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I've been an atheist for a little over two years. I recently have come completely out of the closet concerning my atheism. There are two main reasons. 1. I don't think I should hide who I am. 2. I know there are other people like me who are doubting/questioning, and I think it's important that they know they are not alone.

I have a love for languages. I'm conversational in Spanish and I'm learning sign language. I dabble in other languages...a few words here and there. I also love making quilts, although I'm not sure I'll ever finish all the quilts I want to make.

I love a good spirited debate. I don't mind hearing other viewpoints. That's how we learn. I would rather have someone honestly disagree with me than dishonestly agree with me.

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This is not a good look.
Cabsmom comments on Oct 18, 2018:
Why???
Or 3rd world driverless cars
Cabsmom comments on Oct 18, 2018:
That would be funny to see.
It's kind of cool how someone.....?
Cabsmom comments on Oct 18, 2018:
I have friends like this...perhaps someday I'll have a significant other like this.
My my , disappointed am I. I only could deepthroat 7 inches of unpeeled banana this morning.
Cabsmom comments on Oct 18, 2018:
Maybe if you peeled it first....
Beautifully put.
Cabsmom comments on Oct 18, 2018:
That's true. It is hard to hang on through the horrible sometimes. I'm always glad I did though.
Interesting find on Reddit this morning. I was wondering what the general consensus is here where ...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 18, 2018:
I never married my son's dad and I have my son his dad's last name. I often got called by my son's last name...it didn't bother me. I would correct them though.
For purposes of sleeping, how territorial are you about bed space and sheets?
Cabsmom comments on Oct 18, 2018:
Well, since I've been single for so long it isn't an issue. On the rare occasion that I share my bed or theirs it depends on how cold it is. If it's cold, I'm likely to be selfish.
Other than just saying it, what's the best way to tell someone you love them.
Cabsmom comments on Oct 18, 2018:
Hugs and kisses and more Doing things for them without being asked. Noticing things they do for you. Being interested in what they are interested in...or at least trying to be
Do you have dé·jà vu? How do you deal with it ? Can it be just an illusion created by past ...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 18, 2018:
I think it's just a familiar feeling from similar things in the past. However, it is eerie at times.
Una pregunta...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 18, 2018:
Ja ja ja
What song makes you cry? Mine is "Love Me Tender" ?
Cabsmom comments on Oct 17, 2018:
No, but I cried watching a documentary about Freddie Mercury. I had been drinking...so my emotions were intensified.
Does anyone feel like being reborn? [theguardian.com]
Cabsmom comments on Oct 17, 2018:
I think I'll skip this fashionable clothing
I've been battling serious pain for the last 6 months brought on by arthritis in my left hip and ...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 17, 2018:
That's brutal. My sister had that procedure done...at least that sounds like the same thing she had done. I think it helps her. I hope they can get that done successfully so that you so you can have a more normal life.
I seen this today and thought it was funny. This seems like a good place for it.
Cabsmom comments on Oct 17, 2018:
Lol
If someone gave you $5,000 but you either had to spend it on the meal of a lifetime or give it to a ...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 17, 2018:
Give it away
Genuine curious question: is this group primarily for posts with mundane status updates [e.g. “I ...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 16, 2018:
It is lighthearted a lot of the times. There are more thought provoking posts sometimes. Why don't you post some more substantial stuff. I'm willing to bet you could have some good discussions on here...depending on how many people are checking the posts at the time.
Are you a very stable genius? [youtube.com]
Cabsmom comments on Oct 16, 2018:
A very stable genius....maybe not so much
I'm a hopeless romantic with a dirty mind and high standards.
Cabsmom comments on Oct 16, 2018:
I like that combination also.
What's the first thing you do after your heart is broken?
Cabsmom comments on Oct 16, 2018:
I cry with one of my friends. Then I remind myself that I'm still a worthwhile person. I spend more time with friends/family. I try to stay busy.
Sorry I missed folks in chat yesterday! It's been a busy week so far (and it's only Tuesday!!!!! ...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 16, 2018:
We missed you too.
Good morning everyone! I hope that we all have a good Autumn day.
Cabsmom comments on Oct 16, 2018:
It's nice and cold here.
2 of my favorite things to wake up to...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 16, 2018:
Oh WOW!
Chatroom. I'm in and out slowly. Anyone want to join.
Cabsmom comments on Oct 16, 2018:
In and out slowly...one of my favorite things...seriously.
Almighty god sez so. Apostle Paul said to cut any body part off if it makes you unrighteous.
Cabsmom comments on Oct 16, 2018:
If he wants to cut part of it off, why put it there in the first place?
What's a language that can make anything sound sexy?
Cabsmom comments on Oct 15, 2018:
Italian French
JUST THE THOUGHT OF IT......... A WOMAN WITH A FINE ASS DRIVES ME FUCKN KRAZY! ( and that's a short...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 15, 2018:
I think most people have their turn ons which they only have to think about to get horny.
Abuse is Control, Disrespect and Hurtful Words.
Cabsmom comments on Oct 15, 2018:
I've been through emotional/verbal abuse. It sucks. I won't take that anymore.
What time of day is best for creativity?
Cabsmom comments on Oct 15, 2018:
It varies for me, but quite often when I can't draw my ideas out (I make quilts.)
When people act shady ....?
Cabsmom comments on Oct 15, 2018:
And if they act shady now, they will continue to be shady. Don't think you can change them.
chat anyone?
Cabsmom comments on Oct 15, 2018:
I can for a few minutes
So excited to be meeting @GreatNani today for lunch. I have only a few agnostic/atheist friends. ...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 14, 2018:
Have a great time.
Who makes you laugh more than anyone?
Cabsmom comments on Oct 14, 2018:
Not too long ago a woman at an atheist meeting had me laughing like I was high (I wasn't.) She was talking about some crazy shit like she was hallucinating or something. More recently my friend/roomate.
I used to do a lot of erotic writing back in the day, most paid poorly, but this reminded me of ...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 14, 2018:
Yes!!!
Ok. These things you can obviously take with a grain of salt. I’m curious though, are you high or ...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 14, 2018:
Low maintenance. I didn't even take the quiz.
I once dated a man for a few months and told him I was falling in love with him. He said don't. What...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 13, 2018:
It could be several things: 1. He doesn't want anything serious. 2. He doesn't feel the same way. 3. It's too soon for him. 4. He's fooling with your mind or fooling around on the side. There are probably a dozen other things it could be.
Have some fun with this. My reason is I've always that the law was wrong... didn't realize how ...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 13, 2018:
Mainly because it's safer than alcohol.
Need advice/your opinions... Would you go out on a date with someone who has the same name as an ex?...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 13, 2018:
Yes, I would
Complete this thought. When a relationship ends before you begin another one you might go out and ...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 12, 2018:
New bras.
What is something that men generally do in public that women should also be allowed to do?
Cabsmom comments on Oct 12, 2018:
Scratch their crotch..lol
What may anyone here think about the aspect of hookups if one's partner is sexless?
Cabsmom comments on Oct 12, 2018:
It depends on the relationship. If things are in the open and both partners are okay with it, I see no problem.
Do you have that one friend?
Cabsmom comments on Oct 12, 2018:
Hell yes, I do.
I had a lunch date... bit my lip in the same damn spot 3 times at the table (4th day in a row!) No ...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 12, 2018:
Maybe just tell him to be gentle. He will understand unless he's a jackass.
For those of you not familiar with 'Obvious Plant', here are a few examples (see also, "Is a little ...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 12, 2018:
Lol
My foul mood just got worse. I just LOVE being reminded that everyone else I know has no problem ...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 12, 2018:
I don't know that right thing to say. I'm sorry that you're going through this though.
this could really be posted in any group
Cabsmom comments on Oct 11, 2018:
Amen...lol!!!
Earworm
Cabsmom comments on Oct 11, 2018:
Lol
What else do you want to put in them ladies?
Cabsmom comments on Oct 11, 2018:
That's a secret
It's Complicated. I'm .... Complicated.
Cabsmom comments on Oct 11, 2018:
That's me.
How close have you come to being what you wanted to be when you grow up?
Cabsmom comments on Oct 11, 2018:
I'm still figuring that out...lol. Seriously, I just got my associates degree in the spring. I am 49 years old...ugh! I made some poor decisions in the past and while I've always worked, I've only worked jobs not a career.
Who doesn't enjoy a good book?
Cabsmom comments on Oct 11, 2018:
Make sure you finish the book. That way you'll see the happy ending.
What are your feelings about "Friends with Benefits"?
Cabsmom comments on Oct 10, 2018:
I'm conflicted. I think it serves a purpose, but I think it's hard to be truly neutral about feelings and everything.
Me and you, Building. Kindred spirits. It's been a while for me too, but I don't advertise it on a ...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 10, 2018:
Well, it wasn't that long ago for me. It was my birthday.
Are you more comfortable hugging, shaking hands, fist bumping, or high-fiving?
Cabsmom comments on Oct 10, 2018:
It depends on who I'm interacting with.
I'm pretty damn strong.
Cabsmom comments on Oct 10, 2018:
Yep...I've been single so long I think I'm a professional single person.
If what they say is true that you're as old as you feel... How old are you?
Cabsmom comments on Oct 9, 2018:
I would say I feel about 35.
You're welcome.
Cabsmom comments on Oct 9, 2018:
Very inspirational...do what you need..no matter who is looking.
I know most of you have been here, perhaps with your adult children. After your divorce or being a ...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 9, 2018:
I tried to start a conversation about the fact that I was trying to start dating...my son didn't seem bothered or interested. It's funny that you mentioned quilting. That is my favorite hobby...lol.
Frog porn...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 8, 2018:
Lol
Let'er rip.
Cabsmom comments on Oct 8, 2018:
However... I know a woman who had had her tubes tied...and she got pregnant with triplets.
Let'er rip.
Cabsmom comments on Oct 8, 2018:
My last FWB had a vasectomy...no worries.
dating is so hard
Cabsmom comments on Oct 8, 2018:
Yep!
Hey gotta give the postal workers some love.
Cabsmom comments on Oct 8, 2018:
Oh my god...that is funny
Anymore kids and you'll have to stack them
Cabsmom comments on Oct 8, 2018:
Yikes!
For those of us who've never felt beautiful or handsome...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 7, 2018:
I find that the people in my life that are the most kind...are the most beautiful.
Yes, please.
Cabsmom comments on Oct 7, 2018:
This is an erotic poem...at least the way I'm reading it, it is.
Tell me about a time you got stitches or had a broken bone. Do you have any bones that have broken ...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 7, 2018:
I was accidentally shot in the abdomen almost 4 years ago.
Tell me about a time you got stitches or had a broken bone. Do you have any bones that have broken ...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 7, 2018:
I had one stitch in my lip as a toddler. I had staples and stitches for my caeserean. I had a few for exploratory abdominal surgery after an injury. I've never broken a bone.
For those of us who've never felt beautiful or handsome...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 7, 2018:
I think I'm average looking. However, I tend to be very enthusiastic when getting to know people (male or female.) I also tend to care about people and find that they often open up to me. I think this is why occasionally men are attracted to me.
There's a Halloween singles mixer being held in a cemetery. Are you going?
Cabsmom comments on Oct 7, 2018:
I wouldn't be scared.
I just had a cool thing happen... on OkCupid my profile has a little part on it that says, "I ...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 7, 2018:
I don't have any problem finding a taller man. I'm only 4' 11". Even though I'm short I can't stand wearing heels.
Biggest Age Gap You've Dated/Slept With?
Cabsmom comments on Oct 7, 2018:
Not much...2 years.
Get ready guys! Let's make this happen!
Cabsmom comments on Oct 6, 2018:
Lol...
She Was Beautiful Deep Down To Her Soul
Cabsmom comments on Oct 6, 2018:
I love that!
From Motown.( Or pick any other genre if you like.) What is one of your favorite love songs? Mine is...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 5, 2018:
One of my favorites "Wonderful Tonight", by Eric Clapton
Today has been a shit day. I need a feel good story. What’s something nice someone did for ...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 5, 2018:
Years ago, my boyfriend's grandmother gave me a handmade quilt. I wasn't expecting any gift at all, and the fact that she thought of me that much really, really touched me.
Do you know awesome it feels to have "that person" who changed your world pull into the driveway ...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 5, 2018:
Nope!
I hesitate to post these quotes because it seems those who do tend to be attacked in the comments. ...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 5, 2018:
I love this quote, and it's very true.
But then, so are pets and kids for that matter.
Cabsmom comments on Oct 5, 2018:
I am just going to say what I think, but I have not researched this. I think that love and attraction are more than just chemical reactions. I think we have chemical reactions, but I think there's more to it than that. I think sometimes the way we choose to act around a person or treat a person causes chemical reactions. This, of course, is just my amateur opinion with no scientific backing. It could also just be wishful thinking.
You are having dinner by yourself in a very nice but very crowded restaurant. The manager comes over...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 5, 2018:
I would do it. What's the worst that could happen. If the person is totally boring I would just leave early with a to go box. If the person's interesting, hey, you have some company for a meal.
Sorry... Not sorry
Cabsmom comments on Oct 5, 2018:
There can be many reasons...just saying
Ejaculation jokes are the best
Cabsmom comments on Oct 5, 2018:
Those are hilarious!
Pick up line
Cabsmom comments on Oct 5, 2018:
Lol
Any bilingual agnostic here? I do speak Spanish... And some English too, by the way. So, I am ...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 4, 2018:
Yo hablo inglés y español, pero necesito practicar mi español. No se todo de español.
Your Tribe is Waiting For You. Go Search For Them
Cabsmom comments on Oct 4, 2018:
I am fortunate enough to have at least 4 people in my life like that. One is a family member and 3 are friends. I try to be that person for them also.
I had an appointment with my shrink this morning, and they gave me the whole day off. So I did a ...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 3, 2018:
I've been enjoying my day off also. I did some mowing, since vacuuming. Then a little sewing. Now I'm making soup for dinner. Then I'll do some more sewing.
Once in a lifetime ❤❤❤?
Cabsmom comments on Oct 3, 2018:
I had a man change everything, but it was good and bad. He was a drug addict with unpredictable moods. Our relationship was very dysfunctional. However, I have a wonderful son because of that relationship.
At roughly what age did you notice the first profound shift in your life's priorities?
Cabsmom comments on Oct 3, 2018:
It was about 3-4 years ago. Along with moving away from religion I decided to become more social. I still like being home at times, but I'm enjoying meeting up with friends. There's more to it, but that's how it started.
What's the last thing that you do before you go to bed each night?
Cabsmom comments on Oct 3, 2018:
I brush my teeth before I go to bed. I look at FB and stuff before I go to sleep.
Do you think you need romance to have love, or can you have love without romance? Are they ...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 2, 2018:
I think it depends on how you define romance.
Last abstract question of the day, I promise. Then I won't post anymore until tomorrow. This is with...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 2, 2018:
An interesting scar that has an intereresting story...
We can file this under confessions of the terribly uncoordinated. As a youth, I failed beginning ...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 2, 2018:
I'm not a great swimmer. I can get myself around, but it's not very graceful.
Music to the ears
Cabsmom comments on Oct 1, 2018:
Hell yes! My son's dad had the deadly mixture of a sexy deep voice, sexy eyes, and flirtatious attitude.
Pays to know what we are thirsting for. I stayed with friends last night and observed their deep ...
Cabsmom comments on Sep 28, 2018:
I've settled before and it was miserable.
There is always a history
Cabsmom comments on Sep 28, 2018:
Oh fuck. I'm single for many reasons
Sounds like my kind of woman ?
Cabsmom comments on Sep 28, 2018:
I am a simple woman... Low maintenance. I have one pair of dress shoes with about a 1/2 inch heel. I understand how high heels look sexy, but I don't like wearing high heels. I'm not about to change for anyone. Take me...or leave me... I don't fucking care.
Too blasphemous!
Cabsmom comments on Sep 27, 2018:
Very true.
Wishful thinking.
Cabsmom comments on Sep 27, 2018:
That's funny
Finish this sentence. I wait all year for...
Cabsmom comments on Sep 27, 2018:
Late fall
I never said I was perfect ? who else can relate❓
Cabsmom comments on Sep 27, 2018:
I can totally relate.
Weird week. Interviews, job offer, fractured heart, cleaned out my storage unit (so half of my life...
Cabsmom comments on Sep 27, 2018:
Next week has to be better. You'll get through this.

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