Hello my fellow weirdos, so good to be back among my own people because let's be honest about being ...

Carin comments on Mar 21, 2019:

Yep.

Hello.

Carin comments on Mar 20, 2019:

Hello Elaine, from another fish out of water--I moved to Mississippi in November. From CA no less---MAJOR culture shock!

How many people here like crawfish or crawdads depending on how you say it?

Carin comments on Mar 20, 2019:

I love seeing them in the ditches, creeks & rivers. Some have red on them & remind me of little lobsters. Others have blue on them. I don't want to eat them but wonder if they'd do OK as pets. I don't like spicy foods that hurt my mouth.

World Naked Gardening Day - any excuse to get down and dirty [wideopenspaces.com]

Carin comments on Mar 20, 2019:

I think that would be too traumatic for my neighbors! Heck, it might even scare the plants!

I must say I love the block option. One less mofo to piss me off...

Carin comments on Mar 20, 2019:

Same here. A huge time saver too!

Just some pics while finishing up pasture fencing. Isn't that blue sky & sunshine just beautiful?

Carin comments on Mar 20, 2019:

Those photos are just shouting "SPRINGTIME!"

Been feeling pretty low and heartbroken the past couple days.

Carin comments on Mar 20, 2019:

You are awesome! I bet you saved yourself over a hundred dollars there!

What are your thoughts of the late inventor and humanist, Jacques Fresco?

Carin comments on Mar 19, 2019:

Cool looking room! Fabulous 60s vibe.

Stardust pondering stars!

Carin comments on Mar 19, 2019:

If the universe can know anything...

Finding a partner who shares the same hobbies is a challenge, to say the least.

Carin comments on Mar 19, 2019:

I've never had that experience but I would really like to...well except for hiking. I guess that's a hobby, & my last couple guys had bad knees, which was disappointing--more so for them, I'm sure.

Wishing everyone out there a happy St Patty's Day.??

Carin comments on Mar 19, 2019:

Thanks. I forgot all about it. Hope yours was great.

The grass is always greener on the other side of the fence!

Carin comments on Mar 19, 2019:

Not really.

Haha............

Carin comments on Mar 19, 2019:

You can pretty much count on that.

Not something I will be changing my mind about, lol.

Carin comments on Mar 19, 2019:

OK, I love kale but that right there is funny!

Does anyone else on here enjoy a waltz, quickstep, etc?

Carin comments on Mar 19, 2019:

It looks so fun--I wish I could dance!

As a Canadian I have always scratched my head when I tried to understand why our US cousins do not ...

Carin comments on Mar 18, 2019:

What an informative & fascinating article. I am constantly impressed by how much Canadians know about the US, & especially how much they are interested in what is going on over here. Thanks for sharing this & teaching me more about my own country!

How do u fight back depression? Depression attack me again? :-(

Carin comments on Mar 18, 2019:

I'm glad you are asking for help! Depression is a crippling disease & like other sicknesses, often you can't get better on your own. If none of the suggestions here seem to help or you are unable to put them into practice because you feel so terrible, there are many different kinds of professionals that can help. You may or may not want to take medicine. Either choice is OK if it feels right to you. People who tell you to get better only without medicine are ignorant on the subject. But talking to some kind of counselor is usually helpful whether or not you take medicine too. If you don't find the right person to talk to or the best medicine for you right away, don't give up. Look for a new counselor or tell the doctor you don't think a medication is helping.

Well, after some discussions with the lead artist, my boss chose to fire me instead of getting rid ...

Carin comments on Mar 18, 2019:

I'm so sorry! Hope you find something even better soon!

If Many Little People in Many Little Places do Many Little Things They Can Change the Face of the ...

Carin comments on Mar 18, 2019:

Agree.

The Bible: More than Scripture, it's material.

Carin comments on Mar 18, 2019:

Those are funny! Which one would you actually wear?

Rather hurtful thing to do

Carin comments on Mar 18, 2019:

Yeah, cruel & immature behavior.

Has profanity become the normal way to communicate?

Carin comments on Mar 18, 2019:

I was always taught that using a lot of profanity was a sign of a poor vocabulary & probably low intelligence. I'm seriously having trouble believing recent scientific studies saying that people who swear are actually smarter & more honest than those who don't. I still wouldn't want to be around them anyway.

It's the same thing, isn't it? ?

Carin comments on Mar 18, 2019:

Then you are a creep.

Sometimes I feel I am...??

Carin comments on Mar 17, 2019:

I agree. Sadly.

Ritual cave found beneath Chichen Itza in Yucatan peninsula. [msn.]

Carin comments on Mar 17, 2019:

I wish there were more photos!

Pay attention to patterns.

Carin comments on Mar 17, 2019:

Me when I was young & dumb...

Feel the love❤?

Carin comments on Mar 17, 2019:

Sometimes you can't find anyone, so this post may not be a very positive message for some people.

Dating profiles, am I right?

Carin comments on Mar 17, 2019:

Interest in sports, drinking, smoking, liking to dance (I can't though I wish I could) & sometimes appearance. Also serious spelling or grammar errors in the case of native English speakers are an immediate disqualification.

This may be the sexiest thing I've seen in a long, long while.

Carin comments on Mar 17, 2019:

If you explain it I guess it wouldn't be sexy anymore?

7 Steps to Happiness - Agree/Disagree?

Carin comments on Mar 17, 2019:

All except the first--most people don't think enough.

Texters....which do you do?

Carin comments on Mar 17, 2019:

I don't text, but I like emojis. For some reason can't stand "lol"--maybe because it's usually fake. Like how often are you actually laughing out loud when you type that? Usually it's not nearly THAT funny.

Hi, my name is Karl and I live in Denmark.

Carin comments on Mar 17, 2019:

Hi Karl! Sounds like this is an important time in your life. Glad you are here.

We are the Resistance.

Carin comments on Mar 17, 2019:

I wonder why they chose that Star Wars lady for their sign.

[msnbc.

Carin comments on Mar 17, 2019:

Yes to all of that. The level of entitlement to women's bodies in this country is infuriating.

The first photo was taken yesterday the others were taken today.

Carin comments on Mar 17, 2019:

Wow! Amazing change! I love your garden features too.

I remember the first time I heard this quote, it kind of startled me; and each time I come upon it, ...

Carin comments on Mar 16, 2019:

Each time I read it, it resonates just a little bit more! Thanks for reposting it--it reminds me I'm making progress.

After much soul searching, talking, advice, and support: I’m going no contact with my family, ...

Carin comments on Mar 16, 2019:

You have my total support. I made this decision decades ago & never regretted it, even when my parents died. I only felt relief. So here's me wishing you good luck, although I don't think you need it because you have taken CONTROL of this situation with confident decisiveness.

Hold each other up Stolen from FB

Carin comments on Mar 16, 2019:

Perfect! I love to see a stranger's face light up when I tell her I love her colors, or her sweater looks so comfy & pretty. Someone doesn't need to be dressed up for us to notice something special. & no reason we can't compliment a guy on his shoes or shirt or something either. But the day I casually complimented a store clerk on his masculine choice of nail polish color, I realized I was officially a naturalized Californian.

Changes in diet may have led to changes in speech.

Carin comments on Mar 16, 2019:

One of my areas of expertise is human lactation. Shorter duration of breastfeeding, only possible in agricultural societies where non-human milk & softer foods were available for infants, would have quickly changed oral development in similar ways. Studies have shown that failure to breastfeed results in higher rates of speech problems, while another study showed that breastfeeding till age 3 (which would have been at the low end of breastfeeding duration in pre-agricultural times) reduces the need for future orthodontia by over 70%! I've seen no information on breastfeeding & wisdom teeth problems, but the data is clearly showing that active breastfeeding rather than passive bottle feeding, which requires no jaw movement, promotes more normal oral development. Thanks for sharing this article!

Stag horn ferns.

Carin comments on Mar 16, 2019:

He may be the second most perfect man in the world! The arrangement in the upper left is very interesting.

Chris Rock has a joke about most relationships not lasting, because it’s too hard to keep up the ...

Carin comments on Mar 16, 2019:

I didn't even need to re-evalaute the relationship. What I learned was so horrible that a 32 year relationship ended in maybe 30 seconds. & never second guessed myself on it either, though it took a long time to physically leave due to having minor children & almost no money.

Good Morning all. What do you think of this tree and its message?

Carin comments on Mar 16, 2019:

It made me wonder why tropical trees have buttress roots & roots coming down from branches...stability in thin tropical soils? Trying to absorb more nutrients? Spreading out to monopolize more canopy area & sunlight? Maybe someone here knows. Nice picture. In Hawai'i it would stink like Mynah birds though....

How to keep zombies out.

Carin comments on Mar 16, 2019:

What about that corner?

I did it. I emailed a lawyer. Maybe soon I’ll be actually single.

Carin comments on Mar 16, 2019:

Consider yourself single now & start having fun! Don't let that man waste another minute of your life. Divorce can take a while.

Welcome to our group @Susan4birds .... ?

Carin comments on Mar 15, 2019:

Hi Susan!

Zehra Duman, an EX-Aussie, I.

Carin comments on Mar 15, 2019:

I tend to agree with you. Let the kids in if they are young enough to be salvageable. We have a similar case in the US right now. Her father is pleading for her to be allowed back in. I would almost say, make an example of her.

I might be a little too religion focused.

Carin comments on Mar 15, 2019:

I want that last one!

Ugh! I planned on meeting a local man (not from this site) Saturday.

Carin comments on Mar 14, 2019:

He may have been tired from work. And some people are phone people but many aren't, especially these days.

Greetings! I’m new to Agnostic.com and look forward to making new friends

Carin comments on Mar 14, 2019:

Hi Lawman! I like your swan.

Hello, my name is Sean.

Carin comments on Mar 14, 2019:

Well at least this way you know you're not missing anything. Hope you decide to stay.

I am one of those people, how about you?

Carin comments on Mar 14, 2019:

Pretty much...I'm good at getting other people to tag along on my adventures though. I took my boyfriend on a carnivorous plant hunt today & he almost forgot to go to work.

Most know this as PI day it just also so happens to Albert Einstein birthday.

Carin comments on Mar 14, 2019:

My silly Pi Day story: Somehow I made it to my forties never having heard of Pi Day (I'm totally math phobic) until my daughter said tomorrow was Pie Day at school, & they were supposed to bring pies to cut up & share. As a hopeless wanna-be supermom type, I set to making a home made pie that would be bigger than any of the other kids' pies. My lasagna pan was the biggest baking dish I had....& my poor daughter brought a rectangular (though huge, delicious, & made entirely from scratch) apple pie to school to celebrate "Pie" day.....

Update on Sassygirl3869/Lisa: Lisa is still in Albany Medical Center, resting comfortably.

Carin comments on Mar 14, 2019:

Well, a good lawyer is hard to find. & so is a good, supportive & loyal companion like you.

I hate Daylight Savings time.

Carin comments on Mar 13, 2019:

Someone just told me that Trump is going to try to get rid of DST. Nothing about that in today's newspaper though, so I'm wondering if anyone here heard that too. It would be weird to support anything he does, but I sure hope it's true & he actually does it.

Adorable Police Dog Attempts to Perform CPR, [msn.com]

Carin comments on Mar 12, 2019:

That is cute! And a good way to keep the attention of young children while teaching CPR!

I've noticed that, when debating a subject, many people perform web searches for their topic and ...

Carin comments on Mar 12, 2019:

Like this?

[patheos.com] Not Dead Yet-The Right Plays Chicken with Women's Lives

Carin comments on Mar 12, 2019:

Creeps.

This guy works out every day, takes steroids and has a six pack that you can crush walnuts on - ...

Carin comments on Mar 12, 2019:

Just like his idol, Trump. Maybe we should start a Go Fund Me campaign to pay for penis enlargement for conservative men. They need to mellow out!

Back from NH and court today.

Carin comments on Mar 12, 2019:

Really a sad situation for you. I'm so sorry.

Hey ladies, festival season is right around the corner.

Carin comments on Mar 12, 2019:

Bet her boyfriend bought it for her. Or rather, himself but she has to wear it.

So, I went to the Ebb Tide the other night.

Carin comments on Mar 12, 2019:

I would not do business with bigots like that, whatever Ebb Tide is.

Are you just ‘relationshopping’? Is a checklist getting in the way? [curiosity.com]

Carin comments on Mar 12, 2019:

Harsh!

I have been in this position many times.

Carin comments on Mar 12, 2019:

No need to starve--just poke a tiny hole in the lid to get rid of the vacuum holding it on. You can put a little tape over the hole if you aren't going to use it all up. I find that my pride is well worth a bit of tape. Did anyone mention whacking the bottom of the jar with the heel of your hand as hard as you can? That will often jolt things loose.

Post a song that instantly reminds you of high school

Carin comments on Mar 12, 2019:

Highway to Hell by AC/DC. It won the vote to be my class's graduation song. I thought it was an appalling choice, though late it became sadly appropriate for me. I never did like that band.

How flexible are you when it comes to relationships?

Carin comments on Mar 12, 2019:

I'm restraining myself politically right now. I don't think he realizes what a sacrifice that is for me.

What’s a hobby you enjoy that a partner has never shared?

Carin comments on Mar 12, 2019:

Sewing, knitting & painting. Crafts of most kinds. & livestock.

Even at my advanced (!) age, I still sometimes have bad dreams about the abuse I have survived.

Carin comments on Mar 10, 2019:

I'm so sorry--that must be an awful, helpless feeling. I've been lucky not to have had that happen.

The first of the seasons 'forced' rhubarb came ready today.

Carin comments on Mar 10, 2019:

My ex had an oxylate kidney stone so when someone stole my rhubarb plant I didn't plant another. Another opportunity to celebrate my new life--I'll plant several of them this time. I used to make pie filling & can it. Can't wait to try blanching it--never even heard of it before!

I hate Daylight Savings time.

Carin comments on Mar 10, 2019:

Car accidents increase following time changes.

When News and Advertising Departments work together

Carin comments on Mar 10, 2019:

I'm betting Bargaintown is no longer advertising with this paper...

When News and Advertising Departments work together

Carin comments on Mar 10, 2019:

Actually I think that's when they DON'T work together & the editor had the day off...

Weird reasons you couldn't date someone: I had to break it off with someone because she looked too ...

Carin comments on Mar 10, 2019:

I just can't stand pretty boys. They seem to have a certain personality to go with their too perfectly cute looks.

Hi! I'm Amy, here for conversation and to make new friends.

Carin comments on Mar 10, 2019:

Hi Amy! That's my daughter's name too. I named her that because I could not recall ever meeting anyone with that name who was unlikeable. I'm in Mississippi right now & can't wait to return to civilization.

Suede Larb Jeebus, I need to get back to hanging around in here and stay out of the general ...

Carin comments on Mar 10, 2019:

It does seem that way!

Caption this!

Carin comments on Mar 10, 2019:

She'd heard he turned water into wine....

Hi!!! My name is Jamie and I am a hopeless romantic.

Carin comments on Mar 10, 2019:

Hi Jamie!

Many relationships just don't work out. What's a reason you've ended a relationship?

Carin comments on Mar 10, 2019:

Violence.

Deiter, your next interview ;) If you can't be hired, be memorable!

Carin comments on Mar 10, 2019:

I like your advice.

Hello. New to the site and the group. Looking forward to meeting new people!

Carin comments on Mar 9, 2019:

Hi Kittencpa! Hope you enjoy yourself here!

“I never knew I could have a relationship with God like I do now,” he said.

Carin comments on Mar 9, 2019:

Definitely going to plead insanity.

Argggg! I’m so pissed at my husband right now.

Carin comments on Mar 9, 2019:

YES!!!

As the day closes Happy International Women's Day!

Carin comments on Mar 9, 2019:

Thanks & the same to you!

I know your god is fake, random Christian who is friends with my Pentecostal aunt.

Carin comments on Mar 9, 2019:

I don't suppose I can disagree with any of that!

It's a war isn't it?

Carin comments on Mar 8, 2019:

Can you clarify please?

Let's see the outcome shall we?

Carin comments on Mar 8, 2019:

Cake rules!!! Extra frosting!

It's both laughable, and very, very sad when white males whine and complain about reverse ...

Carin comments on Mar 8, 2019:

Those white males are to be known & referred to henceforth as Broflakes.

Hello to all.

Carin comments on Mar 8, 2019:

Welcome! Good intro.

Does age matter in a relationship?

Carin comments on Mar 8, 2019:

If you are both fine with it that's what matters. I'm 10 years older than my boyfriend & I don't really think about our age difference much until someone mentions it, which is, unfortunately, rather often as he looks about 10 years younger than he really is. People think I must be his rich sugar mamma when in fact we are both pretty broke!

‪In Alabama the tornado is called an act of God that caused a lot of damage and 23 lost lives.

Carin comments on Mar 8, 2019:

Kind of surprising they even blame god for that, now that you mention it!

Luckily a few survived the 20° temps the past couple of nights.

Carin comments on Mar 8, 2019:

I like that really dark blue one!

Being attentive is so important to me. It is the very best gift.

Carin comments on Mar 8, 2019:

That is really a nice feeling, isn't it?

On International Women's Day! Women who, through their efforts, be they direct or indirect, ...

Carin comments on Mar 8, 2019:

The biographies were great! I especially appreciated the first woman doctor in England who started a medical school there for women after being forced to leave the country to get her own medical degree.

Some more fun time, mine was hopscotch. ??

Carin comments on Mar 8, 2019:

Hide & seek & pretend games like "house" and "store." We would pick dandelions & daisies & have a pretend flower store.

Whahoo! I got the shirt! Thanks @Admin

Carin comments on Mar 8, 2019:

You look good in it! Nice color choice.

Whahoo! I got the shirt! Thanks @Admin

Carin comments on Mar 8, 2019:

Me too! Now I have to get up the nerve to wear it outside of the house down here in Mississippi...

Damn texting!

Carin comments on Mar 8, 2019:

Welcome to the force.

I really don't know why we keep celebrating Christopher Columbus when he was clearly a Johnny come ...

Carin comments on Mar 6, 2019:

& also not a very good person either.

Good idea.

Carin comments on Mar 6, 2019:

Very pretty.

Not really looking for answers or anything here, just musing.

Carin comments on Mar 6, 2019:

That is so cool!

So, I turned 25 recently and it just hit me that I'm 5 years away from being 30.

Carin comments on Mar 6, 2019:

Only if you plan to die at 50... Seriously, 30 might be the worst--you still feel young so it's harder to accept those big numbers. As you get older it's less of a big deal. Though I'll be 60 in 3 years, ugh--that feels like practically dead! Where do the years go once you get older? Childhood seemed to last FOREVER, time seemed barely to move. I can't remember now when it sped up--after 20 for sure... How fast do years seem to be going by for you?