Hmmm. [reddit.com]

BudFrank comments on Jan 24, 2019:

That works both ways too.

Who could this be?

BudFrank comments on Jan 23, 2019:

If it’s you, looks great!

Your genitals are now named for the last TV show you watched. I’ll go first. The Good Place ?

BudFrank comments on Jan 23, 2019:

The price is right

Lovely sounds we all love

BudFrank comments on Jan 22, 2019:

Shoes on gravel might not be pleasant if the son of the last guy whose neck you snapped is after you

Hi, I'm back.

BudFrank comments on Jan 22, 2019:

Hope your health gets better. I’ll send you a cat post.

Why can't I get over my first true love?

BudFrank comments on Jan 22, 2019:

I have feeling like that about a previous love. In my case, she has broken off with me, and I can’t just call and she’ll be back. That makes it worse in some ways. I feel rejected.

If I ever win the lottery..

BudFrank comments on Jan 21, 2019:

Great idea!!

For those who just can't get hairy enough... funny and ugh.

BudFrank comments on Jan 19, 2019:

No, thank you. That is not the image I want to project

Good group hard to meet good women (no pun intended)sometimes you need a woman friend to get by

BudFrank comments on Jan 18, 2019:

I like platonic women friends and also women friends with benefits. Both types of relationships are beneficial

May we discuss how guys enjoy giving oral and how women enjoy receiving oral?

BudFrank comments on Jan 18, 2019:

I like to give more than receive, but both are great. For me, to give, it is analogous to sucking a breast, but with better flavor, and better reactions, and you know you’re closer to where “the real thing” happens. I love being able to make a woman come to orgasm that way, especially multiple times. But even if it’s only once, it can be the most intense way to make it happen.

Good morning all! Its Wakey wakey time! Here's a nice soft light song to slowly get you ready for ...

BudFrank comments on Jan 17, 2019:

Good morning. They were popular during my college years. I had all their albums in vinyl

How old are you now?

BudFrank comments on Jan 16, 2019:

I resemble that remark

What is your fave type of Porn?

BudFrank comments on Jan 14, 2019:

Amateur

Replace a word in a movie title with the word "Sadist".

BudFrank comments on Jan 13, 2019:

From Tolkien you have the choices” The fellowship of the Sadist The two Sadists The return of the Sadist

Serial vs parallel dating.. have i posted this topic already?

BudFrank comments on Jan 13, 2019:

There is a book “conscious dating” that recommends parallel dating (not dating as much as getting to know each other) too. You don’t want to be in a relationship in serial dating and miss “the one” that you might want to get to know in parallel dating.

By popular demand this evening,after vote.tiny breasts and healthy...my fav.

BudFrank comments on Jan 13, 2019:

I like tiny as well as larger, but not so much enormous

Mine was, Overgaard Arizona.?

BudFrank comments on Jan 13, 2019:

Waxhaw, NC

Be the reason! Lol

BudFrank comments on Jan 10, 2019:

Maybe all three

Rena, a model I used to work with. Too skinny?

BudFrank comments on Jan 7, 2019:

Too skinny for my taste, but she has nice boobs

Who would want to live like this for one year, no technology, off the grid.

BudFrank comments on Jan 7, 2019:

I would do it. I want to do it. Would be fun with a companion that I could have deepndiscussions and share the beauty of nature with

Who is up for online dating

BudFrank comments on Jan 5, 2019:

It’s ok. Best option for meeting people these days for me.

I mean... really?

BudFrank comments on Jan 4, 2019:

Giant red flag! Block him immediately

What Was Your Favorite Cartoon as a /Now?

BudFrank comments on Jan 1, 2019:

Road runner

Another year is almost over??

BudFrank comments on Dec 31, 2018:

Thank you too!

Hi everyone! I’m in a dilemma and hoping that I can get some feedback.

BudFrank comments on Dec 30, 2018:

Might be a scammer. Might be just very wary or introverted. Personally I prefer to meet sooner rather than later.

Do you believe in/pay attention to "love languages?

BudFrank comments on Dec 29, 2018:

Yes I do. It helps when I explain to dates what I need and ask what they need to make a relationship successful

Went on Facebook for what I thought was a moment to retrieve a message.

BudFrank comments on Dec 26, 2018:

Yeah. I know the feeling. Even talking with my own kids was depressing

Not everyone is or can be with family. Someone is thinking of you. <3

BudFrank comments on Dec 25, 2018:

Still in northern Cali with the Red Cross. Over 700 homeless still in our shelter. I’m glad to have a home even if I’m not there this season

Physical attraction or mental connection?

BudFrank comments on Dec 23, 2018:

I want connection on all levels: emotional, spiritual, mental, physical, etc. if one is missing that’s ok, but as much ability to connect as possible

How will you reply??

BudFrank comments on Dec 22, 2018:

Sorry, but no thank you

I don’t think I could join...

BudFrank comments on Dec 21, 2018:

That’s definitely not a meeting I would go to. I’m at the other end of the spectrum.

Got cream for these peaches?

BudFrank comments on Dec 16, 2018:

This water tower in gaffney South Carolina reminds me of this. It even has its own clit

Let's have some fun ?☺

BudFrank comments on Dec 16, 2018:

The gods must be crazy

I’m 18 years old and confused about my sexual orientation.

BudFrank comments on Dec 16, 2018:

There is nothing wrong with you. It is normal to have atttractions in whatever direction. Let friendships move in a natural flow and keep up with your studies.

Hi everyone, just joined you.

BudFrank comments on Dec 15, 2018:

Welcome. I’m glad you appreciate beauty wherever it is found

The right person ?❤

BudFrank comments on Dec 13, 2018:

I remember early in some relationships we could spend many hours together and it not seem like much time has passed

If you could only pick one thing, what would be the most important quality in a significant other?

BudFrank comments on Dec 13, 2018:

Acceptance of me as I am, without the need to change me.

This is a follow up to my previous post about supporting my friend through the death of his brother ...

BudFrank comments on Dec 12, 2018:

You be honest with yourself. What others do and think is their issue. I’m sorry to sound callous, but you have to keep those boundaries however you can

This time of year can be sad for mateless people.

BudFrank comments on Dec 11, 2018:

That’s partly why I’m out volunteering with the Red Cross in California, miles from home, this season

Taking a break. ... No problems. Just too much drama. .

BudFrank comments on Dec 10, 2018:

Thanks for letting us know. Hope things go well for you

Doing this alone is ok but with someone is ever better.

BudFrank comments on Nov 27, 2018:

Yes! Send me the address and I’ll meet you there

Good morning all.

BudFrank comments on Nov 22, 2018:

Hope it goes well for you.

Since Tomorrow is Officially Thanksgiving/Indian Genocide Day I'd like to wish all of our group ...

BudFrank comments on Nov 21, 2018:

I’m with the Red Cross in California. I’ll be serving lunch to those living in our shelters, many of whom weee evacuated for the wild fires and may have lost their homes.

I agree with this

BudFrank comments on Nov 20, 2018:

Agreed. There are always boundaries in relationships. You and your significant other need to agree what those boundaries are. It won’t be the same for all friends and for all relationships. Nobody can tell you exactly what it should look like. It’s just a decision between you and your partner. It might not even be formally discussed between you.

Would you date someone with herpes? Considering everything else about them was great...

BudFrank comments on Nov 20, 2018:

Yes I would

A few years ago, I was dating a woman that kissed very hard.

BudFrank comments on Nov 17, 2018:

I had that happen, and it was a deal breaker eventually.

I needed a laugh today so thought I'd share..??

BudFrank comments on Nov 16, 2018:

Exactly!

Where's Waldo

BudFrank comments on Nov 15, 2018:

In Ohio apparently

So very wrong

BudFrank comments on Nov 14, 2018:

Those two times I got married

I stayed for little over an hour.

BudFrank comments on Nov 14, 2018:

Sending a hug! ?

Very bad news ?

BudFrank comments on Nov 14, 2018:

One interesting comment I heard a while back. Instead of saying “I’m sorry for your loss,” say “I’m sorry for your grief” or “I’m sorry for your pain.” Let people know you recognize how this hurts

Hey everyone... We just hit 200 members today!!! ?

BudFrank comments on Nov 14, 2018:

Love you too

Update.

BudFrank comments on Nov 14, 2018:

Thank you for caring. THats a beautiful thing you’re doing.

Not my photo, but I thought amazing enough to share. This is Oakland California.

BudFrank comments on Nov 12, 2018:

My daughter sent me a pic from Oakland. Not nearly as good as the one above, but you can’t even see San Francisco

Not my photo, but I thought amazing enough to share. This is Oakland California.

BudFrank comments on Nov 12, 2018:

My daughter lives in Oakland and moved to a hotel for the worst of the fires.

4000 years later and we’re back to the same language. ???

BudFrank comments on Nov 10, 2018:

And don’t forget about worshipping cats then and now

Any ideas?

BudFrank comments on Nov 5, 2018:

Oh yeah! I’ve got ideas. What are yours?

Question goes for men or women

BudFrank comments on Nov 4, 2018:

Yes. Either direction if I thought there was a possibility of a relationship.

Any holiday gatherings I can plan for where singles mingle?

BudFrank comments on Nov 4, 2018:

I find holidays to be depressing, being the only single in the group, whether it’s with my kids or my siblings. That’s why I’m thinking of arranging to be deployed with the Red Cross during those days. They are becoming my family and friends.

Men: What are some of the most endearing or thoughtful birthday gifts you’ve received?

BudFrank comments on Nov 3, 2018:

Time

@pepperjones With her permission.. Comments? I love it ?

BudFrank comments on Nov 2, 2018:

Yummy!

Why am I getting some guys viewing my profile? Is there something I should know here??? LOL

BudFrank comments on Nov 2, 2018:

I wonder about that too

I just got a call from the Red Cross dispatcher.

BudFrank comments on Oct 29, 2018:

I’ve trained for disaster work this is my second time out. Actually flying there this time. Might use the trailer in the future

Anyone remember making things with gimp, I spend so much time at the Girls Club.

BudFrank comments on Oct 28, 2018:

We did that at our church summer camp, and always came home with lanyards or key holders, and I’m sure our parents were thinking, what are we going to do with these?

How many remember the Mickey Mouse Club on TV?

BudFrank comments on Oct 28, 2018:

Oh yeah! We watched it in our household. I had crushes on the girls. We never had the paraphernalia though.

Hands Across America: Anyone recall that back in the day on May 28,1986?

BudFrank comments on Oct 28, 2018:

I was living in Africa at that point. I vaguely remember hearing something in the news but it was impossible for me to be involved

So what are you going to be for Halloween?

BudFrank comments on Oct 27, 2018:

I may dust off my Mad Hatter outfit and use it again. It was my favorite and won a prize or two.

Are relationships really harder now?

BudFrank comments on Oct 27, 2018:

To some extent. It doesn’t have to be that way and not all couples follow those patterns.

Are we really all the same? ?

BudFrank comments on Oct 27, 2018:

Six of these things are just like the others... one of these things is not like the others...

Live Each Day Better Than Our Last

BudFrank comments on Oct 27, 2018:

Well said. I’ve got plenty of things in the past that would be nice to change, but we can’t, so set as a goal to do better next time

Does anyone else get a little creeped out when you see you have a new "Follower", but upon checking ...

BudFrank comments on Oct 27, 2018:

As a guy I know I don’t have the same security concerns you have. I don’t know who is following me and hat doesn’t particularly worry me. But I agree that following someone who has a completely opposite world view is strange. I might “like” your pictures because they are good and you look good. But if I “follow” we should have some conversation.

Good news! I found a place in Manhattan where I can do volunteer work! It's a day care center! ...

BudFrank comments on Oct 27, 2018:

Congratulations!!

Sex on the first date... good idea, or bad idea?

BudFrank comments on Oct 27, 2018:

I would say that sets precedents for what the relationship is based on. I would wait some.

Eventually, don't you agree? ❤❤❤

BudFrank comments on Oct 26, 2018:

Yes!! For sure

I mean... Yeah.

BudFrank comments on Oct 25, 2018:

They’re making the bikini bottoms smaller and smaller now. And you can even see under the edge. Almost like the French

Who else does this?

BudFrank comments on Oct 25, 2018:

And the problem with that is?

A thought crossed my mind and I'd like the input/opinions of others on it.

BudFrank comments on Oct 25, 2018:

I think that may be part of it, there’s also the theology they’ve been given that you’re going to Hell, and implied there is that you’re less than

My social skills aren't exactly finely honed, so i'm wondering if I can get a few takes on this.

BudFrank comments on Oct 25, 2018:

Well, you are awesome! And people who can’t admit it may have self image issues. I’m a recovering conservative Christian. Humility was preached a lot, and seeing yourself as awesome was not cool to them. There may be some misogyny there too, which goes back to indoctrination as well as moor images of women. I personally think intelligent and confident women are sexy

I am originally from the land of rainy hipsters so I can confirm that one ?

BudFrank comments on Oct 25, 2018:

Fashion bloggers? I hope not. That’s not me for sure. I’m almost fashion color blind

Last night's full moon made me want to ---- [youtube.com]

BudFrank comments on Oct 25, 2018:

Yes! Wanted someone to share that with

For the girls.... Isn't this a sexy man?! ?What do you want to do with him? ;)

BudFrank comments on Oct 25, 2018:

I didn’t copy his look. It just happens to be similar. I won’t answer about the doctor because I don’t bend that way. But if you found me sexy, good for you. If you don’t, I can live with it.

Hi all, I joined this group because it seems very safe and accepting.

BudFrank comments on Oct 25, 2018:

I’m new to this group too. I’m in a similar situation to you.

Question here that feels safe to ask: Anyone here use adult toys to enhance their experience, either...

BudFrank comments on Oct 25, 2018:

I have used toys for myself and my partner. One store in this area is Adam and Eve. The staff in these stores are usually not embarrassed to answer questions you might have. From my direct experience as well as talking with partners, toys are often good to use when alone. I find they can be fun occasionally when together, but as someone else said, they’re isn’t anything much better than fingers and mouth. Specifically, for woman, a dildo is the toy of preference. It’s for vaginal and clit use. There would be separate toys for anal use if that’s your thing. For men, there’s something called a stroker

Watch out for cuffing season, that time of year people setting into relationships cuz they're ...

BudFrank comments on Oct 25, 2018:

I ran across this site recently, so any inquiries from me will be recent because of that. I have been out there on a couple of dating sites for a couple of years, but not found compatible women, especially in the spiritual realm

Yup, don't forget the floss!

BudFrank comments on Oct 25, 2018:

About a week before my dentist appointment I floss regularly. It’s like cramming for an exam in school

Holy crap, I am getting this book: Do you fall in love hard, but fear intimacy?

BudFrank comments on Oct 24, 2018:

That resonates with me too

Hate has four letters, so does Love. ❤

BudFrank comments on Oct 24, 2018:

Absotively!

Should a Man Defend His Significant Other Against Insults From His Family? I say "YES>"

BudFrank comments on Oct 24, 2018:

Yes!!

The truth is, none of us are easy to date ?☺??

BudFrank comments on Oct 24, 2018:

Agreed!!

How far, realistically, would you go for a relationship?

BudFrank comments on Oct 24, 2018:

One hour’s travel for a relationship where we see each other more than once a week. For initial contacts on possible relationships I’d go 100 miles or more. I have the advantage of being retired and living in a travel trailer so I could move closer to my beloved if it gets serious

I'd like make a friendly suggestion all the male-people who want chat with female-people on this ...

BudFrank comments on Oct 24, 2018:

I believe a reasonably short hi message is not the equivalent of a wolf whistle. Some of us are not a socially adept as others. I personally do try to connect more than just hi, but I don’t see that as obnoxious. A better word would be a little awkward. Actually I find the comparison to a wolf whistle to be offensive. I would never do that, but I have initiated conversations with short intros.

Hi everyone.

BudFrank comments on Oct 24, 2018:

Survivors guilt? You survivors Christianity

Regarding my previous post about unrequited relationships [agnostic.

BudFrank comments on Oct 24, 2018:

It is not a bad thing to be sensitive. You do have to protect yourself a little better though in this case. I am there myself

Please share stories about unrequited love.

BudFrank comments on Oct 23, 2018:

There was a woman I really liked. We did things together and I thought things were going well, until I said something about us dating. She responded that we weren’t dating we were just hanging out. This kept up for more than a year. New Year’s Eve she invited me over. At mightnight we actually had a kiss. For a couple of weeks things seemed to be moving along. But then she drew away. Finally we had “the talk” that she wasn’t interested and she totally even. Broke off the friendship. No happy ending. That’s been almost a year and a half.

"At 17" by Janis Ian -- this song came on the radio a little earlier and I started to cry.

BudFrank comments on Oct 23, 2018:

I felt that as a guy too. I was the proverbial 97 pound weakling at that age.

What is it about a woman's boobs that men (and some women) find so attractive?

BudFrank comments on Oct 23, 2018:

I had a girlfriend tell me once, “it’s all interconnected internally.” That’s from her perspective. I find the softness of the breast comforting (left over from childhood). The nipple when it’s hard reminds me of the clit, or maybe it’s the clit that reminds me of the nipple. Like I said it’s all connected.

I haven't had sex in so ???

BudFrank comments on Oct 23, 2018:

I’d take that in stride, just like I would do with a fart.

Close your eyes and see from the heart ❤❤❤

BudFrank comments on Oct 23, 2018:

What the heart sees will be more lasting in the long run.

Tiz the season!

BudFrank comments on Oct 22, 2018:

Yeah. I feel that sometimes too

Maybe we need to quit putting sociopaths in power

BudFrank comments on Oct 22, 2018:

Politicians are pretty much power hungry by definition. Unfortunate but true.