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How Has Your Sexual Libido Changed As You Have Aged?
Redcupcoffee comments on Feb 7, 2018:
I've only gotten more horny as I've aged. I want to live out every single one of my fantasies with every single person I can as much as I can. When I was younger, I was afraid, pent up and self conscious.
Anonbene replies on Feb 12, 2018:
Go on... Do tell. I'm all ears :)
I am pleasently surprised when I meet women like you. It seems some women just need permission from someone that says whatever you dream up is perfectly ok. That attitude seems more popular in the older divorcee and merry widow crowd. Of which I am a happy member.
Redcupcoffee comments on Feb 7, 2018:
I've only gotten more horny as I've aged. I want to live out every single one of my fantasies with every single person I can as much as I can. When I was younger, I was afraid, pent up and self conscious.
Anonbene replies on Feb 12, 2018:
Go on... Do tell. I'm all ears :)
I am pleasently surprised when I meet women like you. It seems some women just need permission from someone that says whatever you dream up is perfectly ok. That attitude seems more popular in the older divorcee and merry widow crowd. Of which I am a happy member.
What do you know that most others don’t?
Brbaldwin comments on Feb 12, 2018:
My social security number. ;-)
Anonbene replies on Feb 12, 2018:
Thanks to Equifax I know it too. ;)
Brbaldwin comments on Feb 12, 2018:
My social security number. ;-)
Anonbene replies on Feb 12, 2018:
Thanks to Equifax I know it too. ;)
Sunday funday. Why are we so lonely in this country?
Anonbene comments on Feb 11, 2018:
My place is much better. No snow, about 60°, food, drink, things to do around here or not do if that's your fancy. Maybe you just need a change of location or to see the first daffodils and forsythia blooming.
Anonbene replies on Feb 12, 2018:
@RushinroundWI sure
Anonbene comments on Feb 11, 2018:
My place is much better. No snow, about 60°, food, drink, things to do around here or not do if that's your fancy. Maybe you just need a change of location or to see the first daffodils and forsythia blooming.
Anonbene replies on Feb 12, 2018:
@RushinroundWI sure
Sunday funday. Why are we so lonely in this country?
Anonbene comments on Feb 11, 2018:
My place is much better. No snow, about 60°, food, drink, things to do around here or not do if that's your fancy. Maybe you just need a change of location or to see the first daffodils and forsythia blooming.
Anonbene replies on Feb 11, 2018:
@RushinroundWI so did I and that's why I live here now. Very quiet no neighbors in site, no noise, some days the only vehicle that drives by is the school bus.
Anonbene comments on Feb 11, 2018:
My place is much better. No snow, about 60°, food, drink, things to do around here or not do if that's your fancy. Maybe you just need a change of location or to see the first daffodils and forsythia blooming.
Anonbene replies on Feb 11, 2018:
@RushinroundWI so did I and that's why I live here now. Very quiet no neighbors in site, no noise, some days the only vehicle that drives by is the school bus.
Generation Z is More Atheistic Than Any Other Age Group – Friendly Atheist
misstuffy comments on Jan 30, 2018:
Love this post, as a babyboomer myself I used to think I was the only Atheist in my family buy as the older generations died off I learned my older brother is probably an atheist,, his wife is and yay! so are ALL of his kids! They are grown themselves and one has started a family with an Atheist ...
Anonbene replies on Feb 11, 2018:
@misstuffy he has pretty tough competition the pope for one and our mega church pastors for more. There's no shortage of them
misstuffy comments on Jan 30, 2018:
Love this post, as a babyboomer myself I used to think I was the only Atheist in my family buy as the older generations died off I learned my older brother is probably an atheist,, his wife is and yay! so are ALL of his kids! They are grown themselves and one has started a family with an Atheist ...
Anonbene replies on Feb 11, 2018:
@misstuffy he has pretty tough competition the pope for one and our mega church pastors for more. There's no shortage of them
Sunday funday. Why are we so lonely in this country?
Anonbene comments on Feb 11, 2018:
My place is much better. No snow, about 60°, food, drink, things to do around here or not do if that's your fancy. Maybe you just need a change of location or to see the first daffodils and forsythia blooming.
Anonbene replies on Feb 11, 2018:
@RushinroundWI you would be welcome here. No strings no weird stuff. Cascade VA.
Anonbene comments on Feb 11, 2018:
My place is much better. No snow, about 60°, food, drink, things to do around here or not do if that's your fancy. Maybe you just need a change of location or to see the first daffodils and forsythia blooming.
Anonbene replies on Feb 11, 2018:
@RushinroundWI you would be welcome here. No strings no weird stuff. Cascade VA.
Bring it on!! Show me your less than flattering side of the current occupant of the US White House.
Gatovicolo comments on Feb 11, 2018:
He’s a cheating, lying, sexual abuser. He has narcissistic personality disorder. And he has exceptionally small hands.
Anonbene replies on Feb 11, 2018:
@jayneonacobb stating facts is not a personal attack.
Gatovicolo comments on Feb 11, 2018:
He’s a cheating, lying, sexual abuser. He has narcissistic personality disorder. And he has exceptionally small hands.
Anonbene replies on Feb 11, 2018:
@jayneonacobb stating facts is not a personal attack.
What can one learn about a person's personality just by observing them?
resserts comments on Feb 11, 2018:
I think it depends on the context: where/when, for how long, etc. I recall an older woman I'd known as an acquaintance for years who seemed so happy and full of life whenever I saw her. Bubbly. One day I was still sitting in my car and she didn't realize anyone was around as she walked into view, ...
Anonbene replies on Feb 11, 2018:
I agree to the point where it's the most important sense we have. Watch your significant other or your children or and especially your parents interact with people without you being seen and you'll be very surprised.
resserts comments on Feb 11, 2018:
I think it depends on the context: where/when, for how long, etc. I recall an older woman I'd known as an acquaintance for years who seemed so happy and full of life whenever I saw her. Bubbly. One day I was still sitting in my car and she didn't realize anyone was around as she walked into view, ...
Anonbene replies on Feb 11, 2018:
I agree to the point where it's the most important sense we have. Watch your significant other or your children or and especially your parents interact with people without you being seen and you'll be very surprised.
Finally watching Wonder Woman.
Normanbites comments on Feb 11, 2018:
Umm .... Because most humans are sexual beings .... I'm not being fair, for the sake of being "funny" .... Sort of.
But yeah, Superman could look more like a regular Joe too.
But where's the fun in that???
Still you have a point, few people look like those characters and that unrealistic ...
Anonbene replies on Feb 11, 2018:
I don't know. I think every single person looks exactly like those characters do to the person that loves them. Those people needed makeup wardrobe lights directions scripts and maybe CGI to look like that. All your honey has to do is step out of a shower and she wins hands down.
Normanbites comments on Feb 11, 2018:
Umm .... Because most humans are sexual beings .... I'm not being fair, for the sake of being "funny" .... Sort of.
But yeah, Superman could look more like a regular Joe too.
But where's the fun in that???
Still you have a point, few people look like those characters and that unrealistic ...
Anonbene replies on Feb 11, 2018:
I don't know. I think every single person looks exactly like those characters do to the person that loves them. Those people needed makeup wardrobe lights directions scripts and maybe CGI to look like that. All your honey has to do is step out of a shower and she wins hands down.
Finally watching Wonder Woman.
hlfsousa comments on Feb 11, 2018:
What kind of comments do women make about Thor? That he is strong? Noble enough to wield the Mjolnir?
Anonbene replies on Feb 11, 2018:
@NeoXerops couldn't agree more. I hate it when women drool all over me too. I can't get hardly any work done or a moment's peace. ;)
hlfsousa comments on Feb 11, 2018:
What kind of comments do women make about Thor? That he is strong? Noble enough to wield the Mjolnir?
Anonbene replies on Feb 11, 2018:
@NeoXerops couldn't agree more. I hate it when women drool all over me too. I can't get hardly any work done or a moment's peace. ;)
Generation Z is More Atheistic Than Any Other Age Group – Friendly Atheist
misstuffy comments on Jan 30, 2018:
Love this post, as a babyboomer myself I used to think I was the only Atheist in my family buy as the older generations died off I learned my older brother is probably an atheist,, his wife is and yay! so are ALL of his kids! They are grown themselves and one has started a family with an Atheist ...
Anonbene replies on Feb 11, 2018:
@Trajan61 there are reasons to fake being a Christian, one is wanted to succeed in politics without even trying. So no they don't come right out and say it but again. Watch what they do and you'll notice they do very atheist things because they know there are no real heavenly consequences to their actions.
misstuffy comments on Jan 30, 2018:
Love this post, as a babyboomer myself I used to think I was the only Atheist in my family buy as the older generations died off I learned my older brother is probably an atheist,, his wife is and yay! so are ALL of his kids! They are grown themselves and one has started a family with an Atheist ...
Anonbene replies on Feb 11, 2018:
@Trajan61 there are reasons to fake being a Christian, one is wanted to succeed in politics without even trying. So no they don't come right out and say it but again. Watch what they do and you'll notice they do very atheist things because they know there are no real heavenly consequences to their actions.
Anyone make any close connections yet?
Anonbene comments on Feb 11, 2018:
I'm about to meet a sure thing. Im this close. I only have to find $150,000 to buy a huge RV. Shh, don't tell anyone, I want it to be a surprise.
Anonbene replies on Feb 11, 2018:
@ThereisnoDog. That's true.
Anonbene comments on Feb 11, 2018:
I'm about to meet a sure thing. Im this close. I only have to find $150,000 to buy a huge RV. Shh, don't tell anyone, I want it to be a surprise.
Anonbene replies on Feb 11, 2018:
@ThereisnoDog. That's true.
Generation Z is More Atheistic Than Any Other Age Group – Friendly Atheist
misstuffy comments on Jan 30, 2018:
Love this post, as a babyboomer myself I used to think I was the only Atheist in my family buy as the older generations died off I learned my older brother is probably an atheist,, his wife is and yay! so are ALL of his kids! They are grown themselves and one has started a family with an Atheist ...
Anonbene replies on Feb 10, 2018:
@Trajan61 based on their decisions I would say most Presidents were and are atheists. Most Christian's are too. It's very easy to fake being religious to people that believe the things religious people believe.
misstuffy comments on Jan 30, 2018:
Love this post, as a babyboomer myself I used to think I was the only Atheist in my family buy as the older generations died off I learned my older brother is probably an atheist,, his wife is and yay! so are ALL of his kids! They are grown themselves and one has started a family with an Atheist ...
Anonbene replies on Feb 10, 2018:
@Trajan61 based on their decisions I would say most Presidents were and are atheists. Most Christian's are too. It's very easy to fake being religious to people that believe the things religious people believe.
Earth's History Compressed in One Year | Continental Divide Trail | Travels
Anonbene comments on Feb 2, 2018:
Good one ????
Anonbene replies on Feb 10, 2018:
@Ride_Captain thanks, yeah I finally figured it out. Here you have to type a semi colon and right parenthesis for a wink face. ;)
Anonbene comments on Feb 2, 2018:
Good one ????
Anonbene replies on Feb 10, 2018:
@Ride_Captain thanks, yeah I finally figured it out. Here you have to type a semi colon and right parenthesis for a wink face. ;)
Am I still single because my face is that hideous?
Anonbene comments on Feb 9, 2018:
Sarah honey, do you know or have you ever seen a picture of a woman named Tomi Larhen? She is on Twitter and Fox news. She is ugly. You are not.
Me and a thousand other guys would walk over that bitch just to have dinner with you.
Anonbene replies on Feb 9, 2018:
I can't seem to upload her picture.
Anonbene comments on Feb 9, 2018:
Sarah honey, do you know or have you ever seen a picture of a woman named Tomi Larhen? She is on Twitter and Fox news. She is ugly. You are not.
Me and a thousand other guys would walk over that bitch just to have dinner with you.
Anonbene replies on Feb 9, 2018:
I can't seem to upload her picture.
There's no reason why god can't exist.
Why do you think there was only one big bang?
Jnei comments on Feb 9, 2018:
If there was in fact only one Big Bang. It may be the case that space's metric expansion eventually slows before switching into reverse, at which point the universe would contract until it came to the hypothetical Big Crunch - and then, a singularity of infinite temperature and density which, ...
Anonbene replies on Feb 9, 2018:
I agree but for the time thing. At the center of the mass chemical heat gravity and pressure would be active to the point it expands again. That would take some time. Maybe a few seconds maybe eons as we comprehend them. A god might have different definitions and perceptions of time than we do. We wouldn't see or perceive it gestating but some circumstances chemical reactions must happen in order for it to start it's expansion.
(Just throwing stuff out there)
Jnei comments on Feb 9, 2018:
If there was in fact only one Big Bang. It may be the case that space's metric expansion eventually slows before switching into reverse, at which point the universe would contract until it came to the hypothetical Big Crunch - and then, a singularity of infinite temperature and density which, ...
Anonbene replies on Feb 9, 2018:
I agree but for the time thing. At the center of the mass chemical heat gravity and pressure would be active to the point it expands again. That would take some time. Maybe a few seconds maybe eons as we comprehend them. A god might have different definitions and perceptions of time than we do. We wouldn't see or perceive it gestating but some circumstances chemical reactions must happen in order for it to start it's expansion.
(Just throwing stuff out there)
There's no reason why god can't exist.
Why do you think there was only one big bang?
Silvertongue comments on Feb 9, 2018:
Why would we need endless distracting amusement when we have 3.8 billing years?
Anonbene replies on Feb 9, 2018:
I thought I explained the time perception bit
Silvertongue comments on Feb 9, 2018:
Why would we need endless distracting amusement when we have 3.8 billing years?
Anonbene replies on Feb 9, 2018:
I thought I explained the time perception bit
There's no reason why god can't exist.
Why do you think there was only one big bang?
DJVJ311 comments on Feb 9, 2018:
Omnipotence, omniscience, omnipresence cannot exist in a benevolent being. Our planet is proof. If you want to argue that there's something out there that we don't understand and doesn't care about us, that's probable, but to label it god isn't useful for discussion.
Anonbene replies on Feb 9, 2018:
Ok, how about Bob?
DJVJ311 comments on Feb 9, 2018:
Omnipotence, omniscience, omnipresence cannot exist in a benevolent being. Our planet is proof. If you want to argue that there's something out there that we don't understand and doesn't care about us, that's probable, but to label it god isn't useful for discussion.
Anonbene replies on Feb 9, 2018:
Ok, how about Bob?
I just left Walmart and as I was washing my hands after taking a leak this card was on the sink.
shockwaverider comments on Feb 9, 2018:
LMAO. Good thing you carry a sharpie... Reason #79 to not goto Walmart.
Anonbene replies on Feb 9, 2018:
A life long carpenter s habit of carrying a pencil but had to change to sharpie to see the lines I need to cut. :)
shockwaverider comments on Feb 9, 2018:
LMAO. Good thing you carry a sharpie... Reason #79 to not goto Walmart.
Anonbene replies on Feb 9, 2018:
A life long carpenter s habit of carrying a pencil but had to change to sharpie to see the lines I need to cut. :)
I just left Walmart and as I was washing my hands after taking a leak this card was on the sink.
jlynn37 comments on Feb 9, 2018:
Unfortunately they will miss out as the web address is agnostic.com. What a missed opportunity.
Anonbene replies on Feb 9, 2018:
Youre right but Google covered for me. Either way it comes here.
jlynn37 comments on Feb 9, 2018:
Unfortunately they will miss out as the web address is agnostic.com. What a missed opportunity.
Anonbene replies on Feb 9, 2018:
Youre right but Google covered for me. Either way it comes here.
What in life do you not trust?
Anonbene comments on Feb 8, 2018:
Women that tell me not to worry because they're on birth control.
Anonbene replies on Feb 8, 2018:
@BlueWave I had a vasectomy and if you try you can even feel the knot. Here let me show you. ,:)
Anonbene comments on Feb 8, 2018:
Women that tell me not to worry because they're on birth control.
Anonbene replies on Feb 8, 2018:
@BlueWave I had a vasectomy and if you try you can even feel the knot. Here let me show you. ,:)
What in life do you not trust?
Anonbene comments on Feb 8, 2018:
Women that tell me not to worry because they're on birth control.
Anonbene replies on Feb 8, 2018:
@BlueWave I don't understand why any guy would risk all those years of child support payments to a woman he may not even like anymore for a child he's probably never wanted or met?
Anonbene comments on Feb 8, 2018:
Women that tell me not to worry because they're on birth control.
Anonbene replies on Feb 8, 2018:
@BlueWave I don't understand why any guy would risk all those years of child support payments to a woman he may not even like anymore for a child he's probably never wanted or met?
blocking a god believer?
Admin comments on Feb 8, 2018:
If someone is posting mumbo jumbo, let us know.
Anonbene replies on Feb 8, 2018:
Hey Admin would you put a block button on the menu under the flag? I can't find the one you offer if a person doesn't fill out their bio Thanks.
Admin comments on Feb 8, 2018:
If someone is posting mumbo jumbo, let us know.
Anonbene replies on Feb 8, 2018:
Hey Admin would you put a block button on the menu under the flag? I can't find the one you offer if a person doesn't fill out their bio Thanks.
Does anyone know of a female owned company that pays it women more than the men?
GipsyOfNewSpain comments on Feb 6, 2018:
Check porn companies owned by females. Female actors make more money. You asked, I answered. Known fact females get paid more in porn than men... since the very beginning.
Anonbene replies on Feb 7, 2018:
I agree but I was thinking more along the lines of companies where sex, which men regularly pay for, is not part of the job.
GipsyOfNewSpain comments on Feb 6, 2018:
Check porn companies owned by females. Female actors make more money. You asked, I answered. Known fact females get paid more in porn than men... since the very beginning.
Anonbene replies on Feb 7, 2018:
I agree but I was thinking more along the lines of companies where sex, which men regularly pay for, is not part of the job.
Does anyone know of a female owned company that pays it women more than the men?
Humanlove comments on Feb 6, 2018:
This is a good question, am in the corner waiting answers.
Anonbene replies on Feb 7, 2018:
Same here.
Humanlove comments on Feb 6, 2018:
This is a good question, am in the corner waiting answers.
Anonbene replies on Feb 7, 2018:
Same here.
Does anyone know of a female owned company that pays it women more than the men?
BanjoTango comments on Feb 6, 2018:
Do Brothels count ?
Anonbene replies on Feb 7, 2018:
I'm not sure. Do brothels have men on staff?
Now that you mention the sex industry I hear the women do get a lot more than the men in porn.
BanjoTango comments on Feb 6, 2018:
Do Brothels count ?
Anonbene replies on Feb 7, 2018:
I'm not sure. Do brothels have men on staff?
Now that you mention the sex industry I hear the women do get a lot more than the men in porn.
Epicurean Paradox
El-loco comments on Feb 7, 2018:
Why do atheists spend so much time talking about god (Yes, I know, I no longer capitalise his name or pronouns)
Anonbene replies on Feb 7, 2018:
Honestly that one confuses me too. I have absolutely no interest in the subject at all.
El-loco comments on Feb 7, 2018:
Why do atheists spend so much time talking about god (Yes, I know, I no longer capitalise his name or pronouns)
Anonbene replies on Feb 7, 2018:
Honestly that one confuses me too. I have absolutely no interest in the subject at all.
Why must dating lead somewhere?
Lysistrata comments on Feb 6, 2018:
What's the difference between dating that goes nowhere and going out with a friend? Is this a matter of using different terminology?
If the difference is sex, I would say a lot of women feel vulnerable having sex and don't want to expose themselves to someone who isn't invested in their ...
Anonbene replies on Feb 6, 2018:
Yes, it's that, I'm only doing this (sex) for the some other pay off, part that I'm questioning. Bartering? Prostituting?
Lysistrata comments on Feb 6, 2018:
What's the difference between dating that goes nowhere and going out with a friend? Is this a matter of using different terminology?
If the difference is sex, I would say a lot of women feel vulnerable having sex and don't want to expose themselves to someone who isn't invested in their ...
Anonbene replies on Feb 6, 2018:
Yes, it's that, I'm only doing this (sex) for the some other pay off, part that I'm questioning. Bartering? Prostituting?
Please excuse my ham-handedness at handling this subject.
Anonbene comments on Feb 5, 2018:
Boy are you in for some surprises. First of all I get the treat them like a man thing. That's ok in an office business professional setting. On a date though her femininity should be acknowledged. Your supposed to say nice things like, nice shoes Im glad you got them on the right feet. Nice dress is...
Anonbene replies on Feb 6, 2018:
@RavenCT tongue firmly planted in cheek
Anonbene comments on Feb 5, 2018:
Boy are you in for some surprises. First of all I get the treat them like a man thing. That's ok in an office business professional setting. On a date though her femininity should be acknowledged. Your supposed to say nice things like, nice shoes Im glad you got them on the right feet. Nice dress is...
Anonbene replies on Feb 6, 2018:
@RavenCT tongue firmly planted in cheek
Is Elon Musk having way to much fun?
MrLizard comments on Feb 5, 2018:
The guy seems like a crazy innovator. But we may need that now. Someone has to step forward and try new things. He's doing that.
Anonbene replies on Feb 5, 2018:
He gives me optimism.
MrLizard comments on Feb 5, 2018:
The guy seems like a crazy innovator. But we may need that now. Someone has to step forward and try new things. He's doing that.
Anonbene replies on Feb 5, 2018:
He gives me optimism.
Is Elon Musk having way to much fun?
Charlene comments on Feb 5, 2018:
Yes he is..on the other hand he's selling flamethrowers as well now..
Anonbene replies on Feb 5, 2018:
I know. That was weird but I guess you could make lighting the charcoal briquets easier
Charlene comments on Feb 5, 2018:
Yes he is..on the other hand he's selling flamethrowers as well now..
Anonbene replies on Feb 5, 2018:
I know. That was weird but I guess you could make lighting the charcoal briquets easier
Is Elon Musk having way to much fun?
Stevil comments on Feb 5, 2018:
Was it his space company that landed their rocket vertically? I hope he keeps having fun and sucess. Hopefully space tourism will be tealized before i die
Anonbene replies on Feb 5, 2018:
Yeah, this time he will try to land three boosters.
Stevil comments on Feb 5, 2018:
Was it his space company that landed their rocket vertically? I hope he keeps having fun and sucess. Hopefully space tourism will be tealized before i die
Anonbene replies on Feb 5, 2018:
Yeah, this time he will try to land three boosters.
What do men want in a woman?
AxeElf comments on Feb 4, 2018:
Their penis.
Anonbene replies on Feb 5, 2018:
@VirginCotton
I may not appeal to 'some' women but ...
AxeElf comments on Feb 4, 2018:
Their penis.
Anonbene replies on Feb 5, 2018:
@VirginCotton
I may not appeal to 'some' women but ...
What do men want in a woman?
AxeElf comments on Feb 4, 2018:
Their penis.
Anonbene replies on Feb 5, 2018:
You beat me to it. ;)
AxeElf comments on Feb 4, 2018:
Their penis.
Anonbene replies on Feb 5, 2018:
You beat me to it. ;)
It is said this is the land (U.
Piece2YourPuzzle comments on Feb 2, 2018:
I would eat a bag of babies for a free house.
Anonbene replies on Feb 4, 2018:
@Piece2YourPuzzle
If there were a string of words that someone could say that would make sure I would never help them those would be them. You should have scrolled down before posting that.
Piece2YourPuzzle comments on Feb 2, 2018:
I would eat a bag of babies for a free house.
Anonbene replies on Feb 4, 2018:
@Piece2YourPuzzle
If there were a string of words that someone could say that would make sure I would never help them those would be them. You should have scrolled down before posting that.
Do you have a favorite lyric you quote?
Anonbene comments on Feb 3, 2018:
https://youtu.be/-eCh3y5VROM
This song reminds me to be kind. It dates me but I sing it a lot and the ladies still seem to like it. Go ahead, ask me to sing it for you. ,????
Anonbene replies on Feb 4, 2018:
@WilliamCharles hey that's great, I've never seen that
Anonbene comments on Feb 3, 2018:
https://youtu.be/-eCh3y5VROM
This song reminds me to be kind. It dates me but I sing it a lot and the ladies still seem to like it. Go ahead, ask me to sing it for you. ,????
Anonbene replies on Feb 4, 2018:
@WilliamCharles hey that's great, I've never seen that
Best ever lover, did you have one?
HippieChick58 comments on Feb 3, 2018:
When I was young and foolish, at Ft. Devens, Massachusetts I had an encounter with a supply clerk after hours in the supply room. It was amazing. As is the Army way, he was transferred shortly after that, and then I went elsewhere. I don't think we would have been a good couple, but that one night ...
Anonbene replies on Feb 3, 2018:
Small world. I was stationed at Ft. Devens;)
HippieChick58 comments on Feb 3, 2018:
When I was young and foolish, at Ft. Devens, Massachusetts I had an encounter with a supply clerk after hours in the supply room. It was amazing. As is the Army way, he was transferred shortly after that, and then I went elsewhere. I don't think we would have been a good couple, but that one night ...
Anonbene replies on Feb 3, 2018:
Small world. I was stationed at Ft. Devens;)
It is said this is the land (U.
Piece2YourPuzzle comments on Feb 2, 2018:
I would eat a bag of babies for a free house.
Anonbene replies on Feb 3, 2018:
@Piece2YourPuzzle yes I did. "would you meet me every morning at 7 on the job site and work until 5 for a couple weeks"
Piece2YourPuzzle comments on Feb 2, 2018:
I would eat a bag of babies for a free house.
Anonbene replies on Feb 3, 2018:
@Piece2YourPuzzle yes I did. "would you meet me every morning at 7 on the job site and work until 5 for a couple weeks"
Do you have a favorite lyric you quote?
Anonbene comments on Feb 3, 2018:
https://youtu.be/-eCh3y5VROM
This song reminds me to be kind. It dates me but I sing it a lot and the ladies still seem to like it. Go ahead, ask me to sing it for you. ,????
Anonbene replies on Feb 3, 2018:
@EllenDale ha, im asked not to sing all the time but that doesn't stop me. ;)
Anonbene comments on Feb 3, 2018:
https://youtu.be/-eCh3y5VROM
This song reminds me to be kind. It dates me but I sing it a lot and the ladies still seem to like it. Go ahead, ask me to sing it for you. ,????
Anonbene replies on Feb 3, 2018:
@EllenDale ha, im asked not to sing all the time but that doesn't stop me. ;)
Earth's History Compressed in One Year | Continental Divide Trail | Travels
Anonbene comments on Feb 2, 2018:
Good one ????
Anonbene replies on Feb 2, 2018:
Any idea why those question marks keep popping up? I didn't put them there. Weird.
Anonbene comments on Feb 2, 2018:
Good one ????
Anonbene replies on Feb 2, 2018:
Any idea why those question marks keep popping up? I didn't put them there. Weird.
When do you stop helping someone that refuses to help themselves?
TjallTjall comments on Feb 2, 2018:
Two different scenarios.
If someone has an adult son living with them (which is not unusual currently), then the question would be what has happened to make this situation occur? No one refuses to help themselves unless there is something wrong. What is wrong? I would talk with my son and see ...
Anonbene replies on Feb 2, 2018:
@PhoebeCat im very glad that worked for you.
TjallTjall comments on Feb 2, 2018:
Two different scenarios.
If someone has an adult son living with them (which is not unusual currently), then the question would be what has happened to make this situation occur? No one refuses to help themselves unless there is something wrong. What is wrong? I would talk with my son and see ...
Anonbene replies on Feb 2, 2018:
@PhoebeCat im very glad that worked for you.
Veterans
sassygirl3869 comments on Feb 2, 2018:
Definitely use any hospital. I am currently visiting a site member on the west coast and I have seen numerous homeless veterans lving on the side of the road,and riding the buses of this city to keep warm or cool, They have runny noses, many have walkers and wheelchairs. They shouldn't be living ...
Anonbene replies on Feb 2, 2018:
@sassygirl3869
I know. Just pulling your leg. Hope it works out great for you.
sassygirl3869 comments on Feb 2, 2018:
Definitely use any hospital. I am currently visiting a site member on the west coast and I have seen numerous homeless veterans lving on the side of the road,and riding the buses of this city to keep warm or cool, They have runny noses, many have walkers and wheelchairs. They shouldn't be living ...
Anonbene replies on Feb 2, 2018:
@sassygirl3869
I know. Just pulling your leg. Hope it works out great for you.
It is said this is the land (U.
KKGator comments on Feb 2, 2018:
I wouldn't be "willing" to do anything. I'd want to know what you wanted in exchange for an opportunity for a free house. Only then could I decide what I might be willing to do.
I find it interesting how you choose to parse your words.
Anonbene replies on Feb 2, 2018:
@KKGator
Wrong again. You assumed i was going to ask you for something to give me. Only your labor to work on your house which I do not benefit from.
Even in your last sentence you insist it again. I am not expecting nor do i accept anything from people i help in return for helping them.
But I want to thank you for proving the point of my post. You just can't help some people because they already know it all.
KKGator comments on Feb 2, 2018:
I wouldn't be "willing" to do anything. I'd want to know what you wanted in exchange for an opportunity for a free house. Only then could I decide what I might be willing to do.
I find it interesting how you choose to parse your words.
Anonbene replies on Feb 2, 2018:
@KKGator
Wrong again. You assumed i was going to ask you for something to give me. Only your labor to work on your house which I do not benefit from.
Even in your last sentence you insist it again. I am not expecting nor do i accept anything from people i help in return for helping them.
But I want to thank you for proving the point of my post. You just can't help some people because they already know it all.
It is said this is the land (U.
mt49er comments on Feb 2, 2018:
If you were giving away a free house, I'd be looking for the fine print.
Anonbene replies on Feb 2, 2018:
@mt49er
No not Ikea like construction. Ikea like process. Panelize an existing house to be able to move it a long distance without any trouble. Maybe this will help. A shop I moved for a friend last year.
mt49er comments on Feb 2, 2018:
If you were giving away a free house, I'd be looking for the fine print.
Anonbene replies on Feb 2, 2018:
@mt49er
No not Ikea like construction. Ikea like process. Panelize an existing house to be able to move it a long distance without any trouble. Maybe this will help. A shop I moved for a friend last year.
It is said this is the land (U.
Piece2YourPuzzle comments on Feb 2, 2018:
I would eat a bag of babies for a free house.
Anonbene replies on Feb 2, 2018:
@Piece2YourPuzzle
Ok, so you wouldn't be willing to relocate to get something that's on average worth a couple hundred thousand dollars you could immediately sell then go to a more preferable market later. How far would you consider living away from where you are right now? Say we couldn't find affordable land in your immediate area?
BTW
Houses are available everywhere. I would come to your state.
Piece2YourPuzzle comments on Feb 2, 2018:
I would eat a bag of babies for a free house.
Anonbene replies on Feb 2, 2018:
@Piece2YourPuzzle
Ok, so you wouldn't be willing to relocate to get something that's on average worth a couple hundred thousand dollars you could immediately sell then go to a more preferable market later. How far would you consider living away from where you are right now? Say we couldn't find affordable land in your immediate area?
BTW
Houses are available everywhere. I would come to your state.
Veterans
sassygirl3869 comments on Feb 2, 2018:
Definitely use any hospital. I am currently visiting a site member on the west coast and I have seen numerous homeless veterans lving on the side of the road,and riding the buses of this city to keep warm or cool, They have runny noses, many have walkers and wheelchairs. They shouldn't be living ...
Anonbene replies on Feb 2, 2018:
All very important points but more importantly, who you visiting? C'mon tell us, we won't tell anyone. ????
sassygirl3869 comments on Feb 2, 2018:
Definitely use any hospital. I am currently visiting a site member on the west coast and I have seen numerous homeless veterans lving on the side of the road,and riding the buses of this city to keep warm or cool, They have runny noses, many have walkers and wheelchairs. They shouldn't be living ...
Anonbene replies on Feb 2, 2018:
All very important points but more importantly, who you visiting? C'mon tell us, we won't tell anyone. ????
When do you stop helping someone that refuses to help themselves?
IndySent comments on Feb 2, 2018:
Immediately. If you keep helping them, you are actually hurting them by enabling. They’ll never learn to stand on their own two feet and sort their shit out.
Anonbene replies on Feb 2, 2018:
That's what I was thinking too so why do city's build shelters and groups hand out food?
IndySent comments on Feb 2, 2018:
Immediately. If you keep helping them, you are actually hurting them by enabling. They’ll never learn to stand on their own two feet and sort their shit out.
Anonbene replies on Feb 2, 2018:
That's what I was thinking too so why do city's build shelters and groups hand out food?
When do you stop helping someone that refuses to help themselves?
sassygirl3869 comments on Feb 2, 2018:
Well when my now 22 year old daughter wasn't contributing to the human race I threw her out. Two years later and she and her boyfriend are back along with his family who have become good friends. I have support if they act up again.
Anonbene replies on Feb 2, 2018:
When you say "threw her out" would that be a good way to help the homeless man? Cut off all aid, no dollars no shelters no coffee no sandwiches? In other words would the best thing we as a society could do for the homeless population is to cut off all aid until they figuratively 'come home' ? Get to such a desperate situation they cry uncle and get with the program?
sassygirl3869 comments on Feb 2, 2018:
Well when my now 22 year old daughter wasn't contributing to the human race I threw her out. Two years later and she and her boyfriend are back along with his family who have become good friends. I have support if they act up again.
Anonbene replies on Feb 2, 2018:
When you say "threw her out" would that be a good way to help the homeless man? Cut off all aid, no dollars no shelters no coffee no sandwiches? In other words would the best thing we as a society could do for the homeless population is to cut off all aid until they figuratively 'come home' ? Get to such a desperate situation they cry uncle and get with the program?
When do you stop helping someone that refuses to help themselves?
Honestape comments on Feb 2, 2018:
When you can't. The problem is people help past what is beneficial to themselves. Help will always be...helpful, even for addicts and lazy people, but you shouldn't give money or time you can't afford to give. If you are going to resent them for having to spend resources helping them when it didn't ...
Anonbene replies on Feb 2, 2018:
If you or I or the local gov. and charities give a homeless guy aid are we helping him sustain his predicament?
Honestape comments on Feb 2, 2018:
When you can't. The problem is people help past what is beneficial to themselves. Help will always be...helpful, even for addicts and lazy people, but you shouldn't give money or time you can't afford to give. If you are going to resent them for having to spend resources helping them when it didn't ...
Anonbene replies on Feb 2, 2018:
If you or I or the local gov. and charities give a homeless guy aid are we helping him sustain his predicament?
When do you stop helping someone that refuses to help themselves?
wordywalt comments on Feb 2, 2018:
My oldest daughter did not apply herself in high school. After graduating, she lived at home with us for a while, doing minimum wage jobs, and hanging out with her buddies on the fringe of the drug crow until late at night. I confronted her and told her, "Your lifestyle is making me feel ...
Anonbene replies on Feb 2, 2018:
I envy you that.
wordywalt comments on Feb 2, 2018:
My oldest daughter did not apply herself in high school. After graduating, she lived at home with us for a while, doing minimum wage jobs, and hanging out with her buddies on the fringe of the drug crow until late at night. I confronted her and told her, "Your lifestyle is making me feel ...
Anonbene replies on Feb 2, 2018:
I envy you that.
Should drug addicts be forced into rehab?
NicThePoet comments on Feb 2, 2018:
Tough question. For some it may be beneficial, but in my experience you can't help someone who isn't ready and willing to be helped yet. It may end up being a waste of time and resources to try and force it.
Anonbene replies on Feb 2, 2018:
What if they are family and live in your house?
NicThePoet comments on Feb 2, 2018:
Tough question. For some it may be beneficial, but in my experience you can't help someone who isn't ready and willing to be helped yet. It may end up being a waste of time and resources to try and force it.
Anonbene replies on Feb 2, 2018:
What if they are family and live in your house?
Should drug addicts be forced into rehab?
Whathappensnow comments on Feb 2, 2018:
There is no point, if they don't wan't rehab.
Anonbene replies on Feb 2, 2018:
So what would you do with a heroin addicted family member you love and want to help?
Whathappensnow comments on Feb 2, 2018:
There is no point, if they don't wan't rehab.
Anonbene replies on Feb 2, 2018:
So what would you do with a heroin addicted family member you love and want to help?
Should drug addicts be forced into rehab?
jlynn37 comments on Feb 2, 2018:
If they are doing or causing no harm and have no desire to do so, then I would say no.
Anonbene replies on Feb 2, 2018:
I can't imagine a heroin or opiod addict doing no wrong to themselves or others.
jlynn37 comments on Feb 2, 2018:
If they are doing or causing no harm and have no desire to do so, then I would say no.
Anonbene replies on Feb 2, 2018:
I can't imagine a heroin or opiod addict doing no wrong to themselves or others.
Should drug addicts be forced into rehab?
daveyboy comments on Feb 2, 2018:
No. They should be offered free training courses, subsidized jobs, life skills courses, family mediation to rebuild family, community centers and leisure activities. Mental health treatment. I think the drugs are just a symptom of something else and unless you treat the other thing the symptom is ...
Anonbene replies on Feb 2, 2018:
I think that's fair and logical but only after 30 days of being clean, forced or not. I'm dealing with a 40 something heroin addict now and they'll look you in the eye, agree to everything you say, lie their asses off and go right back to using. So unless they'll stay clean for that long I am not equipped to handle this.
daveyboy comments on Feb 2, 2018:
No. They should be offered free training courses, subsidized jobs, life skills courses, family mediation to rebuild family, community centers and leisure activities. Mental health treatment. I think the drugs are just a symptom of something else and unless you treat the other thing the symptom is ...
Anonbene replies on Feb 2, 2018:
I think that's fair and logical but only after 30 days of being clean, forced or not. I'm dealing with a 40 something heroin addict now and they'll look you in the eye, agree to everything you say, lie their asses off and go right back to using. So unless they'll stay clean for that long I am not equipped to handle this.
Should drug addicts be forced into rehab?
mt49er comments on Feb 2, 2018:
Which drug addicts do we victimize? Do we also go after smokers and alcoholics? Those definitely classify as drugs.
Anonbene replies on Feb 2, 2018:
I'm thinking more along the lines of heroin and opiods.
mt49er comments on Feb 2, 2018:
Which drug addicts do we victimize? Do we also go after smokers and alcoholics? Those definitely classify as drugs.
Anonbene replies on Feb 2, 2018:
I'm thinking more along the lines of heroin and opiods.
Should drug addicts be forced into rehab?
TjallTjall comments on Feb 2, 2018:
They should be given the choice of jail or rehab. I would like to see all addicts go into a rehab setting instead of jail. This does not include cannabis users, who all should be released from the prisons.
Anonbene replies on Feb 2, 2018:
I agree.
TjallTjall comments on Feb 2, 2018:
They should be given the choice of jail or rehab. I would like to see all addicts go into a rehab setting instead of jail. This does not include cannabis users, who all should be released from the prisons.
Anonbene replies on Feb 2, 2018:
I agree.
It is said this is the land (U.
KKGator comments on Feb 2, 2018:
I wouldn't be "willing" to do anything. I'd want to know what you wanted in exchange for an opportunity for a free house. Only then could I decide what I might be willing to do.
I find it interesting how you choose to parse your words.
Anonbene replies on Feb 2, 2018:
@KKGator
I said, what would you be willing to do for a free house. You assumed something and responded as if my implication was what you imagined which had nothing to do with what I was thinking.
a Im not assuming anything. You did say you wouldn't be willing to do anything but now you say you might. Maybe what's confusing you is the choice I gave you with the word willing.
I just told you, I get nothing. It costs me to help you.
b. Im the person helping people and I do not suffer fools gladly.
KKGator comments on Feb 2, 2018:
I wouldn't be "willing" to do anything. I'd want to know what you wanted in exchange for an opportunity for a free house. Only then could I decide what I might be willing to do.
I find it interesting how you choose to parse your words.
Anonbene replies on Feb 2, 2018:
@KKGator
I said, what would you be willing to do for a free house. You assumed something and responded as if my implication was what you imagined which had nothing to do with what I was thinking.
a Im not assuming anything. You did say you wouldn't be willing to do anything but now you say you might. Maybe what's confusing you is the choice I gave you with the word willing.
I just told you, I get nothing. It costs me to help you.
b. Im the person helping people and I do not suffer fools gladly.
It is said this is the land (U.
Piece2YourPuzzle comments on Feb 2, 2018:
I would eat a bag of babies for a free house.
Anonbene replies on Feb 2, 2018:
But would you meet me every morning at 7 on the job site and work until 5 for a couple weeks? Believe it or not there are many people that claim they are poor, homeless, needing a place to live real bad won't even do that.
Piece2YourPuzzle comments on Feb 2, 2018:
I would eat a bag of babies for a free house.
Anonbene replies on Feb 2, 2018:
But would you meet me every morning at 7 on the job site and work until 5 for a couple weeks? Believe it or not there are many people that claim they are poor, homeless, needing a place to live real bad won't even do that.
It is said this is the land (U.
NicThePoet comments on Feb 2, 2018:
The problem is, a house is never really free - unless you are including the cost of property taxes, utilities, and maintenance.
Anonbene replies on Feb 2, 2018:
You would be paying those costs no matter where you lived which are minor compared to what the actual building costs.
NicThePoet comments on Feb 2, 2018:
The problem is, a house is never really free - unless you are including the cost of property taxes, utilities, and maintenance.
Anonbene replies on Feb 2, 2018:
You would be paying those costs no matter where you lived which are minor compared to what the actual building costs.
It is said this is the land (U.
mt49er comments on Feb 2, 2018:
If you were giving away a free house, I'd be looking for the fine print.
Anonbene replies on Feb 2, 2018:
You and your friends provide the labor to do to houses what Ikea does with bookshelves.
Gut and panelize, then set it back up with instruction.
mt49er comments on Feb 2, 2018:
If you were giving away a free house, I'd be looking for the fine print.
Anonbene replies on Feb 2, 2018:
You and your friends provide the labor to do to houses what Ikea does with bookshelves.
Gut and panelize, then set it back up with instruction.
It is said this is the land (U.
KKGator comments on Feb 2, 2018:
I wouldn't be "willing" to do anything. I'd want to know what you wanted in exchange for an opportunity for a free house. Only then could I decide what I might be willing to do.
I find it interesting how you choose to parse your words.
Anonbene replies on Feb 2, 2018:
Not even some carpentry? I'm surprised when I offer houses and all the value and security they bring people still don't take advantage of the opportunity. I get nothing, it actually costs me to help people.
KKGator comments on Feb 2, 2018:
I wouldn't be "willing" to do anything. I'd want to know what you wanted in exchange for an opportunity for a free house. Only then could I decide what I might be willing to do.
I find it interesting how you choose to parse your words.
Anonbene replies on Feb 2, 2018:
Not even some carpentry? I'm surprised when I offer houses and all the value and security they bring people still don't take advantage of the opportunity. I get nothing, it actually costs me to help people.
On a first date:
Should you be honest on a first date or pretend you are what you think the other...
Anonbene comments on Jan 31, 2018:
Ok, most of you got this one very wrong. I am surprised by a lot of your answers.
I didn't ask you what you think I should do. I asked what you would do. Just like a christian does you projected your holier than thou morals on to me as if I were the person in need of your red line drawn in the ...
Anonbene replies on Feb 2, 2018:
@KKGator of course I judged you based on your answers. Isn't that the point of asking questions and getting answers?
Which is very different from judging me based on the question.
Anonbene comments on Jan 31, 2018:
Ok, most of you got this one very wrong. I am surprised by a lot of your answers.
I didn't ask you what you think I should do. I asked what you would do. Just like a christian does you projected your holier than thou morals on to me as if I were the person in need of your red line drawn in the ...
Anonbene replies on Feb 2, 2018:
@KKGator of course I judged you based on your answers. Isn't that the point of asking questions and getting answers?
Which is very different from judging me based on the question.
On a first date:
Should you be honest on a first date or pretend you are what you think the other...
AviatorJim comments on Jan 31, 2018:
Be honest. Look for common ground whatever it may be, and save the heavy stuff (MSRP) for 3rd or 4th. If you want to treat a date like a job interview, you should ask for a dating resume in advance to save yourself time.
Anonbene replies on Jan 31, 2018:
I prefer asking those exact questions to find common ground.
AviatorJim comments on Jan 31, 2018:
Be honest. Look for common ground whatever it may be, and save the heavy stuff (MSRP) for 3rd or 4th. If you want to treat a date like a job interview, you should ask for a dating resume in advance to save yourself time.
Anonbene replies on Jan 31, 2018:
I prefer asking those exact questions to find common ground.
On a first date:
Should you be honest on a first date or pretend you are what you think the other...
BlueWave comments on Jan 31, 2018:
1. Absolutely not.
2. Play what game?
3. On a first date, not like an inquisition. If things naturally come up, sure talk about it.
For me, believe/non-believe and voted republican or not will ALWAYS come up prior to a first date. My new rule for MY life.
Anonbene replies on Jan 31, 2018:
Why did you have to make up a NEW rule?
If it was an only date I would agree but I said first date which means there are certain conditions I'll reject if there is ever going to be a second date.
BlueWave comments on Jan 31, 2018:
1. Absolutely not.
2. Play what game?
3. On a first date, not like an inquisition. If things naturally come up, sure talk about it.
For me, believe/non-believe and voted republican or not will ALWAYS come up prior to a first date. My new rule for MY life.
Anonbene replies on Jan 31, 2018:
Why did you have to make up a NEW rule?
If it was an only date I would agree but I said first date which means there are certain conditions I'll reject if there is ever going to be a second date.
On a first date:
Should you be honest on a first date or pretend you are what you think the other...
btroje comments on Jan 31, 2018:
play the game until you got what you came for? ? a date for me would be getting to know someone. I would never try to act like something I thought they wanted. How would I even know what that was?
Anonbene replies on Jan 31, 2018:
You know the difference between being on your best behavior vs. drinking with your buddies don't you?
btroje comments on Jan 31, 2018:
play the game until you got what you came for? ? a date for me would be getting to know someone. I would never try to act like something I thought they wanted. How would I even know what that was?
Anonbene replies on Jan 31, 2018:
You know the difference between being on your best behavior vs. drinking with your buddies don't you?
On a first date:
Should you be honest on a first date or pretend you are what you think the other...
BeeHappy comments on Jan 31, 2018:
Be yourself!
"Play the game until you get what you came for?" .... what did you come for?? No games!
Yes, ask questions that are deal breakers. Depending on the situation, I probably would have already asked those questions, even before meeting.
Anonbene replies on Jan 31, 2018:
I put that in for women to reflect on.
Did you come here for a baby, child support, financial security, and are you simply omitting that from this conversation until you get what you want. It's not lying but it's not being honest is it? Would you like to tell those of us gathered here some women don't do that?
BeeHappy comments on Jan 31, 2018:
Be yourself!
"Play the game until you get what you came for?" .... what did you come for?? No games!
Yes, ask questions that are deal breakers. Depending on the situation, I probably would have already asked those questions, even before meeting.
Anonbene replies on Jan 31, 2018:
I put that in for women to reflect on.
Did you come here for a baby, child support, financial security, and are you simply omitting that from this conversation until you get what you want. It's not lying but it's not being honest is it? Would you like to tell those of us gathered here some women don't do that?
On a first date:
Should you be honest on a first date or pretend you are what you think the other...
Sacha comments on Jan 31, 2018:
Honest. Be your true self. I don't have time or energy or patience for anything less
Anonbene replies on Jan 31, 2018:
Sacha, may I see your credit history? Would you tell me your sexual history? Would you mind washing your makeup off so I can see the real you?
Sacha comments on Jan 31, 2018:
Honest. Be your true self. I don't have time or energy or patience for anything less
Anonbene replies on Jan 31, 2018:
Sacha, may I see your credit history? Would you tell me your sexual history? Would you mind washing your makeup off so I can see the real you?
On a first date:
Should you be honest on a first date or pretend you are what you think the other...
Dick_Martin comments on Jan 31, 2018:
Shouldn't/couldn't most of those issues be resolved,at least to go/np-go level, before you have that first date?
Anonbene replies on Jan 31, 2018:
It's more difficult to shade the truth in person.
Dick_Martin comments on Jan 31, 2018:
Shouldn't/couldn't most of those issues be resolved,at least to go/np-go level, before you have that first date?
Anonbene replies on Jan 31, 2018:
It's more difficult to shade the truth in person.
On a first date:
Should you be honest on a first date or pretend you are what you think the other...
evergreen comments on Jan 31, 2018:
Damn - you're a boomer too - I would hope you'd have the answers to these ...
If one chooses to be a game player, they're likely to turn off just about any sincere person out there.
Every combination of people is a whole new pairing. How the interaction goes will be different for different ...
Anonbene replies on Jan 31, 2018:
I do have answers to these. I was just wondering what the folks here thought.
evergreen comments on Jan 31, 2018:
Damn - you're a boomer too - I would hope you'd have the answers to these ...
If one chooses to be a game player, they're likely to turn off just about any sincere person out there.
Every combination of people is a whole new pairing. How the interaction goes will be different for different ...
Anonbene replies on Jan 31, 2018:
I do have answers to these. I was just wondering what the folks here thought.
On a first date:
Should you be honest on a first date or pretend you are what you think the other...
Fearlessfreep comments on Jan 31, 2018:
You can't manipulate or obfuscate your way into a quality relationship. Be honest, be kind, and see how it goes.
Anonbene replies on Jan 31, 2018:
It happens every day all the time. It's what the entire multi billing dollar makeup and fashion industry is made from.
Fearlessfreep comments on Jan 31, 2018:
You can't manipulate or obfuscate your way into a quality relationship. Be honest, be kind, and see how it goes.
Anonbene replies on Jan 31, 2018:
It happens every day all the time. It's what the entire multi billing dollar makeup and fashion industry is made from.
On a first date:
Should you be honest on a first date or pretend you are what you think the other...
phxbillcee comments on Jan 31, 2018:
I think you should be honest, but you don't have to trot out your whole history right away (unless directly asked, then don't lie). Many of your questions will be answered, even if not in detail as the date progresses, so no need to push right away. Just be honest & be yourself.
Anonbene replies on Jan 31, 2018:
So be honest but not too honest?
phxbillcee comments on Jan 31, 2018:
I think you should be honest, but you don't have to trot out your whole history right away (unless directly asked, then don't lie). Many of your questions will be answered, even if not in detail as the date progresses, so no need to push right away. Just be honest & be yourself.
Anonbene replies on Jan 31, 2018:
So be honest but not too honest?
On a first date:
Should you be honest on a first date or pretend you are what you think the other...
GrantSmith comments on Jan 31, 2018:
Honesty is the best policy. A relationship founded on lies will be bound for failure. Besides lying takes energy and requires you to remember every thing you said untruthfully. The truth is just easier.
Anonbene replies on Jan 31, 2018:
Why did you immediately jump to lying? There are plenty of ways to be dishonest without lying. Would you hide omit or change the subject if she brought up your terrible driving record? Credit rating?
GrantSmith comments on Jan 31, 2018:
Honesty is the best policy. A relationship founded on lies will be bound for failure. Besides lying takes energy and requires you to remember every thing you said untruthfully. The truth is just easier.
Anonbene replies on Jan 31, 2018:
Why did you immediately jump to lying? There are plenty of ways to be dishonest without lying. Would you hide omit or change the subject if she brought up your terrible driving record? Credit rating?
On a first date:
Should you be honest on a first date or pretend you are what you think the other...
Condor5 comments on Jan 31, 2018:
My memory is pretty good, but not good enough to try to remember a litany of lies. Besides, lying is just not in my nature. No, don't "pretend" to be something or someone you're not. Unless the cops are looking for you.
Anonbene replies on Jan 31, 2018:
Im not talking about lying. I'm talking about the dishonesty of omission and concealment. Hiding your short comings until some emotional hook gets set.
Condor5 comments on Jan 31, 2018:
My memory is pretty good, but not good enough to try to remember a litany of lies. Besides, lying is just not in my nature. No, don't "pretend" to be something or someone you're not. Unless the cops are looking for you.
Anonbene replies on Jan 31, 2018:
Im not talking about lying. I'm talking about the dishonesty of omission and concealment. Hiding your short comings until some emotional hook gets set.
On a first date:
Should you be honest on a first date or pretend you are what you think the other...
HippieChick58 comments on Jan 31, 2018:
I am honest, I am who I am and what I am. I'm too old to play games. I don't want to waste time cultivating a relationship with false pretenses. I ask questions I want answered, and I ask about the important stuff. Usually I will know most of the important stuff before we meet in person.
Anonbene replies on Jan 31, 2018:
Yes, but will he?
HippieChick58 comments on Jan 31, 2018:
I am honest, I am who I am and what I am. I'm too old to play games. I don't want to waste time cultivating a relationship with false pretenses. I ask questions I want answered, and I ask about the important stuff. Usually I will know most of the important stuff before we meet in person.
Anonbene replies on Jan 31, 2018:
Yes, but will he?
On a first date:
Should you be honest on a first date or pretend you are what you think the other...
VictoriaNotes comments on Jan 31, 2018:
By the first day, I would have already known about money, sex, religion, and politics.
Yes, I would be honest on a first date and would expect the same. A person who pretends to be what the other person may be wanting sounds manipulative, and a disaster waiting to happen. I don't want to be ...
Anonbene replies on Jan 31, 2018:
Um... You don't want to be pelted with questions but you already asked and had answers all the questions you had about him before the first date?
VictoriaNotes comments on Jan 31, 2018:
By the first day, I would have already known about money, sex, religion, and politics.
Yes, I would be honest on a first date and would expect the same. A person who pretends to be what the other person may be wanting sounds manipulative, and a disaster waiting to happen. I don't want to be ...
Anonbene replies on Jan 31, 2018:
Um... You don't want to be pelted with questions but you already asked and had answers all the questions you had about him before the first date?
On a first date:
Should you be honest on a first date or pretend you are what you think the other...
NeoXerops comments on Jan 31, 2018:
In my opinion, it's better to be honest.
Because what you say can easily come back and bite you in the ass.
Why waste so much energy in being something you're not?
Anonbene replies on Jan 31, 2018:
So it's ok to ask a woman why she wears makeup and hides her credit card bills?
NeoXerops comments on Jan 31, 2018:
In my opinion, it's better to be honest.
Because what you say can easily come back and bite you in the ass.
Why waste so much energy in being something you're not?
Anonbene replies on Jan 31, 2018:
So it's ok to ask a woman why she wears makeup and hides her credit card bills?
On a first date:
Should you be honest on a first date or pretend you are what you think the other...
PickledRick comments on Jan 31, 2018:
I am 67 and divorced after 30 yrs. Hitting the dating scene recently from dating sites, I make it a point to tell the truth , be open and straight from the go. I'm burnt out from marriage to try and create a false profile I most likely wouldn't recall. It's really a lot easier to date be honest, ...
Anonbene replies on Jan 31, 2018:
I'm not talking about making up a false persona. I'm talking about hiding your debt by omission or that you're a furry.
PickledRick comments on Jan 31, 2018:
I am 67 and divorced after 30 yrs. Hitting the dating scene recently from dating sites, I make it a point to tell the truth , be open and straight from the go. I'm burnt out from marriage to try and create a false profile I most likely wouldn't recall. It's really a lot easier to date be honest, ...
Anonbene replies on Jan 31, 2018:
I'm not talking about making up a false persona. I'm talking about hiding your debt by omission or that you're a furry.
On a first date:
Should you be honest on a first date or pretend you are what you think the other...
KKGator comments on Jan 31, 2018:
Be honest, all the time. No pretending anything. Why on Earth would you want to pretend to be anything for someone else, if that anything isn't who you really are? That makes NO sense and WILL come back to bite you square in the ass later on. Do not misrepresent yourself, under any circumstances. No...
Anonbene replies on Jan 31, 2018:
Do you pretend to be someone different at your mother's dinner table than you do at The Do Drop In?
KKGator comments on Jan 31, 2018:
Be honest, all the time. No pretending anything. Why on Earth would you want to pretend to be anything for someone else, if that anything isn't who you really are? That makes NO sense and WILL come back to bite you square in the ass later on. Do not misrepresent yourself, under any circumstances. No...
Anonbene replies on Jan 31, 2018:
Do you pretend to be someone different at your mother's dinner table than you do at The Do Drop In?
On a first date:
Should you be honest on a first date or pretend you are what you think the other...
SteveB comments on Jan 31, 2018:
Everyone has nailed this one already in their comments. Just be yourself.
Anonbene replies on Jan 31, 2018:
So far most of the comments have been off by a mile.
SteveB comments on Jan 31, 2018:
Everyone has nailed this one already in their comments. Just be yourself.
Anonbene replies on Jan 31, 2018:
So far most of the comments have been off by a mile.
On a first date:
Should you be honest on a first date or pretend you are what you think the other...
shockwaverider comments on Jan 31, 2018:
Are you serious? The answers to your questions are no, no, and yes.
Let me ask you a few more questions.
Do you want a relationship based on lies and bullshit? If so, pretend.
And, "play the game until you get what you came for?". If all you want is to manipulate people into having ...
Anonbene replies on Jan 31, 2018:
Now switch places with a woman and
change that position. Do some women have different attitudes and actions towards sex before and after marriage? Which category would that fit into? A lie, a miscommunication, an omission, a subterfuge, a ploy or simply an instant change of mind?
shockwaverider comments on Jan 31, 2018:
Are you serious? The answers to your questions are no, no, and yes.
Let me ask you a few more questions.
Do you want a relationship based on lies and bullshit? If so, pretend.
And, "play the game until you get what you came for?". If all you want is to manipulate people into having ...
Anonbene replies on Jan 31, 2018:
Now switch places with a woman and
change that position. Do some women have different attitudes and actions towards sex before and after marriage? Which category would that fit into? A lie, a miscommunication, an omission, a subterfuge, a ploy or simply an instant change of mind?
On a first date:
Should you be honest on a first date or pretend you are what you think the other...
UrsiMajor comments on Jan 31, 2018:
Be honest. Life is just too short.
If someone says flat out,"I need a bible-thumpin' , Trump lovin', baby producin' machine.."
Just run. Your future breakup is not worth the years you will spend figuring it out.
Anonbene replies on Jan 31, 2018:
What if I asked you something a good deal simpler like, would you mind going to the bathroom and washing your makeup off so I can see the real you and then show me your credit card statement so I can see what priorities you spend your money on?
UrsiMajor comments on Jan 31, 2018:
Be honest. Life is just too short.
If someone says flat out,"I need a bible-thumpin' , Trump lovin', baby producin' machine.."
Just run. Your future breakup is not worth the years you will spend figuring it out.
Anonbene replies on Jan 31, 2018:
What if I asked you something a good deal simpler like, would you mind going to the bathroom and washing your makeup off so I can see the real you and then show me your credit card statement so I can see what priorities you spend your money on?
On a first date:
Should you be honest on a first date or pretend you are what you think the other...
Epic-curious comments on Jan 31, 2018:
You should absolutely be honest. To be frank, if someone is so insecure that pretending to be someone they are not, is preferential to being single, they have no business looking for a relationship with anybody but a therapist.
Anonbene replies on Jan 31, 2018:
Are you saying women should show up without makeup and men should have their credit ratings handy?
Epic-curious comments on Jan 31, 2018:
You should absolutely be honest. To be frank, if someone is so insecure that pretending to be someone they are not, is preferential to being single, they have no business looking for a relationship with anybody but a therapist.
Anonbene replies on Jan 31, 2018:
Are you saying women should show up without makeup and men should have their credit ratings handy?
On a first date:
Should you be honest on a first date or pretend you are what you think the other...
PickledRick comments on Jan 31, 2018:
I am 67 and divorced after 30 yrs. Hitting the dating scene recently from dating sites, I make it a point to tell the truth , be open and straight from the go. I'm burnt out from marriage to try and create a false profile I most likely wouldn't recall. It's really a lot easier to date be honest, ...
Anonbene replies on Jan 31, 2018:
Kind of in the same boat as you Buzz. Widower of 12 years here.
PickledRick comments on Jan 31, 2018:
I am 67 and divorced after 30 yrs. Hitting the dating scene recently from dating sites, I make it a point to tell the truth , be open and straight from the go. I'm burnt out from marriage to try and create a false profile I most likely wouldn't recall. It's really a lot easier to date be honest, ...
Anonbene replies on Jan 31, 2018:
Kind of in the same boat as you Buzz. Widower of 12 years here.
Does this bother you?
Condor5 comments on Jan 29, 2018:
Doesn't really bother me; jeezus, we have a Cretin in the WH whose children are as bad, or worse. I would, however, like to shove a hand grenade up that guy's ass and pull the pin.
Anonbene replies on Jan 30, 2018:
Pull the pin first ????
Condor5 comments on Jan 29, 2018:
Doesn't really bother me; jeezus, we have a Cretin in the WH whose children are as bad, or worse. I would, however, like to shove a hand grenade up that guy's ass and pull the pin.
Anonbene replies on Jan 30, 2018:
Pull the pin first ????
If you were asked to teach a class of your choosing, what would the subject matter be?
Anonbene comments on Jan 29, 2018:
I would (do) teach Americans how to get free houses for themselves thereby beating the poverty circle and capitalistic system we find ourselves in curing homelessness and hopelessness.
Anonbene replies on Jan 29, 2018:
@bingst I'll explain when I get a few minutes.
Anonbene comments on Jan 29, 2018:
I would (do) teach Americans how to get free houses for themselves thereby beating the poverty circle and capitalistic system we find ourselves in curing homelessness and hopelessness.
Anonbene replies on Jan 29, 2018:
@bingst I'll explain when I get a few minutes.
Can you guys give me some feedback on athiest churches?
DUCHESSA comments on Jan 25, 2018:
Here.
Virginia
Atheist Artists and Free Thinkers, Fairfax
Charlottesville Skeptics
Richmond Area Freethinkers
Northern Virginia / Beltway Atheists
Richmond Reason and Naturalism Association Meetup
Shenandoah Valley Atheist and Secular Humanist, Cross Junction
Tidewater ...
Anonbene replies on Jan 25, 2018:
Thank you but alas they are all a couple hours away from me.
DUCHESSA comments on Jan 25, 2018:
Here.
Virginia
Atheist Artists and Free Thinkers, Fairfax
Charlottesville Skeptics
Richmond Area Freethinkers
Northern Virginia / Beltway Atheists
Richmond Reason and Naturalism Association Meetup
Shenandoah Valley Atheist and Secular Humanist, Cross Junction
Tidewater ...
Anonbene replies on Jan 25, 2018:
Thank you but alas they are all a couple hours away from me.
If someone was to start an atheist church, would you attend?
VirginCotton comments on Jan 21, 2018:
I could be conducted like a Rotary Club meeting, talk about business, charity projects, raising money for the homeless, or some disease research....(?) Planning what to do about removing christian symbols from government/public property, and how to go about a suit to have the 'god words removed from...
Anonbene replies on Jan 25, 2018:
I'm thinking of starting a group here and this is very helpful, thanks.
VirginCotton comments on Jan 21, 2018:
I could be conducted like a Rotary Club meeting, talk about business, charity projects, raising money for the homeless, or some disease research....(?) Planning what to do about removing christian symbols from government/public property, and how to go about a suit to have the 'god words removed from...
Anonbene replies on Jan 25, 2018:
I'm thinking of starting a group here and this is very helpful, thanks.
Can you guys give me some feedback on athiest churches?
josh_karpf comments on Jan 25, 2018:
There's been some discussion of this at https://agnostic.com/post/17276/if-someone-was-to-start-an-atheist-church-would-you-attend-what-would-be-doctrine-what-would-i?aid=138722 , and probably earlier.
After peeking at your profile to see your location, I'd suggest looking for atheist/freethought...
Anonbene replies on Jan 25, 2018:
Thank you that's very helpful
josh_karpf comments on Jan 25, 2018:
There's been some discussion of this at https://agnostic.com/post/17276/if-someone-was-to-start-an-atheist-church-would-you-attend-what-would-be-doctrine-what-would-i?aid=138722 , and probably earlier.
After peeking at your profile to see your location, I'd suggest looking for atheist/freethought...
Anonbene replies on Jan 25, 2018:
Thank you that's very helpful
Can you guys give me some feedback on athiest churches?
Stevil comments on Jan 25, 2018:
I like hanging out on agnostic. com on Sunday morning
Anonbene replies on Jan 25, 2018:
Thank you, I'll visit there and see what's up.
Stevil comments on Jan 25, 2018:
I like hanging out on agnostic. com on Sunday morning
Anonbene replies on Jan 25, 2018:
Thank you, I'll visit there and see what's up.
Can you guys give me some feedback on athiest churches?
SamMcGlone comments on Jan 25, 2018:
I have been actually working on a business plan for over a year to do this. I will have the website up next month. I will keep everyone informed of the progress and to get a look at it.
Anonbene replies on Jan 25, 2018:
I would very much like to see your plan but I was thinking more along the lines of placing a recurring ad and inviting the nones to my place to see who's interested and develop into something worthwhile from there. As long as you're non religious and want to help others is my basic requirements.
SamMcGlone comments on Jan 25, 2018:
I have been actually working on a business plan for over a year to do this. I will have the website up next month. I will keep everyone informed of the progress and to get a look at it.
Anonbene replies on Jan 25, 2018:
I would very much like to see your plan but I was thinking more along the lines of placing a recurring ad and inviting the nones to my place to see who's interested and develop into something worthwhile from there. As long as you're non religious and want to help others is my basic requirements.
Can you guys give me some feedback on athiest churches?
Benthoven comments on Jan 25, 2018:
As a gay man, we don't do church... we do "brunch..." A day to dress up, drink mimosas (to help kill the Saturday night hangover), make fun of who's not there, and eat.
Anonbene replies on Jan 25, 2018:
You lost me at dress up but reeled me back in with mimosas and food. ????
Benthoven comments on Jan 25, 2018:
As a gay man, we don't do church... we do "brunch..." A day to dress up, drink mimosas (to help kill the Saturday night hangover), make fun of who's not there, and eat.
Anonbene replies on Jan 25, 2018:
You lost me at dress up but reeled me back in with mimosas and food. ????
Can you guys give me some feedback on athiest churches?
wordywalt comments on Jan 25, 2018:
An atheist church is an oxymoron. Find a more appropriate term.
Anonbene replies on Jan 25, 2018:
Let's not quibble, I think you know what I meant.
wordywalt comments on Jan 25, 2018:
An atheist church is an oxymoron. Find a more appropriate term.
Anonbene replies on Jan 25, 2018:
Let's not quibble, I think you know what I meant.
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