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Have you ever asked a question on social media that you regretted asking after reading the responses...
ArdentAtheist comments on Apr 2, 2018:
No, I’ve regretted comments not questions.
What's your most outlandish belief? (Mine is, I believe crop circles are not man-made.)
ArdentAtheist comments on Sep 17, 2018:
i believe it matters not what we believe, there is only one truth and science exposes more of it every day. I know that any knee jerk reaction to believeng unfounded theories is misguided and I can reason well enough to see when my brain is trying to get one over on my mind.
When you're on vacation and want coffee but don't want to make it ? When you realise your ...
ArdentAtheist comments on Aug 26, 2018:
Just took my Sunday first sip, still can’t muster the energy to go to church.
I remember when starbucks staff took care of us quickly. Although i don't wanna go back to work, ...
ArdentAtheist comments on Sep 28, 2018:
I’m not a fan of Starbucks.. I just want a simple cup of black coffee, usually espresso and I don’t want to concern myself with right verbiage to get it. I prefer to stop at Little Cuban place because there are plenty of them around here in South Florida.
Always Be Cautious
ArdentAtheist comments on Jun 29, 2018:
We may literally have but one last shot to turn this ship around, she don’t turn on a dime and the engine has stopped... every single person needs to take an oar and dam the blisters!
Saying your spiritual is the new age way to say you’re religious. I found this site after ...
ArdentAtheist comments on May 2, 2018:
Don’t miss construe... I meditate and like all the accoutrements but I don’t pray to a god, not a single one.
I'm sensitive to MSG and glutamic acid. If I eat too much of it I become hungry all the time, get ...
ArdentAtheist comments on May 5, 2018:
I also am sensitive to MSG, I’ve been using Helmans vegan mayonnaise, I’ve noticed no problems but I’ll check the label. I do lots of my shopping at an Asian market and you gotta read everything, hope I didn’t assume too much on the mayo, perhaps it takes more than what I use to trigger me? Thanks
Is it healthy?
ArdentAtheist comments on May 29, 2018:
Better to get out, be safe...
Forethought in design.
ArdentAtheist comments on Sep 14, 2018:
I need to get a box.
Chuck berry my ding a ling a funny song . [youtube.com]
ArdentAtheist comments on Aug 1, 2018:
This was his only #1 hit and frankly thet makes me sad:(
And here's the proof
ArdentAtheist comments on Dec 13, 2018:
Gibson will not sell you a replacement pickguard for a vintage guitar unless you can prove you own the instrument. If the folks at Gibson look at this meme I suppose they will think it’s perfectly normal.
Saved up my money and got this
ArdentAtheist comments on Jun 22, 2018:
Both can make you go fast, both can make you crash but only one can keep me awake at work.
How far, realistically, would you go for a relationship? I mean distance. We are on this page, ...
ArdentAtheist comments on Oct 24, 2018:
5 miles, already did a five year long 3,000 mile international relationship... it was in fact worth it but the distance was ultimately our undoing... so I would not do it again, or so I believe:)
Why would a Muslim join this website looking to date Atheist women?
ArdentAtheist comments on Sep 17, 2018:
Perhaps an atheist that has not shed the Muslim title having grown up knowing nothing else? As a youth if asked I would’ve said I was Catholic because my family was Catholic, but I never believed in God, it was a label they stuck on me.
What are your opinions on mukbang videos?
ArdentAtheist comments on Jul 10, 2018:
I just googled it… Maybe I’ll make a vegan Muk-bang video:)
Ok my friends. I have decided to ask a creative bunch, and lots of potheads I know are creative, so ...
ArdentAtheist comments on Apr 15, 2018:
Cook a special meal, eat cake... make hr favorite dish. Kids can decorate the cake.
Nothing more and nothing less.
ArdentAtheist comments on Aug 12, 2018:
Sounds simple enough.
I think I'll pass on 65 there.
ArdentAtheist comments on Oct 1, 2018:
Very exotic.
Does evil exist? As non-believers do we still accept the concept of evil in its pure form?
ArdentAtheist comments on Oct 7, 2018:
Yes, horribly destructive behavior that cares for nothing but it’s own power driven by hate! I don’t believe I need to aprouch it from a biblical perspective since as evidenced by this platform none of us believe in a God or Devil... evil is in the White House and anyplace people suffer while the greedy stand on their shoulders!
ArdentAtheist comments on Aug 28, 2018:
Just proves the truth is stranger than fiction.
Some Republicans who are greedy and stupid.
ArdentAtheist comments on Apr 10, 2018:
I demand sensible gun laws, no military style weapons, waiting periods, background checks, over 21 and proper follow up of all leads for people who are a concern. My kids go to school everyday knowing what could happen and I have to send them! That’s not exceptable for any parent, child or human. Fuck the NRA!!!! And while I’m on one fuck Ted Nugent.
Smoke em if you got em
ArdentAtheist comments on Jul 21, 2018:
That said, it is a bit more rooted in reality.
FIRST ALBUM (or 45 or casette or 8-track or CD) YOU EVER BOUGHT WITH YOUR OWN MONEY. Posted this ...
ArdentAtheist comments on Apr 15, 2018:
Dr. Hook and the medicine show, cover of the Rolling Stone... The Sears record department https://youtu.be/vqpK9lUTVXs
A lil whey humor for ya. its whey down there
ArdentAtheist comments on Jul 23, 2018:
My home town:)
How do you people feel about prenups?
ArdentAtheist comments on Jul 23, 2018:
I feel better about simply not getting married. If you need a prenup your leaving the door open. Don’t get married and have a more honest relationship. If it’s meant to be forever time will pass, if it’s not... then I don’t need anymore lawyers in my life.
Sneezing demons
ArdentAtheist comments on May 18, 2018:
I think it’s a little silly to be bothered, it’s a cultural habit. I usually say salute but that’s my Brooklyn Italian upbringing. If someone agrees with you by saying “Damn straight” is that a problem?... or when something is a surprise I like, “jumping Jesus!” .. I get pissed when religious people go to areas high in aids and tell people condoms are sin... I don’t have time to be mad about linguistic habits that amount to nothing more than being polite.
So, coffee. I drink A LOT of coffee. My consumption doesn't change seasonally. Am I alone in ...
ArdentAtheist comments on Jun 10, 2018:
Beautiful coffee, I have about 20 coffee pots from my Great grandmothers Neapolitan stove top espresso pot to the modern drip... i drink it or I die! I work with people that have Energy Drinks in the morning, they don’t understand the meaning of life!
I'll decide!
ArdentAtheist comments on Sep 20, 2018:
I would like to see replaced by truth on all our money, “We’re off the gold standard and there’s no God, good luck”. Not that I actually believe in luck but I figured I’d throw them a bone.
Deadheads: help, please: I heard an old Dead song with intriguing lyrics. Don't know thwe title, ...
ArdentAtheist comments on Jun 8, 2018:
The one Messiah I could Worship....Charlie Always sunny!
ArdentAtheist comments on Apr 1, 2018:
I loved that show! I don’t get into a show often but Hulu binged this one:)
Color fading. I noticed that the colors on my youngest tattoo have faded somewhat. can I have that...
ArdentAtheist comments on May 20, 2018:
Colors fade, that’s why I went with all black ink on mine... as my tatt changes with my age I look at as one looks at a fine antique... I think it adds to why I have it, it represents my life... I won’t try and fix it, I’d rather embrace it. My life is not perfect but it’s mine.
The Tallest Man on Earth- Rivers [youtu.be]
ArdentAtheist comments on May 22, 2018:
Wow... I loved that... so much that it caught me off guard, pulled me out of what I was doing and had me mesmerized.
Does anyone else here struggle with "analysis paralysis"? Or, put another way, overthinking about ...
ArdentAtheist comments on Aug 30, 2018:
If you are aware of the problem you’ve taken the first step in correcting it. Through meditation you can learn to let go of everything that isn’t in the present moment… It will allow you to do something by finally learning to do nothing. Learning mindfulness technics will help you focus.
How do you deal with telemarketers? I got on some sort of list and they are bad. Probably mentioned ...
ArdentAtheist comments on Jun 27, 2018:
I buy everything they offer, hang on every word and ask if there is anyway I can send even more money.
Quite a couple
ArdentAtheist comments on Jun 4, 2018:
Oy vey
Evolution of homo sapiens in the future?
ArdentAtheist comments on Apr 23, 2018:
Funny that we call the people of the future “we” when “we” will all be dead. It’s evidence built into the language that while we as individuals can’t beat death our genes can. It’s just a shame it lives on without this versions memories and consciousness. We will have 6 toes, big heads and our genetalia will all be above average, isn’t that nice?
The GOOD atheists
ArdentAtheist comments on Apr 29, 2018:
Not only can you be good without God, you can be better.
I went out for pizza the other night and the waiter guy came to the table and asked "Do you wanna ...
ArdentAtheist comments on Aug 23, 2018:
Get in line behind the guy with his hat on backwards using his hand as a sun visor.
Plato in his Meno asks if virtue can be taught. and It turns out that Socrates does not think that ...
ArdentAtheist comments on Jun 18, 2018:
Of what virtue does one own slaves?
Pick your top 6
ArdentAtheist comments on May 9, 2018:
Cat Mother & The All Night News Boys, The YardBirds, Long John Baldry, Queen, The Beatles and Frank Zappa
What’s the longest you’ve ever gone without food?
ArdentAtheist comments on Apr 4, 2018:
I’ve never gone a day without food. Longest I go is when I sleep.
Did I post this yesterday?
ArdentAtheist comments on Jun 4, 2018:
I do like most of my customers, after all they are mostly guitarists ...but a few them could use an ear full.
Garlic-Ginger Past Please give your opinion on this staple. I have now watched more than a ...
ArdentAtheist comments on Aug 13, 2018:
I don’t have the answers but I have some toast that needs some.
How against religion are you?
ArdentAtheist comments on Sep 3, 2018:
I’m opposed to lies regardless of the organization. If religion told the truth about religion we would no longer have religion so as long as religion exists I’ll never be able to tolerate it.
No sense of humor
ArdentAtheist comments on Jun 28, 2018:
They probably wouldn’t of cared if it wasn’t happening three times a week.
Does anyone believe in love at first sight? Or do you believe people should become acquainted and ...
ArdentAtheist comments on Dec 16, 2018:
Love at first sight won’t last if it doesn’t meet your expectations behind that. If you don’t have expectations I don’t know where your getting enough info to call it love? It may be curiosity, infatuation, attraction and hope ...but love? I prefer to save that term for someone I like more every day.. If you get actual feelings of love at first sight I’d be sorry for you because the pain of not getting what you want will feel real even if it’s not warented.
Favourite Catwoman?
ArdentAtheist comments on May 6, 2018:
How can one be expected to choose that’s like asking me to choose between the two Darren’s on bewitched, completely unreasonable.
This could be interesting.
ArdentAtheist comments on Jun 23, 2018:
Porn was better on beta.
New design for T-shirt, less political, more humanitarian. First shirt is not selling as well as I ...
ArdentAtheist comments on Apr 2, 2018:
Can you imagine getting a phone alert that your kids school is on lockdown with an active shooter? I just need a shirt that says, “Fuck The NRA” I have 3 teenagers in school in south Fl... the kids are rattled! As a parent it’s always in the back of our minds... I’m ok with armed security but not the teacher, there job is hard enough!
Too soon????
ArdentAtheist comments on Sep 6, 2018:
Burt Reynolds was awesome… 82 years old, might have to watch Smokey and the bandit.
What's the best pickup line you've heard?
ArdentAtheist comments on Apr 2, 2018:
Give me your number and we can talk about blank tape later... how I picked up my ex wife when I worked in a record store.
Do the right thing
ArdentAtheist comments on Apr 3, 2018:
When I get a debilitating migraine it’s medicine & when I don’t it helps me play the guitar better! Now that’s versatility:)
something tells me the co-pilot is latino....
ArdentAtheist comments on Aug 12, 2018:
… But instead all you found was an immaculate deception.
Scalloped vegetables looks very good. [tasty.co]
ArdentAtheist comments on Sep 6, 2018:
Looks good… I have to find a substitution for the eggs.
Free cat... good appetite
ArdentAtheist comments on Aug 21, 2018:
Doesn’t look like Tokyo?
You never know what's lurking...
ArdentAtheist comments on Jul 20, 2018:
I’ve never been that wrong.
Eating out alone?
ArdentAtheist comments on Mar 29, 2018:
I like to eat alone and equally enjoy company. Alone I can read or take the time to practice mindful eating. You need to eat, enjoy it. If you are uncomfortable I recamend a little shift in thinking. Your happiness need not be dependent on another person, if someone joins you they should simply be adding there happiness to yours but either way you have yours... kayaking is also something I enjoy differently on my own, and I usually bring lunch:)
Folks, do you know the two most vicious lies of religion?
ArdentAtheist comments on May 20, 2018:
The most vicious are the ones that would have it in the science classrooms and the ones that that push political agendas... those are the concern.
I've never been so self conscious of where my mouse is at than on this site now. I tend to worry ...
ArdentAtheist comments on Sep 6, 2018:
I don’t assume people want a date because they visit my page... sometimes it’s an accident, sometimes it’s just to interact and see what other atheists are like or some variant. If a hover meant I want you I would have to assume most men think I’m I gay. But I have considered this, I don’t want people to get the wrong idea... but mostly I’m over that, I’m on a phone and accedently visit at least a few a day. We all have that issue making it a non issue... I think I’ll vixit your page, just for fun... I’m not actually even on the sight to date, many of us are just atheists:) hover at will, lol
Job satisfaction.
ArdentAtheist comments on Sep 17, 2018:
I sell guitars and since I have s passion for guitars I enjoy it... the job has its challenges, things I would change if I could but I gave up being a mortgage broker because I hated it with a passion. How I got to this point Is a long story... surfice to say I’ve learned the distances between two points is seldom a straight line.
I have been meaning ask a question to all of you, but I am really busy reading and responding as ...
ArdentAtheist comments on May 28, 2018:
I’ve had a bunch of really cool interesting cars but the first purchased with my own money was a 76 Chevy Chevette piece of crap for $600. I think dam near every other car I ever had was cooler except for the piece of crap I’m currently exploring the limits of patience with.
Yard sale fun
ArdentAtheist comments on Jun 18, 2018:
I don’t think it would be funny since you usually have kids running around, take your sex toy home and have a party all by your bad self.
Alice Cooper - Elected [youtu.be]
ArdentAtheist comments on Feb 12, 2019:
Nice... I was standing 10 feet from him at the S Florida Fair last week...nobody told me until after... he had told the beer tent people he just wanted to enjoy the fair.
Anyone else feel dreadful Sundays because it's followed by work Monday? I can honestly say by 5pm ...
ArdentAtheist comments on Jul 22, 2018:
Your not living in the present, meditation and mindfulness can help you get back to where you enjoy your work.. whatever it is... I know this because it helps me... I work in a music store, sounds like a bowl of cherries but corporate bull can put a damper on it. I meditate before work most days and go to work looking for how I can be of service and kind to all kinds of customers... mental preparation in this way helps bring the joy back to a grind. For all the time I spend at work I don’t want to just live for the weekend, it all has value. All the best to you... suffering is optional☮️
Would you be willing to risk arrest if you could piss on tRumps grave....which sane people hope he ...
ArdentAtheist comments on Aug 11, 2018:
When all the dust shakes out and settle he will probably be buried in Russia and I can’t afford the airfare for a piss.
Belief in Things You've Never Seen | Michael - San Diego, CA | Atheist Experience 22.28 ...
ArdentAtheist comments on Jul 20, 2018:
How very tedious.
Well certain insults no longer work
ArdentAtheist comments on Aug 23, 2018:
Actually I avoid saying such things.. I have my moments but this has occurred to me. Why would I insult someone with such wonderful gestures? If someone trully needs to be insulted, “look at what your doing” should do it.
Religion at work
ArdentAtheist comments on Jul 24, 2018:
Thank you for the invitation, I don’t participate in religions and prefer a more spiritual approach, have you ever taken a bite out of a still beating heart? I’ll clean out my desk.
Holy shit, this is good. Black Sabbath - War Pigs, live in Paris 1970 [youtube.com]
ArdentAtheist comments on Apr 29, 2018:
I loved Black Sabbath when I was in high school 30 years ago, my taste has changed but I remember it fondly. Since I sell guitars for a living, can we stop with the Iron Man riff? Also.... No Stairway!
This bitch is not going to stop, she's getting more hateful by the day. We don't stand a chance ...
ArdentAtheist comments on Apr 29, 2018:
We do in fact stand a chance and the more divisive she becomes the more that will oppose her, the more that will stand, the more she will be seen for what she is by all but the hate spewing minority that needs to be forced back into its hole, just saying.
Just met a person who does not like pets because they are all dirty.How would you view a person who ...
ArdentAtheist comments on Apr 29, 2018:
Their loss and keeping animals away from this person is best for the animals, probably should keep this person away from me while we are at it:)
Nom nom nom
ArdentAtheist comments on Jun 8, 2018:
I will risk it.
To the optimist, the glass is half-full. To the pessimist, the glass is half-empty. To the ...
ArdentAtheist comments on Jun 28, 2018:
Cut the philosophy and pour the beer, got any pretzels?
Which one would you like to meet?
ArdentAtheist comments on Jun 29, 2018:
A & D but mostly A
This guy plays Jimi perfectly [youtu.be]
ArdentAtheist comments on Aug 21, 2018:
He’s got it... my fav version is Monty Montgomery ...I’ll do separate post.
Should Religion Be Taught in Schools?
ArdentAtheist comments on Apr 21, 2018:
Not as a truth or way of life/death ... as part of sociology as it relates to history and what religion has done for art, music and architecture while being certain not to leave out the death & suffering.
We're screwed.
ArdentAtheist comments on Jul 25, 2018:
Because Fracking wasn’t doing enough.
How do you respond to religious conversation?
ArdentAtheist comments on Aug 13, 2018:
No, have you ever concidered accepting reality into your heart instead of Jesus?
Sounds like a sweet gig to me!
ArdentAtheist comments on Apr 14, 2018:
Well we know he is leaving because it’s obvious he would loose. That’s us winning!
Thought this was a dating site? No?
ArdentAtheist comments on May 28, 2018:
Wow, we would have been perfect, missed it by a mere 3,000 miles:) ... ok, kidding, although you seem nice... I think it’s just not big enough unless you are the rare non geographically challenged match. I’m here for community... wouldn’t put all your eggs in this one basket for dating just yet.
What are your thoughts on age gaps in a relationship?
ArdentAtheist comments on Apr 6, 2018:
Well, I’m about to get real... my ex had a boyfriend for four years before I found out and we got divorced, he was old then, now 12ish years later she is still a relatively young woman and he has a walker, false teeth, and hearing aid... she’s a nurse maid to him... and I happen to know she’s dating someoneelse while he sits home, kinda like she did to me except I’m not elderly. Age may not matter in your forties but the difference will be amplified faster than you think. Hats off to karma.
Soo "tired" lol
ArdentAtheist comments on Jul 24, 2018:
I said I was tired.
Was she "the one"? I was in a relationship for several years with a woman who practiced new age, ...
ArdentAtheist comments on Oct 22, 2018:
I’ve dated several witches, dating one now... it’s near irrelevant. I love when they think I’m with them because they put a spell on me. Life should not be taken all that serious, I see it as a happy accedent. I am amused by the rationalization a witch goes through when a spell doesn’t work... somthing like, “Oh well, gave it my best shot, goddess must not have wanted it”... and I’m like, where do you want to eat?
How many use cilantro?
ArdentAtheist comments on Jun 14, 2018:
Extremely important ingredient in a fresh salsa :-) love it.
What would happen if all the parents of this world raised their children godlessly? Would these ...
ArdentAtheist comments on May 28, 2018:
Everyone asks questions and to a large degree it will depend on who is there to answer them. In my case I had conflicting answers from different people and I chose reality. I did the religious rituals but never took it as meaning it was real, it was the culture and I knew that all peoples had different cultures. I’ve always been religios teflon. It has never been more to me than a cultural leftover, architecture, art and a silly thing to believe. Perhaps I had just the right amount of Rock n’ Roll:) ... I was also sent to church by parents that didn’t go, do as I say not as I do didn’t make me religious.
Admin , I did a Google search for various “unique” member names on here as an experiment to ...
ArdentAtheist comments on Sep 16, 2018:
Since I am openly atheist with a presence on a multitude of platforms... cat is out of the bag, if you have posts that you prefer not be seen I would skip those and stick with the innocuous.
The future...
ArdentAtheist comments on Jun 11, 2018:
Ahhh.... the future☯️
Is'nt it odd that in high school you could attain a relationship including sex within weeks , but ...
ArdentAtheist comments on Sep 24, 2018:
I was not a Casanova in H.S. but it’s been no problem since.
Does anyone shy away from using a company who promotes religious ideals?
ArdentAtheist comments on Apr 2, 2018:
Yes, the NRA!
It seems to me that the Christians have been trying to get rid of guns for a long time! Now they ...
ArdentAtheist comments on May 21, 2018:
I have not seen Christians trying to get rid of guns… While I do not want to get rid of all guns I do want to get rid of assault weapons, raise the age to obtain a weapon and have rigorous background checks. It’s what we call common sense gun laws, Trump supporters wouldn’t understand.
People say forgive and forget, I say forget about forgiving and just accept.
ArdentAtheist comments on Jun 12, 2018:
Let it go☯️
Bad news for meat eaters.
ArdentAtheist comments on Mar 26, 2019:
It’s always interesting to watch cognitive dissonance at work. I went vegetarian 5 years ago and have been vegan about 2 years. People act like I kicked their dog. The planet can’t sustain the behavior of humanity and change would not only assist the planet but it’s a far healthier way to live. Oh, I’m not deprived, had a delicious vegan chocolate cake last night. You would think people who don’t believe in a god could open their eyes in other areas, some can, many can’t.
I just want a little feedback. I flew from one coast the other escape an abusive relationship. now...
ArdentAtheist comments on Aug 12, 2018:
If you have the resources to get your own place I think it’s what you need. Even if you have to advertise for a roommate.
I have no effing words!
ArdentAtheist comments on Jun 2, 2018:
We need to make the Bluewave so big that it washes this crap right back into the sewer where came from, just saying.
marie osmond [friendlyatheist.patheos.com]
ArdentAtheist comments on Oct 16, 2018:
Is it really a surprise? She’s a Mormon and she’s a little bit country.
What's your zodiac sign ? Is it accurate with your personality ? Are you more compatible with ...
ArdentAtheist comments on Apr 8, 2018:
Just read every comment on this, very surprising to see that a group of freethinking agnostic/atheists would put any stock in astrology. I’m not sure what to think of that? To me it’s supernatural hooey, like another form of religion with no basis in reality. I’ve got to side with Neil Degrasse Tyson on this one. Present a random horoscope to an audience and ask the audience, “who in the audience feels as though this represents them?” far more than 1/12th of the people raise their hands and that’s all it takes disprove astrology. They are general and you can find meaning to apply to your life almost anyplace you look for it. Hey, if it’s fun and you know it’s entertainment that’s one thing but if you miss out on what could be the greatest relationship of your life because they are a particular sign thats almost a form discriminatory bigotry, it’s judging people based on a supernatural unfalsafiable premise. If you believe in this stuff while at the same time claiming agnosticism frankly I’m confused. Then consider a sign is missing from the zodiac and that the stars have moved so you really aren’t even the sign you think you are. If someone in a bar ever asks me what my sign is my answer will be, STOP.
My laugh for the day, thanks to Donald Trump and Lily Sandoz on Google+. Donald Trump accused us...
ArdentAtheist comments on Jun 19, 2018:
https://youtu.be/s8sy3G6XRA0 Made me think of this tune?
We Welcome Anal
ArdentAtheist comments on Dec 4, 2018:
It’s like having a backstage pass to entertainment.
How annoyed do you get when a religious person give all credit to god, despite it was you that may ...
ArdentAtheist comments on Oct 2, 2018:
I deal with religious church folk all the time, music gear to help them brainwash the congregation... I get all the, thank the lord and various comments... I recognize the delusion but it’s not my delusion, so whatever... when they say god bless you after selling them a bass guitar I respond with, have a nice day... I don’t need to pretend to be religious, they are being courteous in their own way and I’m being courteous in mine. Then I go home and do heathen stuff:)
Don’t Buy into the Backlash -- the Science on Meditation Is Clear [thriveglobal.com]
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