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..born 7of 8 siblings- to middle class
Catholic family in rust belt area of
Pennsylvania.,, choose to be on my
own with the passing of my mother,
& the dissolution of my family.
Traveled regionally in my 20's
(mostly for work);had a few relationships- none lasting long due to moving.Lived in hometown30s-40
met,fell for, lived with a lady 15yrs.,raised her 2 daughters ,when the youngest got pregnant(still in college,refused child support,flipping burgers)my love moved in help to give child care &emotional support; we stayed friends"""::
I am 7yrs. single-have NO
AGENDA๐Ÿฆ,but really know true friendship is the basis for all good relationsโœจ
...also,IAM 6'2-170lbs.(athletic)
brown hair;hazel eyes.
believe in honesty-live it really
I have worked/ lived on farms-

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Too much logic for the religious people. Lol
BBJong comments on May 18, 2019:
...less doubters ; she might evan be secretly gleeful.
Easy as that
BBJong comments on May 18, 2019:
Very good point. I was in foster care. Thanks
What was your most enjoyable dream? What was your worst Nightmare? Can you go back and continue a ...
BBJong comments on May 18, 2019:
Good:dreams with pleasantness. Bad:chased around tight, enclosed space. If awoken by noise(like nearby traffic or siren) I usually return to rejoin my dream. Thanks
Penn Jillette on Atheism and Islamaphobia - YouTube
BBJong comments on May 18, 2019:
Agree,if phsycology is involved at all in human interaction and reality-than religion is fiction.
I went in for a heart stress test today (I passed) and while I was waiting to be called in there was...
BBJong comments on May 11, 2019:
Well we are surrounded by dilusioned folks,glad it's not contagious.Hope the test was fine. Thanks
What people think vs what is.
BBJong comments on May 11, 2019:
Tough to keep emotional equilibrium sometimes,with this understanding I can focus energy on what benefits others and myself at the same time. Thanks
Yep, figured it out !
BBJong comments on May 11, 2019:
Revealed÷secrets of cosmos
Yesterday I attended a Sunday service at a Unitarian Universalist church in Colorado. Four people ...
BBJong comments on May 11, 2019:
As previous,grow & learn,living life to fullest .Like u having fun on the journey is itself a reward.
How do you de-stress?
BBJong comments on May 11, 2019:
...nature ,music,rest,good food, pleasant thoughts,aroma thearapy,beautifull sights,reading,hobbies,exercise, like minded group support,daydreams,ect.
WARNING ! I have suspended my accout for a while , considering what to do with respect to my ...
BBJong comments on May 11, 2019:
...well that takes a special type of a**hole to do that.I realize more & more that the normal civilized folks are rare.Can't allow thier objective.
Is it rude to clean someone's house when you are a guest? I don't mean cleaning up after yourself, ...
BBJong comments on May 11, 2019:
I worked for cleaning services, but know from experience that some look on that activity as an affront to thier domain!!!
The world is getting crazy. Smiling has made it better for me. Try it!
BBJong comments on May 11, 2019:
I do crave simple humor NOW ,more than ever.
My name is laura and I am 39. I have been seperated for a year and will file for divorce soon. I ...
BBJong comments on May 11, 2019:
Keep being kind to yourself, you are your best ally in your pursuit of happiness.Create times of peace( I do in early morning) to focus and clear mental clutter.I'm helping a single parent,and as u prioritize you will gain uplifting emotional feedback.i remember what is temporary- and what will last.
Ya'll. I need a pep talk. Does anyone else find online dating demoralizing? I'm feeling like I'm ...
BBJong comments on May 11, 2019:
I found a pen pal(internet) gets me through the dry spells/while still keeping my passion alive by following up on my interests and hobbies.Practicing patience.
Happy Saturday Everyone! I've been wandering a few days but I'm not lost. I know my way home and ...
BBJong comments on May 11, 2019:
Good for YOU,let the healing start.
Personally, I prefer a medium roast... Anyone here in KC? Been to the Roasterie? Their coffee is ...
BBJong comments on May 11, 2019:
COOL,there should be more products this demonstrated to the buying PUBLIC.
Anybody getting lit this weekend? ๐Ÿ˜
BBJong comments on May 11, 2019:
YES
Curious if any of you read several books simultaneously? I keep a stack handy and pick up whichever ...
BBJong comments on May 11, 2019:
I take a diverse selection out~so some are dry boring science which are not "page turners". I sometimes put these aside and read a novel to break up the pace of reading.
Love has no borders- Arizona man fulfills Christmas wish list
BBJong comments on May 11, 2019:
....glad human kindness still exists.
"All religions bear the traces of the fact that they arose during the intellectual immaturity of the...
BBJong comments on May 11, 2019:
...yep-AGREE
Hi everyone! I'm back from NH after a lot of drama and heartache. Thank something my good friend ...
BBJong comments on May 11, 2019:
...welcome all Ways !!!
Has anyone else had to cut ultra religious family out of their lives?
BBJong comments on May 11, 2019:
...it will take years/be patient with them; yourself;society;and the process.The family I was close to, hurt the most, to interact with.At "public events" they have an image-so do you .I saw others who stood by their beliefs, and we supported each other.To keep communication lines open with some is and will be difficult. A closed mind ,whether parent or sibling is like an addict.Protect yourself from undo influence.People can change-be prepared for slow or no change. Good post/thanks
This could be filed under health and safety or just funny but seriously people, people are traveling...
BBJong comments on May 8, 2019:
Yes sharing the road , gets us all where we are going. Thanks!
Experienced this a few times a few months ago.
BBJong comments on May 2, 2019:
.got your back in ANY fight Lady!!!
THANK YOU ALL!!!!!๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ‘Œ! Your support, action and caring has resulted in Sassygirl3869 being ...
BBJong comments on May 2, 2019:
...thanks for update; Glad all successful ๐ŸŽถ
Just wondering here. Has the Christian public presence grown since 9-11 or has it always been as ...
BBJong comments on May 2, 2019:
...I dont think so - there seems to be a rally around "older comfort institutions"- for those scared of change. When a statement was made that "caucasians" will be a minority before long,insecure people seemed willing to grope for scapegoats. Here in Pennsylvania, around the year 2005 ,many churches combined or closed-due to lack of participation. Other religions appear to be recruiting still.
Does anyone else who's de-converted from religion struggle with logically knowing / accepting ...
BBJong comments on Apr 27, 2019:
Welcome,thanks and yes patience with the deprogramming & ourselves is a ongoing process. Looking back the first , and hardest steps are the ones that mattered to my relationships.Intuition pointed the way. Your emotions are going to vary as new facts about reality arise.
A typical extroverted introvert.
BBJong comments on Apr 27, 2019:
Yeah,balance is stasis/you dont see athletes compete 24_7 & 365 days a year. it's called " burn out " for a reason...
Evangelicals Breaking Up with Jesus - YouTube
BBJong comments on Apr 27, 2019:
,while you have him there quick check his ID,we have a cage ready!!! and bought with our tax $$$$
NOW, THE OFFICIAL SONG OF THE TRUMP CAMPAIGN !!!1 [youtu.be]
BBJong comments on Apr 27, 2019:
...the damage will cost each of us/& the future
5 rules of happiness... agree or disagree?
BBJong comments on Apr 27, 2019:
...you'll definately draw em in...
May I be of service? lol
BBJong comments on Apr 27, 2019:
...& we are in this together...
They do not like the black sheep, and the black sheep could care less . . .
BBJong comments on Apr 27, 2019:
...got that RIGHT,,,
Suzanne Breen: 'My beautiful friend is gone - the world is a darker place' Suzanne Breen • 2 days...
BBJong comments on Apr 27, 2019:
...thanks/could not believe the press realeases. Like press muckrackers of the 1900's she made a difference.
I just read an Atlantic Article regarding the end of the US as a world power. It called Donald ...
BBJong comments on Apr 27, 2019:
...he likes to believe he is "different " when , a greedy tyrant is born everyday!!!!
Wow! Man Wants To Debate, But Not Like Formally Or Respectfully Or Anything [reductress.com]
BBJong comments on Apr 27, 2019:
...debate with an open mind-or debate with an agenda!!! Sales pitches can be cloaked in various disguises. Sales people turn me off because of of tactics used against me in the past. That said an open forum(town hall) debate does clarify my understanding of issues that sometimes I'm not aware of. Thank you, JNEI
Yay! Its saturday! Hiyah! Good happy morning self and to you planet earth! Hey! Its the weekend,how ...
BBJong comments on Apr 27, 2019:
Fear of failure is a paralyzing emotion; I have to fight it regularly. My environment breeds it -like mosquitoes ๐Ÿ˜ข... ...this site is a refuge for me๐Ÿ˜Š๐ŸŽถ
Why Do We Get Columbine So Wrong? - YouTube
BBJong comments on Apr 26, 2019:
I agree also,-was shocked at the fact of the video games. The psychologists should be given more preventive options & resourses. The facts need to be further broadcast to those who could inform or deter other tradgities. Thanks for the clarity.
Seth Andrews: Christianity Made Me Talk Like an Idiot - YouTube
BBJong comments on Apr 26, 2019:
I really like this;consise,true, and to the point. Joseph Cambell believed that society benefited ,slightly,from myths or fables . The track of religious statements leaves others often baffled, less informed , and over- welmed. As I read or hear a statement today I feel pity like watching an info commercial- that some gullable people will swallow the pitch blindly ,instead of seeing it as altered reality.
30 Reminders for Sensitive People Who Feel Drained, Ashamed, or Judged [tinybuddha.com]
BBJong comments on Apr 21, 2019:
...yes I practice most of these traits regularly,as stated below they become ingrained in my normal functioning. Boundaries for myself,than others, is a foundation for social interaction. Thanks
Do you consider yourself a Scientist??
BBJong comments on Apr 21, 2019:
Amateur; but YES,I embrace thier methods and humility.What other way is there to live on earth?
Bill Gates, Harvard, To Begin Blocking Sun In Spring Of 2019 [prepforthat.com] Aluminum: New...
BBJong comments on Apr 21, 2019:
...I applaud the attempt-if agreed to by scientists that the process will do no harm,we should start to test ideas. Covering very dark flat surfaces with light reflective covers is something that has been suggested. Look we know the facts,we should begin the solution test stage .Hand wringing is not a option. Thanks
Hi. I'm new as of 4/18/19. I'm glad to be here. Really looking for people to talk to who believe ...
BBJong comments on Apr 21, 2019:
Welcome,explore and enjoy!!!
very unstable !
BBJong comments on Apr 20, 2019:
...feel like inspector Clouseau, could be mind fog.
That first cup of warm coffee๐Ÿค—
BBJong comments on Apr 20, 2019:
AAAAHHHHH!!! ,,,thank you ....
"Wikileaks was the future once. Then it became Julian Assange An incredible intelligence, an ...
BBJong comments on Apr 20, 2019:
It's a very telling statement of what the general public absorbs from "reported fact"; whistle blowers are very much still under attack-the society as is today can not handle the stark truths!!! Thanks for update๐Ÿ“ข
Well the report makes you want to give up hope on democracy. I'm not giving up. I hope you dont ...
BBJong comments on Apr 20, 2019:
...agree,more decent folks in ๐ŸŒthe world than bad;democracy allows society to improve its lot on this planet-we need to focus on global problems & fix them,not get caught in petty quivelling!!!
When I first met you, I felt like I had known you forever, telling you my secrets and what I ...
BBJong comments on Apr 18, 2019:
Welcome,neat frame of reference to share here.
I tell people "oh I'm open to the idea of a relationship I'm not closed off or letting my past ...
BBJong comments on Apr 14, 2019:
Creating happiness is a wonderfull achievement,go get it!!!!
Well this is good.... My boss boss came over to present me an award for doing what I do (Details ...
BBJong comments on Apr 14, 2019:
VERY COOL,congratulations!!!
Alexa devices.
BBJong comments on Apr 14, 2019:
...do you know where the "off" button is-humans are said by psychologists that we need alone time- corporations are never going to "see" that/or allow it.
I am so emotionally raw. I’m crying more often, feeling alone a lot of the time, wishing I was a ...
BBJong comments on Apr 14, 2019:
...I have been in similar desserts, and u have it right.They say kids are resilliant, so it may not be a learned trait. Each of the "special people"in my life I cherish,who knows what tomorrow brings.The bonds we strengthen be it short,or long and melodious reaffirm my resolve.
Are you one who does this?
BBJong comments on Apr 14, 2019:
Yep,driveway moments ๐Ÿ˜
Thanks to those who hated me - You made me stronger. Thanks to those who loved me - You make...
BBJong comments on Apr 14, 2019:
Nice to be reminded , As the act of kindness becomes second nature and instinctual Sweet!!!
I get accused of being overly sensitive. Like today someone continued to mispronounce my name after ...
BBJong comments on Apr 14, 2019:
I get riled when someone purposely muddles or changes pronunciation of my name. In the male soaked atmosphere, at work-the intention to yell;label;insult; or mispronounce a person's name is sort of a power play to intimidate another-i defend rigorously!!! That being said:if the person is new to the job(or me)I try to be diplomatic, and determine the reason. Sadly I find a lot of purposeful/ intentional attempts to use this method to increase someone's standing in the group hierarchy (I place little importance in this).*a borometer of the temperment is key~others are watching when meeting for first time/is this person confident in their image?-am I. Over time this ,to me ,has become an enjoyment as I dont judge by appearance, only on competance;I don't take any crap through. Thanx
Mom: Wipe that look off your face! Ben: It's not a look, it's just my face. Mom: Then wipe off ...
BBJong comments on Apr 13, 2019:
...I remember that stuff, Only parents were Omnificiant that they knew"what your thinking" too
Memes... on churches :) enjoy
BBJong comments on Apr 13, 2019:
...makes sense....
Hey Girls and Boys...Tomorrow is my 3 WEEK Anniversary for the Stem Cell Therapy and I got to tell ...
BBJong comments on Apr 13, 2019:
...super,thanx for updateโ˜บ
When someone you've never met asks if you want to meet at the restaurant or meet somewhere else and ...
BBJong comments on Apr 13, 2019:
...when I met ladies-mutualy decided quick bite,that way it's a win win. If it doesn't pan out( it did) u go your seperate ways. no loss OR a park/nature trail-(Public),you have a chance to converse with no pressure to decide the next stage or occasion. It's the process that sets the tone.... Thanks
Hey guys. What's your preference when it comes to dirty talk?
BBJong comments on Apr 13, 2019:
...been so long could have been morse code,smoke signals, or hand signals .hard to recall lost art,foreign. ....women have been stifled, because of the inviorment. When they direct & encourage;that is a turn on. How else to know your on the same page. good post
I love owls ??? (And coffee!)
BBJong comments on Apr 13, 2019:
...yea,I've seen such creatures in the mirror THANKS
Not me I'm too poor.
BBJong comments on Apr 13, 2019:
Leads to false sense of fitting in,plus you never know what you are happy with. Thanks
I believe this to be true ??
BBJong comments on Apr 12, 2019:
...sadly,we are far from stewardship of our home...
Form a queue, ladies! (A friend sent me this; I refuse to be on Tinder because of this sort of ...
BBJong comments on Apr 11, 2019:
...could testosterone flooded brain damage,,,I can see his "personality " shining through though,,,
Wow. "This Beautiful Sculpture Shows The Inner Child Trapped Inside All Of Us" More on it here: ...
BBJong comments on Apr 8, 2019:
...quite expressive Thank You !!!
I did post this on another group but this does affect women. A zygote is now considered as human, a ...
BBJong comments on Apr 8, 2019:
That love transends.Like birth control, which is too costly for poor and un educated.Let the lady have the freedom of choice since she best can account for the future the child will endure.
I honestly always forget this place can technically be used as a dating app. It doesn't seem ...
BBJong comments on Apr 8, 2019:
On some sites it seemed like an interview,less personal growth and learning.
One of my favorite cartoons every Saturday morning. Wish I could find a dvd of nothing but the ...
BBJong comments on Apr 6, 2019:
Yep :::felt sorry for it, Loved its determination!
Why do so many member of this site spend so much time talking about religion on this site? I am ...
BBJong comments on Apr 6, 2019:
...it may reflect a push back to what is experienced in society at large by the members.
RICHARD DAWKINS ERROR CONCERNING THE ORIGIN OF LIFE Pursuing the concept that anything is ...
BBJong comments on Apr 6, 2019:
,when,where,WHAT?
Thought some of you might enjoy this exchange I had today with a new user
BBJong comments on Apr 6, 2019:
...text on there.Im afraid I've encountered similar. Ah,not born yesterday...
Is this practical or shallow? I've met and had one date with someone who lived on his daughters ...
BBJong comments on Apr 6, 2019:
50%of relationship discord is over$ ; get it established at the start. Set the ground work for pre-nuptial agreement.Ask questions about his long term plans. You decide:how much $for peace of mind...
If you knew of a way to use your estate following your death to greatly benefit humanity would you ...
BBJong comments on Apr 6, 2019:
OOHHHHH YEAH !!!!!
Pleasant solitude: For over a decade, for over a decade I acted as an educational service center ...
BBJong comments on Apr 6, 2019:
...yep -1hour or so deeply focus on nature ; this about once a week would keep me balanced for work week.
What is the difference between God and Canada? This is not a trick question. Both cannot be ...
BBJong comments on Apr 6, 2019:
...well I was twice in Canada~ Soooooo, this is a trick ANONYMOUS
Anybody hear of Jack Van Impe?
BBJong comments on Apr 6, 2019:
TV. evangelist/tycoon
This is odd. Why would anyone use this as a daiting site?
BBJong comments on Apr 6, 2019:
Some dating sites are saturated with folks looking for happiness;validation and completeness in the company of others, while here it's much more pursue your interests and meet people that are like wise on the journey of life, not competition.Less neediness & more equality.
Funny thing I told my mom recently... "I feel like I'm approaching my 'best if used by date'".
BBJong comments on Apr 6, 2019:
...and u expect us to believe that? HAA HAHAAA? HAHAHAAA THANX. HA HAAA HAAA HAAA HAAA.. ... HAHAHA
A quote on compassion.
BBJong comments on Apr 6, 2019:
...I think actively using a reasoning filter prevents alot of un-bearable issues.
Sometimes challenging, but always worth the effort, IMO.
BBJong comments on Apr 6, 2019:
...I always feel a loss when I reflect on the short time she contributed to us..
Sexual In Nature Here's the question I wanted to ask for awhile. Do girls or ethical sluts love ...
BBJong comments on Apr 6, 2019:
...I read it does benifit an ongoing relationship,I'm rather shy & not technically skilled. thanks
Just heard: two opening-night tickets for the new Avengers movie sold for $15,000 on eBay. Damn, I'm...
BBJong comments on Apr 6, 2019:
...that's a burgeoning field !!! pick your passion,it would be like hanging out with pastime you enjoy. I ain't tech savvy.
As usual I agree with Sassygirl, Joe Biden is a kind man, he lost his wife and baby girl(years ago) ...
BBJong comments on Apr 6, 2019:
...agree ,we should be highly critical not Overly critical. This would lessen the effective awareness of actual transgressions. My upbringing did not include overt shows of affection,yet siblings and myself strove to overcome this. Can't throw out the baby with the bath water. Also-was the occasion celebration for an individual.(like a rock concert);I wouldn't particapate if I didn't relish the individual , there is norms on both sides. Being aloof /standoffish is a statement too.
This should be fun ???
BBJong comments on Apr 6, 2019:
J-john ; help clean my joystick as I game play too much?
You may be aware that large bookstores have separate sections these days for 'young adult' readers. ...
BBJong comments on Apr 6, 2019:
...so real to think "outside the box" how else are we to listen to that small inner voice. I choose eclectic subjects from the library the same way;mixing it up-keeps the speed of my absorption of the material diverse... Thanks
Sin or not, if yes, why?
BBJong comments on Apr 6, 2019:
...agree ; there is stigma today or another reason the PURITANICAL are leading this country in the Wrong direction.. PHYSIOLOGY states masturbation benefits the human body, so another misguided idealogy.
After waking up so early I need a giant coffee??
BBJong comments on Apr 6, 2019:
...my regular brand was sold out last week?, ... back to normal this week, sorta like a comfy chair?
I am curious to know how many members are military veterans.
BBJong comments on Apr 6, 2019:
...yep...
Someone said that even if you don't believe in God, it is advisable to live your life as if there is...
BBJong comments on Apr 5, 2019:
...I see no proof of YETTY , ABOMINABLE SNOWMAN..... but just to be safe & hedge my wager; what else can I fantasize about...
There are three solutions to every problem. Agree/ Disagree? ?
BBJong comments on Mar 30, 2019:
...I'm on board with that statement
I am not a morning person. This morning They were going to deliver my new grill between 8-12, I get...
BBJong comments on Mar 30, 2019:
....eeewwww-i get that way on fri. afternoon at work. ,,, no coffee don't help?...evan if I drink a late fri cup there is no response(maybe a boring book-zzzzzzz)
Horrible news for S. Carolina... The headline reads; N.C. law: Woman can’t back out of sex once...
BBJong comments on Mar 30, 2019:
...yeah-what would SELF CONTROL have to do with human interaction ANYWAY. I wonder what refinement or psychology mean to these idiots????
I would imagine that a person would have to be highly sensitive, intuitive and empathic to be a ...
BBJong comments on Mar 30, 2019:
I can imagine the chaos, keeping life simple is a healthy goal...one I strive for... thanx
Please check out a new group "Origins of Heaven and Hell." a site to discuss or banter about ...
BBJong comments on Mar 30, 2019:
Sounds interesting;the way religions feed on humanities needs is rather atrocious-kinda breaks down when talking about pets(pet heaven?/pet hell?). THANKS for the info...
Hours of geeky fun with this online SW radio! Did you ever tune into the strange broadcasts ...
BBJong comments on Mar 28, 2019:
...that's cool,my older brother built a radio- I also like to use "amplafied"antennas; if weather conditions are r.ight I pick up stations 500 to 700 miles away. We used to use "CB" scanners which are used by truck drivers;and there are interesting other channels >they go from 1-40 channels. Thanks
Scientists say they have discovered a "stunning" trove of thousands of fossils on a river bank in ...
BBJong comments on Mar 25, 2019:
...they have so much construction they keep finding wild science discoveries. big country. THANKS
Brian Cox Lecture in 5 parts. I indulge myself every so often by re-watching this series. Not only ...
BBJong comments on Mar 25, 2019:
solid scientist and humble to boot ¥ I have alot of his lectures ( and plan on studying more) THANKS
We're Facing a Global Movement of White Hate
BBJong comments on Mar 25, 2019:
...replaced by Native Americans? I think the FIRST NATION has dibs on who the f**k founded this ground! Not some candy assed creeps who have narcissistic domination syndromes... It's called " the last attempt to distract from the social issues that they created" by socialologists. sad thanks
I do not owe an explanation for......??
BBJong comments on Mar 23, 2019:
perfect~(cause they are ALLWAYS trying to get their nose under the tent wall)... thanks!!!
I'm not looking at the moment, but I'm curious - At what point in a courtship is it appropriate...
BBJong comments on Mar 23, 2019:
I am waiting at the start; although rarely happens,I'm happily prepared to fulfill that mutual enjoyment...

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