If he’s twice as strong as he looks, he’s still going to be pancaked and Tuesday is canceled…

ToolGuy comments on May 27, 2019:

Is he planning to catch her or did he throw her up there?

Cast1es replies on May 27, 2019:

Photo shopped .

Gotta love it when your religious parents give you this as a 20 year old.

lerlo comments on May 27, 2019:

Well with 39 years of dating experience, I'm writing my book that my friends have been clamoring for. It will be called "It Just Doesn't Matter." You can follow all the b.s. rules you want, it doesnt matter. You either click or you dont. My best example: Downtown roof top bar, wall to wall ...

Cast1es replies on May 27, 2019:

Men do not expect ll of their buddies to be exactly the same . Why do men expect all women to be the same ? The fact is women are exactly like men . Each one is different from all the others .

Gotta love it when your religious parents give you this as a 20 year old.

Dancing comments on May 27, 2019:

Its a game of chance. The more you play the better your odds. Talk to lots of people, online and in person, go on dates. When you find a connection, follow it. See where it goes.

Cast1es replies on May 27, 2019:

@lerlo Can't get pregnant if , you don't play ? Don't get AIDS , if you don't ? Don't get STDs if you don't ?

Gotta love it when your religious parents give you this as a 20 year old.

Count_Viceroy comments on May 27, 2019:

Who can take advice from a book with a flip phone on the cover?

Cast1es replies on May 27, 2019:

I got a book . long before mobile phones were even invented .

Gotta love it when your religious parents give you this as a 20 year old.

RavenCT comments on May 27, 2019:

You should see the book I got on menstrual periods - rofl.... I think my book may be worse - though it covered all the religious beliefs that surround menstruation.... so pretty whacky. (It wasn't a religious book though). I was still confused after reading it if you can believe that.

Cast1es replies on May 27, 2019:

Back in the day , anything that was remotely related to sex , was explained in a way that only those who already knew the information , would understand what was written . Those who didn't know were left in the dark .

Skeeter and his pterodactyl voice! He wants my sister to open the door so he can get the squirrel, ...

Rob1948 comments on May 27, 2019:

Link does not appear to work properly.

Cast1es replies on May 27, 2019:

@Hathacat Says it's gone .

THE THING I MISS MOST AS A AGING SENIOR-----AFFECTION & INTIMACY I miss both former wives, but ...

soquel comments on May 26, 2019:

At 80, I find it hard to connect and feel close to new acquaintances although I very much want to have a partner. It seems like our mutual walls grow more solid, preferring security of the known for the vulnerability of showing interest in a new person. Mutual trust seems to take longer to ...

Cast1es replies on May 27, 2019:

You seem to have done fairly well for yourself . Shame you're so far away .

THE THING I MISS MOST AS A AGING SENIOR-----AFFECTION & INTIMACY I miss both former wives, but ...

dede18 comments on May 26, 2019:

I, too, miss being shown affection and being touched. I’ve begun to do stretches on my bed when I wake up, and to rub my feet and legs for some minutes ... just to feel touch. It feels good, so it is probably doing me good :-) Also started having a reflexology foot massage every few weeks. I’m ...

Cast1es replies on May 26, 2019:

I like hugs , too !

Is it a sign of a scammer when one of the frequent questions they ask is what your last meal was, or...

freeofgod comments on May 26, 2019:

Seems the ones I come across are full of questions but not forthcoming about themselves.

Cast1es replies on May 26, 2019:

True .

Say what??

AnonySchmoose comments on May 26, 2019:

Does occasional capitalization easily offend and anger everybody?

Cast1es replies on May 26, 2019:

@lerlo, @AnonySchmoose I have problems with tiny print , like on my prescription bottles . On you r computer , you can adjust your settings by **making your letters an increased size by about 250% **

Say what??

AnonySchmoose comments on May 26, 2019:

Does occasional capitalization easily offend and anger everybody?

Cast1es replies on May 26, 2019:

@AnonySchmoose, @lerlo You had me , down to the last sentence , then it all blew away .

Say what??

AnonySchmoose comments on May 26, 2019:

Does occasional capitalization easily offend and anger everybody?

Cast1es replies on May 26, 2019:

@AnonySchmoose NEW GLASSES , maybe ?

I love my garden....

HippieChick58 comments on May 26, 2019:

Love love love the peonies. That is my favorite flower and favorite color.

Cast1es replies on May 26, 2019:

@Bigwavedave But they come back every year !

I need to go get a fan or something for he illusion of cool.

azzow2 comments on May 26, 2019:

Try a swamp cooler in in addition to you A/C . We get some high temps here. I don't have A/C I do have a rooftop swamp cooler it cools my house right down,.

Cast1es replies on May 26, 2019:

Hadn't heard of a swamp cooler before . Is this like putting water on your roof ?

Today's Minneapolis Star Tribune - headlines - "Persecuted Online For Her Abortion" - the ...

SKH78 comments on May 26, 2019:

If they dox us, maybe we should dox them. Whadda bunch of a####### !!!!!

Cast1es replies on May 26, 2019:

@KKGator Just because the expose others , does not mean they go public with their own information .

Normally, the weird dreams/nightmares don't bother me so much, but every once in a blue moon one ...

273kelvin comments on Mar 26, 2019:

Time is a healer, a platitude I know but theres a lot of truth in it. Thankfully it is something you do possess quite a bit of. Maybe your dream was a way of telling you that you`re now ready to fill that hole with more than dirt. The fact that it was him may just be a way of reconnecting you with ...

Cast1es replies on May 25, 2019:

@273kelvin Shakespeare.

Normally, the weird dreams/nightmares don't bother me so much, but every once in a blue moon one ...

bleurowz comments on Mar 26, 2019:

That's a pretty powerful story and it sounds like you've done a lot to move forward and beyond it. I know occasionally an old wound can come up, but if we've done the work to heal then it passes. Perhaps something in your current life has triggered it, hence the dream (my feeling is dreams are our ...

Cast1es replies on May 25, 2019:

@LadyAlyxandrea A hysterectomy , denying yourself any future off spring , is a big and irreversible decision , especially when you wanted your little one so much . It was a hard decision for you to make , to guard you future . Hugs , hon .

In China again now, springtime now arrived

ToolGuy comments on Mar 27, 2019:

Looks lovely! What is the reason for being in China?

Cast1es replies on May 25, 2019:

@ToolGuy Mine too .

Where did the evil Captain in Peter Pan purchase his hook?

Bobbyzen comments on May 25, 2019:

Definitely groanworthy. Methinks we need a groups just for puns...

Cast1es replies on May 25, 2019:

There was a group for Sir Terry Prachette fans m but it was taken down .

Where did the evil Captain in Peter Pan purchase his hook?

Merseyman1 comments on May 25, 2019:

Yeah, or probably at the pirate store!

Cast1es replies on May 25, 2019:

Love it . Where is this ?

I want to be the deepest, darkest chapter in your sexual diary.

1of5 comments on Mar 29, 2019:

This post makes me really, really wish posts in groups stayed out of my damned feed when I have the group hidden.

Cast1es replies on May 25, 2019:

@1of5 After reading his post to you , I blocked him . Don't need that kind of crude talk in my life .

I want to be the deepest, darkest chapter in your sexual diary.

WilliamCharles comments on Mar 30, 2019:

Have to admit being to being a bit surprised at some of the negative reactions based on it not being appropriate somehow in a singles/mingles/chat group? Because of the cartoon format? Because it is seen as too risque? Because if taken literally that it cannot be thought of as anything but ...

Cast1es replies on May 25, 2019:

Hmm , I seem to have missed something here ?

Nyahahahaha...beware or else I will eat you😁😅

bobwjr comments on May 25, 2019:

Do you swallow?

Cast1es replies on May 25, 2019:

Does it make a difference ?

Nyahahahaha...beware or else I will eat you😁😅

ProudMerrie comments on May 25, 2019:

If only George Clooney would call me fat...

Cast1es replies on May 25, 2019:

He has a very impressive wife , and they bought their very own castle .

10 Reasons Aliens Won't Invade Earth. [youtube.com]

Robecology comments on Mar 29, 2019:

They won't invade because even the closest star system with planets, Alpha Centauri, is 4.5 light years away. If aliens could trave 186 miles per second - from the closest star system to us - that would mean they could get here in 4,500 years. So let's stop talking about aliens visiting us?...

Cast1es replies on May 25, 2019:

Light years , is the speed at which light travels . Sound does not travel at light speed . It's much slower .

This is what happens when I wander around my property.

glennlab comments on Mar 29, 2019:

Your second one appears to be about 4 days ahead of the first. The fruit may follow the same pattern.

Cast1es replies on May 24, 2019:

@glennlab Might try some protective netting , on at least part of the tree . Save some for yourself . The squirrels love the figs n the over the garden wall fig trees that belongs to my neighbors .

This is what happens when I wander around my property.

glennlab comments on Mar 29, 2019:

Your second one appears to be about 4 days ahead of the first. The fruit may follow the same pattern.

Cast1es replies on May 24, 2019:

@glennlab Perhaps providing some covering , when the weather is particularly bad , would keep them from dying off .

I LOVE Saturdays!

JackPedigo comments on May 24, 2019:

Of course it's the male lion. The female is probably out getting food and bringing up the cubs.

Cast1es replies on May 24, 2019:

Actually , that's another set of paws near his head .. While it's true she'll be doing both the hunting and the cub raising , she has help from other females , and I read the big cats sleep about 20 hours of the day .

Old stones

Nevermind345 comments on Apr 1, 2019:

Any dates or idea who did it. Looks kind of Cult carvings.

Cast1es replies on May 24, 2019:

@Jnei Cemitary ?

Yet again Paddy was late for work, the boss said, "if you want to keep your job, you've got to get ...

Marionville comments on Mar 31, 2019:

Good reminder that the clocks changed last night! To all of you guys not in the UK....we in Britain are now into BST or British Summer Time, we put our clocks forward by one hour last night,

Cast1es replies on May 24, 2019:

@TheDoubter Didn't know that .

I always get it wrong

aahouck49 comments on Mar 31, 2019:

I got married in a fever hotter than a pepper sprout, I've been talking about Jackson ever since the fire went out!!! So going to Jackson or so I thought!!! It is a burning ring of fire, and it burns burns burns this ring of fire!!!

Cast1es replies on May 24, 2019:

Johnny Cash sang that , but I believe it was written by his wife .

I always get it wrong

BitFlipper comments on Mar 31, 2019:

It makes you happy when the feeling is mutual.

Cast1es replies on May 24, 2019:

And the circumstances are right .

For a perfect relationship look to Chinese astrology.

glennlab comments on May 24, 2019:

makes as much sense as any other religion.

Cast1es replies on May 24, 2019:

Weird babies .

For a perfect relationship look to Chinese astrology.

lerlo comments on May 24, 2019:

hey, the only problem with screwing sheep is that you have to run around to the other side to kiss them :)

Cast1es replies on May 24, 2019:

Only if she's standing up .

Never played with these but the girls in my neighborhood did.

Marionville comments on May 24, 2019:

What are they?

Cast1es replies on May 24, 2019:

Jacks .

Goodbye JBLM! Great hospitality and amazing training sessions.

Xanadutoo comments on Mar 31, 2019:

Not all on here are from where you live so please do not use initialisms.Do not talk in code ,it's easy, say what you want to say so that we can all participate.

Cast1es replies on May 24, 2019:

@DoctoralZombie That's just plain rude .

OBFUSCATE.

FrayedBear comments on May 23, 2019:

Along with procrastination this is probably the most frequent word that I have used to describe myself!

Cast1es replies on May 24, 2019:

Hiding yourself ?

Nomenclature, terminology, vocabulary, verbiage.

AnonySchmoose comments on May 23, 2019:

I found a rather different bunch of definitions and synonyms for nomenclature, if you like. 1. a set or system of names or terms, as those used in a particular science or art, by an individual or community, etc. 2. the names or terms comprising a set or system. Synonyms: Classification, ...

Cast1es replies on May 24, 2019:

@AnonySchmoose In the government , nomenclature was the name , description of equipment , as in when some one was placing an order , so was never in alphabetical order or at the end of a book .

If you won 50 million in Euros, Pounds or US Dollars how would you spend it?

amymcmxcii comments on May 23, 2019:

Quickly.

Cast1es replies on May 24, 2019:

@amymcmxcii, @FrayedBear So you want to turn her into a hooker ?

If you won 50 million in Euros, Pounds or US Dollars how would you spend it?

amymcmxcii comments on May 23, 2019:

Quickly.

Cast1es replies on May 24, 2019:

@amymcmxcii And you'd need his approval because ? ? ?

We spend so much time bringing beauty to our lives then we spend all of our time maintaining that ...

glennlab comments on May 23, 2019:

3 & 4 look like a rose left to grow, same with the irises.

Cast1es replies on May 24, 2019:

@glennlab Sorry to hear about your food poisoning .Not fun .

We spend so much time bringing beauty to our lives then we spend all of our time maintaining that ...

Hathacat comments on May 23, 2019:

I would be wanting to get the rose where I could see it better! What is the blue flower? I have never seen it before!

Cast1es replies on May 24, 2019:

@RussRAB Mom used to call the blue ones , " Wondering Jew ," It's a great ground cover , grows about a foot high , fills in the space quickly , self planting ,prennial , has a lot of pretty blue flowers , and requires minimal care .

Think about this! Men, pay attention - it is not women who are the problem!

KKGator comments on May 23, 2019:

I have NEVER understood why the onus is ALWAYS on the women. But hey, since it's ALL on us to protect ourselves, I say we just start shooting them whenever they come at us with their bullshit. That's reasonable, given what we are subjected to from girlhood. Don't like that course of action?...

Cast1es replies on May 24, 2019:

@Sticks48 Wishful thinking .

I was thinking about all the scammers I have corresponded with in my dating history.

Mike1947 comments on May 23, 2019:

I had a Woman who supposedly traveled from Minnesota to other parts of the World, buying and selling Diamonds and Gold,and needed some $$$ to pay the customs,of course doubling the amount I would send her. Another had an import export business with the same speil. Car repairs,Gold promised when she...

Cast1es replies on May 24, 2019:

@freeofgod I think I ran into this one , too .

Think about this! Men, pay attention - it is not women who are the problem!

KKGator comments on May 23, 2019:

I have NEVER understood why the onus is ALWAYS on the women. But hey, since it's ALL on us to protect ourselves, I say we just start shooting them whenever they come at us with their bullshit. That's reasonable, given what we are subjected to from girlhood. Don't like that course of action?...

Cast1es replies on May 24, 2019:

You're right . A couple of years back , I took the gun course , filled out the paperwork , and sent in my check for the background check , waited while it was being processed by the Feds , bought a gun and holster . I'm ready .

Think about this! Men, pay attention - it is not women who are the problem!

Sticks48 comments on May 24, 2019:

And lets get people to stop killing, stealing, abusing children, and letting their greed fuck over all the people who aren't greedy. Then we can all live happily ever after on the Good Ship Lollipop.

Cast1es replies on May 24, 2019:

It would be nice , not to have to limit ourselves , due to lawlessness of others . You write you're a musician . I imagine you leave your work routinely , late at night , perhaps often alone , and with your instruments in your hands . You may even run into a problem , with some guy waiting , to rob you while you're tryig to get into your vehicle . But I don't see you being beaten up and raped , getting pregnant , and needing to take care of your rape enduced child for the next twenty years . You're not being funny .

Think about this! Men, pay attention - it is not women who are the problem!

MojoDave comments on May 24, 2019:

The men who commit irresponsible scts like those should be forced to spend an evening in a gay bar, alone. They may see things differently afterwards!

Cast1es replies on May 24, 2019:

No dear , not an evening in a gay bar . , a week in prison .

A couple of weeks ago I made a post about if anyone had chatted with someone from an online site who...

BudFrank comments on May 23, 2019:

It is amazing how far some will go.

Cast1es replies on May 23, 2019:

How're you doing ?

Things are happening...various roses and a purple iris.

Heidi68 comments on May 23, 2019:

Your roses are beautiful! Well so it the iris but I am jealous of the roses. My bushes do not look good. Plenty of flowers but sick looking bushes

Cast1es replies on May 23, 2019:

Perhaps they're hungrey , or thirsty , or are being eaten by bugs , or fungus - black spots .

As a freethinker I don't believe in life after death.

powder comments on May 23, 2019:

If if if If consciousness continues then it is spiritual, non physical ie no physical body; no sense of touch, taste, sight, hearing or smell. Why I always crack up when there are physical references to "the afterlife". A land of milk and honey full of virgins......pretty pointless I would've ...

Cast1es replies on May 23, 2019:

Hey , I hear you can have 72 virgins , if you blow yourself up . I guess they get to remain virgins , huh ?

As a freethinker I don't believe in life after death.

Triphid comments on May 23, 2019:

The only 'life after death' that occurs, as far as I know from my experiences in the fields of medicine, is the bacteria, worms, etc, that live, thrive and breed from and in your body as it decays away. Eventually, if you are buried and not cremated all that is left of your corporeal being is bones...

Cast1es replies on May 23, 2019:

Sorry to hear about your wife . Mom had Alzheimers , before she died . Last time I flew down to visit her , I spent about 10 days with them in their apartment . Even though her husband prefaced each comment to her about me with , "your daughter , and my name ," she had no clue who I was . She could walk , talk, use the restroom , dress herself , if things were laid out for her, and feed herself , but that was about the extent of it , Oh and she loved to play solitaire , although she wasn't exactly following the rules she had taught us . But close enough .

Do you believe that.....

St-Sinner comments on May 23, 2019:

No, I do not believe. I believe life is about choices. Nothing happens for a reason. Things happen because some are under our control and some are not. But many things happen that have no rhyme or reason. These are many unimportant events and people in your life that come and go that have no ...

Cast1es replies on May 23, 2019:

You had it , until you got to one night stands . They may not change your life , but Ive known too many women who spent 20 or so years raising a child on her own , because the sperm donor was an asshole .

We had one like this in the mid-70s.

Hathacat comments on May 23, 2019:

Look how nothing is covered in there! Wild.

Cast1es replies on May 23, 2019:

That's why Tupperware .

RESISTENTIALISM (Noun) Resistentialism is a jocular theory to describe "seemingly spiteful ...

TheDoubter comments on May 22, 2019:

my keys do that to me from time to time

Cast1es replies on May 23, 2019:

@TheDoubter Perhaps they're hiding with that other sock ?

I am now the owner of my deceased mom’s wedding and engagement rings, the stones for which ...

zesty comments on May 22, 2019:

Why does a sexuality counselor need any advice? Lol

Cast1es replies on May 22, 2019:

It's one thing to see someone elses' problems . Sometimes you're just too close to see and correctly interruprate your own . There's also the emotional connections . Sometimes you just don't want to see the truth .

I posted a question on health and happiness a short while ago, asking for thoughts on incels.

Cutiebeauty comments on Mar 31, 2019:

An incel is someone who wants sex but because of personality traits, actually repel the object of their desire...

Cast1es replies on May 22, 2019:

@VineetHonkan Based on the photos you included , you're physically quite attractive . and you appear to be in good shape . Whatever your problem is I don't think it's your appearance . Perhaps you aren't interested in those you meet , or perhaps you don't value them . According to the 2015 census , it now costs over $250,000 to raise a child , some people have STDs , some people have abusive personalities . Just because you happen to be in the room , does not mean a woman wants to put herself at risk by having sex with you .

I posted a question on health and happiness a short while ago, asking for thoughts on incels.

Happy_Killbot comments on Mar 31, 2019:

My brother is an incel. He listens to me talking about my previous exploits with great interest, but when I try to get him to form experiences of his own he backs down like a beaten puppy. I can't tell if he is afraid of intimacy or just has dangerously low self esteem. He has several female ...

Cast1es replies on May 22, 2019:

Perhaps he's not interested in your manner of achieving sexual satisfaction . Perhaps he's gay . Perhaps he has sex but isn't interested in sharing his experiences with you . Sex is a very personal thing . Not everyone is interested in sharing their experiences .

I posted a question on health and happiness a short while ago, asking for thoughts on incels.

A2Jennifer comments on Mar 31, 2019:

The defining characteristic of self-identified “incels” is that they feel *entitled* to sex. They believe that women OWE them sex and they do not see any reason why what a woman wants should prevent them from having what they want. It indicates objectification and dehumanization of women, ...

Cast1es replies on May 22, 2019:

This is the defination I'd heard previously .

Living alone in a Assisted Living Facility is a very interesting experience.

Cast1es comments on Mar 31, 2019:

I've looked into two assisted living homes , and at this point , my opinion is , I would hate it ! The last one I viewed , the rooms were either private or semi-private . None of the occupied rooms had any books , magazines , newspapers , radios , TVs , or computers , and not one of the inhabitants...

Cast1es replies on May 22, 2019:

@alon Did not see a web site . How did I miss that ?

Remember this?

dave1459 comments on Mar 31, 2019:

Not sure about that. One, most marriages fail so while they were right, then they're not. Also after 3 or 4 days after death you'l stink so bad they'l leave ?

Cast1es replies on May 22, 2019:

People change , or they just finally show who they truly are . Dating is not the same as daily living .

There are three things on my mind this afternoon: 1.

Cast1es comments on Mar 31, 2019:

Just out of curiosity , would you prefer an honest response or a lie ? Sometimes , the truth hurts , but that does not mean a person is being mean , if you ask a question and they give you an answer you don't want to hear .

Cast1es replies on May 22, 2019:

@ProudMerrie Was not aware this was about a specific event .

Tribalism: An exploration of the mechanisms that drive tribalism - and that offer a way out of it.

linxminx comments on May 22, 2019:

On this website we say we are open-minded, humanists, and more independent thinking, yet I still see some negative tribal condemnation going on that can be biased and discriminatory. Theists condemn atheists, then atheists condemn theists. It's the same behavior, just a different tribe. We ...

Cast1es replies on May 22, 2019:

Posted that exact same thing recently , on a ,"joke ," that was religious based .

Loads of tomatoes set on, some as big as 3 and 1/2 inches wide.

HippieChick58 comments on Apr 1, 2019:

I can't even plant for several weeks yet, I'm so jealous!

Cast1es replies on May 22, 2019:

Move south .

Put a sock in it????

azzow2 comments on Apr 1, 2019:

What if they start chewing on it do you do?

Cast1es replies on May 22, 2019:

@Heidi68 stooped ?

I'm pregnant! ?

ArthurK comments on Apr 1, 2019:

Now that could be a frighting April Fools joke.

Cast1es replies on May 22, 2019:

It's even more frightening , when it's not a joke .

I wonder how many opportunities are missed by people not taking chances by flirting with/asking out ...

GwenBFree comments on May 22, 2019:

I know I often miss that someone is flirting! Two months ago a guy I was chatting with mentioned he’d like to go to the dances at the club but didn’t have someone to dance with. My reply, ‘go anyway, dance by yourself, that’s what I do’ Realized later that he was hinting. Really ...

Cast1es replies on May 22, 2019:

@Cabsmom Ah ha , so that's your secret !

Extremes of size...do they, and how do they, affect intimacy for you?

Robecology comments on Apr 1, 2019:

I'm a "height-challenged" guy who's been labeled "Napoleonic" and felt like I've missed out on many relationships. I know for a fact that short men are more "challenged" as teachers by agressive students (usuallly male) than most. I know for a fact that taller people are better paid... So ...

Cast1es replies on May 22, 2019:

If you think being a short man is challenging , try being a woman.

Extremes of size...do they, and how do they, affect intimacy for you?

scout123456 comments on Apr 17, 2019:

Hi First post. I have found that taller women will not even consider me. I put in a different profile and hight of 6.2 and the messages flooded in. (I dropped the profile the next day) I don't get it. thoughts? thanks scout

Cast1es replies on May 22, 2019:

@CarolinaGirl60 I believe his concept is , he never has the chance to so much as meet anyone , if he posts his true shorter height . His experiment showed , his height was truly an issue , when it came to mating . Once he received that data , he shut off that bio .

Just been looking at google maps and realised that from top to bottom of the UK is slightly less ...

Petter comments on May 22, 2019:

UK is a puny island that once upon a time took a body building course. Be amazed that such a small land once managed to rule half the world, with the other half eager to do its bidding - or else!

Cast1es replies on May 22, 2019:

They were very aggresive , weren't they ?

Need to finish carving the top and bottom, sand, and oil.

Sheannutt comments on Apr 2, 2019:

??

Cast1es replies on May 22, 2019:

Neede holder .

What do you fear about old age? For me it's memory and not being able get around on my own.

MojoDave comments on Apr 2, 2019:

The loss of my ability to use my mind and my memory. The loss of my independence. And the loss of those who care.

Cast1es replies on May 21, 2019:

@dan325 Me too .

I recently had an interesting on-line experience.

Wangobango3 comments on May 19, 2019:

What is the point of him doing that? So childish.

Cast1es replies on May 21, 2019:

@RonWilliam53 Rude Crude Stupid dude .

A lady's parting euphemism, "remember the good times" = remember when you had loads of money!

NHjulie comments on May 21, 2019:

Don't appreciate the sentiment. When I married my ex, I paid off some of his debt and helped him further his career, while putting mine on hold to raise our children. Tired of the "all women are golddiggers" comments. Sorry.

Cast1es replies on May 21, 2019:

@Austin-Cambridge When the jokes always go in one direction , they've no longer jokes . They're brain washing. Signed , the Dumb Blond .

A lady's parting euphemism, "remember the good times" = remember when you had loads of money!

NHjulie comments on May 21, 2019:

Don't appreciate the sentiment. When I married my ex, I paid off some of his debt and helped him further his career, while putting mine on hold to raise our children. Tired of the "all women are golddiggers" comments. Sorry.

Cast1es replies on May 21, 2019:

True . You'll never get any of that back . You compromised your own future . In the future , he'll brag about putting himself through college , and you won't even get any credit for helping him to do it .

"Maybe You Really Can Use Black Holes to Travel the Universe.

MojoDave comments on May 21, 2019:

It would be cool, but we are a long way from that.

Cast1es replies on May 21, 2019:

@AnonySchmoose Doesn't hurt , except in the pocket book .

"How Grassroots Funds Are Ensuring Abortion Access Despite Bans Reproductive rights advocates in ...

brentan comments on May 19, 2019:

I can't help thinking in terms of the American Civil War. Freedom Road in our time.

Cast1es replies on May 20, 2019:

@KKGator I was thinking that , too.

"The Attack on the Rights of Women, as With Voter Suppression, Is Returning the US to the Days of ...

JackPedigo comments on May 19, 2019:

I both agree and disagree. All this has been discussed by the population demographics people for decades. We live on a planet with limited resources. Everything we take for granted is a resource and more demands result is fewer resources per capita. The wealthy see the shrinking resource base and ...

Cast1es replies on May 20, 2019:

Worldwide , over populatioin is a great concern . Here in the States , on average, couples have less than two children .

I might listen to his pitch.

EricJones comments on May 20, 2019:

Good old Vlad the impaler, nice guy-just a bit of a sore loser.

Cast1es replies on May 20, 2019:

While we view him with distain , he stopped the Turkish invaders in their tracks . The locals consider him a hero .

Ladies and Gentlemen, I give you.

Cast1es comments on May 20, 2019:

Why should your music make you deaf , so you can't hear it at all .

Cast1es replies on May 20, 2019:

@bleurowz Sorry dear , I have enough problems , I don't listen to that kind of music . And regardless of who it is , destroying your audience makes no logical sense . I would think it would reduce their income .

LASCIVIOUS.

Nukdookum comments on May 20, 2019:

I live a lacivious life.

Cast1es replies on May 20, 2019:

@Marionville He's male , of course all the time .;-) ;-)

So Game of Thrones Ended.

LiterateHiker comments on May 20, 2019:

It seems I'm the only person on the planet who did not watch Game of Thrones. I don't like science fiction, horror, apocalyptic or violent movies.

Cast1es replies on May 20, 2019:

@GipsyOfNewSpain You may be interested in looking in t SCA , they do Medieval Reinenactment .

I think people forget, or maybe they don’t realize, that we all do not love the same way.

Lutherzme comments on May 20, 2019:

I think I could write a book on this topic sometimes.

Cast1es replies on May 20, 2019:

Give it a try .

My eyes are burnings!!

Aryn comments on May 19, 2019:

my cat when i go to the bathroom

Cast1es replies on May 19, 2019:

Was thinking the same thing - more like he desparately wants in , than trying to get out .

A man who threw Domestos over the pope has now been charged with "A bleach of the priest"

RichieO comments on May 19, 2019:

He needs a good clean-up...

Cast1es replies on May 19, 2019:

Sounds like he got one .

Trump is smart enough to know that wives are disposable, get tired of the mofo, kick her to the ...

SiouxcitySue comments on May 19, 2019:

Here's the difference, on the left is all flash no substance, both top and bottom. On the right are people who have lived their lives, made a difference, actually fought the fight many times over, faced up to their responsibilities and gained character and the respect of their nation (except for ...

Cast1es replies on May 19, 2019:

I believe both men have been involved in sexual scandels .

Posing with statues! Any favourites?

zeuser comments on May 18, 2019:

The guy with the razor in his armpit made me laugh out loud. 🤣

Cast1es replies on May 19, 2019:

Me too !

You level 8 people are quite up there and hard to please but thanks for the posts, It warms my heart...

Merseyman1 comments on May 18, 2019:

You 8 level people up there and hard to please? They're no different from you, believe me that every one of them was a 4 like you once. What do you think changed them?...

Cast1es replies on May 18, 2019:

Practice or experience ?

Gardening for Good Health: [berkeleywellness.com]

wordywalt comments on May 18, 2019:

I find vegetable gardening healthy in many ways. First, in spading up the garden, laying out the row, planting, mulching, etc. 3 times a year I get great exercise. Second, I get great nutrition from my green beans, yellow squash, red potatoes, tomatoes, white acre peas, carrots, cauliflower, ...

Cast1es replies on May 18, 2019:

Additionally , you can grow organic - no chemicals to make you sick .

Is it just me or are some posts (here and in other groups) just plain difficult to understand?

Robecology comments on May 18, 2019:

As a retired teacher I cringe at the confusing comments. I recommend grammarly to anyone who feels posting-challenged. I see now why Twitter works....demanding a short letter count makes folk be concise. Maybe it's an idea to suggest to admin....limiting post lengths?

Cast1es replies on May 18, 2019:

Don't punish everyone , for the faults of the few .

Which was your favorite as a kid? Mine was Cheerios😊😁

Sticks48 comments on May 18, 2019:

Cheerios

Cast1es replies on May 18, 2019:

Me , too !

At our cores, everyone has a set of morals, but I think most people say they “are moral” or ...

WilliamFleming comments on May 18, 2019:

“Friendly” would be a better term. Friendly people don’t try to harm others, and they both give and receive. Moral sounds like a mushroom and suggests self-righteousness.

Cast1es replies on May 18, 2019:

I've met several , whose friendleness , had more to do with what they figure they can weasel out of you , than any interest in sharing time with you .

Who is your favorite cartoon cat?

dalefvictor comments on Apr 4, 2019:

The second one down on the left, was it not in "Alice in Wonderland."

Cast1es replies on May 18, 2019:

Cheshire Cat , yes , from Alice in Wonderland . COuld disappear and talk .

So that's where we get them??

azzow2 comments on Apr 7, 2019:

Bitting necks can be rewarding.

Cast1es replies on May 18, 2019:

@AncientNight Good joke .

locavore (n) North American • a person who only eats food which is grown or produced locally.

Marionville comments on May 18, 2019:

This is a new word for me....but is seems logical and makes perfect sense.

Cast1es replies on May 18, 2019:

@AnonySchmoose Didn't even know those were available .

[washingtonpost.

demifeministgal comments on May 17, 2019:

I have suggested to American friends online that perhaps a type of underground railroad needs to be built for women from these red states to safely flee from these christian sharia law states to blue states where they can access reproductive rights and bodily autonomy.

Cast1es replies on May 17, 2019:

@AnneWimsey Sounds like a great plan !SOmething I could do , but I live in Texas , one of the States that has passed this kind of law , I hear .

Grumpy Cat has died. 😭 [vt.co]

Alvinsmama comments on May 17, 2019:

I sympathize with Grumpy's furparents. I lost a wonderful eight year old cat to FUS after having him in and out of the vet's office for a month and spending $1000. Toby was the best cat I ever had. I still miss him. And, we will miss Grumpy cat, too. So sad.

Cast1es replies on May 17, 2019:

What is FUS ?

While some of the folks here , are here for community only , the majority seems to be interested in ...

ToolGuy comments on May 1, 2019:

I was at COSTCO the other day and a woman approached me asking if I was the same person on the POF site. I do not mind too much but I was a bit nonplussed to be approached that way in that place.

Cast1es replies on May 16, 2019:

@ToolGuy I haven't forgoten what this post was about , I wrote it . You still haven't spelled it out clearly . Is your problem that people you know personal information about , may accidently learn something personal about you as well ?

While some of the folks here , are here for community only , the majority seems to be interested in ...

Sticks48 comments on May 1, 2019:

I won't bother with someone with no photo or bio as far as getting to know someone.

Cast1es replies on May 16, 2019:

@ProudMerrie My post was generic , and not intended to pick on you . While you have defended yourself against the three reasons I could think of , you did not include any positive reasons , why someone would not post their photo on a dating site . What are more valid reasons someone would post on a dating site , but not include their photo ?

While some of the folks here , are here for community only , the majority seems to be interested in ...

VictoriaNotes comments on May 1, 2019:

It took every bit of courage to post my pic here and on my blog. Close to 2 decades ago I met someone online and we talked on the phone a lot for 6 months until he flew from across the country to meet me. I was rather naive back then about scammers. In fact, it was a rare occurrence then, according ...

Cast1es replies on May 16, 2019:

@VictoriaNotes I expanded your photo , to get a better look at it . You could easily pass for being in your thirties ! I am so very sorry , he screwed with all your bank accounts , and your credit . That had to be scary , destroy your trust in the gneral public and your private relationships , as well as cost you lawyers and a lot of other expensive , legal expenses . Hugs, Hon .

When I was small , fading into the background seemed to reduce bullying .

MojoDave comments on May 14, 2019:

Great story! Can you expand the plan? Encourage other introverts to join you at events?

Cast1es replies on May 16, 2019:

I tried to plan group meetups for both Halloween and New Year's Eve . 100% failures .