ...
A2Jennifer comments on Dec 28, 2018:
Is anyone else most surprised that these are on a pickup truck?
I have a brand new granddaughter and want to make sure her parents get the totality of the parenting...
A2Jennifer comments on Dec 27, 2018:
Not as soon as they can learn the drums!
Epiphany Cat -wise
A2Jennifer comments on Dec 27, 2018:
Seems like at least one would bring a barf
Categories for relationship goals on OKC, does anyone else read them as follows: "Hookup" = Fuck, ...
A2Jennifer comments on Dec 27, 2018:
Yeah when I see “open to non-monogamy” I always wonder if they mean they are open to ME being non-monogamous or they are seeking people who are ok with THEIR non-monogamy ?
Does anyone out there parent Bengals too? So wonderful, so beautiful.
A2Jennifer comments on Dec 26, 2018:
They are SO CUTE!
A veteran friend of mine sent me this along with the message of “ It doesn’t matter who’s in ...
A2Jennifer comments on Dec 26, 2018:
What a beautiful and poignant photo
[cbc.ca] Indigenous women kept from seeing their newborn babies until agreeing to sterilization, ...
A2Jennifer comments on Dec 26, 2018:
This is appalling, sad, infuriating. Who DOES this stuff?
Can anyone help me with this new members posting problem? "I tried to post a pic, but it kept ...
A2Jennifer comments on Dec 26, 2018:
@admin can you help this new poster?
Interesting observation: today TV ads seemed to have flipped from gift deals and ways to bring ...
A2Jennifer comments on Dec 25, 2018:
No surprise. And by March you can score a great deal on a used-once treadmill on Craig’s list!
Color changing octopus!
A2Jennifer comments on Dec 24, 2018:
That is SO COOL!!!
This is delicious!
A2Jennifer comments on Dec 24, 2018:
Nailed it!
Trump Biographer: President’s Entire Campaign Was Likely a ‘Criminal Conspiracy’
A2Jennifer comments on Dec 23, 2018:
This is my surprised face ?
When theists try to tell you why you should believe in god... Do you hear them out, or is it an ...
A2Jennifer comments on Dec 23, 2018:
A sister from the LDS approached me at a gas station tonight. I said, “ I am not someone you want to waste your time talking to.”
LIGHT starter ideas for Christmas Day?
A2Jennifer comments on Dec 22, 2018:
Smoked salmon with cream cheese on... well pretty much anything - mini bagels, rye squares, cardboard...
Is touch important?
A2Jennifer comments on Dec 22, 2018:
Yeah I miss touch. The ONLY thing I miss about being married.
Trump vows 'very long' shutdown in border wall standoff - BBC News
A2Jennifer comments on Dec 21, 2018:
The “art” of negotiation. Bullly, threaten, throw a tantrum.
[yahoo.com] Spurned by Congress Trump Admn Seeks Food Stamp Work Authorization. My ex-husband ...
A2Jennifer comments on Dec 21, 2018:
Like drug testing for welfare recipients, sure to be another “cost-saving measure” that costs more to administer than it saves and serves primarily to stigmatize the poor,
Merry X-Mas!
A2Jennifer comments on Dec 21, 2018:
At least it wasn’t under the tree!
If It Took You Time to Rebuild Your Life Would You Be Careful Who You Let In It?
A2Jennifer comments on Dec 21, 2018:
Yep
I don’t think I’ve put anything up about me. I’ve responded a few times. This is one of the ...
A2Jennifer comments on Dec 21, 2018:
Toxic people seek out kind, empathic, trusting people. And you shouldn’t give up this qualities to keep them away.
Apparently, Words With Friends is another place to meet people. Or at least, they'll try to ...
A2Jennifer comments on Dec 21, 2018:
Ass
I am 30, and am just now considering using my GI Bill to attend university. My only problem, I don't...
A2Jennifer comments on Dec 20, 2018:
Nursing will continue to be in high demand. Also anything in STEM. Thank you for your service!
WHY do SO MANY MEN visit other mens profiles? SMH
A2Jennifer comments on Dec 20, 2018:
?
Giant bierocks! 🍴
A2Jennifer comments on Dec 20, 2018:
Looks like a cousin of the pasty!
Season's Greetings from kitty city.
A2Jennifer comments on Dec 20, 2018:
Mine used to steal my fur-lined gloves and climb the tree to nestle them lovingly in the branches!
My youngest daughter thinks Santa Claus is a short, middle aged, Italian/Puerto Rican lady. I don't...
A2Jennifer comments on Dec 20, 2018:
People usually imagine fictional characters as being similar to themselves. Is SHE a short, middle-aged Italian/Puerto lady, by any chance?
What is love?
A2Jennifer comments on Dec 20, 2018:
Baby don’t hurt me. Don’t hurt me, no more.
Tesla's new Solar Roof is actually cheaper than a normal roof | Inhabitat - Green Design, ...
A2Jennifer comments on Dec 19, 2018:
That’s awesome!
I knew people got testy during the last-minute shopping, but l never imagined they'd need to buy ...
A2Jennifer comments on Dec 19, 2018:
That’s pretty steep!
Do you ask or let them tell?
A2Jennifer comments on Dec 19, 2018:
Good advice so far! Don’t assume, don’t push, don’t ask. He’ll let you know when he’s ready. Or he’ll just bring someone home to introduce to you.
Neither the Democrats or Republicans are nearly as far left as Fox News portrays them.
A2Jennifer comments on Dec 19, 2018:
Hardly a surprise that everything looks far to the left from the perspective of Fox News.
Does rereading a book count?
A2Jennifer comments on Dec 19, 2018:
I would say, it depends on your goal. Was it to read 100 books *this year?* or is this your lifetime tally? I think, you can’t count the same book twice under, say, this year’s goal. But having read a book long ago shouldn’t count against you.
Here are 11 kinds of Bible verses Christians love to ignore | Alternet
A2Jennifer comments on Dec 19, 2018:
And that’s like, all of them, right? Or all except the ones that serve their own selfish needs.
What are some turn offs from other people? Turn ons?
A2Jennifer comments on Dec 18, 2018:
Turn-offs: bad hygiene, rudeness, Turn-ons: facial hair and men who are bad for me, apparently
Religious people generally have quite the resource and network of people, buildings and events from ...
A2Jennifer comments on Dec 18, 2018:
Meetup.com is a great way to find people you have things in common with!
I agree. The U.S. has become too politically correct to implement this.
A2Jennifer comments on Dec 18, 2018:
Yeah that whole new 1st amendment thing would get in the way
Let's weigh in on this
A2Jennifer comments on Dec 18, 2018:
Omg I scrolled away and THEN got it ? “mass” confusion ?
It's been nearly a month and I thought I'd get over it, but I still miss my ex. I miss her so ...
A2Jennifer comments on Dec 18, 2018:
You just... deal with it. And eventually some days are easier. And some aren’t. I’m sorry you are hurting - and a month is not an unreasonable time to grieve. You will survive.
Good news for singles!!! How do you sleep now?
A2Jennifer comments on Dec 17, 2018:
That’s how I sleep, now that I’m single and I don’t have to worry what disaster my ex will rain on us next.
That’s about how I view the Christmas story. Except I do enjoy holiday lights and wrapping gifts. ...
A2Jennifer comments on Dec 17, 2018:
OMG this actually made me laugh OUT LOUD!
It's amazing how conservatives can nit pick when it is something they support. But then turn right ...
A2Jennifer comments on Dec 16, 2018:
Oh the irony
Does he ever remind you of Charlie Sheen? Winning!!
A2Jennifer comments on Dec 16, 2018:
Yes, I’ve Had the same thought. Charlie Sheen when he was on a LOT of drugs.
Looking for something is to wear? What is the MOST attractive thing to don?
A2Jennifer comments on Dec 16, 2018:
I’m gonna go with NO BRA
I always celebrate longest night aka the winter solstice, not because I consider myself a witch just...
A2Jennifer comments on Dec 16, 2018:
There is an annual solstice event at the Indian health center I work with.
This Great Pyrenese is taking care of this baby deer who has lost his mom. Beautiful
A2Jennifer comments on Dec 16, 2018:
Oh my GAWD that is SO CUTE!!!
Which is worse in a spouse, one who is very conservative, supportive of Trump, gun rights, lower ...
A2Jennifer comments on Dec 15, 2018:
At least liberals care about other people.
Healthcare: Give it to everyone as a government program. Every citizen should be provided health ...
A2Jennifer comments on Dec 15, 2018:
Have you been reading my homework? I just turned in a paper on that topic.
Here is an interesting thought.... I am over the hill and the conversation has come up, how do I ...
A2Jennifer comments on Dec 15, 2018:
I recently read that yes, your phone is listening, and that’s why you see ads for things that have only been mentioned in out-loud conversations.
My son graduated from our local tech college today. The ceremony opened with an extremely religious ...
A2Jennifer comments on Dec 14, 2018:
I think, since your son is done and it won’t impact him, it would be ok to contact the dean. And I think your point about touting “diversity” is key.
Under the heading of, "I can't f-ing believe it". In the local news they had a recent story where a...
A2Jennifer comments on Dec 14, 2018:
That’s appalling.
So, tell us, do you think in terms of race or ethnicity? How do you define the two? And how does ...
A2Jennifer comments on Dec 14, 2018:
Race isn’t a biological fact but a social construct. That doesn’t mean that it’s impact isn’t real. I do research and program work in an urban Native American setting and there is a focus on cultural competency/humility. It’s important to be aware of how race and ethnicity and culture may effect people without assuming that you know who individuals are based on those characteristics.
Texas Federal Judge says Obamacare is unconstitutional. Will be appealed. None the less, we need ...
A2Jennifer comments on Dec 14, 2018:
Yeah conservatives are still trying to dismantle this but taking health insurance away from people might actually get them to complain. 3 states voted in Medicaid expansion under the ACA this November because their republican congress wouldn’t pass it.
Remembering Sandy Hook Elementary Victims | Nightline | ABC News - YouTube
A2Jennifer comments on Dec 14, 2018:
These children should be tweens now. And nothing has changed.
FYI -Top 5 Dating Sites. I am not promoting any of them. Only if you want to date ...
A2Jennifer comments on Dec 14, 2018:
Nice. 4 of them are for specific populations.
Is being single dangerous?
A2Jennifer comments on Dec 14, 2018:
It is hella better than a bad relationship!
No Money for the Wall but...
A2Jennifer comments on Dec 13, 2018:
Can I get in on that?
Is anyone else getting phone or text messages from religious organizations? Yesterday I got a ...
A2Jennifer comments on Dec 13, 2018:
Hah nope. But I *have* been getting calls in Chinese!
I put some cheese back at the store the other day because I noticed it said non-GMO; went back to ...
A2Jennifer comments on Dec 13, 2018:
I feel that. The GMO panic is ridiculous.
In the past few days I’ve been inundated at work by mansplaining emails about why it’s really OK...
A2Jennifer comments on Dec 13, 2018:
“We shake hands” this starts with OFFERING your hand to another person, not reaching out and grabbing it.
Are there any other academics here? Professional social scientists? Humanities? Other denizens of ...
A2Jennifer comments on Dec 12, 2018:
I work in mental health research/ evaluation and am working on a master’s related to public health.

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