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I've been an atheist for a little over two years. I recently have come completely out of the closet concerning my atheism. There are two main reasons. 1. I don't think I should hide who I am. 2. I know there are other people like me who are doubting/questioning, and I think it's important that they know they are not alone.

I have a love for languages. I'm conversational in Spanish and I'm learning sign language. I dabble in other languages...a few words here and there. I also love making quilts, although I'm not sure I'll ever finish all the quilts I want to make.

I love a good spirited debate. I don't mind hearing other viewpoints. That's how we learn. I would rather have someone honestly disagree with me than dishonestly agree with me.

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The truth!
Cabsmom comments on Nov 8, 2018:
That's true for me!!!
How easy is it to find atheist women in your opinion? Has anyone here been able to form healthy ...
Cabsmom comments on Nov 7, 2018:
The numbers aren't in your favor. Women are a minority in the atheist community. However, that doesn't mean impossible...it just means you have to make sure you're being proactive. Look up local atheist/agnostic/free thinker Meet Up groups. I live in Texas and there are several within driving distance for me.
Never think you are weak if you cry...
Cabsmom comments on Nov 7, 2018:
Crying is an emotional response. There is nothing wrong with it. Heck, I would be more worried of I didn't cry sometimes.
Tall people. I hate you.
Cabsmom comments on Nov 7, 2018:
I know the pain. I am 4' 11". I can reach a lot of things.
Being a shameless point whore tonight. So here's a question, If someone is alone,but not lonely,but ...
Cabsmom comments on Nov 6, 2018:
Black.
Weird is beautiful
Cabsmom comments on Nov 6, 2018:
I'm the same. I like people who are authentically down to earth and are willing to share their weirdness.
I WILL REACH LVL 7 - Probably in a month or so. After that, I'll be there for years.
Cabsmom comments on Nov 6, 2018:
I just achieved level 7...will I power up to 8...not anytime soon.
A reminder I need to see all the time...
Cabsmom comments on Nov 5, 2018:
I need this reminder.
Well, I had an awesome first date today! It was a lunch date, and we ate and talked for three hours....
Cabsmom comments on Nov 5, 2018:
That's great!!!
So. Beside sex. What are your thoughts on maintaining a good healthy relationship?
Cabsmom comments on Nov 5, 2018:
Talk Watch movies Visit friends/family I also feel it's important for each person to have their alone time and time with friends.
I THINK this paycheck I budgeted properly but it's been a crazy trial and error over the last few ...
Cabsmom comments on Nov 5, 2018:
I've been doing better, but I had dug such a deep hole that it's going to take a long time to be out of it. I'm working a lot of overtime and not going out much. I'm not spending much at all on my hobby (sewing), but that's not a sacrifice because I have enough to keep me busy for quite a while.
An early morning text from a friend.
Cabsmom comments on Nov 5, 2018:
Coffee!!!!
Ok going to give you all a laugh. I wear Duluth buck naked underwear just so happens that they are ...
Cabsmom comments on Nov 4, 2018:
Ouch
My dog didn't turn her clock back and woke me up at 7. I went back to sleep after she was fed and ...
Cabsmom comments on Nov 4, 2018:
Wow! I love sleeping in late.
Question goes for men or women
Cabsmom comments on Nov 4, 2018:
Older...probably, but that would most likely be my limit. I would prefer to stay within 5 years older/younger. Younger...probably not, but I won't say never. A couple of years ago a 23 year old asked me out. I was 46. I was flattered, but said no.
Have any of you dated or canoodled with a narcissist? If so, what was it like?
Cabsmom comments on Nov 3, 2018:
No, I'm very selective. At least I try to be.
It’s been almost a week since I got together with my friend that I'd posted about: [agnostic.com]...
Cabsmom comments on Nov 3, 2018:
I'm sorry, bleurowz. I understand what you're going through. You seem to be handling it well. Don't take it personally...easier said than done.
Having a new roommate move in has made me realize just how much crappola I have in my house. ...
Cabsmom comments on Nov 3, 2018:
You collect comics. I collect fabric for quilts.
My first tattoo. In memory of my dad. He taught me the construction trade.
Cabsmom comments on Nov 3, 2018:
That's very nice.
Does anyone else feel like making friends (let alone dating) is harder than squaring the circle?
Cabsmom comments on Nov 3, 2018:
I have found that the older I get, the easier it is to make friends. I'm fortunate to have about 4 I couldrely on if I needed to talk on the middle of the night or something. I have more friends than that, but those are the ones I'm closest to.
I haven't heard this one before, lol!
Cabsmom comments on Nov 3, 2018:
I almost spit out my coffee...
how deviant are you?
Cabsmom comments on Nov 3, 2018:
Lol
I’ve been talking to someone that I’ve met from Agnostic and we’ve been getting pretty close. ...
Cabsmom comments on Nov 3, 2018:
I most likely will never relocate more than 30 miles from where I am right now. I have too many family members here.
Working on this!
Cabsmom comments on Nov 3, 2018:
I like solitude unless I'm having a lot of anxiety. Thankfully, that's not that often.
So, wondering if you have a sex playlist, and if so, what song(s) you'd recommend? I have one ...
Cabsmom comments on Nov 3, 2018:
If music is on, I tune it out. Now there is music that helps me get in the mood. Led Zepplin Whole Lotta Love...lol
Good morning and Happy Friday Agnostics!
Cabsmom comments on Nov 2, 2018:
Good morning fellow Heathen.
Sound reasonable to me!!! LOL
Cabsmom comments on Nov 1, 2018:
I don't think I have to worry about that, since I'm 4'11".
Okay, I get it. If a woman says she likes sex, there are assumptions made. However, liking sex and ...
Cabsmom comments on Nov 1, 2018:
I think I accidentally disapproved a comment. If it was yours, please submit it again.
Avoid Atheists! They are often grumpy and bitter and will lash out at children or they may even try ...
Cabsmom comments on Nov 1, 2018:
It's interesting, because most people that meet me would never assume I'm an atheist by my actions. I'm a very kind and loving person... At least most the time.
Lonely here, being rejected by family are friends because I recently abandoned the religion I was ...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 31, 2018:
I'm sorry you're feeling lonely. When I decided to open up to my family I didn't get too much flack. My mom is concerned that I'm going to hell, but that's about the only family member that has spoken up about it.
Ladies, Girls, Strong Women: what are your visual opinions on a man's dick? Do women find penises to...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 30, 2018:
I didn't answer your last question. I like looking at dicks that belong to someone I care about enough to have sex with...be that actual sex or phone sex.
....doin' a few lines....
Cabsmom comments on Oct 30, 2018:
I didn't drink much coffee until recently. I've discovered that it helps me handle other people better and my job better...who knew?
Yes. Dog pics are better. Kitty pics too.
Cabsmom comments on Oct 30, 2018:
Unless it's a wanted dick pic.
Ladies, Girls, Strong Women: what are your visual opinions on a man's dick? Do women find penises to...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 30, 2018:
I find them good looking and intriguing and a huge turn on. I like fondling them and more. I also think men (in general) are more concerned about size than women. There are extremes, of course, on both sides of the scale, but if you know how to work with your equipment, there shouldn't be a problem. As someone mentioned, seeing they penis go from flaccid to hard is a wonderful thing. For me giving head is a huge turn on. All that being said, I don't want unsolicited dick pictures from men who read this...lol. Some men seem to think if a women likes cocks, then they want to see all cocks...NOPE! I enjoy sex, but I choose with whom I want to share it with.
What Would You Tell Your 18-Year-Old Self?
Cabsmom comments on Oct 30, 2018:
Stay in shape.
This morning I'm on the commuter bus and horny AF. I'm people watching and my mind is wandering... ...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 30, 2018:
I was working in a different department yesterday. It was a very monotonous place to work and too noisy to talk to my coworkers. My mind wandered... Of course into the gutter.
She's not alone.....
Cabsmom comments on Oct 30, 2018:
I can mark myself poor also.
It is Sunday. It is raining. What should I do.... I made Vodka Pasta!
Cabsmom comments on Oct 29, 2018:
Did you say vodka?
I actually think us men are! What's your opinion?
Cabsmom comments on Oct 29, 2018:
Okay, truth be told. I hear the word "hard" and my mind thinks of a hard cock. I hear "oh my god" and I think...who is getting off. I hear about boobs and I think of someone fondling my boobs... Am I perverted? Meh? I just like sex!
Too late for a plunger
Cabsmom comments on Oct 29, 2018:
Oh, fuck no
I actually think us men are! What's your opinion?
Cabsmom comments on Oct 28, 2018:
In general I have no idea. I know my mind is pretty dirty.
Happy Sunday. Fill in the blank. Touch my....... And I'll smack you
Cabsmom comments on Oct 28, 2018:
Phone
always need a bestie
Cabsmom comments on Oct 27, 2018:
I'll be there too...you should be able to find me-with my horns on my head.
Would you?
Cabsmom comments on Oct 27, 2018:
No
Thank you sarah [youtube.com]
Cabsmom comments on Oct 27, 2018:
What a brave woman.
Sex on the first date... good idea, or bad idea? Let's say you are looking for a life partner. Do ...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 26, 2018:
There are too many variables to give an answer. With my son's dad we slept together the second night we went out. Of course, we didn't last forever but we did stay together for about 5 years. It probably would have lasted longer if he hadn't been a hardcore drug addict.
I like to watch a woman smoking while I am having sex. Also like fishnets. Anyone enjoy either?
Cabsmom comments on Oct 26, 2018:
I've always found is sexy to watch a man smoking anytime...I don't know why. I think it's because I'm attracted to the rebellious type.
I have stated my desire and hope to engage in a relationship. Perhaps I come across as arrogant or ...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 26, 2018:
It's impossible to give your an answer because I have no idea how you are in person. If you think you might come off as arrogant, work on that.
How far, realistically, would you go for a relationship? I mean distance. We are on this page, ...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 24, 2018:
I would be willing to meet someone a couple of hours away. However, I'm not willing to relocate more that 50 miles away. I want to stay close to my parents and other family.
Have you ever bigged your job up to impress? Eg. Buss boy - Logistical engineer. Taxi call center ...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 24, 2018:
No
Please share stories about unrequited love. If there's a happy twist at the end, could you kindly ...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 23, 2018:
Hmmm....I'm not sure if I've ever been in love. Lust...yes. Infatuation...yes. I even loved my son's dad, but "in love", I didn't think so. I still care about him now, but I tend to care about most people in my life. I'm still waiting to fall in love...kind of sad, I know.
How to reply when someone says 'have a blessed day'
Cabsmom comments on Oct 23, 2018:
I just don't acknowledge it. Most of the time the intentions are good
What is your favorite song to get you motivated?
Cabsmom comments on Oct 23, 2018:
Right now The Pot by Tool Others... Kashmir by Led Zepplin Domination by Panera For me it's more about the sound than the lyrics.
How much cleavage in a profile picture is your line between provocative and distasteful?
Cabsmom comments on Oct 23, 2018:
I think it is up to the woman. However, if a woman puts a picture with cleavage and then acts like she didn't realize it, she's most likely lying. When I put cleavage shots it's on purpose and I'll own up to it. There is no shame in showing one of my best features...lol
You can Try to be optimistic about being ghosted
Cabsmom comments on Oct 23, 2018:
Yeah, it sucks. It happened to me early this year. Oh well, I'm not going to dwell on it.
Thoughts on marriage : There seems to be many in the community who are anti marriage.... And a ...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 22, 2018:
I'm in the middle. I'm in no hurry to find a husband, and I'd be happy in a committed relationship workout marriage. However, there are legal advantages to being married.
Can you answer without using a family member.?
Cabsmom comments on Oct 21, 2018:
I met my oldest friend in 1st or 2nd grade. Now w only keep in touch through FB.
When do you think its time to let go of an Internet relationship/ friendship that you know is never ...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 20, 2018:
When you start thinking it might be time...maybe? It's really not that simple. If you're wanting romance and they're never going to budge, it is probably time.
I usually feel just fine whether I'm alone or with friends. Tonight's a little rough. Wish someone ...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 20, 2018:
I'm sorry Limey. I usually love some alone time. I've finally gotten back to that. However for about 2 months in the summer-I was having so much anxiety and depression that it was difficult to be alone for any length of time.
Just saying
Cabsmom comments on Oct 20, 2018:
I don't need pancakes.
Online dating, are you ladies asking for too much? Okay before you start filling your handbags with...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 20, 2018:
You're assuming a lot and making blanket generalizations. I'm not looking to reject. I have often felt that many men were or of my league so I avoid them in fear of being rejected. That's just.me. There are MANY reasons why a woman might not contact a man. As far a having very narrow parameters that happens with men and women. I'm not very picky except for personality, but even there there is room for variables.
If you only had one choice. Would you rather give oral or receive oral?.... Me... Give all day and ...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 20, 2018:
Give
I think I'm getting off here. Anyone want to cum along?
Cabsmom comments on Oct 19, 2018:
I've already been they TODAY
Ok all you naughty sexy people what are you doing this fine Friday night?
Cabsmom comments on Oct 19, 2018:
Phone sex and then sleeping.
Now you know one more reason to say the whole idea of "the flood" was hokum.
Cabsmom comments on Oct 19, 2018:
Yeah, that tripped me up when I read some apologetics about how incest was okay back then.
I dislike men with beards. How about you?
Cabsmom comments on Oct 19, 2018:
Hell no... beards, goatees are SEXY!
There's nothing better than that exquisite moment that you are astride him, your sex soaking wet ...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 19, 2018:
I don't want to be a man. I enjoy being a woman and being the vessel to invite a man's cock inside. However, it would be cool to truly know (perhaps do body swap thing for one sexual experience a la Twilight Zone). I think it would help both genders truly understand what their partner experiences.
And there... some grown men need to learn this.
Cabsmom comments on Oct 19, 2018:
I'm going to give a different point of view. Although it is wrong to harass someone, there are couples out there that started out this way. I don't think it would be horrible at a later time of he asked again...as long as he is not pushy or rude or threatening. Heck, there is a man I know that I didn't give a chance to early on. If he would have asked at a later time, I think I might have given him a chance. We are still friends, but he is married
Hi everybody. Just a little update. Site was down for quite awhile yesterday so decided to go out...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 19, 2018:
Morning sickness is what made me suspect I was pregnant. I couldn't stand the smell of coffee and I worked at a restaurant.
Any Tool fans?
Cabsmom comments on Oct 19, 2018:
My favorite song of theirs (right now) is The Pot.
What constantly surprises you?
Cabsmom comments on Oct 19, 2018:
People believing if they type Amen, they will be blessed.
Any Tool fans?
Cabsmom comments on Oct 19, 2018:
YES!!!!
Well, I trimmed it.
Cabsmom comments on Oct 18, 2018:
Looking good
May Your Cup Runneth Over?
Cabsmom comments on Oct 18, 2018:
I haven't been the biggest coffee drinker until recently. I discovered that the magic juice helps my mood and energy levels tremendously.
Who Gets To Sit at Your Table?
Cabsmom comments on Oct 18, 2018:
And the people I want at that table don't have to look a certain way. I'm looking for people with a good character.
The Best Things in Life are Free
Cabsmom comments on Oct 18, 2018:
Absolutely true
You Find Your Worth Inside Yourself
Cabsmom comments on Oct 18, 2018:
I need to remember this.
Was anyone else locked out of Agnostics? I couldn't log in all afternoon.
Cabsmom comments on Oct 18, 2018:
I had the same problem.
This is not a good look.
Cabsmom comments on Oct 18, 2018:
Why???
Or 3rd world driverless cars
Cabsmom comments on Oct 18, 2018:
That would be funny to see.
It's kind of cool how someone.....?
Cabsmom comments on Oct 18, 2018:
I have friends like this...perhaps someday I'll have a significant other like this.
My my , disappointed am I. I only could deepthroat 7 inches of unpeeled banana this morning.
Cabsmom comments on Oct 18, 2018:
Maybe if you peeled it first....
Beautifully put.
Cabsmom comments on Oct 18, 2018:
That's true. It is hard to hang on through the horrible sometimes. I'm always glad I did though.
Interesting find on Reddit this morning. I was wondering what the general consensus is here where ...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 18, 2018:
I never married my son's dad and I have my son his dad's last name. I often got called by my son's last name...it didn't bother me. I would correct them though.
For purposes of sleeping, how territorial are you about bed space and sheets?
Cabsmom comments on Oct 18, 2018:
Well, since I've been single for so long it isn't an issue. On the rare occasion that I share my bed or theirs it depends on how cold it is. If it's cold, I'm likely to be selfish.
Other than just saying it, what's the best way to tell someone you love them.
Cabsmom comments on Oct 18, 2018:
Hugs and kisses and more Doing things for them without being asked. Noticing things they do for you. Being interested in what they are interested in...or at least trying to be
Do you have dé·jà vu? How do you deal with it ? Can it be just an illusion created by past ...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 18, 2018:
I think it's just a familiar feeling from similar things in the past. However, it is eerie at times.
Una pregunta...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 18, 2018:
Ja ja ja
What song makes you cry? Mine is "Love Me Tender" ?
Cabsmom comments on Oct 17, 2018:
No, but I cried watching a documentary about Freddie Mercury. I had been drinking...so my emotions were intensified.
Does anyone feel like being reborn? [theguardian.com]
Cabsmom comments on Oct 17, 2018:
I think I'll skip this fashionable clothing
I've been battling serious pain for the last 6 months brought on by arthritis in my left hip and ...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 17, 2018:
That's brutal. My sister had that procedure done...at least that sounds like the same thing she had done. I think it helps her. I hope they can get that done successfully so that you so you can have a more normal life.
I seen this today and thought it was funny. This seems like a good place for it.
Cabsmom comments on Oct 17, 2018:
Lol
If someone gave you $5,000 but you either had to spend it on the meal of a lifetime or give it to a ...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 17, 2018:
Give it away
Genuine curious question: is this group primarily for posts with mundane status updates [e.g. “I ...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 16, 2018:
It is lighthearted a lot of the times. There are more thought provoking posts sometimes. Why don't you post some more substantial stuff. I'm willing to bet you could have some good discussions on here...depending on how many people are checking the posts at the time.
Are you a very stable genius? [youtube.com]
Cabsmom comments on Oct 16, 2018:
A very stable genius....maybe not so much
I'm a hopeless romantic with a dirty mind and high standards.
Cabsmom comments on Oct 16, 2018:
I like that combination also.
What's the first thing you do after your heart is broken?
Cabsmom comments on Oct 16, 2018:
I cry with one of my friends. Then I remind myself that I'm still a worthwhile person. I spend more time with friends/family. I try to stay busy.
Sorry I missed folks in chat yesterday! It's been a busy week so far (and it's only Tuesday!!!!! ...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 16, 2018:
We missed you too.
Good morning everyone! I hope that we all have a good Autumn day.
Cabsmom comments on Oct 16, 2018:
It's nice and cold here.
2 of my favorite things to wake up to...
Cabsmom comments on Oct 16, 2018:
Oh WOW!

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