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I've been an atheist for a little over two years. I recently have come completely out of the closet concerning my atheism. There are two main reasons. 1. I don't think I should hide who I am. 2. I know there are other people like me who are doubting/questioning, and I think it's important that they know they are not alone.

I have a love for languages. I'm conversational in Spanish and I'm learning sign language. I dabble in other languages...a few words here and there. I also love making quilts, although I'm not sure I'll ever finish all the quilts I want to make.

I love a good spirited debate. I don't mind hearing other viewpoints. That's how we learn. I would rather have someone honestly disagree with me than dishonestly agree with me.

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She's not alone.....
Cabsmom comments on Oct 30, 2018:
I can mark myself poor also.
It is Sunday. It is raining. What should I do.... I made Vodka Pasta!
Cabsmom comments on Oct 29, 2018:
Did you say vodka?
I actually think us men are! What's your opinion?
Cabsmom comments on Oct 29, 2018:
Okay, truth be told. I hear the word "hard" and my mind thinks of a hard cock. I hear "oh my god" and I think...who is getting off. I hear about boobs and I think of someone fondling my boobs... Am I perverted? Meh? I just like sex!
Too late for a plunger
Cabsmom comments on Oct 29, 2018:
Oh, fuck no
I actually think us men are! What's your opinion?
Cabsmom comments on Oct 28, 2018:
In general I have no idea. I know my mind is pretty dirty.
Happy Sunday. Fill in the blank. Touch my....... And I'll smack you
Cabsmom comments on Oct 28, 2018:
Phone
always need a bestie
Cabsmom comments on Oct 27, 2018:
I'll be there too...you should be able to find me-with my horns on my head.
Would you?
Cabsmom comments on Oct 27, 2018:
No
Thank you sarah [youtube.com]
Cabsmom comments on Oct 27, 2018:
What a brave woman.
Sex on the first date... good idea, or bad idea? Let's say you are looking for a life partner. Do ...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 26, 2018:
There are too many variables to give an answer. With my son's dad we slept together the second night we went out. Of course, we didn't last forever but we did stay together for about 5 years. It probably would have lasted longer if he hadn't been a hardcore drug addict.
I like to watch a woman smoking while I am having sex. Also like fishnets. Anyone enjoy either?
Cabsmom comments on Oct 26, 2018:
I've always found is sexy to watch a man smoking anytime...I don't know why. I think it's because I'm attracted to the rebellious type.
I have stated my desire and hope to engage in a relationship. Perhaps I come across as arrogant or ...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 26, 2018:
It's impossible to give your an answer because I have no idea how you are in person. If you think you might come off as arrogant, work on that.
How far, realistically, would you go for a relationship? I mean distance. We are on this page, ...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 24, 2018:
I would be willing to meet someone a couple of hours away. However, I'm not willing to relocate more that 50 miles away. I want to stay close to my parents and other family.
Have you ever bigged your job up to impress? Eg. Buss boy - Logistical engineer. Taxi call center ...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 24, 2018:
No
Please share stories about unrequited love. If there's a happy twist at the end, could you kindly ...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 23, 2018:
Hmmm....I'm not sure if I've ever been in love. Lust...yes. Infatuation...yes. I even loved my son's dad, but "in love", I didn't think so. I still care about him now, but I tend to care about most people in my life. I'm still waiting to fall in love...kind of sad, I know.
How to reply when someone says 'have a blessed day'
Cabsmom comments on Oct 23, 2018:
I just don't acknowledge it. Most of the time the intentions are good
What is your favorite song to get you motivated?
Cabsmom comments on Oct 23, 2018:
Right now The Pot by Tool Others... Kashmir by Led Zepplin Domination by Panera For me it's more about the sound than the lyrics.
How much cleavage in a profile picture is your line between provocative and distasteful?
Cabsmom comments on Oct 23, 2018:
I think it is up to the woman. However, if a woman puts a picture with cleavage and then acts like she didn't realize it, she's most likely lying. When I put cleavage shots it's on purpose and I'll own up to it. There is no shame in showing one of my best features...lol
You can Try to be optimistic about being ghosted
Cabsmom comments on Oct 23, 2018:
Yeah, it sucks. It happened to me early this year. Oh well, I'm not going to dwell on it.
Thoughts on marriage : There seems to be many in the community who are anti marriage.... And a ...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 22, 2018:
I'm in the middle. I'm in no hurry to find a husband, and I'd be happy in a committed relationship workout marriage. However, there are legal advantages to being married.
Can you answer without using a family member.?
Cabsmom comments on Oct 21, 2018:
I met my oldest friend in 1st or 2nd grade. Now w only keep in touch through FB.
When do you think its time to let go of an Internet relationship/ friendship that you know is never ...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 20, 2018:
When you start thinking it might be time...maybe? It's really not that simple. If you're wanting romance and they're never going to budge, it is probably time.
I usually feel just fine whether I'm alone or with friends. Tonight's a little rough. Wish someone ...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 20, 2018:
I'm sorry Limey. I usually love some alone time. I've finally gotten back to that. However for about 2 months in the summer-I was having so much anxiety and depression that it was difficult to be alone for any length of time.
Just saying
Cabsmom comments on Oct 20, 2018:
I don't need pancakes.
Online dating, are you ladies asking for too much? Okay before you start filling your handbags with...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 20, 2018:
You're assuming a lot and making blanket generalizations. I'm not looking to reject. I have often felt that many men were or of my league so I avoid them in fear of being rejected. That's just.me. There are MANY reasons why a woman might not contact a man. As far a having very narrow parameters that happens with men and women. I'm not very picky except for personality, but even there there is room for variables.
If you only had one choice. Would you rather give oral or receive oral?.... Me... Give all day and ...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 20, 2018:
Give
I think I'm getting off here. Anyone want to cum along?
Cabsmom comments on Oct 19, 2018:
I've already been they TODAY
Ok all you naughty sexy people what are you doing this fine Friday night?
Cabsmom comments on Oct 19, 2018:
Phone sex and then sleeping.
Now you know one more reason to say the whole idea of "the flood" was hokum.
Cabsmom comments on Oct 19, 2018:
Yeah, that tripped me up when I read some apologetics about how incest was okay back then.
I dislike men with beards. How about you?
Cabsmom comments on Oct 19, 2018:
Hell no... beards, goatees are SEXY!
There's nothing better than that exquisite moment that you are astride him, your sex soaking wet ...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 19, 2018:
I don't want to be a man. I enjoy being a woman and being the vessel to invite a man's cock inside. However, it would be cool to truly know (perhaps do body swap thing for one sexual experience a la Twilight Zone). I think it would help both genders truly understand what their partner experiences.
And there... some grown men need to learn this.
Cabsmom comments on Oct 19, 2018:
I'm going to give a different point of view. Although it is wrong to harass someone, there are couples out there that started out this way. I don't think it would be horrible at a later time of he asked again...as long as he is not pushy or rude or threatening. Heck, there is a man I know that I didn't give a chance to early on. If he would have asked at a later time, I think I might have given him a chance. We are still friends, but he is married
Hi everybody. Just a little update. Site was down for quite awhile yesterday so decided to go out...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 19, 2018:
Morning sickness is what made me suspect I was pregnant. I couldn't stand the smell of coffee and I worked at a restaurant.
Any Tool fans?
Cabsmom comments on Oct 19, 2018:
My favorite song of theirs (right now) is The Pot.
What constantly surprises you?
Cabsmom comments on Oct 19, 2018:
People believing if they type Amen, they will be blessed.
Any Tool fans?
Cabsmom comments on Oct 19, 2018:
YES!!!!
Well, I trimmed it.
Cabsmom comments on Oct 18, 2018:
Looking good
May Your Cup Runneth Over?
Cabsmom comments on Oct 18, 2018:
I haven't been the biggest coffee drinker until recently. I discovered that the magic juice helps my mood and energy levels tremendously.
Who Gets To Sit at Your Table?
Cabsmom comments on Oct 18, 2018:
And the people I want at that table don't have to look a certain way. I'm looking for people with a good character.
The Best Things in Life are Free
Cabsmom comments on Oct 18, 2018:
Absolutely true
You Find Your Worth Inside Yourself
Cabsmom comments on Oct 18, 2018:
I need to remember this.
Was anyone else locked out of Agnostics? I couldn't log in all afternoon.
Cabsmom comments on Oct 18, 2018:
I had the same problem.
This is not a good look.
Cabsmom comments on Oct 18, 2018:
Why???
Or 3rd world driverless cars
Cabsmom comments on Oct 18, 2018:
That would be funny to see.
It's kind of cool how someone.....?
Cabsmom comments on Oct 18, 2018:
I have friends like this...perhaps someday I'll have a significant other like this.
My my , disappointed am I. I only could deepthroat 7 inches of unpeeled banana this morning.
Cabsmom comments on Oct 18, 2018:
Maybe if you peeled it first....
Beautifully put.
Cabsmom comments on Oct 18, 2018:
That's true. It is hard to hang on through the horrible sometimes. I'm always glad I did though.
Interesting find on Reddit this morning. I was wondering what the general consensus is here where ...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 18, 2018:
I never married my son's dad and I have my son his dad's last name. I often got called by my son's last name...it didn't bother me. I would correct them though.
For purposes of sleeping, how territorial are you about bed space and sheets?
Cabsmom comments on Oct 18, 2018:
Well, since I've been single for so long it isn't an issue. On the rare occasion that I share my bed or theirs it depends on how cold it is. If it's cold, I'm likely to be selfish.
Other than just saying it, what's the best way to tell someone you love them.
Cabsmom comments on Oct 18, 2018:
Hugs and kisses and more Doing things for them without being asked. Noticing things they do for you. Being interested in what they are interested in...or at least trying to be
Do you have dé·jà vu? How do you deal with it ? Can it be just an illusion created by past ...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 18, 2018:
I think it's just a familiar feeling from similar things in the past. However, it is eerie at times.
Una pregunta...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 18, 2018:
Ja ja ja
What song makes you cry? Mine is "Love Me Tender" ?
Cabsmom comments on Oct 17, 2018:
No, but I cried watching a documentary about Freddie Mercury. I had been drinking...so my emotions were intensified.
Does anyone feel like being reborn? [theguardian.com]
Cabsmom comments on Oct 17, 2018:
I think I'll skip this fashionable clothing
I've been battling serious pain for the last 6 months brought on by arthritis in my left hip and ...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 17, 2018:
That's brutal. My sister had that procedure done...at least that sounds like the same thing she had done. I think it helps her. I hope they can get that done successfully so that you so you can have a more normal life.
I seen this today and thought it was funny. This seems like a good place for it.
Cabsmom comments on Oct 17, 2018:
Lol
If someone gave you $5,000 but you either had to spend it on the meal of a lifetime or give it to a ...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 17, 2018:
Give it away
Genuine curious question: is this group primarily for posts with mundane status updates [e.g. “I ...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 16, 2018:
It is lighthearted a lot of the times. There are more thought provoking posts sometimes. Why don't you post some more substantial stuff. I'm willing to bet you could have some good discussions on here...depending on how many people are checking the posts at the time.
Are you a very stable genius? [youtube.com]
Cabsmom comments on Oct 16, 2018:
A very stable genius....maybe not so much
I'm a hopeless romantic with a dirty mind and high standards.
Cabsmom comments on Oct 16, 2018:
I like that combination also.
What's the first thing you do after your heart is broken?
Cabsmom comments on Oct 16, 2018:
I cry with one of my friends. Then I remind myself that I'm still a worthwhile person. I spend more time with friends/family. I try to stay busy.
Sorry I missed folks in chat yesterday! It's been a busy week so far (and it's only Tuesday!!!!! ...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 16, 2018:
We missed you too.
Good morning everyone! I hope that we all have a good Autumn day.
Cabsmom comments on Oct 16, 2018:
It's nice and cold here.
2 of my favorite things to wake up to...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 16, 2018:
Oh WOW!
Chatroom. I'm in and out slowly. Anyone want to join.
Cabsmom comments on Oct 16, 2018:
In and out slowly...one of my favorite things...seriously.
Almighty god sez so. Apostle Paul said to cut any body part off if it makes you unrighteous.
Cabsmom comments on Oct 16, 2018:
If he wants to cut part of it off, why put it there in the first place?
What's a language that can make anything sound sexy?
Cabsmom comments on Oct 15, 2018:
Italian French
JUST THE THOUGHT OF IT......... A WOMAN WITH A FINE ASS DRIVES ME FUCKN KRAZY! ( and that's a short...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 15, 2018:
I think most people have their turn ons which they only have to think about to get horny.
Abuse is Control, Disrespect and Hurtful Words.
Cabsmom comments on Oct 15, 2018:
I've been through emotional/verbal abuse. It sucks. I won't take that anymore.
What time of day is best for creativity?
Cabsmom comments on Oct 15, 2018:
It varies for me, but quite often when I can't draw my ideas out (I make quilts.)
When people act shady ....?
Cabsmom comments on Oct 15, 2018:
And if they act shady now, they will continue to be shady. Don't think you can change them.
chat anyone?
Cabsmom comments on Oct 15, 2018:
I can for a few minutes
So excited to be meeting @GreatNani today for lunch. I have only a few agnostic/atheist friends. ...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 14, 2018:
Have a great time.
Who makes you laugh more than anyone?
Cabsmom comments on Oct 14, 2018:
Not too long ago a woman at an atheist meeting had me laughing like I was high (I wasn't.) She was talking about some crazy shit like she was hallucinating or something. More recently my friend/roomate.
I used to do a lot of erotic writing back in the day, most paid poorly, but this reminded me of ...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 14, 2018:
Yes!!!
Ok. These things you can obviously take with a grain of salt. I’m curious though, are you high or ...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 14, 2018:
Low maintenance. I didn't even take the quiz.
I once dated a man for a few months and told him I was falling in love with him. He said don't. What...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 13, 2018:
It could be several things: 1. He doesn't want anything serious. 2. He doesn't feel the same way. 3. It's too soon for him. 4. He's fooling with your mind or fooling around on the side. There are probably a dozen other things it could be.
Have some fun with this. My reason is I've always that the law was wrong... didn't realize how ...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 13, 2018:
Mainly because it's safer than alcohol.
Need advice/your opinions... Would you go out on a date with someone who has the same name as an ex?...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 13, 2018:
Yes, I would
Complete this thought. When a relationship ends before you begin another one you might go out and ...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 12, 2018:
New bras.
What is something that men generally do in public that women should also be allowed to do?
Cabsmom comments on Oct 12, 2018:
Scratch their crotch..lol
What may anyone here think about the aspect of hookups if one's partner is sexless?
Cabsmom comments on Oct 12, 2018:
It depends on the relationship. If things are in the open and both partners are okay with it, I see no problem.
Do you have that one friend?
Cabsmom comments on Oct 12, 2018:
Hell yes, I do.
I had a lunch date... bit my lip in the same damn spot 3 times at the table (4th day in a row!) No ...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 12, 2018:
Maybe just tell him to be gentle. He will understand unless he's a jackass.
For those of you not familiar with 'Obvious Plant', here are a few examples (see also, "Is a little ...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 12, 2018:
Lol
My foul mood just got worse. I just LOVE being reminded that everyone else I know has no problem ...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 12, 2018:
I don't know that right thing to say. I'm sorry that you're going through this though.
this could really be posted in any group
Cabsmom comments on Oct 11, 2018:
Amen...lol!!!
Earworm
Cabsmom comments on Oct 11, 2018:
Lol
What else do you want to put in them ladies?
Cabsmom comments on Oct 11, 2018:
That's a secret
It's Complicated. I'm .... Complicated.
Cabsmom comments on Oct 11, 2018:
That's me.
How close have you come to being what you wanted to be when you grow up?
Cabsmom comments on Oct 11, 2018:
I'm still figuring that out...lol. Seriously, I just got my associates degree in the spring. I am 49 years old...ugh! I made some poor decisions in the past and while I've always worked, I've only worked jobs not a career.
Who doesn't enjoy a good book?
Cabsmom comments on Oct 11, 2018:
Make sure you finish the book. That way you'll see the happy ending.
What are your feelings about "Friends with Benefits"?
Cabsmom comments on Oct 10, 2018:
I'm conflicted. I think it serves a purpose, but I think it's hard to be truly neutral about feelings and everything.
Me and you, Building. Kindred spirits. It's been a while for me too, but I don't advertise it on a ...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 10, 2018:
Well, it wasn't that long ago for me. It was my birthday.
Are you more comfortable hugging, shaking hands, fist bumping, or high-fiving?
Cabsmom comments on Oct 10, 2018:
It depends on who I'm interacting with.
I'm pretty damn strong.
Cabsmom comments on Oct 10, 2018:
Yep...I've been single so long I think I'm a professional single person.
If what they say is true that you're as old as you feel... How old are you?
Cabsmom comments on Oct 9, 2018:
I would say I feel about 35.
You're welcome.
Cabsmom comments on Oct 9, 2018:
Very inspirational...do what you need..no matter who is looking.
I know most of you have been here, perhaps with your adult children. After your divorce or being a ...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 9, 2018:
I tried to start a conversation about the fact that I was trying to start dating...my son didn't seem bothered or interested. It's funny that you mentioned quilting. That is my favorite hobby...lol.
Frog porn...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 8, 2018:
Lol

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