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How Does Walmart Feel About The Current Administration?
Benthoven comments on Jul 3, 2018:
Can you imagine Conservatives boycotting Wall*Mart? Seriously. Where else can they take their Rascal Scooters? They'd have to get dressed to go to a regular store.
"Music was better when ugly people were allowed to make it".
Benthoven comments on Jul 3, 2018:
I also think it was better with it wasn't so processed, and when the artists didn't have to have a voice like those on American Idol. The best bands on the planet wouldn't be here if they had to pass our new system for picking music.
What do I gotta do to get a damn torta
Benthoven comments on Jul 3, 2018:
Offer it a Klondike Bar?
Self doubt has killed more dreams than poverty ever will... Starfodder
Benthoven comments on Jul 3, 2018:
I think self-'doubt' is good for us. We should always be challenging ourselves. Socrates is cited as saying, "Know thyself," and I think that's so much better advice than "believe in yourself." Beliefs aren't really reality. "I believe I can fly | I believe I can touch the sky" Then I step of the Empire State building and it's all over... quickly. As a musician, I don't "believe" I'm a good musician, I know my weaknesses, I know my strengths, I know that I hate playing Chopin, but I love learning Beethoven. I know that I hate scales, and that I'm both lazy and sloppy at times. Even if I "believed" in myself, those things would still be true. In fact, I think the irony isn't that we don't "believe" in our selves, it's that we "believe" the opposite of what we want to do. As a writer I don't get writer's block. What I get as a firm belief that what I'm writing doesn't matter, or it's not very good, or I've got nothing relevant to say. Those are beliefs, not doubts. And when I start doubting those beliefs (which I must do all the time) then I can move forward, knowing that these beliefs don't necessarily have to be true. It's "knowing thyself" that helps me stay humble, and know what I'm capable of... and it's doubt that let's me try in the first place.
Just a joke I make sometimes about my spiritual or religious journey: I was raised a Heathen ...
Benthoven comments on Jul 3, 2018:
People ask me if I believe in God, and I usually answer: "It depends on how high I am."
Have you landed your dream partner here? If not,do you still waste time trying to find one?
Benthoven comments on Jul 3, 2018:
Alas, Brad Pitt still isn't returning my calls.
I really feel like I'm going to drop out of college.
Benthoven comments on Jul 3, 2018:
As someone who's quit on a lot of dreams, you live to regret it, and it can eat you up a little bit--or a lot. Especially if you spend the rest of your life doing something you never wanted to do in the first place. There are a billion reasons that the curriculum isn't tracking with you, and once you figure that out, you'll find it extremely useful. Some people need 'hands on' to get the information. Others need to 'see' the process... There are probably some really great tutorials on YouTube if you know what you're looking for. It was recommended that you work for a dentist--or even volunteer an hour or two. Do you have friends in the class who will sit with you over lunch and chat about the course?
If you were a divine Creator, would you want to be worshiped as the Bible proclaims you should?
Benthoven comments on Jul 1, 2018:
I would say, if I were the creator of everything, the last thing I would need is worship. I'd be too busy creating more.
Not funny in the least!
Benthoven comments on Jul 1, 2018:
Andrew Dice Clay... He was never funny to me.
And the difference is
Benthoven comments on Jul 1, 2018:
Illegal... but way more fun.
Recommendations of books, science articles, websites or some material which gives you more ...
Benthoven comments on Jun 30, 2018:
I listen to a podcast called The Infinite Monkey Cage with Brian Cox and Robin Ince. It's hilarious, profound, and wonderfully educational. https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/b00snr0w/episodes/downloads
Do you believe in law of attraction?
Benthoven comments on Jun 30, 2018:
I find the Law of Attraction vile--yet another 'blame the victim' ideology. Did you get attacked? Well, you attracted that. Are you having trouble paying rent and about to be throw out of your house? Well, you attracted that. LoA has NO compassion, and in fact, encourages us to avoid those who are suffering. It's just another version of the Evangelical's Prosperity Doctrine... warmed over for New Age groups who no longer believe in the Devil, so call it Ego. Who still believe in God but can't call it that anymore.
Are (atheists, agnostics) still part of the herd mentality ?
Benthoven comments on Jun 30, 2018:
We're still part of the society. We share values and ideals. We have similar societal principles. We are shaped by the society around us. We all share a "herd" mentality, because we all share a herd. It's the 'borg mentality that frightens me.
Do ALL lives still matter? Asking for some kids taken from their parents and still locked in cages.
Benthoven comments on Jun 30, 2018:
"All lives matter" was created by bigots who didn't want to admit that black lives mattered.
Can a song get stuck in your head just by seeing a picture?
Benthoven comments on Jun 30, 2018:
I tend to think that the song is already there, the picture just turns it loose, to roam freely... over and over and over and over and over... Well you get the picture.
What bit of the Bible do you ignore? [facebook.com]
Benthoven comments on Jun 30, 2018:
I take the bible very seriously. Depending on your aim, it's wonderful for getting rid of those damn door knockers.
I know you don't care, but here';s the facts. Some of us do care. About facts.
Benthoven comments on Jun 30, 2018:
But Cheetos Jesus will save them...
Christian group sues to overturn conversion therapy bans in South Florida - Metro Weekly
Benthoven comments on Jun 30, 2018:
I spent fifteen years in Reparative Therapy, and it's torture. And I'm not being hyperbolic. The things they do to you and subject you to can leave lasting damage. And I'm talking PTSD.
Can anyone do this in only four words?
Benthoven comments on Jun 30, 2018:
The earth banished God
Anybody else have this happen to them?
Benthoven comments on Jun 28, 2018:
As long as you're not trying to subject me to your beliefs, I don't care. Once you start trying to change my beliefs... that's a different story.
Joke for the Day : Guy goes to the Dr.
Benthoven comments on Jun 28, 2018:
;)
Our origins
Benthoven comments on Jun 28, 2018:
If only there was a way to know.
It seems things never change
Benthoven comments on Jun 28, 2018:
I have a character I created called "Mister Bitch." It's about a guy who bitches about everything.
Ah men... I mean Man
Benthoven comments on Jun 28, 2018:
If God had a name | What would it be and would we call it to his face
That's considerate.
Benthoven comments on Jun 28, 2018:
I've always said that at my funeral, I want my best friend Roy to deliver the eulogy, but I need to give my sister Anna equal time for the rebuttal.
Head shoulders knees and toes. LOL
Benthoven comments on Jun 28, 2018:
My favorite version of the song: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KTKmhj2edQ0
What is the position of religion in philosophy? I want to know your opinion
Benthoven comments on Jun 28, 2018:
Religion is a philosophy, albeit less informed that many philosophies.
If There Was a God, Ann Coulter's mother Would Have Eaten Her at Birth. Film at 11
Benthoven comments on Jun 28, 2018:
Sigh! It's not too late.
Why is a raven like a writing desk?
Benthoven comments on Jun 28, 2018:
Quoth the Raven.
American Icon Harley-Davidson gives Trump the finger.
Benthoven comments on Jun 28, 2018:
Trump is proof that there is no god... no "loving" god would allow that man to have power over anyone.
ER bills: A baby was treated with a nap. His parents got an $18,000 bill. - Vox
Benthoven comments on Jun 28, 2018:
I read that article... Gawd it frustrates me to no end.
Hello everyone, new here, looking for those who value community and humanism over independence and ...
Benthoven comments on Jun 28, 2018:
Well, you're in the right place.
Is it okay for an atheist to sing sacred music?
Benthoven comments on Jun 28, 2018:
Why not? One of my favorite hymns is: Near to the Heart of God. "There is a place of quiet rest | Near to the heart of God..." To me, this isn't about "God," it's about finding that place in our lives where we can be okay even amid the the struggles of life, and I've had a s$it-ton of those. They bring me hope. Not because of the lyrics per-se, but because the melody is beautiful, and the lyrics suggest that there is a place of peace. As a writer, people ask me all the time, "Where do your ideas come from." The reality is, I don't know. But whatever it is, when I 'surrender' to it, it comes. To me, the Universe is mysterious... I don't understand it, but I don't need to. I simply need to enjoy it.
The adverb is dead. Anybody else noticed?
Benthoven comments on Jun 28, 2018:
Well, English is a living language, and that means things are going to change on us. Some of it is annoying, but inevitable.
Got an e-mail today from a "bored housewife 33, looking for some action!" I've sent her my ironing, ...
Benthoven comments on Jun 28, 2018:
I get those emails all the time, and I'm like... seriously... have you done your homework? I'm more interested in your husband.
Philippine President Duterte calls God 'stupid' - BBC News
Benthoven comments on Jun 28, 2018:
Well, he's 'not' wrong. He's an a$$hole, but he's not wrong.
Better hurry! There are only 25 more shopping weeks to Christmas.
Benthoven comments on Jun 28, 2018:
Or as J.D. aka John Dorian would put it: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CKY5GuwzlXE
Why can't red and blue just get along?
Benthoven comments on Jun 28, 2018:
How? What base-line do we have? "Humanity?" If you're Red, only one color matters: white. "Compassion?" Right now Red is separating children from parents and moving them away in the middle of the night. "Science?" Red calls science a fraud strait from the pit of hell. "Facts?" Fake news. We've got to have a base-line, and that does not exist at this point. As long as there is one group of people who vilify data, attack science, promote xenophobia and bigotry, "getting along" isn't really going to happen. It's kind of like asking, "why can't the colon and cancer just get along..." Cancer doesn't get along.
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Benthoven comments on Jun 28, 2018:
Then who have I been dating all these years?
In the last presidential election, my side said "if they go low, we go high".
Benthoven comments on Jun 28, 2018:
They problem is, they go low because low is all they know. They go low because they can't go high.
What would your first words be if you got a call from him ?
Benthoven comments on Jun 28, 2018:
You don't look like the pizza delivery boy.
Trump: the pimple on the ass of humanity.
Benthoven comments on Jun 28, 2018:
Alas, pimples can be popped. Trump is more like a boil.
Complete the following sentence: I do not trust... (For me it's dentists.)
Benthoven comments on Jun 28, 2018:
Green eggs and ham...
What position do you sleep in?
Benthoven comments on Jun 27, 2018:
Sigh... That depends on which position I fell asleep in.
Is it possible not to be brainwashed toward the religion you grew up with?
Benthoven comments on Jun 27, 2018:
Brainwashed to a human is simply water to a fish... we deal with the life we know/understand.
What statements do you get bored of hearing from theists and religious people?
Benthoven comments on Jun 27, 2018:
"What came before..." Since time/space started at the Big Bang, then it makes sense that there is no such thing as "before" the Big Bang."
Did you know that in Islamic law, a parent who kills a child suffers no penalty?
Benthoven comments on Jun 27, 2018:
In fact the same is true with Christianity. Killing children is kind of the "god" thang! "Blessed is he who seizes your infants and dashes them against the rocks...." Psalm 137:9
What is The root cause of Conspiracy Thinking?
Benthoven comments on Jun 27, 2018:
I think it's fear. The world is "scary," and I think conspiracy theory thinking still holds that what happens is 'controlled.' In other words, it happens on purpose. The idea of life happening randomly freaks us out, and to that end, Conspiracy theorists insist that there's a reason. The randomness is removed.
How did your family react when they found out your were not religious?
Benthoven comments on Jun 26, 2018:
Mine "always knew..." I was such the rebel.
Evangelical Christians are now backing an actual pimp in a Nevada election / LGBTQ Nation
Benthoven comments on Jun 26, 2018:
I wonder if Christianity will survive this new era. They've pretty much pimped themselves out, and I don't see a way back for them.
Usually it won't, so it's not worth fretting over.
Benthoven comments on Jun 26, 2018:
Does this apply to chocolate cake too?
Why would anyone want to date you?
Benthoven comments on Jun 26, 2018:
Well, the fact that I've been single for years suggests that... the 'don't' want to date me. ;)
Republican tax law hits churches - POLITICO
Benthoven comments on Jun 26, 2018:
I love this quote: "Many organizations are stunned to learn of the tax — part of a broader Republican effort to strip the code of tax breaks for employee benefits like parking and meals — and say it will be a significant financial and administrative burden." Seriously, weren't they watching? Children saw this coming.
Life is Too Short - Dr. Zeuss
Benthoven comments on Jun 26, 2018:
I don't wake up in the morning with regrets. I wake up wondering... "What the hell did I do last night?" ;)
Can you be an Atheist/Agnostic and have a Conservative stance?
Benthoven comments on Jun 26, 2018:
I've been reading some of the Conservative boards on this site, and I've come to the conclusion that... it's not about God. It's about reason. I assumed that people were atheist or agnostic because they had a logical bent, and wanted to take the null hypothesis with the lack of evidence. Based on the boards I've been reading, though, I've assumed wrong. These so-called atheist Conservatives still hold on to the same proven lies, defying anyone to "prove" otherwise. They still rally against data and facts when they contradict their narrative, and if you show them otherwise, it's "fake news." The Conservative Party, as it stands now, is really a party of conspiracy theorists. They're persecuted, "liburils" is out to get them, the "truth" is out there (but it only says what I want it to say). They need a strong-man to lead them because the world is so scary. Conspiracy theorists don't necessarily need God anymore. Before Trump they had to hide their racism and bigotry behind Jesus... thanks to Trump, they can hide it behind "fake news." I suspect we're about to see an influx of Conservative "atheists" in the near future. And while they claim they don't believe in "God," they like what god stands for: Nationalism, bigotry, xenophobia, and oppression of the weak. Trump fits that description, so they can "believe" in Trump and no longer need to believe in God.
It seems to be accepted practice to aim criticism toward the other person when a friendship or ...
Benthoven comments on Jun 26, 2018:
I once told a friend who was complaining about a series of bad relationships: "Girl, they all have one thing in common... you." It was meant to be funny and we laughed, but I've observed that we tend to project our own stuff onto others, and maybe it's not their loss. Maybe they're just taking care of themselves. Blaming others makes us feel better, but it doesn't make us easier to get along with.
How to Win an Argument: A Guide for Trump Supporters
Benthoven comments on Jun 26, 2018:
I think that the reason Conservatives bring up Obama and Hillary so much is that they're in love with these two. They're Junior High School kids who fall into a massive crush, and then pretend they don't like the person hoping that person will really ask them to go out instead.
How to Win an Argument: A Guide for Trump Supporters
Benthoven comments on Jun 26, 2018:
I think that the reason Conservatives bring up Obama and Hillary so much is that they're in love with these two. They're Junior High School kids who fall into a massive crush, and then pretend they don't like the person hoping that person will really ask them to go out instead.
So.
Benthoven comments on Jun 26, 2018:
Next time you can stand behind her while she's working and question her. See how she likes that.
How to Win an Argument: A Guide for Trump Supporters
Benthoven comments on Jun 26, 2018:
I think that the reason Conservatives bring up Obama and Hillary so much is that they're in love with these two. They're Junior High School kids who fall into a massive crush, and then pretend they don't like the person hoping that person will really ask them to go out instead.
How to Win an Argument: A Guide for Trump Supporters
Benthoven comments on Jun 26, 2018:
I think that the reason Conservatives bring up Obama and Hillary so much is that they're in love with these two. They're Junior High School kids who fall into a massive crush, and then pretend they don't like the person hoping that person will really ask them to go out instead.
How to Win an Argument: A Guide for Trump Supporters
Benthoven comments on Jun 26, 2018:
As I've often said, "Donny ain't Satan, but Satan is the wind beneath Donny's wings."
MSM = Fake news?
Benthoven comments on Jun 26, 2018:
MSM?
I really like this come back.
Benthoven comments on Jun 25, 2018:
I totally believe in God. I call him "Brad Pitt..."
This is absolutely true! HAHAHA
Benthoven comments on Jun 25, 2018:
They still make that?
One of the funniest things in my Facebook feed today.
Benthoven comments on Jun 25, 2018:
I never thought I would see the day I would miss George Bush.
My new favorite joke!
Benthoven comments on Jun 25, 2018:
That's not true. I loved it then hated it, then loved it again.
God hates porn?
Benthoven comments on Jun 25, 2018:
The Bible does forbid men w/men, but not women w/women; curious how God has the exact same policy as Vivid Video. ~ John Fugelsang
After sneezing in public, someone says "Bless you", do you say thank you? If not, what DO you say?
Benthoven comments on Jun 22, 2018:
I say, "Thank you." Seriously, I'm not that narrow.
So how many people have been "ghosted" on here, before you even have more then a few conversations ...
Benthoven comments on Jun 22, 2018:
Lots. It's really easy to get blocked on this site.
"You never see animals going through the absurd and often horrible fooleries of magic and ...
Benthoven comments on Jun 22, 2018:
In fact, we do. https://io9.gizmodo.com/5746904/how-pigeons-get-to-be-superstitious
Are you the kind of person who could forgive two-faced people?
Benthoven comments on Jun 21, 2018:
Forgiveness doesn't mean that you accept that person back into your life. Of if you do that you ever trust that person fully again... Forgiveness means you're letting go on your end. You're taking all the anger, betrayal, and other emotions and acknowledging them, assessing whether or not it's safe for you to be around this person, and then allowing them to integrate.
My parents still believe i am as christian as i was when i was in the private elementary school they...
Benthoven comments on Jun 21, 2018:
Which is even more ironic since the need to hold onto the idea of "God" requires an actual attempt to remain ignorant about so many things in life. Which one is more "stupid"?
I hate delving into the psychology or theology of any person.
Benthoven comments on Jun 21, 2018:
Alas, it was me. Shortly after I Shot the Sheriff (but not the deputy)... I needed to protect my Love Shack.
Could you narrow it down?
Benthoven comments on Jun 21, 2018:
Yah, that's not going to happen. You brought her into the world, not me. And you brought her into a world that doesn't look like you or act like you. You'd better get used to different.
Not sure I agree with this.
Benthoven comments on Jun 21, 2018:
It's a double-edged sword. On the one hand, the church has a lot of influence on issues like this. On the other hand, what if they turn this power to toward something that's not so compassionate.
Steve Deace: 'We separate children from their parents when we send them off to war, or imprison ...
Benthoven comments on Jun 21, 2018:
Wow.
Jurassic world.
Benthoven comments on Jun 21, 2018:
I think it's way past the time Hollywood should have stoped making Jurassic movies.
What books should all atheists read?
Benthoven comments on Jun 21, 2018:
The Hitchhiker' Guide to the Galaxy (entire series) : Douglas Adams Dirk Gently's Holistic Detective Agency : Douglas Adams Bloom County: The Complete Library Book Series : Berkeley Breathed On Nation Under God: How Corporate America Invented Christian America : Kevin Kruse Pilgrim Withdraws: The Rebuttal to Pilgrim's Progress : Benjamin David The Storytelling Animal: How Stories Make us Human : Jonathan Gottschall
Ex priest..... ex nun.
Benthoven comments on Jun 21, 2018:
I'd never date a nun, because I'm trying to get me 'some,' and I may be far too old for the priest.
Dear Journal, Day 1524 without sex. I think I'm losing hearing in my left eye.
Benthoven comments on Jun 21, 2018:
Maybe it's time to call in the kidneys for backup.
“she was too much of a warrior to be considered a princess she never cared for the crown she ...
Benthoven comments on Jun 21, 2018:
Stop trying to wrestle with the big picture son, you're gonna hurt your head. ~ Bobby Singer from Supernatural
I have noticed that many of the members that have made level 8 no longer are active on the site.
Benthoven comments on Jun 21, 2018:
I've been at Level 7 for as long as I can remember. It takes longer to get to level 8 than it does to get through grad school. My guess is they're exhausted, and are taking some time off to rest and recoup until they can focus again.
What quote or saying do you find overused and/or complete BS?
Benthoven comments on Jun 21, 2018:
110 Percent... or "Outside the box." If you have to use the term, "outside the box," perhaps it's time for you to rethink your relationship to 'said box.'
250 years from now.....
Benthoven comments on Jun 21, 2018:
I've been saying it all along. I really am the milkman's son.
Seems most people live their lives without much thought, BUT some have purposely embraced a ...
Benthoven comments on Jun 18, 2018:
Learning the hard way is a waste of time.
Can you have sobriety without a higher power?
Benthoven comments on Jun 18, 2018:
Absolutely. In fact, AA only works about 8 percent of the time, forcing AA to claim that those who don't 'succeed' fail because they don't work the program. Sort of like, "Your sick because you don't have enough faith." But there are some new, science-based programs that are having some promising success rates. The Irrationality of Alcoholics Anonymous https://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2015/04/the-irrationality-of-alcoholics-anonymous/386255/
"It is easy to understand God as long as you don't try to explain him." - Joseph Joubert
Benthoven comments on Jun 18, 2018:
I find that a couple of edibles into the conversation I suddenly become quite fluent on "God".
Let's talk about the easily offended.
Benthoven comments on Jun 18, 2018:
Ironically, I see more people offended here than on my Facebook page. And I have some crazy-ass friends. I think we're living in a time where we need to be 'right' all of the time, and if someone disagrees, it's because they're bigoted, hateful, stupid, ill-informed... I've read a lot of books by smart people, and whether or not I understood them they had one thing in common... the more they 'knew' the more they realized they didn't know, and the more interested they were in finding out more.
Yup it's true..sorry kids.
Benthoven comments on Jun 18, 2018:
I guess it's okay. They only serve house Vodka there.
Ten Things The Working Poor Truly Understand And One Harvard 'Discovered'
Benthoven comments on Jun 18, 2018:
After tens of thousands of years of watching this play out, you'd think we'd finally give a damn about the poor and suffering.
Would you dare to have sex in a church?
Benthoven comments on Jun 18, 2018:
Wha??? How dare you??? Who told? ... Seriously, who told?
Why do otherwise intelligent ppl believe the nonsense / fairy tales of their religion and in their ...
Benthoven comments on Jun 18, 2018:
That's because Jesus MAY have existed... No atheist I know is calling him anything else...
What Cover Song is Better Than The Original?
Benthoven comments on Jun 16, 2018:
I love this cover of Trust in Me from the Jungle Book. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i7WFQ2F7DGQ
Does Christianity still need Jesus?
Benthoven comments on Jun 16, 2018:
Christianity hasn't been tied to Jesus for a really long time now. In fact, if Jesus were to come back preaching his own gospel, Christian's would only crucify him again, for being Liberal/Socialist/Commi/Pinko/Immigrant/Anchor Baby.
Devils Advocate now - Why would atheists and agnostics be the slightest bit concerned about the ...
Benthoven comments on Jun 16, 2018:
Other than the fact that "believers" are trying to create real laws with actual consequences that hurt actual people?
What song would you like played at your funeral /wake?
Benthoven comments on Jun 16, 2018:
Of course I want my best friend to give my eulogy, but I'll need to give my sister equal time fro the rebuttal. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1VFuHj9_Tgw
Ah drugs Lsd, pcp, cocaine, meth, heroin, ex, shrooms.
Benthoven comments on Jun 16, 2018:
And you're getting your information from where?
It's All About Ass!_
Benthoven comments on Jun 16, 2018:
Or all of the above.
How do you Unleash Your Inner Diva ?
Benthoven comments on Jun 16, 2018:
I let her sing! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4eqIocj71mM

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